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Stephen Kostas Obituary

KOSTAS Stephen J., of Kingston, NH formerly of South Boston, suddenly, June 16, 2017. Beloved husband to the love of his life, the late Betsy (Sesock) Kostas. Devoted son of the late Charles and Carolyn (Uberti) Kostas. Loving brother of John F. "Jacky" of ME, Cathleen Lawlor, her husband Terry of Brockton, Carolyn Young, her husband Tom of Ontario, Canada, Paul, his wife Janelle of Braintree, the late Charles "Chipper" and James "Jimmy" Kostas. Also survived by many loving nieces, nephews, grandniece, grandnephew, aunts. uncles, relatives and friends. Stephen was the proud owner Steve's Burner and Home Service. He was a man of many skills always willing to help those in need. His vast knowledge and gift of story telling will be truly missed. Visiting hours in the O'Brien Funeral Home, 146 Dorchester Street, SOUTH BOSTON, Thursday from 4:00 P.M. 8:00 P.M. Funeral Mass in St. Brigid Church, 841 East Broadway, South Boston, Friday at 10:00A.M. Relatives and friends are invited to attend both services. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers donations may be made in Stephen's memory to the American Heart Assoc. 300 5th Ave. Waltham, MA 02451.

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Published by Boston Herald from Jun. 20 to Jun. 21, 2017.

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Michele Johnston

June 25, 2017

So so very sorry for the loss of Steve! He will be missed in our little community! He was a real asset and help to our business and family anytime we needed him! He was a friend and great business associate.
Sending thoughts and prayers for healing hearts.
The crew at Allied Clearwater & The Johnston Family.

Paul Murray

June 24, 2017

Condolences to the Kostas family. Stephen and I were friends since St. Brigid's. He was the class-clown and I was his second banana. Although I moved to L.A. 35 years ago, we kept in contact via FaceBook and calls. I sent him a few movies that he actually liked, saying Muzzcat, those are pretty good, but do you need heating?
You'll be missed, missed my friend!

Stephen J. Costa

June 23, 2017

To the Kostas Family my deepest sorrow. ...I am sure you are as shattered as I am over Steve leaving us....Every day since I heard the news I have shed a tear and I don't know if that will ever stop. He was a friend's friend to me. It's not very often that you meet someone that has the same name as you. It was a special bond that will never be duplicated ever again in my lifetime. I am proud to say that he used to say, "We were brothers from another mother. "
We had so many things in common. Same Electrical Schools, both licensed electricians...traveled the country and returned...the same places....only to meet and become brothers.
Kiss Betsy for me. I will meet you at the big electrical panel in the sky !!!
Til I see you again...STEPHEN J. COSTA
President
Kingston Veterans Club
Kingston, NH
1100 Members Strong with 1100 prayers for their friend Steve Kostas.
I love you man.

Tom Healey

June 23, 2017

Stephen, So sorry to hear of your passing. I'm very glad we got together last fall. My condolences to the Kostas family.

Tommy Healey

polly dole

June 23, 2017

Steve you were always on our minds,we will miss you.Everyone shares the SAME , thoughts ABOUT YOU,SEE HOW MUCH YOU WERE LOVED.To your family we are so sorry.

Johnny Hurley

June 23, 2017

My condolences to all.A very funny guy.Steve loved learning things,electricity,metal,wood,anything he could do or make and be proud of it.Always willing to help.R.I.P. My friend,....

Kelly Gallison

June 22, 2017

Steve was such a great funny kind of guy. I loved to listen to him tell his stories. I understood how much he missed Betsy . I will truly miss his smiling face. Rest in peace Steve

Virginia [Whalen] McWilliams

June 22, 2017

Steve was a valued part of our family for a good amount of time. We all loved and mostly respected him. May he rest in peace

Janet and Steve Molnar

June 21, 2017

Stephen you will be sorely missed for your great stories, sense of humor and beautiful smile, rest in peace. Our sincerest condolences to the extended Kostas Family, may you find support through the love of each other and friends, I know the funny stories will be endless. With Love,

Joe Whalen

June 21, 2017

My sincerest condolences to the Kostas family; it is so hard to lose such a funny, loyal lifelong friend - Stephen could always make people laugh, regardless of their situation! Rest in peace, brother.

Judy Clarke

June 21, 2017

Stephen, I will miss our talks about the good old days forever. You are with Betsy now and happy! Say hello to my twin Ronnie. Sending prayers for tbe whole Kostas family.. xo

American Heart Association

June 20, 2017

May your memories of the wonderful times you shared with your loved one comfort you and your family, today and always.

Marion Ritz

June 20, 2017

STEPHEN KOSTAS! I will miss those crazy messages "Marilyn -CALL ME" LOL.. you made me laugh all the time .. you are a good guy with a heart of gold. Thank you for always being concerned about my boy and offering him his first electricians job at the age of 10! LOL...He would have learned a lot by you, that is for sure.
No one is really gone until the ripples they cause in the world fade away.... your memory and ripples will last forever.....
I will miss you forever and always... till we meet again xoxo

June 20, 2017

Rip Stephen gone to soon Carol bradway coakley

Lynn Daly

June 20, 2017

A mischievous sweetheart! What a smile! You will be missed greatly. Love you.

JEAN WISEMAN ALVAREZ

June 20, 2017

AM SO SORRY TO HEAR OF STEPHEN'S DEATH CONDOLENCES TO ALL FAMILY MEMBERS.CAN REMEMBER CAROLYN TALKING ABOUT HER BOYS.MAY HE RIP.

June 20, 2017

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Larry Daly

June 20, 2017

Stephen Kostas. I will miss you forever. We spoke for 90 minutes just days before your final journey. I will treasure that call. Condolences to the entire Kostas Family. N & 7th Forever.

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22

Visitation

4:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

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146 Dorchester Street, Boston, MA 02127

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23

Funeral Mass

10:00 a.m.

St. Brigid Church

841 East Broadway, South Boston, MA

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