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Richard Coutant III

1948 - 2015

Richard Coutant III obituary, 1948-2015, Brattleboro, VT

BORN

1948

DIED

2015

Richard Coutant Obituary

Richard Henry Coutant III

1948 - 2015 GUILFORD Richard Henry Coutant III died at home on the morning of Sunday, June 7, 2015, with his beloved wife, Verandah Porche, at his side, six weeks after being diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. Richard was 67. He was born in East Orange, NJ on April 6, 1948, the son of Richard Henry Coutant Jr. and Florence Marjorie McElrath. Richard's parents moved from suburban New Jersey to East Bethel, VT in 1953. Richard's father operated Coutant's Country Center, a small grocery store and gas station, while his mother refinished and sold antiques out of their garage. Richard and his sister, Christopher, attended elementary school across the street in an octagonal, one-room schoolhouse with a wood burning stove and outhouse. Richard spent his childhood in East Bethel riding his bicycle, playing baseball, fishing, collecting baseball cards and exploring the woods where he acquired his life-long love of history, represented by abandoned buildings and crumbling foundations. In sixth grade, at a time when the testing of IQ in schools was a popular fad, Richard scored at "genius" level. His thrilled parents insisted on his education being diverted into the high level achievement of private schools. Finding himself suddenly thrust into the social and economic world of the Loomis Chaffee school while on academic scholarship provided his first real life challenge. All he really wanted was to come home. He put his energies into a combination of misbehavior and academic antics that got him expelled after three years, and he finished his secondary education at Montpelier High School. That same year he became a National Merit Scholar. He attended and graduated with honors from Marlboro College in 1969, where his unique brilliance was valued and where he finally felt at home. It was there that he met many who became life long friends. A few were able to visit him in his last weeks. For many years he ran the CETA (the Comprehensive Employment and Training Act) office in Brattleboro and became well known for his compassion and creativity. In 1983, he began work towards a law degree at the Vermont Law School from which he graduated J.D. Magna cum laude, in 1986 and acted as Head Notes Editor of the Law Review. He began work in Bellows Falls for Salmon and Nostrand Attorneys in 1986, became a partner two years later, remaining with the firm until his death. He was a skilled mediator and believed in alternative dispute resolution. He will be remembered by his fellow lawyers and clients as a man of great skill, gentleness, manners and wit. He privately assisted friends and neighbors with legal issues, often refusing compensation for that work. After a brief first marriage, he met and wed Verandah Porche, on October 6, 1979. With that union, he became the proud father of Oona Adams and then Emily Julia Coutant, born on April 6, 1981. He and Verandah divorced in 1995, reunited in 2001 and remarried on May 31, 2014. Richard loved old cars, maps, and the ruins he traveled the world to see. A brilliant photographer, he often focused on the beauty found in rusting cars, the curve of a tree trunk, and the faces of those he loved. He was a collector of cameras, artifacts and hundreds of friends. All will miss him. Richard leaves his beloved family: Verandah, their daughters, Oona and Emily, Oona's husband, Matt Bunting and granddaughter, Sadie Bunting, his sister, Christopher Coutant of Brattleboro, and her children, Suzannah and Henry Wainhouse and granddaughter, Indigo Wainhouse. Richard was buried by his family and friends, hours after his death, on the property of Packer Corners Farm in Guilford, where he lived. A memorial service for Richard will be held at a future date to be announced. Those wishing to honor Richard may make a donation to Vermont Legal Aid or The Pancreatic Cancer Action Network.

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Published by Brattleboro Reformer on Jun. 12, 2015.

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Margaret Hellie Huyck PhD

June 6, 2025

I have the same fond memories of spending time with Richard, Chris, and his parents one summer when I was a sophomore (at Vassar College) working as a traveler for the Vermont Council of Churches.

Margaret Hellie Huyck

June 6, 2022

Love to be in touch with you, Chris. I spent several weeks with your family while I was a student at Vassar College; I was working with the Vermont Council of Churches in the summer of 1959 or 1960. I now live in Chicago, IL.

Margaret Hellie Huyck, Ph.D.

June 6, 2021

I remember Richard and Chris, and their parents, from the summer I spent with them in 1959, as a traveling teacher/organizer with the Vermont Council of Churches. They were an interesting and delightful family. So sorry to have learned of his untimely death; he is still in my memory.

