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Thomas Flatley Obituary

Of Milton, May 17, 2008. Beloved husband of Charlotte E. (McLeod) Flatley. Loving father of Daniel T. Flatley and his wife Maureen, Mary Margaret Darling and her husband Ralph, John J. Flatley and his wife Kate, Patricia A. Flatley and Kathleen F. Ix and her husband Robert. Devoted "Papa" to eighteen grandchildren. Brother of Ambrose N. Flatley and his wife Mary and Mary M. Driscoll and her late husband Edward. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated in Saint Agatha Church, 432 Adams Street, Milton, Wednesday May 21 at 10:30 AM. Relatives and friends invited. Visiting hours omitted. Interment Milton Cemetery. US Army veteran, Korea. In lieu of flowers, donations in Tom's memory may be made to My Brother's Keeper, P.O. Box 338, Easton, MA 02356 or Teen Challenge, 1315 Main St., Brockton, MA 02301 or Fr. Bill's & Mainspring, 38 Broad St., Quincy, MA 02169. Dolan Funeral Homes of Milton and Dorchester are assisting the Flatley family with funeral arrangements.

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Published by Boston Globe from May 19 to May 20, 2008.

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Nancy Braund-Boruch

June 24, 2008

To the family of Tom Flatley,
I was so saddened to learn of the death of Tom. I first met him back in the 1970's when I was looking for someone to handle a work out project for me and Continental Illinois Nat'l. Bank. I developed a deep respect for Tom and his business ethics and hard work. We went on to finance many of Tom's projects over the years. Tom was a personal inspiration to me. He was so proud of his family and all they did. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Nancy Braund-Boruch

John Stanton

June 20, 2008

To The Flatley Family,

Please accept the condolences of the entire Stanton family. My mother and father were humbled just being able to consider your father a fellow warrior in the fight for life.
I will never forget one of your father's most frequent sayings, "tell me what you need".
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Karin Joyce

May 28, 2008

We have lost another generous soul. Little did we know we would lose so many wonderful friends in less than a year. When my husband, Joe Joyce, died last July, Tom called to say he would be joining Joe sooner than we think. We were stunned. Tom touched many lives with his quiet generosity. His warm smile and sincere handshake as he would lean into you, will be sorely missed. "May your soul to soar forever more..."

Mike Casey

May 27, 2008

Mr. Flatley,
Sir, I would just like to say thank you for your service and sacrifice for our Country when you served with the U.S. Army in Korea. And to your family and loved ones, I wish to extend my deepest sympathy.

JACK CALLAHAN & FAMILY

May 26, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Daniel honiker

May 23, 2008

Mr.Flatley,I remember long ago,as a member of the cleaning crew in your building up on the hill,how you would take the time to say hello to me even though you probably had alot going on at any given moment...it really ment alot ....may you forever rest in peace...and thankyou for all the love you gave to those less fortunate....

Edward Gilbert

May 22, 2008

To the Flatley family,
As a long time employee of the Faltley healthcare division, it was a great honor to know Mr. Flatley. His concern for all of his workers and residents was second to none. He will be missed by many. Like so many others, I have nothing but fond memories of working for the Flatley company. He was an inspiration to all who knew him. You and Tom are in our prayers.
Ed and Rita Gilbert
Randolph

John Daley II

May 22, 2008

The sons of John and Helen Daley offer our deepest condolences to the Flatley Family. Our father considered Mr Flatley to be one of the greatest men to ever "come down the pike". He was an inspiration to us all.
He will always be in our thoghts and prayers
John and Jerry Daley

Maurice Law

May 22, 2008

Dear Flatley Family,
There is nothing more that I can add, to what's been said. I know of 1 person who had a very high regard of Mr. Flatley, that would like to express his wishes of gratitude. That person is Victor Faro. Mr. Flatley had a special place in his heart for Victor, that spaned over 35 yrs. Victor will miss that call at 3:00 am Sunday, saying, "the road has washed out... get it fixed before 8:00". Thank you for the many years that you granted Algar Construction to service your Organization.

Madeleine Gervais

May 22, 2008

My sincere sympathy to Mrs. Flatley and all the members of the family. It was such a privilege to have worked with Tom for the 8 years I spent as founder and Director of the Urban Catholic Teacher Corps at Boston College. Tom always showed so much interest in the volunteers and his generosity will never be forgotten. May he rest in peace.

Rodolfo Delgado

May 21, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. I had the honor to work for Mr. Flatley at the Tara Stamford Hotel for almost 5 years, he was a very human person, always taking care of his employees and making sure we were happy in a safe and healthy work place.
God bless his soul!

