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Shane Lalani Obituary
Funeral services will be at 11 a.m. Saturday, June 21, at St. Andrew's Episcopal Church, corner of Third and Lewis Streets in Livingston. Graveside committal and burial will follow in Mountain View Cemetery in Livingston.
Arrangements are under the direction of Franzen-Davis Funeral Home in Livingston.
Shane was born Sept. 12, 1983, in Livingston to Carol Glenn Lalani and Salim (Sal) Lalani. He spent his early years in England and attended Claremont School in Esher, Surrey, from 1987 to 1997. Shane was an avid sportsman, excelling at tennis and cricket. He represented his school and local clubs in both sports with distinction while earning team and personal honors. He also participated in many chess tournaments, winning several medals and trophies.
While in England Shane had many opportunities to travel - with both school and family. He visited castles, museums, sporting events (Wimbledon, Lords, the Oval) and countries such as France, Denmark, Morocco and Spain. He also traveled to Australia and New Zealand a couple of times to visit his great grandmother and family there.
Shane always looked forward to summers in Montana to visit his Nana, Grandpa and cousins. He enjoyed trips to Canyon Ferry and Paradise Valley to go camping, boating and fishing with cousins, parents and grandparents. This was also a time to head north to visit cousins, aunts and uncles in Calgary, Alberta, and sample interesting foods.
Shane moved to Montana with his family at the age of 13 and attended Bozeman schools for a few years. While in Bozeman, Shane continued with coaching and traveling on the tennis circuit, winning several tournaments.
In pursuit of his passion, Shane enrolled at the Bollettieri Tennis Academy in Bradenton, Fla., where he had spent time before. He played competitive junior tennis at the international level with several good results while also befriending many top names in the sport. During this time Shane attended the Bradenton Academy and graduated in 2002 from high school with a straight A grade point average. Prior to moving on to University of San Diego, Shane took advantage of the opportunity to work for BBC in London, among other things assisting tennis greats John McEnroe, John Newcomb and others at Wimbledon.
In 2004, Shane transferred from San Diego to DePaul University. There he majored in business studies and was selected also to complete a second degree in finance honors. Shane was an honors student on the Dean's List. He was due to graduate in December.
Shane loved Chicago with all that it had to offer, especially sports. He attended Cubs and White Sox games, watched the Bulls and Black Hawks and had season tickets to Bears' games. An avid sports fan, he traveled to New York and Las Vegas for boxing and other events.
Possessed of a great sense of humor, Shane particularly liked English comedies. He was fond of music and movies, with a large collection of both. He was into weight lifting and strength training.
Shane had a very sensitive and artistic side, drifting him into singing, poetry and acting. He was always sending flowers and love notes to his mother. He displayed considerable courage and persevered through some trying and difficult times, finding faith and strength to keep going.
Shane was fortunate to have a very loving family and a very large and loyal group of friends who were always there for him. He will be sorely missed by all.
Survivors include his maternal grandmother, Dulcie C. Pomajbo of Livingston and Firoz Lalani of Calgary, Alberta; his parents, Carol and Sal Lalani of Bozeman; numerous aunts, uncles and cousins in America, Canada, Australia, England and Kenya. He also leaves behind a menagerie of dogs who will miss him a lot.
Shane was preceded in death by maternal grandfather, J. Wallace Glenn of Livingston; and special grandpa, Mike Pomajbo; and paternal grandfather, Mahmed Lalani of Nairobi, Kenya.
If so desired, memorials may be made to Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation, 120 Wall St., 19th Floor, New York, NY 10005, Attn.: Vanessa Campbell; or to Joslin Diabetes Center, One Joslin Place, Boston, MA 02215.
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Heidi
September 23, 2025
Shane was a friend of mine at the University of San Diego. He was in my French class. Anyway, after all these years, he crossed my mind today ... I think because I heard a song by 50 Cent and he introduced me to 50 Cent´s music (lol). He was very smart, sweet and humble. I regret not making it to his memorial service.
JJ
June 13, 2025
17 years ago today-impossible to fathom! When Shane was around 5 he´d say he would take me to Lego land in Denmark someday. He´d elaborate with that twinkle in his eye. Today I am imagining we have visited Atlantis and the fantastical musings we might have shared.
Kabir Lalani
June 13, 2020
Very fond memories of dearest Shane. His mischievous eyes and great friendly smile. A great achiever, winning attitude and conqueror of challenges.
REST IN PEACE.