Margaret Huyck

May 19, 2020

I am very sorry to learn about this death. I met the Coutants when I stayed with them for two weeks during July, 1959, as a worker with the Vermont Council of Churches. Richard was a very bright, curious boy; his sister was also a delight. I learned a lot from the family. I would like to get in touch with Chris now.

Steve Cobb

July 23, 2015

Very sad to belatedly hear this news. He was a treasured friend of mine back in high school, and I was hoping to see him at our upcoming 50th high school reunion. He was a funny, and original, individual...truly one of a kind.

Barbara Johnston

June 22, 2015

Such a shocking sudden loss...rest in peace my friend and. My deep sympathy to the family

Mark schwartz

June 20, 2015

To a valiant adversary in the Tasha Tudor estate case. Rest in peace Mark D. SCHWARTZ

Linda O'Brien

June 19, 2015

I extend my deepest sympathies to Richard's family. I will miss doing depositions with him. We are all connected.

Lisa Hindes-Moody

June 19, 2015

It is very sad to hear of Richard's passing. I worked with him here & there over the years, and I always found him to be very kind and respectful to all. My condolences to his family.

bob maxwell

June 17, 2015

I remember my VLS '86 classmate Richard for his intellect, wit and gracious manners as we worked our way through school and served on the Vermont Law Review together. I'm sure his wife and daughters will have fine memories to look back upon this fine man who has been taken from family too soon. All my best. Bob Maxwell VLS '86

Susan Bourne

June 17, 2015

Sorry for this too-quick passing of such a gentle man and kind soul. May all close to Richard find peace and be comforted by his continuing spirit.

June 17, 2015

So sorry for your loss. Keith and Diane Stack

Michael Tolaro

June 16, 2015

Very saddened to hear this news....Richard was my attorney and helped me tremendously. He was a very caring and compassionate man. He will be missed....

Mary Beth Hebert

June 16, 2015

My sincere condolences. Richard was a very special person and I will miss him dearly. I will always remember his humor and his kindness. He was a remarkable and skilled attorney, and he is gone from us way too soon.

heather levengood

June 15, 2015

Christopher, I had no idea. I am so sorry to hear about your loss. ~Heather Dahlin Levengood

Delvina Kearney

June 13, 2015

Richcard you will be missed by all, especially your kind gentle manner in which you approached life itself. You were such a vital part of the firm that your encouraging guidance and advice was from your heart and compassion to resolve differences without controversy. Your perspective was to approach both sides with an open mind and a smile that reminds one that life is as difficult as you make it. My deepest sympathies and condolences from the bottom of my heart.

Christin Semprebon

June 12, 2015

I had the privilege of working with Richard on several cases during my time in Vermont. He was a true pleasure to work with: gracious, intelligent, and with that distinct brand of humor and wit he brought to all of his dealings with others. I am heartbroken to learn of his passing. Rest in Peace, Richard. You will be missed. Christin Semprebon

Donna Hawes

June 12, 2015

Richard Coutant: an amazing person that I wish I had the opportunity to meet ~ bless you ~

June 12, 2015

Dear Verandah & Christopher & Family, We will have many happy memories of many interesting conversations with Richard from our years at Peter Havens at the bar! We hope an pray that he is at peace. We send our love, Thom & Gregg

BRENT MAZELLI

June 12, 2015

sure that Richard is ok. The bible says absente from the body present with the lord.

Christiane (Chris) Howe

June 12, 2015

Richard was the Town of Vernon's Attorney. I worked with him for several years. I really enjoyed talking and working with him. I am saddened by his passing. I will always remember Richard by the way he illuminated grace, knowledge and wonderfully honest compassion. His great smile when he walked into a room. He will be sorely missed by many. Prayers of comfort to Verandah, Oona and Emily and his extended family and friends and all the wonderful folks at Salmon and Norstand.

Christiane Howe

June 12, 2015

Richard was town attorney for Vernon. We all cared for him very much, he will be sorely missed by all. I personally felt comforted by his grace, his knowledge and his wonderful and honest compassion. He was a great man. My prayers of comfort to his family.

Karen Richardson

June 12, 2015

I will miss his gentleness, his wit and quiet strength in which he loved his family through those most intelligent, never missing a thing eyes. You were a good man, Richard. It was a pleasure to have been included for so many years in your daughter's life, Verandah's , yours and then Oona's and dear Sadie's. The song of one's life never ends- unknown

June 12, 2015

Dear Verandah and girls,
My heart reaches out to you with love and with gratitude for Richard's creative life. Thank you for sharing it so beautifully.
elizabeth christie

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