Merilyn Thompson

May 21, 2008

May I express my deepest sympathy to your family for the loss a wonderful man. I had the pleasure and honor of working for him at Kathleen Daniel Healthcare Facility.I had never before or since worked for a man who really cared about his employees and the residents we cared for in the facility.He was a good man and loved by all. I will speak for all of us who are still working in this facility. God Bless your family.

Catherine Mary Joyce

May 21, 2008

Tom, you were a wonderful man and will be truly missed.
My dad, Joe Joyce, played for Flatley Company's annual St. Patrick's luncheon for 26 years; I only joined him about 4 years ago.. Tom was always there with a smile and a song, usually "Take Me Home to Mayo" :)
I know that they are up there together now singing another round of medlies...
Always & Forever in our hearts in prayers. Rest in Peace.

Patti Blood

May 21, 2008

To the Flatley family,
i am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers

Imran Syed

May 21, 2008

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.

MARTIN PACKER

May 21, 2008

MY SINCEREST SYMPATHY TO THE ENTIRE FLATLEY FAMILY.MY RELATIONSHIP WITH TOM GOES BACK MANY MANY YEARS WITH THE PHARMACY AND NURSING HOMES.I ALWAYS ENJOYED TALKING TO HIM AND LEARNING FROM HIM.

John Taglilatela, City of Boston Assessing Department

May 21, 2008

On behalf of the City of Boston Assessing Department, please be assured that Mr. Flatley is in our thoughts and prayers.

Gary Rousselle

May 21, 2008

The Flatley family,

My wife and I send our deepest sympathy. I worked for Mr. Flatley for thirty years in his residential division, and I have great respect and admiration for the man. Mr. Flatley's philosophies of treating others well and fairly, working hard, and aiming to do one's very best to achieve goals, was very evident both in business and in life. He taught me a great deal.

Gary (and Nancy) Rousselle

Jimmy Walsh

May 20, 2008

I know I speak for the many lifelong as well as the new residents of Charlestown in extending our sincere sympathy to Mr. Flatley's extended family. He was a good friend to so many of us here in "The Green Square Mile" and ever mindful of our needs as a Community. We will miss him dearly.

Dr Tony and Barb Caruso and Family

May 20, 2008

May God Take Mr Flatley and keep him close to his heart. May he rest in well deserved peace. We send our most heartfelt condolencese to the entire Flatley family, especially my best man, Dan. You will remain in our thoughts and prayers. God bless you

Colin Campbell

May 20, 2008

On behalf of the company I retired from, I was involved in negotiating a lease for one of Mr. Flatley's buildings. He was a gentleman and I really admired him. May he rest in peace.

Gailann Ponte

May 20, 2008

God bless Mr. Flatley. It was an honor to work for him. I started my career at Royal Crest Estates, Warwick, R.I. and owe my success to him.

Paula Collins Mazzio

May 20, 2008

Dear The Flatley Family,
My sympathy to each and all of you for which must have been a very painful goodbye to Tom. May your sorrow be lifted. Peace.

COUNTY MAYO

May 20, 2008

SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR LOSS. HE WAS A GREAT MAYO MAN! HIS SIMPLICITY TOUCHED US! MAY HE REAP THE REWARDS IN HEAVEN THAT HE EARNED ON EARTH! MAY HIS KIND AND GENTLE SOUL REST IN PEACE.

Bob Trostel

May 20, 2008

Tom's legacy will live on through his wonderful family and friends that he loved and served. H exemplified how a true disciple of Christ lives and serves. My mom, Alberta Trostel of Randolph, worked for him for years at Hoyylwell, and she loved him. I worked several summers for him and saw the true man through John Fahey, his faithful friend.
Rest in Eternal Peace!

Sheila Wein, RN

May 20, 2008

My deepest sympathy for your loss. Mr. Flatley was truly a great man and leader. I worked for him at Milton Healthcare many years ago and will always remember him to be a man who always greeted each employee individually, and with a smile. That is a rare quality not often found in the industry these days. He was an inspiration. God Bless.

May 20, 2008

Please accept my condolences on the passing of Mr.Flatley. I worked at one of his facilities for several years, and have very fond memories of him.

