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THOMAS CULHANE Obituary
Following High School Tom joined the U.S. Army, later received his Master's degree in Education and was the founder in 1972 of James F. Farr Academy in Cambridge, which has for 48 years served children with learning difficulties. Tom loved spending time with his wife of 57 years and his family. He was passionate about boating, playing basketball, and was especially happy to be part of the 6am Allstars which met at the Lexington Field House.
A Graveside Service will be held Wednesday, December 9 at Westview Cemetery, 520 Bedford St. in Lexington at 11am. Relatives and friends are kindly invited to attend. All guests are asked to please wear masks. Immediate family will be mourning privately afterwards at his residence in respect of Covid. In lieu of flowers, donations in his memory may be made to James F. Farr Academy, Inc. at 71 Pearl Street, Cambridge, MA 02139. Lexington 781-862-1800
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Memories and Condolences
for THOMAS CULHANE
Don lane
May 17, 2024
He was a major person in my life as he coached me at local ymca.. sorry I lost touch with him as I moved on in life..ty for the memories.. don lane
Freddy St. Georges
November 14, 2021
It hurts me deep in down in my heart to hear about Tom´s passing. I can still see the kind and sincere expression on Tom´s face to this very day. Bonnie, I want to express my true and deepest condolences to you and your family. You and Tom is definitely one of the reasons why I´m patient and understanding of others feelings today. Farr Academy taught me so much. Without you Tom, Bonnie, and other great teachers at Farr Academy, I don´t know where I would be at today. I love you Bonnie and Tom for all the help and love you showed me. Much LOVE!....
Nancy Fuller
December 17, 2020
Bonnie
We recently, last year, had a conversation in Whole Foods. I read about your husband Tom’s death just today and I send my thoughts your way. Please give my regards to Michael and Matt. As you may recall my husband Bruce Hauptman passed away three years ago. I know some of the feelings you may be experiencing. Gratitude, a good life and time are with you. May you be surrounded by love- Nancy Fuller
Scott & Christina Forbis
December 11, 2020
You are all in our thoughts and prayers. We gave fond memories of Mr. Culhane, a great man with a memorable laugh and sparkle in his eyes. Warm regards,
Scott & Christina Forbis
December 11, 2020
You are all in our thoughts and prayers. We gave fond memories of Mr. Culhane, a great man with a memorable laugh and sparkle in his eyes. Warm regards, Scott & Christina Forbis
Scott & Christina Forbis
December 11, 2020
You are all in our thoughts and prayers. We gave fond memories of Mr. Culhane, a great man with a memorable laugh and sparkle in his eyes. Warm regards, Scott & Christina Forbis
Chuck Byrne
December 9, 2020
Justin and family: I am so sorry for your loss. I have such great memories of “Tom and Bonnie” at every Suffolk University basketball game showing their support for you and Ricky. Such great parents who treated everyone like they were family. Please give your mom a big hug from your Suffolk family ! Chuck Byrne
Bernadette Ladley
December 9, 2020
Tom was such a kind, fun and thoughtful man. I was blessed to have worked at Farr Academy for 8 years before returning to Ireland. Tom and Bonnie were very good to me. Sincerest condolences to Bonnie and family, my thoughts and prayers are with you, God bless xx
Bernie
Emily (Lustig) Chavez
December 9, 2020
Sending my deepest condolences and love to Bonnie and the Culhane family.
I have many memories of Tom’s warmth, generosity, kindness, and humor.
May his memory be a blessing.
Sarah and Mike Beam
December 8, 2020
RIP. Sending love to Bonnie and all the Culhanes. Tom will be missed. His legacy of kindness and generosity lives on.
Christy Pappas
December 8, 2020
Tom was a compassionate visionary who changed the course of countless lives of young people, families, staff and colleagues. A love story and partnership with Bonnie, 3 wonderful kids and a delightful extended family were truly his blessings and blessings he shared with us. The world is a better place for the path that Tom traversed. I was blessed and remain forever humbled to have been chosen by him to participate in his vision. Holding you and yours in the light always. Much love.
Peter Neville
December 8, 2020
Tom was a great guy. He loved the competition, especially if he was on the underdog team. He let me play on his team at Farr Academy. There I learned about winning for kids who were buried in fear and dismissed for their anger. Tom never quit on his students, his staff or his family. Family was always first, then Farr. James Farr inspired Tom to be a winner, perhaps a champion for many, many young people and of course for his beloved Bonnie and family. I consider him a hero. He did transcend the mysteries, uncertainties, and doubts rising from youthful anti social behaviors, and with Bonnie they created Farr Academy a place where underdogs win. Here's a Beck's toast to you, Tom. Thanks for sharing your passion and caring with me and so many others.
Gregory Gansz
December 8, 2020
Tom was one of the most influential people I have ever known. A great friend. He gave me my start in education, where I have worked for most of the last 40 years.
He taught me so much about teaching, counseling, sports... and life.
Farr Academy was (and is) one of the best schools in the world.
Gary Sullivan
December 8, 2020
RIP Uncle Tommy. You made the world a better place.
Annika Hipple
December 8, 2020
I was good friends with Meredith back in our school days in Lexington, though unfortunately we haven't kept in touch. I remember many fun times at your house on Redcoat Lane. I saw the obituary in today's Globe and am so sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to the entire Culhane family.
Tony Chiuppi
December 8, 2020
One of the kindest most generous and good hearted human beings I have ever known. Thank you for starting Farr Academy and providing an educational institution that has changed countless lives and made lasting impressions on all that have worked there or attended. Thank you.
Tony Chiuppi
December 8, 2020
One of the kindest most generous and good hearted human beings I have ever known. Thank you for starting Farr Academy and providing an educational institution that has changed countless lives and made lasting impressions on all that have worked there or attended. Thank you.
Paul Mahoney Class of 1963
December 8, 2020
A great classmate at Suffolk and a pioneer in the educational field.
He and Bonnie dedicated their lives to that endeavor. May he
now Rest In Peace.
Donald and Melissa Savoy
December 8, 2020
Don and I send our deepest condolences to Bonnie and the family. We got to know them through the Sevens Charity Auction which raised money every year for Farr Academy. Tom was a wonderful man and we are very saddened to hear of his passing.
December 8, 2020
I am so sorry to hear about the families loss of one of their loved one. May the families hearts ♥ be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times the family shared together with the dear loved one lost in death.As the families cherished a wonderful life that was well lived and loved by families and friends.My deepest sympathy and condolences goes out to the families and friends during this difficult time of deep sorrow and pain.
-GP/Lm
Michael Sullivan
December 8, 2020
To the Culhane Family
Please accept my deepest sympathies. Tom touched many lives because he cared and each of those lives are better for his efforts.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Michael Sullivan
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