Uncle Kabir
Tonya Helton
March 27, 2020
Sending prayers and love
I don't personally have a novel of memories with Dear Shane, but of them I remember his excited, happy personality. He stood out among the crowds and had such a sweet demeanor. He was part of my small, close group of friends back in Bozeman, MT.
Our friendship grew away from each other, as I moved too Chicago, IL. After reading upon history, so did Shane.
I can't imagine the loss of a child, or a family member and especially too early in his life. I send prayers and love always
Carol Lalani
November 28, 2019
My dear Shane, thinking of you at Thanksgiving, your favorite holiday.
....carving turkey at the Darlington's and so many other wonderful memories. Your little Louis, last of your dogs and my dear little buddy died at age 14. I am so very sad he is gone but know you and the pack welcomed him over the rainbow bridge. Now you have them all. You always said, wouldn't it be fun to see them all play together. Take good care of them......I sure did!!! Love forever, Mom
Munir Lalani
August 17, 2019
Sounds like he was a remarkable young man, may his soul Rest in Eternal Peace, Amen!
June 18, 2019
Some people leave impressions far greater than their years. Shane drifts back into the little and big things of a day and into dreams at night. My mind still insists that he is out in the world and that one day we'll find time to reminisce on the special period when we were practically inseparable. I was well into my third decade and he was just starting school. I picture him as an actor or singer. When we were at the train station or in a grocery store he'd imitate characters he found interesting with alarming accuracy. He'd break out into song--not for attention, but because it welled up inside him-- in a voice that belied his age. In the car he'd say, "Turn on Phantom of the Opera, please" and he'd sing as though he felt the deep significance.
June 13, 2019
Dearest Shane,
Miss you as much as ever. In Esher today with lots of fond memories of you everywhere....cricket club, Claremont, tennis courts, Oak Regis, lots of good friends. Juliette must be with you now......one dog left, little Louis. I've taken good care of your dogs. Hope you're having fun with them all. I'm not ready for Louis to leave yet....he's my best buddy. Lots of love, Mum
Kabir Lalani
June 13, 2019
Dearest Shane. Now a shining bright star in the sky for all to see
Uncle Kabir. 2019
Carol Glenn Lalani
June 13, 2019
Shane, miss you more than ever. In Esher now with lots of fond memories of you...Esher cricket club, Claremont, Oak Regis, friends and more. You were the light of my life. Love always, Mum
Juan Gonzalez
June 13, 2018
I miss you brother. I think of you everyday. Cant believe its been 10 years. Until we meet again.
April 23, 2018
My dear Shane. Still miss you as much as ever. Well, you know all the dogs you got for girlfriends....two are left. Little Vinny and Pearl died last year, so the yorkies must be with you. I took very good care of them and they were all happy playing together...We miss them terribly...but guess it was their time to go and be with you. Juliette and Louis are left. Juliette will be 15 May 18 and Louis 13 in October. Xo Lots of love, Mum
March 29, 2017
So young you were, and yet such a huge presence... You are spoken of, written & dreamed about... A brilliant streak if light even still
June 13, 2013
Can't believe you've been gone 5 years. You are loved and missed more than ever.
KABIR LALANI
July 12, 2012
My Dearest Shane,
Was just looking at your picture - so handsome and radiant. In the past 2 years, Auntie Nasra and Ma have come to join you and may have met up with you.
Love and prayers always.
Uncle Kabir
Nariman Revelle
May 7, 2012
I have only just learnt of the tragic loss of your beloved son. I am so very sorry for your sad loss - my entire heart breaks for you. I dont know of any parent who loved his son so much. You and Carol are both in our prayers.
Nariman Revelle (please contact me 0207 486 0848)
Carol G. Lalani
October 20, 2011
Shane, I miss you more than ever. You loved Halloween...pumpkin pies and walking through the leaves. I wish you could have stayed on this earth longer. It is very sad without you. Zippy died...he was sixteen...and I am looking after the other four dogs!!! Love, Mom
D
April 8, 2011
Im a friend from IMG. Just was thinking about Shane out of the blue..He was a good friend and inspiration. I still remember the trip to mia and lifting weights together like it was yesterday! Your missed!
November 17, 2010
shane you have been on my mind>>> sometimes i wonder why did god take you in his arms so soon. Its not fair and its not the same without your presence
Susan & Stephen Darlington
September 4, 2010
When a song comes on the radio that I know was some of Shane's favorite songs,.. I smile and instantly he is in my mind.
I have two of your tennis rackets Shane,.. swing along with me if you would,.. I welcome your energy & love.
You are always in our thoughts, and in our hearts., always.
