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Robin (Parillo) Miron
December 4, 2015
This is very late-just found out that my friend, Tom, has passed away.
Tom, Donna, and I graduated from Brockport State College together. We were in the P.E. department and hung around together. So much fun!
Tom was so full of life and had a positive outlook on everything! He was a good man and friend and always called me by my full name-Robin Diane Marie Parillo.
After graduation, life happened, so T, D, and I lost touch, but we were "always friends" and never forgot each other in our hearts. I regret not seeing T and D and not keeping in touch.
I am so deeply sorry D, to hear of Tom's passing. I know he was your best friend, a great husband, father and friend.
Much Love to you and your family-Robin Diane Marie Parillo Miron
Barbara West
April 14, 2015
I am saddened to hear of the loss of Mr. Fahner. The memory I have of him is how much he cared about all of the students at Kurn Hatin. He hired me as the evening nurse in the infirmary in order to give care to these children after dinner. I send my sincere condolences to his wife Donna and his entire family. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this painful time. Barbara West
Daphanie Martin
January 20, 2015
I've never known a man like you. You were always there for me, and showed me so much. I will always remember you. Love you - Big D
Jeremy Durphey
January 20, 2015
Mr Fahner will always have a special place in my heart. I am so proud that I got to know you and I will do my best to show you the man you helped me become. And I will never forget you.
Cheryl Gaffney ( Parks )
January 13, 2015
So Sorry to hear about Tom He was Great Gym Teacher at Austine School, I will never forget his Smile. Never forgotten him as Great Gym Teacher! God Bless you!
Bill & Nancy Lindsay
January 12, 2015
We feel so fortunate to have had the honor of meeting Tom Fahner - He had such an impact in so many ways on so many lives. Our loss is heaven's gain.
Nancy Martinez
January 12, 2015
We just learned of Mr. Fahners' passing! Mrs. Fahner and family, our prayers and thoughts are with you. Mr. Fahner was a great man, father and outstanding Principle at KHS. His smile was contagious and he demeanor so mild and humble. You have made your mark here on earth... Now you rest in eternal peace!
Bob and Kathy McArdle
January 11, 2015
Great man, husband, father, father-law, grandfather, mentor to the most vulnerable...who could ask for anything more...welcome home..well done good and faithful servant...you are still here with all of us in so many way..."No day shall erase you from the memory of time" VIRGIL...love Bob and Kathy McArdle
Kevin and Lauri Miner
January 11, 2015
Donna and Family: We are saddened with the news of Tom's passing. Though it has been years since we last saw all of you, we remember him as a warm person with a quick smile and as a great dad and husband. You are in our thoughts.
Kathy Martin
January 10, 2015
Donna,
I am so sorry to have missed Tom's services. His impact on countless children will live forever
January 10, 2015
Dear Donna and Family,
I am sorry to have heard this news and to have missed the services for Tom. As the former Principal at Saxtons River Elementary and The Grammar School in Putney, I would cross paths with Tom periodically. I always admired him greatly for his wonderful work for the children of Kurn Hattin and his dedication to his community and church.
My wife and I would like to extend our deepest sympathy, yet celebrate and will always remember his amazing gifts and the legacy he has left behind.
Sincerely, Steve and Nancie Lorenz, Chester, VT.
Kellie Smith
January 10, 2015
Donna my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My parents also send their prayers.
January 10, 2015
Dearest Donna,
I send my love and my deepest condolences. You and your family are in my thoughts. Though I did not have many occasions to talk with Tom, when I did I felt his kindness. Since Tom and I did similar work, we chatted on a few occasions about being teachers and principals. I only needed to be in coversation with Tom for a few minutes to know how completely dedicated he was to his students. He was possessing of tremendous generousity of spirit and no doubt had a deeply positive impact in his work and on those in his personal life. Your friend always, Karen Sullivan (New York, New York)
Greg/Michele Baron
January 10, 2015
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of the Fahner family. While we never had the pleasure of knowing him, we could feel his heartfelt love and compassion to others from his brother Steve when he told us of your loss. May he rest in peace. May God Bless you all.
