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Angela Werksman
May 15, 2008
Greg,
Last year on this day I sent you a birthday card. It felt so good to brighten your day. Even though you are not with us on your special day, I still want to wish you a "Happy Birthday". And don't worry, since everything was a celebration for you, I know your friends and family will be celebrating for you.
Jim Springer, Jr.
May 12, 2008
To the Hoelscher Family,
My heartfelt prayers and condolences go out to you. The past few summers I had a chance to catch up with Greg during a few rounds of golf. Greg was a great man and it was my privilege to spend time with him. He was so very proud of his family and was great example of what a real father and husband should be. I am proud to say he was a friend.
Yours Truly,
Jim Springer, Jr
Neumann ‘79
Sandy Messore
May 6, 2008
Jack
I was sorry to read of your brother's passing - after reading all the messages I can see he was a wonderful, caring individual loved by many.... your memories of him will always keep him in your heart and help you through the difficult days...
know you and your family are in my prayers...
Lin Anglin (Behringer)
May 2, 2008
To the Hoelscher Family, Especially Annette,Jesse and Jude. My heart goes out to all of you with the passing of Greg. I am so thankful I was fortunate to have known and loved such a wonderful person. I remember the days when I use to read the Batman action words to him with sound effects and all. To this day when I see this cartoon I think of Greg as a little boy. We may all not understand why God does the things he does....But I know there has to be a reason. One day we will find the reason and be reunited. My love to all Linda [Lin] Debbie,Chrissy and Jenny's mom...
Gayle Behringer Shockley
April 29, 2008
Jack, Jamie, Trish, & Sue,
I was so saddened by the sudden loss of Greg. My thoughts and prayers go out to you. May God bless you and your families in this time of sorrow.
Tom Roetzer
April 28, 2008
Dear Annette, Jesse, Sue, Trish, Jack, Jamie, Carole, Bert, Myles, Peter and the rest of the Hoelscher family,
I still can't believe this has happened, but I'm comforted by the fact that by his faith and good deeds Greg has been rewarded for a job well done. Our loss is Heaven's gain and we will see him again.
A better man and friend I will never know! Thank you for making me feel like family and God bless you all!
T.J. Giangreco
April 24, 2008
Dear Annette, Jesse, Jude, Jack, Jamie,Trish, Sue and all the Hoelscher Clan:
All of us who knew "J. Gregor" are truly priviledged to have been called his friend. Soon the time will come for each of us to follow his example and be the light & the way for someone in need. Greg literally touched thousands of lives in his lifetime. If we each do just one act of kindness in his memory for family, friends or a stranger his spirit will be there to guide us.
Until we meet again my friend.
Mary Lou (Baker) Jay
April 23, 2008
To Annette and all my Hoelscher cousins:
Although I don't see you often, I want you to know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers today. My memories of Greg are of him surrounded by family and friends at a Fourth of July picnic and at the reunion a few years ago. Family was obviously so important to him, and that will make it hard for all of you in the coming months.
I hope that the support and love that people are sending your way will help in the days to come.
With deepest sympathy,
Irene Colvin
April 23, 2008
Though I only knew Greg for a little while while working at C&B, he was one of the nicest gentlemen, and lawyers I ever had the privilege to meet. He spoke of his family with loving pride and always with a smile on his face. He will be sadly missed.
April 22, 2008
HOOOOOELSCHERRRRRRR!!!!!!!!
I will miss you my Friend.
Kevin & Joyce O'Brien
April 22, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief.
Every summer we looked forward to seeing Greg at the Irish Festival as much as the Dady Brothers. He will be greatly missed. May your memories bring you comfort.
Peace & Prayers
The O'Brien Family
jim
April 22, 2008
My sympathy to the Hoelscher family. A great man, lawyer and human being to remember always.
