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Debbie WILES-FETTERMAN Obituary
Of Buffalo, NY March 9, 2023. Beloved wife of Tim Wiles; loving mother of AJ, Mara and Trey Santana; Step-mother of Jacob Wiles, Sammy (Jen) Wiles and Maria (Sean) Bell; Grandmother of Theodore Wiles; daughter of Marge (Over) and the late Bill Fetterman; sister of Kathleen (Paul) Rose, Ken (Melanie) Fetterman and Carole Fetterman; also survived by nieces, nephews and many other relatives and friends. Family will receive relatives and friends at the Wendel & Loecher Inc., Funeral Home 27 Aurora St. Lancaster, NY Sunday from 1-5pm with a mass of Christian Burial being celebrated at St. Thomas Aquinas R.C. Church 450 Abbott Rd. Buffalo Monday morning at 9:30 am (Please assemble at Church). Debbie is the owner of the Swannie House in Buffalo. Share condolences at wendelandloecherinc.com
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for Debbie WILES-FETTERMAN
Ruth Fetterman Filer
May 27, 2023
I will always be grateful that Debbie contacted my father James Fetterman when Uncle Bill was in his last battle with cancer. It was comforting for him.
Aunt Marge, Tim, and children, you are in my prayers.
Mary Rosen
March 15, 2023
I am so sorry to learn 8f Debbie's passing. Her son AJ and my son Max played lacrosse together with Performax and she was always very kind. My deepest sympathies to all.
Brian Britzzalaro
March 15, 2023
So very sorry to hear this. Our condolences and prayers to Tim and family members.
Sarah Chmura
March 13, 2023
Sending my condolences to Debbie's children, her family, her husband, and the Wiles family. I met Debbie while I worked at Swannie house, while attending nursing school. She was a fun lady. I'm sorry for the loss her loved ones are feeling.
Colleen Jakubowski
March 11, 2023
Words of sympathy feel inadequate in expressing grief and sorrow for a loss so great. Sending a warm embrace and all my love during this sad time. Colleen and Chad Jakubowski
Fred Farmer
March 11, 2023
Sending our deepest sympathies to all of you in this difficult time. Sorry we´re unable to attend the services. We are praying for you.
Cristina Manfredo
March 11, 2023
You are all in our prayers and hearts during this difficult time. With deepest condolences and sympathy!
Love and prayers,
Tina Manfredo (Shawn)
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Wendel and Loecher Funeral Home - Lancaster27 Aurora Street, Lancaster, NY 14086
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