Bob Kessen
January 9, 2015
Donna, Kelly, Kim and Chris,
I'm so sorry to hear about Tom. We all should live our life the way Tom chose to. He always treated everybody with respect and a great smile.
A great soul.
Rick Spring
January 9, 2015
I fondly remember several years @ MVSP with Tom + Donna. My condolences to Donna and the rest of the family.
Debbie Fajans
January 9, 2015
My heartfelt condolences to Donna and her family. Tom was a remarkable man and he will be missed by many. A consummate educator, he taught me something with every visit to Kurn Hattin. Those of us who knew him were made better for having had him as a colleague and friend. God Bless.
Joe & Diane Spinks
January 9, 2015
Our hearts and prayers go out to Tom's family and friends. I knew Tom in high school and it's obvious he went on to make a huge contribution to his community and made this world a better place.
Lana Rayner
January 8, 2015
Donna, Kim, Kelly, and Chris--we are so thankful that Tom invited us to be a part of your lives for three wonderful summers. He was an amazing man who has meant so very much to so many. Tom and you will always be in our hearts--Lana (Green Mtn. Warriors Moms Club)
January 8, 2015
Thousands have been touched, and will continue to experience his influence on children of New England.
A soul that will never die for sure.
Love you Mr. Fahner.
Scott, Mona, Connor and Chloe
Jim, Doreen, Jenn & Kate Aldrich
January 8, 2015
We are so sorry for your loss. We loved and respected Tom. Who didn't love him who met him? We will miss him dearly. What a loss for Kurn Hattin also; he will be difficult to replace. We will keep your family in our thoughts and prayers.
Kevin/Carolyn Power
January 8, 2015
Donna, Our prayers are with you and your family. Tom was always upbeat, optimistic, and kindhearted. He was an inspiration to be around. God Bless Him
January 8, 2015
Donna,
So sorry to hear of Tom's passing. I so appreciated the opportunity to get to know him. In the short time we knew each other I learned more about compassion and dedication from him, than most other people. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Sandy Ladd
Joan Laplante
January 8, 2015
Mr. Fahner will be missed, he was loved by many; including my granddaughter who was a resident at Kurn Hattin.
Spinks Family
January 8, 2015
Our Deepest Condolances to the entire Fahner Family.
Nancy Christmas
January 8, 2015
Sending you love, hugs, and my deepest sympathy. Tom's compassion and integrity touched so many lives. He was a wonderful man. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Laura (McHale) Gustafson
January 7, 2015
Thoughts and prayers are with the Fahner and Kurn Hattin families.
Nikki Watson
January 7, 2015
I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers and thought are with you and your family. I remember him teaching me about basketball camp at Austine School for the Deaf one summer. He will be missed!
Nikki Watson, RI School for the Deaf 1991
Lacy (Gonzalez) Browne
January 7, 2015
We got to know Tom over many years of friendship through the NFCCE conferences, and we look back fondly on those times. Tom was a family man with a spirit of fun and a zest for life. He always lived to serve children, above all else. Our thoughts and prayers to Donna and the kids.
Sincerely,
The Gonzalez Family
Joe, Ruth, Lacy, Joy
Kathy Martin
January 7, 2015
Donna, I was so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. Please accept my condolences for you and the kids. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.
Randy Macdonald
January 7, 2015
I am so sorry that you all lost such a good man.
VNH
William Isch
January 7, 2015
My Sympathies goes to all of Mr Fahner family. I have known him from Austine School for the deaf he was a wonderful Gym teacher always encourage me to lose weight and exercise more. I will never forget about him may he rest in peace God Bless him.
Missy Fisher
January 7, 2015
As my late father said, the best compliment you could give someone is that you were glad to know him and the world was a better place for him. That was never more true than for Tom. A gracious old soul that treated everyone with respect.
