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THEODORE A. BENTON

1940 - 2018

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THEODORE BENTON Obituary

BENTON, Theodore Anthony B. June 9, 1940 - D. January 15, 2018

Winchester, MA - After an extraordinary battle, Theodore Anthony (Ted) Benton passed away peacefully surrounded by those he loved most. Mentor to many, the consummate gentleman and loved by thousands of students over the years, Ted, as he was known, was a brilliant English instructor. He unraveled the mysteries of Beowulf and classic literature at Winchester High School where he also coached wrestling. In addition he taught at Leslie College and when he was a Holy Cross Brother his missionary work took him deep into the jungle of Brazil, teaching history and biology. He was empathetic to all, extraordinarily kind and an endless source of razor sharp wit as he gently went about his days, changing lives and introducing young minds to the wonders of Shakespeare and the power of the written word. Originally from Charleston, South Carolina, he entered into the seminary of the Holy Cross Brothers in Notre Dame, Indiana after graduating from St. Edward's University in Austin, Texas with a Bachelor of Arts degree. Later in life he earned a Master's Degree in English from Boston University, married and fathered two wonderful sons. He always said, "The life of the mind is where it's at." His was an interesting life, well-lived, well-traveled and well-loved. He is survived by his son, Brian Patrick Benton and his wife Roberta Wilson Benton of Winthrop, MA, Matthew Jason Benton and his wife, Danielle DuBois Benton of Salem, MA, his sister, Lynn Benton Bagnal and her husband Junius Scott Bagnal Jr. of Edisto Island, South Carolina, his sister-in-law, Pat C. Benton of Mount Pleasant, South Carolina, his brother Michael Kent Benton and his wife Jennifer Tewell Benton of Prosper, Texas, his sister Dorothea Benton Frank and her husband Peter Richard Frank of Montclair, New Jersey and numerous nieces and nephews. He was predeceased in death by his twin brother, William Oliver Benton, his first wife Eunice Kanzler Benton and his second wife, Joanne Martignette Benton. Friends are welcome to visit on Sunday, January 21 from two until five in the afternoon at Lane Funeral Home, 760 Main St. (Rte. 38) WINCHESTER, MA. And a requiem Mass will be held on Monday, January 22 at ten in the morning at St. Eulalia's Church in Winchester. Memorial donations to support liver cancer research can be made online at www.BIDMC.org/giving.

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Published by Boston Globe from Jan. 18 to Jan. 19, 2018.

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Mark Silin

September 5, 2018

Ted, I loved Joanne and wanted to learn hypnosis from you. Rest In Peace. Mark Silin

Devin Hastings

February 5, 2018

To Ted's Family:

I met Ted in 1996 and he became a 2nd father to me.

I am feeling a huge hole in my life right but I can't imagine what it is like for you - especially his sons.

If any of you are ever in the Minneapolis area, please consider yourself invited to a meal and let's share memories.

Ted is a remarkable man who will always have a hallowed place in my heart.

Best regards,

Devin Hastings

Lori Schillinger

January 28, 2018

Rest in peace MR Benton.. So sorry for your loss Matt & Brian

J.C. Connor

January 27, 2018

Charleston

Dottie and family,

Sorry to hear of your loss.

Richard Duffy

January 22, 2018

Ted started in the Winchester schools at McCall Junior High (when it was grades 7, 8, and 9 -- where Lincoln School is today), where he was an excellent teacher of expository writing in addition to the literature curriculum. I enjoyed seeing him from time to time over the years and remember when he started out as a hypnotherapist. A delightful gentleman. May he rest in peace. Richard Duffy (WHS '75)

Max Kreifeldt

January 21, 2018

Rest In Peace Mr Benton. I have fond memories of your dry humor. One of my most influential teachers and good human being. Class of 1982.

Laura Goodman

January 21, 2018

Ted was the a nice teacher. It was great to learn the classic English literature from him. It was a pleasure to have him as a teacher, one that you will never forget.
Rest In Peace. My deports sympathy to your family and sons.

January 21, 2018

May the God of all comfort be with the family in their time of sorrow.

Lisa Richtmann

January 20, 2018

Mr. Benton was a wonderful teacher! I will always remember how enjoyable sophmore English class was. My deepest sympathies to his family.

January 20, 2018

I will always remember Mr. Benton. Always happy and loved to teach. Rest In Peace

Chuck Keefe

January 20, 2018

He was an amazing teacher and man and will be missed by many. Prayers for him and his family.

Margaret Gushue

January 20, 2018

Ted was a true gentleman and my heart goes out to his lovely family. He will be missed by many.

Leanne Intravaia Christmas

January 20, 2018

Mr. Benton was the best-the kind of teacher who leaves a lasting impact on his students. So sorry for your loss. Wishing your family comfort during this difficult time.

Dennis Phinney

January 20, 2018

Fantastic teacher and a great man. He taught me lessons from literature to hypnosis to life that I will never forget.

Mary

January 19, 2018

So sorry for your loss. Theo did a lot of good things and he will be missed. May God give you comfort and peace in the days a head. Psalms 29:11.

Susan Bottafuoco

January 19, 2018

To the family and friends Mr. Benton left behind:

I am saddened to hear this and send my sincerest condolences on your profound loss. May you find some comfort in knowing that he touched and inspired many children. I being one of them, as a former Winchester High School Alumni.

May peace be with you.

George Geils

January 19, 2018

Dear Michael, Dotty, Lynn, and Teddy's children, I'm deeply saddened to learn of Tedddy's passing. We enjoyed each other's company as children during wonderful summers on Sullivan's Island. We renewed our friendship when I had the privilege of serving as Billy's oncologist during his courageous battle with lung cancer. Please accept my heartfelt condolences. George Geils

January 19, 2018

Dear Lynn,Michael,Dotty and all of Teddy's
children,I'm from Sullivan's Island I am truly sorry for your loss. Jimmy Cleary

Tolbert

January 19, 2018

Sorry for your loss. May the God of all comfort, comfort you during this most difficult time.

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