Rita Griffin

May 20, 2008

Dear Charlotte &
family:

We seashell girls go WAY back to the Hampton Era. Remember those days so well. Tom has always been in our thoughts. Even the day he showed up in Marlborough MA in 1968 as he bought the land ajacent to us on Hosmer Street, What a surprise to open the door and see him after many years. We shared a cup of coffee and Paul came home and wondered who the cadillac belonged too as he came home from work. My Paul worked for him on that project and through the terrible fire that tried to stop him from building. Kept in touch for awhile. Always family he talked about his Children and you. Such an inspiration he was.
To do so well and build the empire he has done and the Legacy he has left behind. Were with Peg & Ed Darcy in March in Worcester with Mutual Friends, he told me Tom was not well. I will always fondly remember Tom and what he has left in this world. Fondly Rita & Paul Griffin- Marlborough MA

Mary and Tony Prevett

May 20, 2008

We are truly saddened by the death of Tom. Please accept our deepest sympathy to you and the family and our prayers go out to all of the extended family of Tom and Charlotte. With love and sympathy
Mary and Tony Prevett

joe trolla

May 20, 2008

To the flatley family
I am proud to say that the success i have had in my career is directly atributed to having the opportunity of working for Tom Flatley. He instilled in me at a very early age the work ethic and determination that was his trademark. He was a remarkable person a great motivator, teacher and humanitarian He will be missed.

Richard Clifford

May 20, 2008

I worked on one of Mr. Flatley's properties for nearly a decade, and I am still impressed by the way it was built and the pride that took to build it. I remember one St. Patrick's Day the Schrafft Center(where I worked) holding a St. Patrick's Day lunch for seniors. It was a very good glimpse into a man's heart and being. Thank you, Mr. Flatley.

Joyce Rogers

May 20, 2008

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Daniel Armstrong

May 20, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Katie Thhurston

May 20, 2008

It was such an honor and a privilege to work for Mr. Flatley. The education that he gave to so many of us was one that you could never get in any school. His energy and positive attitude was downright contagious. He gave you a chance when you knew nothing. If you worked hard, you learned and earned his trust. It was never about personal gain but about the challenge, the teamwork and bettering the situation. His competitive spirit made work so much fun. Mr. Flatley was one of a kind. He worked harder than anyone yet he would drop whatever he was doing to take a call from his family who we all knew was the most important thing in his life. He was truly a Renaissance man. He was tough when he needed to be, extremely honest and sincere and always the champion for the underdog. Like many I’m sure, there is a hole in my heart that he has left us. Heaven is sure to be an even better place when we get there.
Katie (Kelly) Thurston

Dennis O'Brien

May 20, 2008

Mr. Flatley,
Thank you for your inspiration.

Tracy and Jim Graham

May 20, 2008

Mrs. Flatley, John, Kate and the Flatley family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Lillian Atkinson

May 19, 2008

I would like to extend my condolences to the family of Mr. Flatley. I have fond memories of working for him from 1979 to 1988. I will always remember his kind words to me. It is truly a great loss.

Jack Meehan

May 19, 2008

To the Flatley Family,
I was deeply saddened to hear of the passing of Mr. Flatley. I was privileged to have worked very closely with him on the immigration reform issue in and also as a committee member on the Boston Irish Famine Memorial representing both the National and Massachusetts State Boards of the Ancient Order of Hibernians.
Please accept my most sincere personal condolences as well as those of my family and the entire membership of the A.O.H. Go ndeana Dia trocaire air agus Ar dheis De go raibh a anam go deo.
Sincerely,
Jack Meehan, National President
Ancient Order of Hibernians in America

gerry ceruti

May 19, 2008

it was a pleasure to know you and to work for you were a great man and i hope you can bless as many people in your after life as you did in life on earth god bless you and your family

Josephine Cimmino

May 19, 2008

You will be missed by the so many people you have helped and taught along the way. You were a true gentleman and it was an honor to have had the pleasure of being part
of your Flatley Company family
Rest in peace, your generosity on this earth will never be forgotten

Diane Mathieson

May 19, 2008

My dad, Francis Mathieson (Fran) did plastering for Tom in various projects around the south shore. We send our regards, thoughts and blessings to the Flatley family. We remember our Dad talking of the friendship they developed in World War II, that continued once they got home safely.

The Mathieson girls: Linda, Lorraine, Diane and Debbie.

Larry Burak

May 19, 2008

To the Flatley Family:

We want to offer our deepest condolences to you at this time. Tom was a tremendous person and an inspiration to all. He will truly be missed by so many people who's lives he touched.

The Burak Family

Sam Magaletta

May 19, 2008

To the Flatley family,Mr. Flatley was very important to me,he left me with words that I have remembered all of my life."Just remember, your family is the most important thing".
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Nick Zervas

May 19, 2008

I will always remember Mr. Flatley as a great man, a great family man, and a practitioner of keen business sense.

I will miss him and wish his family well in his passing.