Brian Roegiers
January 7, 2015
I am deeply saddened by the news of Tom's passing. All my love and prayers go out for Donna and the whole family. Our earthly loss is heavens gain. May he rest in peace. God's blessing upon all.
Sharon Simson
January 7, 2015
Donna and family,
Very sorry to hear about the loss of your husband/father. Although I only met him once or twice, I am deeply moved by the many kind words written here and on Facebook. He clearly leaves behind a legacy, as well as family and friends who loved him. May your faith carry you at this difficult time.
Jim and Barbara Spath
January 7, 2015
We had the pleasure of meeting Tom and seeing all his great work when we visited Kurm Hattin with our club the Vettes in Perfection. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
James Alonzo
January 7, 2015
Tom will be missed. He was a good man and a good friend to the Vettes in Perfection Corvette Club who he invited to the Spring fair at Kurn Hattin each year.
January 7, 2015
TOM, a beautiful human being who will long be remembered by all who knew him. Truly he is among the Saints in Heaven now. He is as close to us as our thought of him,
Margarret Barry
Dee Gleason
January 7, 2015
I am deeply sorry to hear this sad news. Tom was a wonderful man.
Gregg Dowty
January 7, 2015
We have lost another great man who dedicated his life to children. Tom stood as a model, not just for the children he served, but also for those of us in the youth care profession. His approach to life and the care the showed for others was a hallmark of his all to brief time with us. Our thoughts and prayers are with Donna, Kelly, Kim, Chris and their families during this difficult time. Be comforted in knowing that Tom's legacy will live on in the lives of the many children in whose lives he made a difference. God Bless.
Gregg and Liz Dowty
Sue Deyo
January 7, 2015
Donna, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Tom. Have such great memories of you and your whole family. My prayers are with you and your family.
Jim And Mil Murgida
January 7, 2015
So, very sorry for your loss. Played softball with Tom in Brattleboro for several years. A great and easy to know friend. We will miss a true gentleman.
Anne Davis
January 7, 2015
May the Fahner family please accept my deepest sympathy Mr Fahner was a great man he will never be forgotten , my prayers is with your family.
Chris Sexton
January 7, 2015
Uncle Tom, my German cold cut buddy, a man who was never without a smile...smile now and forever, pain free my brother, until we next meet, I'll bring the liverwurst and Bauer's mustard...love you man, Cal
Terry Martin
January 7, 2015
My deepest Condolences to the Family, many Friends and Especially, the Kurn Hattin Family. I was Honored to work with one of the Most Dedicated, Caring Educator during the last years of my VSP Career.
Senior Sergeant (Retired)
Vermont State Police
donnalyn matteson
January 6, 2015
I'm sorry for your loss!! He was such an incredible man with such a big heart!!! He was great with my kids. I will keep you all in my prayers!!
Polly Longe
January 6, 2015
I know him of Pe gym teacher I had enjoyed with him and talked to him we will miss him as much we will remember of him R.I.P tom fahner and pray his family as much we will never forget him as our old pe teacher gym ... He was good guy
John Carty
January 6, 2015
Donna, Kelly, Kim & Chris
We were deeply saddened to learn about Tom's death tonight. We have so many great memories of Tom through B-ball / camp and our families getting together. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. He touched so many lives!
John, Fran, Mark and Karen Carty
Bradley and Debbie Hammond
January 6, 2015
To the family of Thomas Fahner, we offer our condolences. He was a great and inspirational P.E teacher at Austine School. He will be sorely missed.
Richard M. Long
January 6, 2015
God bless the Fahner family.
Christine Ragan
January 6, 2015
Our deepest condolences to the Fahner family. Although, I personally have only met Mr. Fahner at the wedding of his wonderful son, Chris, to my (equally wonderful) cousin, Lynsey, I can tell you he was a kind, loving and nurturing man. His spirit definitely lives on through his three children and I'm sure the future generations as well.
May the road rise to meet you,
May the wind be always at your back,
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
The rains fall soft upon your fields and,
Until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of His hand.
With much love and support,
Christine, Dan, JoHanna & Ronan Ragan
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