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RUTH PROLMAN Obituary

PROLMAN, Ruth Sylvia (Kaufman) Entered into rest on April 29, 2020 at the age of 97. Beloved wife of the late Maurice Prolman. Devoted mother of Dr. Lois Barson and her late husband, Dr. Alan Barson of Longboat Key, FL, Robert Prolman and his wife Nancy of Bellevue, WA, Beth Noe and her husband Dr. Howard Noe of Newton and David Prolman of San Diego, CA. Dear sister of the late Selma Bengis of Sharon and Mashpee. Cherished grandmother of Lillian, Rebecca and Andrew.

Born in Boston, Ruth moved with her family to Newton, where she attended school through Junior High. The family then moved to Waltham, where she attended and graduated from Waltham High School. She then attended and graduated from the Hickox Secretarial School. Ruth first worked for the Army Corps of Engineers, then raised four children in Lawrence, MA. She returned to work, spending more than 25 years as an Executive Assistant to the Director of the Greater Lawrence Community Action Council. For the last fifteen years, she resided comfortably at Edgewood in North Andover.

Private Graveside Services were held at Sharon Memorial Park on May 1. In lieu of flowers, donations in Ruth's memory may be made to the Edgewood Employees Scholarship Fund, 575 Osgood St., N. Andover, MA 01845 or to a charity of one's choice. www.stanetskybrookline.com

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Published by Boston Globe from May 1 to May 3, 2020.

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Joan Lange

April 25, 2022

Ruth is a magnificent lighthouse to us all. She walked into the room, when we first met at my first day in our poetry writing group & said "I want to be friends with YOU! We'll have so much fun!" She was 95 & having the time of her life & wanted more. Because Covid came & limited our moments together I only have a handful of shared experiences, not a lifetime..her spirit is still within us all. Ruth is evergreen, ever effervescent, ever luminous & we shall never forget her. As we recall her light, let us all be kind, reach out & smile & take in every cherished moment & person on Earth

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Jill Prolman

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Joan Lange

May 3, 2020

A magical, light filled force of nature, was our beloved Ruth!I did not have many years of time to know her, but each moment, every word, was filled with the joy of life. She always wanted to go, go, go...participate in life. She was the crown jewel of our poetry group. Every poem Ruth wrote was a miracle of words & emotions. She was kind, caring truly beloved by all & her smile & laughter were contagious. I shall always miss you, Ruth!

May 3, 2020

I will miss my aunt and friend with whom I've shared a birthday all these years. Rest comfortable and give Uncle Maury a big hug from me. Sheila Prolman

Lois

May 2, 2020

I will miss my mother every day.

May 2, 2020

Dear Lois, Beth and family

Such a delight, a gentle lady, kind, non-judgmental, with a sense of humor that was as wide as the sky and an ability to make a friend of just about everyone she met.

The strength of spirit and independence in her advancing years amazed me.

She also had such generosity in the sharing of her view of the world, especially through poetry. Words of great depth and joy came from wise observation. Ruth offered insight only when requested and her understanding of the human condition drew people in ... her empathy was instinctively felt by others as they sought her counsel.

My feelings now -- emptiness, sadness but also, ever thankful that I was privileged to have Ruth in my life, but for too brief a span of time!

The most important people in her world were all of you, her family -- be proud of a life, well lived! Thanks so much for sharing . . .

Shalom,
Karen M. Kline

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