Nancy (Haun) Garis
April 22, 2008
I am feeling your loss, Annette, as we are stunned by the news of Greg's sudden passing. But I can offer you the faith that upheld me during the time of Mark's brain tumor and ongoing treatments. I know that God knows the beginning from the end and is a faithful helper who wants to walk with us. Philippians 4:19 promises us that "My God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus" and Psalm 37:5 tells us to "Commit your way unto the Lord; trust also in Him. . . " We promise you our ongoing prayers. I am sorry that we are unable to be there for you at the time of the funeral. Hopefully we will see you at a Haun reunion. Love, Aunt Nancy & Uncle Mark
Patty Kuzara
April 22, 2008
To the Hoelscher Family:
I had the pleasure of working with Greg at Cellino & Barnes. It's hard to put into words what a good man he was. He was a good friend to many...supportive and encouraging. He was a loving husband and father. He will be sadly missed. God bless you during this difficult time.
Patricia Green Saeli
April 21, 2008
My heartfelt sympathy to all of Greg's family and friends. The world will be the poorer for his passing.
Annette, Greg & Camille
April 21, 2008
The PERFECT couple
April 21, 2008
Annette & Greg @ my 21st birthday party
April 21, 2008
Annette, Greg & the Starosciaks July 2, 1988
April 21, 2008
Angela Werksman (Goodwill)
April 21, 2008
Annette, Sue, Jack , Jamie and the whole Hoelscher family,
I just came back from vacation and received an email from Sue about Greg. Needless to say I am in complete shock. I was just looking at my wedding album the other day and saw pictures of Annette and Greg. I remember coming to Buffalo for your wedding. It was beautiful ~ yes ~ even when you all put those crazy halloween masks on!
Hoelscher's was my first job while I was still in High School. You all became my family and stood by me through rough times and it saddened me when I left. We had a lot of great memories while I worked there. There was the work memories and the numerous party memories. The Hoelscher picnics, inventory with hangovers, christmas parties when Jack dressed up as Santa and me as his elf. You made everything we did so much fun. I can remember so much like it just happened yesterday. They are memories that will stay with me the rest of my life.
Annette, you were my rock when Joel passed away in November. I don't think I could have got through it if it wasn't for your kind words. Who would have thought you would need someone to be your rock so soon after? It's just not fair!!!
You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Jenny Monroe ( Hoelscher )
April 21, 2008
Dear Uncle Greg,
My heart is broken. You became my "Godfather" at the wee age of 10 and always seemed more like a big brother than an uncle. I will always cherish my childhood memories of summers spent in Buffalo, our trips to Friendly's, baseball games and "bars" ( hey it was the 70's & 80's) 4th of July at N.Forest and the countless times we embarrassed you in public...sorry! I thank you for the years of advice,friendship,and encouragment ...you were always the first to respond to my endless supply of Jaxon and Ruby photos. I will miss you more than words can say. Please give Grandpa and Grandma a big hug from me and I'll picture myself right in the middle. I love you Uncle Godfather!!! - your niece and Goddaughter Jenny
Mark, Julie, Carrie, Alison & Mike Hadley
April 21, 2008
To the Hoeschler family –
We are heartsick over your loss. We first got to know Greg when he coached the ICS Bulldogs a few years ago. Mike was a fifth grader, and the youngest boy on the team, but I remember him sitting like a statue on the bench (quite a feat, even today), listening intently to everything “Coach” Greg said. The younger kids understood that they would only be allowed to play under certain circumstances, but when Mike finally got the chance to swing that bat over his shoulder, and get into his stance, he looked less like a little boy and more like a young man.
May the thoughts and prayers of your family sustain you, and may God continue to hold you in the palm of his hand.
The Hadley family
Pauline Bogacz
April 21, 2008
I worked with Greg during his time at B&T, what a gentleman and such an intelligent and fair lawyer. This sudden loss is difficult to understand. Your talent and kindness will be used in a better place, but why not here? My deepest sympathy to your family.
Pauline
Buffalo, NY
The Nemec Family
April 21, 2008
Annette, Jesse & Jude, and all of your family: Please accept our deepest expression of sympathy and condolences during this very sad and difficult time. