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Kassandra Pappas Fasano
January 22, 2025
Marsha and Family,
It was a honor and pleasure to work with Tom at National Development for many years. I will never forget his smile and kindness always. Sending my condolences to you all. He will be missed.
Ira & Ginger Lippell
December 5, 2024
Marsha and Family,
We extend our deepest condolences to you and your family upon hearing of the passing of your beloved Tom. As neighbors at our beautiful Sarasota Lido beach condo, we always found Tom to be cheerful and friendly. He will be missed at our condo community!
Warm Regards,
Ira & Ginger Lippell
RICHARD NEIL THIELEN
November 22, 2024
I JUST LEARNED OF TOM'S PASSING. MY FIRM, RINET COMPANY, AND I PERSONALLY DID CONSIDERABLE BUSINESS WITH NATIONAL DEVELOPMENT BEFORE I RETIRED AS PRESDENT AND CEO IN 2012. HE WAS A MAN OF UNQUESTIONABLE INTEGRITY AND I WAS VERY ALWAYS IMPRESSED WITH HIS ACCOMPLISHMENTS. FOR HIS LOVING FAMILY, I SEND MY CONDOLANCES FOR HIS LOSS AT WAY TOO YOUNG OF AGE. DICK THIELEN
Dan Gainsboro
November 22, 2024
Tom, was an amazing and generous human being. I had the good fortune to work with him for several years in the early stages of National Development emergence into the Boston market. I will be forever grateful for the kindness, confidence and humor he expressed towards me during those formative years of my professional growth. My heart felt condolences go out to his family. He will be sorely missed.
Brian hines
November 18, 2024
Tom and I started our real estate careers together at Meredith & Grew in the early 1980´s. I was blessed and fortunate to stay close with him for our 40+ year careers. Off the charts smart, but more importantly always treated others with great respect. His imprint in the greater Boston area will be long lasting. My most heartfelt condolences to you Marsha, your 3 boys and the entire Alperin family. Rest in peace my friend.
Donna Turner
November 18, 2024
Dear Marsha and Family, my husband Scott worked at National Development for twenty years. Tom created the most amazing corporate culture at ND where people worked hard but had fun too and loved what they did. Tom made his employees feel so valued and appreciated. Scott loved his job there and I was always in awe of that very special culture that Tom and the partners created and fostered. My sincere condolences to you all; he was very special.
Ed Dann
November 17, 2024
I always found Tom to be a true gentleman and as kind a person as you could hope to meet. He will be dearly missed by many. God Bless him and his family.
James J Curtin
November 17, 2024
Tom will always be remembered as a genuinely good guy in the real estate development community. May he rest in peace.
My heartfelt condolences to all his family, friends and colleagues.
Pam Herbst
November 17, 2024
To Tom's family and loved ones, I am so very sorry for your loss. I knew Tom professionally as a real estate partner and from industry organizations. Tom was a great, smart, kind and humble person and leader. He had a gentle way about him and always made you feel liked you were heard. I will keep your family and loved ones in my thoughts and prayers. Fondly, Pam Herbst
Tom Johnson
November 17, 2024
So sad to learn of Tom's passing. Such a great guy.
Will forever remember our coaching days together, within the Weston Little League and CYO Basketball. He will be missed!
Dave
November 17, 2024
Marsha and Family and Friends,
I knew Tom professionally, and I knew him to be the wisest and most revered individual in Boston´s CRE industry. He was a mentor, beacon, and role model to countless of us, I dare say all of us. Another of his friends on this page said of Tom - we need more like him. So true. Thank you God for sharing Tom with us.
Bob Coughlin
November 17, 2024
Dear Marcia and Family. We are so sorry to hear about Tom´s passing. We will miss his walks bye our house and his waves of hello Bob will miss his talk with Tom on the beach. Tom will be missed by the Bay Village Community. He was a friendly neighbor and always had a smile as he walked through our neighborhood... Bob and Barbara Coughlin. North Truro
chip goode
November 17, 2024
Tom was a very special friend to many of us raising our kids in Weston. Lots of wonderful memories coaching together on the B-Ball Courts, Baseball fields, and numerous events around town.. a tremendous person and friend in every way. Love from the Goode family.