September 5th, 2010
jan thorne
February 3, 2010
Carol,
Just came across this site...time passes but your love endures...hope to chat soon.
jan in san diego
2-2010
Donna Mason
February 5, 2009
My heart breaks for both of you. It was nice to see you in SF Salim, please send our best to Carol. Distance may separate us, but you will remain forever in our thoughts.
Love, Donna and Joe Mason
jenna pooley
December 23, 2008
shane i never once stopped thinking about you ......you were someone who inspired me greatly.....
Tom Brewster
October 31, 2008
Dear Mr and Mrs Lalani,
Many of us are not skilled enough with words to express the deep shock and regret we are all feeling. Despite the pain of your loss, i hope that you will take solace in the fact that a message shines through from everyone: that Shane Lalani was one of the nicest, happiest and most genuine people to ever walk the earth. He touched everyone he met and has shown everyone how to live life; laid-back, happy and with a broad easy smile. He will be remembered always.
Linda Alanko
October 30, 2008
As a teacher I had the privilege and pleasure of teaching Shane when he was six and then again when he was nine. I shall always remember his peaceful nature and his intelligent and perceptive mind. He was a delightful student and I know that he will have touched many peoples' lives with his beautiful qualities. With love and many fond memories. Linda Alanko
Kristina Wing
October 28, 2008
Dear Sal and Carol,
Someone so special will never be forgotten...It was nothing but shock and sadness that was felt by those that were with him at Claremont. Shane will always remain in our memories as someone that was so happy, so outgoing and one that always managed to do so much, from sports games to school productions - Charlie and The Chocolate Factory being one of our years' favourites!
You're in our thoughts. Please know how deeply your loss is felt by all. I look forward to seeing you at the service.
Lucy Camp
October 23, 2008
Sal & Carol
I was so sad to hear the news about Shane. I have so many happy childhood memories, Shane being included in so many of them! I look forward to seeing you both on the 31st; please please do contact me if I can do anything to help with the preparations!!!!
Jack&Paula Cowdy
October 13, 2008
Sal&Carol,
May the road rise up to meet you.
May the wind always be at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
and rains fall soft upon your fields.
And until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of His hand.
An Irish Blessing.
We will, of course, see you at the memorial here in Surrey, England, on 31st October.
Kunal Sofat
October 11, 2008
Sal and Carol,
It’s hard to find words to express my shock and sadness when hearing this news. I am so sorry for your loss and my thoughts are with you both. Shane is and always will be remembered as a friendly fun-loving guy. I have great memories of him at Claremont, him being one of first friends there. He also shared my love for cricket, and the trips to Osterley Cricket Club were always enjoyable. It’s a shame we lost touch in recent years but he is a friend that never was and never will be forgotten. I will see you both at Shane’s memorial in a few weeks.
Celia & Jack Bunyer
October 9, 2008
Dear Carole & Sal,
Shane fitted alot into his life and proved himself to be a son you could be truly proud of. Obviously he was a great a friend to many people and I know he will be sorely missed. Our thoughts are with you both at this very sad time - with our deepest sympathy.
Prof. Douglas Long
September 15, 2008
Shane took two of my classes at DePaul University - Performance of Literature and Public Speaking. He was a bold and passionate public speaker, and he threw himself into his characters in Performance of Literature. He was bright, personable, and a pleasure to know. My condolences to Shane's family and friends.
Laura Hoffer
September 12, 2008
You were like a big brother to me. Your words were always positive. I lived no where near you and felt like you would be there if I needed you. I hope I brought some sunshine into your life. I have always appreciated the advice and care that you have given me... I'm not so sure what happened but I want you to know that I will miss you. I was going through my old e-mails today and read one from you. I know that you will be okay, and that you are in a good place. Your family and you are in my thoughts and prayers. I don't feel I can say or type enough to show how I feel right now.
All my love from Minnesota
Jeanette Pierre
September 11, 2008
Lalani Family -
I am so sorry to hear of Shane's passing - he was a sweet, kind and gentle soul. Although I haven't spoken to him in years, his memory will remain with me forever.
Kerim Zafir
September 10, 2008
Dear, Mr and Mrs Lalani, i am truely sorry for your loss and i am deeply hurt by Shanes sudden death, he was one of my true friends who always adviced me to do the right things in life, Shane was an extrodinary person a man courage and dignity. Shane i love you and i ll miss you bro you will always be remembered. God have mercy on your soul.
Henry Boxer
August 29, 2008
Dear Carol,
We fondly remember Shane from Claremont school, our son James was his good friend, we would like to send our condolences to you and Salim. 'His flame burned brightly'. With love, Henry & Lula Brockway Boxer.
