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Parker Huber

1940 - 2022

Parker Huber obituary, 1940-2022, Brattleboro, VT

BORN

1940

DIED

2022

Parker Huber Obituary

Parker Huber of Brattleboro died surrounded by silence in his home, just before daybreak on July 8, 2022. In his final weeks, he was surrounded by a few devoted friends and medical hospice nurses, who cared for him lovingly. He lost his capacity to bicycle in early 2020 due to Parkinson's disease, but his love of walking enabled him to stay connected to his beloved outdoors and the people on the streets of Brattleboro. Parker was a contemplative, quiet man, yet paradoxically he connected with and touched the lives of many. He was true inspiration and a guiding light with his generous, supportive presence and his extraordinary capacity for deep listening. He commonly understated his unique accomplishments, attributes and gifts, and was likely unaware of the profound affect he had on others' lives.

Parker was a weaver of connections through the many groups of which he was a member. Circle Dancing was a great love of his, and he danced joyfully in the Brattleboro Circle Dance community for thirty-five years. He was active in and well loved by the Putney Friends Meeting for almost thirty years, and more recently, with St. Michael's Episcopal Church through their contemplative and centering prayer groups. He also had a significant influence on the community of nature writers, both locally and nationally, through his envisioning and founding the Glen Brook writers' group and facilitating its meetings for thirty years, as well as the Crestone writers' group in Colorado. Parker was an avid naturalist and writer and was known for his yearly pilgrimages to the top of Monadnock on Thanksgiving Day. Perhaps less well-known, he climbed mountains all over the country, and even in New Zealand, and served in his younger years as a wilderness guide. He published a number of books based on his own adventures and those of the writers he admired most, Thoreau and Muir. The Wildest Country, in which he followed Thoreau's journeys in Maine on foot and by canoe, was originally published in 1981 and reissued by popular demand in 2008. He is respected, admired and loved by many people across the continents, and will be greatly missed in our town of Brattleboro.

To honor Parker's memory, and in lieu of a monetary donation in his name, consider making your own dedication to a practice that contributes to peace within and stretching your capacity for generosity and kindness toward all people as well as to the diverse forms of life that support all of us everywhere.

A celebration of his life is in the planning for September.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Brattleboro Reformer on Jul. 19, 2022.

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Kerstin Hoeldtke

December 25, 2022

I was sad to learn that Parker is no longer with us. Indeed, he was a gentle, kind soul. And a nature lover. I knew Parker through my husband, Robert Hoeldtke. Parker and Robert were friends since childhood when they went canoeing In Canada. I called Parker yesterday to let him know that Robert died December 2, 2022. That´s when I searched and found out about Parker´s passing. Sad to think that these kind, good friends now are gone. Rest In Peace.

Gwyn

September 19, 2022

We love you Parker! I remember once you said "when people get up in the morning the first thing they should do is some thing they love to do. It doesn´t matter what it is! You could bake a cake!" We´re lucky at time to have actual masters of living among us and Parker is one.
There are no words to say how much we miss him. But living by his example is a good way.

Suzanne Simon, Portland, ME

August 3, 2022

Parker is my longest lifetime friend (50 years), and I have loved him every minute of those years. I miss the twinkle in his eyes, his little chuckle, his enormously loving heart, and as said here by others: his capacity to listen, care, and give of himself in the simplest most profound ways. I would like to join the celebration of his life in September and I'm so grateful that this is being planned.

Susan McDormand

July 23, 2022

Remembering the last time I walked beside you down Main Street. Also remembering that Parker did not wave good bye once, rather he would turn additional times to wave again.

gary sachs

July 19, 2022

Parker-what a gift of a human. You are already missed here in town. May the peace and love with which you lived expand for you in passing. Blessing to know thee.

Alan Lewis

July 19, 2022

Parker was a warm, gentle, generous spirited man with the best eye for seeing the humor in life. If anyone in Brattleboro could be missed the most, Parker Huber might be the guy. May his spirit remain ever green.

Andrea Angeline

July 19, 2022

Parker was a bright light in this world. He was grounded, calm, joyful and generous with his many gifts and talents An inspiration to all who were blessed to meet him. I will miss my dear friend.

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