Deb Jospin
November 17, 2024
Dear Marsha and family - My heart broke when I heard the news about Tom. I loved Tom - he was a kind, smart, generous old soul, forever curious and willing to listen and learn. His smile was the best - may his memory be a blessing. Sending so much love to you all. Deb
Mary O'Brien
November 17, 2024
Marsha and Michael, I remember when you and the family were in Bermuda when Tim and I were there at the same resort. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Best Mary O'Brien, aka Coach
Toni Alperin Goldberg
November 17, 2024
From his Aunt Toni..........from birth to death, in life's complete cycle, there is no one more fitting to receive your kind remarks than this man. In every endeavor he chose, his remarkably kind and genuine effort was recognized. He truly was a man of full promise who kept those promises every step along the way. He would have done so much more, touched so many other lives. Made so many others feel good about themselves and relished in their accomplishments. I loved him dearly and shall miss him even more in the lives of my children and grandchildren.........he nurtured the world and now she has claimed him. May his name and legacy be a blessing always.
Aunt Toni Alperin Goldberg
Gar Morse
November 17, 2024
If there were a model of a responsible, capable, and caring businessman and community member, it would be Tom. I truly cherish the humor and good sense he brought to every conversation we had. We were blessed to have him with us.
Jill Burstein Goldy
November 17, 2024
Sending my heart-felt condolences to Marsha and family. A loss for so many.
- Jill Burstein Goldy
Jill Burstein Goldy
Sam Dettore
November 17, 2024
Marsha,
Very sorry for your loss. I met Tom in 1983 when National Development/Cranshaw hired me when I relocated from Pennsylvania. Our families knew each other as I´m from Scranton as well. Tom was a good man and great to work for and I was sorry to hear of his passing.
Sam
David Slye
November 16, 2024
Tom was omnipresent. While I only knew him through the real estate community, his love of family and friends oozed from his pores. He was gentle in style, and was one of the most intelligent and humble people I have known in our industry. Tom knew the answer to most questions when he asked them, and he always appreciated an honest answer - even if the answer was "I don´t know, I´ll get back to you". His quiet confidence was a constant reassuring vibe in all he did and it made those around him comfortable. Whether in a NAIOP meeting, at a charity event, on tour, or in a negotiation...Tom was a calm and focused presence.
To the Alperin family - I am so sorry for your loss. If Tom left such a large impression on me and so many others in real estate, I can only imagine the presence he had in your lives. God bless Tom, Marsha and your entire family. Tom will be missed in so many ways. The world is a better place because of his presence here, and we could use more like him. Peace
Betsy Busch, M.D.
November 16, 2024
I met Tom when I joined the Tufts University Board of Trustees in 2011. There was much for me to learn as a new Trustee, and Tom was always welcoming and willing to share with me some of his extensive knowledge of both Tufts' institutional and Board-specific history that put everything into much clearer perspective for me. His breadth of knowledge was extraordinary. He was always understated, humble, exceptionally kind, and always willing to take a moment to answer a question. (and I had many!) I always admired his low-key style, despite his many accomplishments and expertise, and thought his family, friends and colleagues were all fortunate to have met someone as genuine, talented and warm as Tom. I certainly am grateful to have known him.
My heartfelt condolences to his family. The world has lost a wonderful man, but I will remember Tom's brilliance and kindness forever.
Lou Woolf
November 16, 2024
Dear Marsha, Michael and Family; I, and all of us at Hebrew SeniorLife, are so very saddened by Tom's passing. When I arrived at HSL in 2009, Tom was co-chair of the Board and it was evident he was an extraordinarily committed, passionate, and oh-so talented force, who was as focused on success as any volunteer leader I've seen in my 30 years in non-profit health care and senior care. He was committed to our organization, those we served, and the many, many more he envisioned we could serve. And, he could not have been more supportive and helpful to me as I entered a new industry. We will all miss him terribly, and know that his memory will be a blessing to all of us, to all of you, and the many, many others he touched. He was the best, and one of a kind. Lou
Mindy Spitz
November 16, 2024
Marsha, I am so sorry for your loss. Tom was so good to me during my years at ND and at HSL. I learned so much from him about real estate and also about living a good life and giving back. He was a huge influence on me. He was a great man.
Mindy
Bob
November 16, 2024
He was the best. Always felt like you were the most important. For the little time I spent with him, he was a big influence on me. He will be really missed. Marsha and boys, our thoughts are with you.
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