Yatin Young
July 27, 2008
Dearest Salim and Carol, so very dreadful, and our prayers are with you.
It may seem awful, but would you like to visit us in NZ?
The Grossman Group
July 23, 2008
Dear Sal and Carole,
Our deepest condolences go out to you in this difficult time, may fond memories last forever.
-Marc, Connie, Warren, and Joel
Susan & Stephen Darlington
July 22, 2008
Dearest Carol & Sal,
Stephen and I feel this loss of our Shane with you. I feel that I have lost my younger brother. When you rang us with the news we were in shock and our hearts broken . I wished that we knew earlier, we would have been there for you, if anything, very tight hugs and never let go. Shane was an absolute delight in the years we have known him and we are blessed to have been part of his exceptional life. I promise you that he will always be in our hearts and thoughts, and the next time we are skiing down a pristine snowy mountain on a wonderful sunny day, I will say.. Shane, this is for you! We will always be here for you. Thank you Carol & Sal, for letting us be part of Shane's life.
Gerald John
July 21, 2008
Dear Carol and Sal
We are sorry for your loss.Shane will be remembered for his short but beautiful life.He was a loving, warm and upbeat young man that lived life to the fullest despite his medical problems.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you both.
Sincerely
Gerry & Saji John
Sarasota FL
Richie Daphne
July 20, 2008
Our thoughts are with you at this time. Please accept our condolences and sympathies with your sad loss.
Richie and Daphne Benaud
laurence parry
July 18, 2008
Dear Carol and Sal,
Our heart felt thoughts go out to you on the passing of Shane.As parents you will often ask of yourselves,why did it happen to us?Could it have been avoided? We know how much you cared and loved Shane. You worried about him
a lot and have nothing to feel guilty about.
Carol and Sal, you will continue to cry but having shed the tears ,cast your minds back to the wonderful times you shared as a family.
God Bless.
Val and laurence Parry.
Michael O'Brien
July 17, 2008
I was lucky enough to meet Shane. My son David met him at USD. When Shane moved to Chicago, we all had lunch at The Green Door on a gray, cold Chicago afternoon and spent an hour or so together talking and laughing and I felt optimistic and happy. I remember Shane being funny, smart, empathetic and in incredibly good shape! He was obviously a good and faithful friend to my son and that meant the world to me and Gayle. Please accept our deepest condolences.
Topiwala
July 17, 2008
Dear Carol and Salim
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this devastating time. It seems like only yesterday that Shane was playing snowball fights in the Cotswolds, tennis with the girls in Surrey and sharing the excitements of Christmas presents. We will always remember him as a thoughtful and considerate young man.
Much love
Liz, Harshad, Anya and Kirty
David O'Brien
July 17, 2008
Sal and Carol,
My deepest condolences go out to you and your entire family. Shane was an amazing guy, and I honestly don't think I would've survived my stay in San Diego if I didn't have Shane as a friend there. He was one of the most loyal and true friends I've ever had the pleasure of knowing and I already miss him a lot. My only regret is that I didn't keep in touch these past few years. He will be sorely missed, but I will always remember him as a great friend and an amazing person.
Robert Lee
July 16, 2008
Dear Sal & Carol,
I'm so sorry for your loss. Shane was a really special person, he was athletically and academically talented and he had a great sense of humour that I’ll never forget. I feel privileged to have shared some of my best childhood memories with him, both at school and at Esher cricket club. My thoughts are with you and the family. Sal it was really good to see you the other night, I have managed to find a couple of old Claremont telephone directories that you asked for so please contact me if you would like them or even just for another drink whenever you or Carol are next in town.
James Ryan
July 15, 2008
Dear Sal and Carol, I am so sorry to hear about Shane. I have many fond memories growing up with Shane who was a great freind to me through out our time at Claremont. Memories with Shane , Paul , James D and Robert will always be fond ones with in my heart. My thoughts are with you now and with him. He is a freind who will never be forgotten.
Seth Kucharski/Vanausdol
July 11, 2008
I am so sorry for the news of Shanes death, He was better tha a friend to me, He was a brother I never seemed to had. I aleays admired his ways and his outlook on life. I wish I could of been more like him, because nothing was a struggle to Shane. I'll will miss him with every breathe I take because to me he was a genuine brother. He'll be missed dearly in my life. I'll never forget Shane because he''ll always be in my head and especially in my heart.
