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Steve Wright
July 2, 2024
Hi Sue, I am sorry to know if Steve´s passing so long after the fact. I regret that I became aware of it only at the Ron Arky event. I hope I didn´t augment your grief. Steve was a remarkable scientist and human. Though I did not interact with him much when we were classmates at Harvard, but got to know him better at Tufts faculty events and, of course, during many trines he was a loyal Longwood groupie I take my hat off to you for all the love and support you gave him, especially during those very painful later years. Annie and I send our condolences.
Mark Peppercorn
April 10, 2024
Margie and I are so saddened to have just heard of Steve´s passing and want to convey our condolences to you Sue the family. The memories of our times together in Eliot House and then in adjacent rooms at Vanderbilt Hall come flooding back. Can still hear him shouting out our name when he realized that Sherry and our son Dan were moving in to the same freshman dorm at Harvard on the same day. He was clearly the most brilliant member of our medical school class and so his remarkable career with his incredible accomplishments came as no surprise to those of us who knew him well. What a truly remarkable person in so many ways. May his memory be a blessing. mark peppercorn
Sally Kaplan
February 22, 2024
I was lucky enough to have met Stephen when he travelled to CA to visit with my brother Jonathan and his wife Sherry - Stephen's daughter and my beloved sister-in-law. Although he was quiet at our large family gathering, he never missed a beat, and when he did speak, it was cutting and astute. I will always remember his wry humor mixed with warmth. He will be missed.
Lanny Rosenwasser
February 21, 2024
So sorry to hear this. Worked with Steve in the 1980's at Tufts NEMC. Had a few publications when Allergy Immunology and Decision analysis intersected. Steve would always exhort get the information and then peddle hard to get a manuscript. We lived in Weston and knew all the Paukers well. I remember an intense discussion of how to make a perfect Pinewood Derby racer with Steve as my son Mark was a year behind Scott in the cub scouts. Our elder daughter Alison looked up to Sheridan, who helped babysit our youngest Emily. Sue is always a trusted and loved presence in all of this. Sympathy and condolences from all the Rosenwassers to all the Paukers
Diane D Ashley
February 21, 2024
I had known Steve almost as long as Sue...she and I were roommates at Tufts...and friends forever. I was in the dorm room when Sue came back from their first date...and said that's the most intelligent man I've ever met...she knew brilliance when she heard it. Long life, Long marriage, two fabulous children...Steve, we will all miss you... Rest in Peace, my friend
Pat Sullivan
February 21, 2024
I am a nurse at Tufts and met Stephen in the early 1970's. I was the Nurse Manager on Proger 5 South. We were implementing a new nursing practice called Primary Nursing. I met with Stephen and explained the concept and structure of the new practice and asked him to make sure there was a nurse on rounds when his service was on the unit. One day I was at desk, and I hear from down the hallway, Pat "I am not going into this room without the nurse caring for this patient." I looked at him and he smiled. It was wonderful. Loved him for that. I will miss him. Pat
Dennis Plante
February 21, 2024
I was saddened to learn of Steve´s passing. He was one of my mentors during my medical training at NECM (now Tufts Medical Center). I was so impressed by his ability to take the principles of medical decision making to the bedside in his role as a Cardiologist. I subsequently became one of his early Clinical Decision Making fellows and got to experience his multifaceted brilliance on a daily basis. I have tried to emulate Steve in my roles as a clinician educator and primary care physician. I have been a much better physician and person for having had Steve´s influence in my life. My fond memories of Steve will be with me forever. I offer sincere condolences to Susan and her family.
Nava and Joe Pliskin
February 21, 2024
Dear Susan and Family, Nava and I send our most sincere condolences to you at this time. Steve was a bight man with a sense of humor and a strong professinal drive. He will be dearly missed.
John Clarke, MD
February 20, 2024
What a brilliant man. I was a fellow founder of the Society for Medical Decision Making and he was head and shoulders above the rest of us, both a pioneer and a giant in the field. He will be remembered and his legacy will live on.
Bob Beck
February 20, 2024
I write with deep sympathy for Steve's family, coupled with warm memories of decades of collaboration. Steve was my research mentor; his NLM fellowship program redirected and propelled my academic career. The brightest person I've ever known, Steve first amazed me by taking one of my math books and devouring it over a weekend. He had a well-earned reputation as an uncompromising advocate for rigor and quality in the field of medical decision making, but that was coupled with a fine sense of humor and convivial companionship during visits and academic meetings. Steve's trainees and their students are his scholarly legacy, and his fundamental contributions will always influence our field.
Andrew Plaut
February 20, 2024
"Wisdom is knowing what to do when you don´t know what to do".
I once gave Steve this quotation (origin unknown) to thank him along with a handful of our other medical colleagues for converting "knowing what to do" into a full-scale academic program----a contribution of great insight and of obvious value in medical care. Anyone who knew Steve well or perhaps only in passing realize that he was among the wisest among scores of learned doctors within Tufts medicine. And his remarkable mind always was available to me and others to help find the right approach in service to a patient. What a colleague, what a friend, what a "mensch" he was.
Andrew Plaut
Fabio
February 20, 2024
Unforgettable great teacher...
Nancy Gittelson
February 19, 2024
My deepest sympathies to Stephen´s family. So sorry for your loss. I had the privilege of working with Dr. Pauker at Tufts Medical Center. (I would bring him work that was 95% right, and it took him about a nanosecond to spot what wasn´t correct .) He was brilliant and innovative and one-of-a-kind. May he rest in peace.
Carol &Leo Pessin
February 18, 2024
Dear Susan and Family, Leo and I send our most heartfelt and sincere sympathy to you at this time. Stephen was a champion in his work and private life. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Colin Zick
February 18, 2024
I had the pleasure of working with Dr. Pauker for many years - physicians can often be difficult clients, but he was not, and he stood out by his care for patients and humanity.
Karen Davis
February 18, 2024
We lived just houses apart growing up. The memory that stands out for me is when Steve and Sue so proudly came over to "present" their newborn Sheridan. Like Mufasa presenting Simba, Steve and Sue were glowing as they held her up. I was in awe of them. I was just a kid at the time but they were both brilliant, accomplished people who my mother adored and I aspired to emulate in some way. Stephen was like our family's Einstein. If someone had "smarts" they'd be compared to Stephen and always fell short. Besides his brilliance and amazing perseverance, he had the Pauker sense of humor, humility, and kindness. We lost a cousin but the world lost a giant thinker. May your memory always be a blessing.
Jane Davis
February 18, 2024
Stephen is my cousin. We grew up across the street from me. Well, a block away. Stephen taught me how to swim when I was 4 years old. He also, at some point in my life attempted to teach me how to play bridge. Note the operative word, attempted.
Over the years we always connected somehow. He was 11 years older. I was always in awe of him. I remember that he and my mother, also brilliant, were close. She encouraged him, played bridge with him and just overall loved him.
In more recent years Stephen was incredibly helpful to my aging father who lived on the Cape. Stephen was always available to connect him with the right doctors needed and to offer his advice.
About five years ago I visited Steve and Sue at their home. I've been trying to upload a picture but can't seem to figure that out.
Stephen was an inspiriation to all who knew him going way back to his early days.
RIP Stephen! RIP.
Bob Frank
February 17, 2024
Susan,
As a dental school classmate of Stephen´s at HMS I am so fortunate to have known him. Who can forget those wonderful clambakes the two of you hosted for our class reunions. My condolences to you and your family.
Joe Stubbs
February 17, 2024
He was a brilliant mind and a compassionate heart. It was an honor to work with him in the American College of Physicians and learn so much valuable insights in medicine as a student and resident
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