Paul Dunn

May 19, 2008

Dear Charlotte
Sorry to hear about Tom's passing. May he rest in peace

Linda Carpenter

May 19, 2008

when i think of mr flatley i think remarkable man! because that he was remarkable .we know little but God knows it all .mr flatley is in a better place . deepest sympathy to the entire family .i have been here at the sheraton for almost 17 years but i remember when it was the tara those were the best times of my life thanks to mr flatley .

Tony & Janet Modano

May 19, 2008

Mr. Flatley will be missed deeply by Custom Auto Repair. He always treated us like close friends. We thank him for all the support he gave us over the last 25 years. He was a true gentleman. Our deepest sympathy to the entire family.

Gene Santorelli

May 19, 2008

It is sad to hear of the loss of your husband and father.
Tom will always be known for his work ethic, integrity and inspiration to many.
You are all in our hearts and prayers. God Bless

Albert Cafferty

May 19, 2008

To The Flatley Family,
As a young boy I grew up with my Father working for your Father for 20 plus years, and knowing your Fathers actions always spoke louder than words, He was a man that inspired through his convictions, dedication, follow through, and compassion.

God Speed Mr. Flatley

Tiziana Dearing

May 19, 2008

Mr. Flatley was a gift to our community. My deepest condolences go out to the entire Flatley family. We keep you all in our prayers, even as we give thanks for Mr. Flatley's gracious life and legacy.

Mark Flanagan

May 19, 2008

Fair winds and following seas to a truly wonderfull man, I worked for Mr. Flatley for 15 years and did not regret one bit of it. Always a keen eye for detail and devoted to all who were fortunate enough to have been in his presence.

The Lakin Family

May 19, 2008

The Flatley Family: our heartfelt condolences. Mr. Flatley was a wonderful cape neighbor, a inspiration to all, caring, generous, a mentor, and a credit to all americans, but especially irish americans who dream to succeed and care for humanity. He will be sorely missed. God bless.

Cynthia Bates

May 19, 2008

To The Flatley Family,

I am deeply sadden to hear of the passing of Mr. Flatley. He was a great and blessed man. I am an employee of the Sheraton Stamford Hotel and have been for the past 23 years. I remember when Mr. Flatley brought our hotel and brought in one of the best Manangers you would want to work with. He was a blessing to all of us here. We were his family and I truly believed that because of the way he treated us. I remember every time he would come to Stamford we would get so excited, it was like our father was coming to visit. We thanked God everyday for him bringing to us a women who brought so much love and unity to the property.

Rest on Mr. Flatley for you have earned your seat on the right side of the master. I am so glad to have been a part of your dash.

Cynthia J. Bates
Sales Coordinator
Sheraton Stamford Hotel - Former Tara Stamford Hotel

William McKendry

May 19, 2008

Truly a GREAT MAN

Jim Molloy

May 19, 2008

Mr. Flatley will be missed by so many and even more so by his Wife and family. Mr Flatley was or should have been an inspiration to every one who knew or met him.

Martin Rich

May 19, 2008

To The Flatley Family,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My condolences go out to all of you.

Ron Zooleck

May 19, 2008

My heart is heavy at the news of Tom's passing. He was always a friend and supporter that was a true philanthropist and more importantly a friend to Prince and Pauper. His passing leaves a void in ourhearts and society in general.

Mary Lou Kennedy

May 19, 2008

Our deepest sympathy to the family in your loss. Tom was a long time friend and first hired me as a RN to run Hollywell in Randolph.
Bob and Mary Lou (Nichols)Kennedy
67 Brent Rd.
Manchester,Ct. 06042

jackie

May 19, 2008

Dear Mrs. Flatley and family,

How saddened I am to hear of Mr. Flatley's illness and passing. I share in your sorrow, as I remember the times I waitressed at the Silver Lounge - the smiles and chats about bicycling and "the pups." The "genuine 'regard'" you and he gave to me (and others). Priceless memories that I am most thankful for, a gift of friendship.

My sincerest condolences to all of you at this most sorrowful time.

Liam Varian

May 19, 2008

With deepest sympathy for an old friend.

May 19, 2008

God Bless Mr.Flatley

Thank you for being so kind and generous all these years to the Seniors in Charlestown.

kerry knapp

May 19, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss. Your husband and father was truly a man of courage. He and my father, Lt. Joseph Gaughan, Milton Police Dept. were friends years ago. My father had such admiration for Tom. My father has since passed, but always told me wonderful stories about Mr. Flately. I am so sorry for your loss and hope that memories will comfort you.

David Talbot

May 19, 2008

Mr. Flatley,
Thank you for your caring, compassion, and humility. The people that you have touched with your gifts will never forget you.

David Talbot
Past Grand Knight-Financial Secretary
Vera Cruz Council Knight of Columbus
Randolph MA

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