Phil and Colleen Johnson
July 10, 2008
Carol and Sal
We are so very very sorry for your loss. We are thinking of you and all of your family.You are both such special people and Shane was just like both of you. You are in our prayers
jenna pooley
July 7, 2008
carol & sal Lalani,
My thought are with you for your loss, he was amazing not a day will go by without thinking of him. I will see you soon at memorial
jennA POOLEY
July 7, 2008
dear mr & mrs lalani,
I am sorry for your loss. he was the most amazing guy i ever met. he was so welcoming to everyone. he will shine over us everyday we wake up. thats what kinda guy he was happy! love jenna
Jennifer Behboodi
July 6, 2008
Mr. and Ms. Lalani,
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Not a day went by that Shane didn't speak of you guys. I'm so thankful to have known him.
You're in my prayers.
Larry & Barbara Briggs
June 29, 2008
Dear Carol and Sal,
I don't know words that are meaningful enough to express our thoughts and prayers for the two of you and for Shane. You are such special people in our memories.
Love,
Larry and Barbara Briggs
Sarah Elhag
June 25, 2008
Dear Carol and Salim
I am sorry for your loss, it has been a long time since I have seen Shane but I remember him from Claremont (for the short time I was there). I later saw him on the tennis courts when we both played junior tennis.
I can see he had a remarkable life. He will be in my prayers.
Bridget Robinson
June 24, 2008
Carol & Sal – We’ve just heard the sad news via Veronica. We have wonderful memories of Shane’s days at Claremont. We were only recently looking at photos of “Charlie and the Chocolate Factory” and remembering his enthusiasm and determination. Despite all he had to cope with he achieved so much.
You were great parents and I shall never forget how you also supported Marcus and I despite all your own worries.
John Isaacs
June 23, 2008
Carol and Salim,
With the love of his parents, Shane
lived a remarkable life. His soul is
forever with the two of you.
John Isaacs
Linda Slack
June 22, 2008
Dear Carol and Salim,
Bruce and I are so sad for your loss. You both have been in our thoughts and wish we could have been with you during this time.
Bruce and Linda (Cowles) Slack
Ashley Clark
June 21, 2008
Mr. and Mrs. Lalani-
I have nothing but great memories from the times I spent with Shane here in Chicago. He loved both of you so much and reminisced about family nonstop. It was wonderful to have met both of you when passing through Chicago.
I'm so sorry to hear about this loss; your family is in my prayers.
Tom & Toshiko Dose
June 21, 2008
Dear Carol & Salim,
Saying "we are sorry" seems insignificant in the face of your loss.
We are still in shock and holding you close in thought.
with our deepest sympathy,
Blanche Thorson
June 20, 2008
Carol & Sal,
As difficult as this time is for you, may you find comfort in knowing that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Gracie Scher
June 19, 2008
Carol and Sal,
My heart goes out to you. I'm so sorry for your great loss.
Steve Hammell
June 19, 2008
Shane was born into a loving family and did more in his twenty-four years than many people do in three score and ten. I met Shane only once--in England when he was working at Wimbledon. He gave me a tennis towel which I still use. I'll always remember Shane and his warm-hearted smile.
Nic Kolence Lundborg and Gordon Griffith
June 19, 2008
Carol and Sal - Words are so inadequate to express how so, so sad we are to hear of your loss. I'm glad to have met Shane when he was in San Diego and renew our friendship with you both. We'll keep him and you in our prayers. All our love, Nic and Gordon
Rohit Shah
June 19, 2008
Dear Sal & Carol
Losing someone we love is like being a part of our soul.
Learning to live without them is perhaps the most difficult task the human heart can endure.
I wish you peace,courage and the presence of mind during this most difficult time.
Jamie Scheurich-Prinsloo
June 19, 2008
Sal and Carol,
My heart goes out to you both. I know it is difficult to loose your son at such a young age.
God Bless your family!
(Met you Sal through Minka)
Julie Fink/Hollar ('71)
June 19, 2008
Carol;
How sad it must be to lose a child before his time... my heart goes out to you ~
Bob Gilbert
June 19, 2008
Carol and Salim
My sympathies and thoughts at a tragic time. What a handsome young man.
Bob Gilbert (classmate 1963
Patty Kicker
June 19, 2008
Carol -- my heartfelt sympathy to you and your family.
Alice Boland
June 18, 2008
Carol and Salim, We are thinking of you and our thoughts will be with you on Saturday. We have many happy memories. I saw many pictures of the Bozeman-Livingston area as I searched for this page. For sure, we will make it to Montana.
Love, Alice and Cal
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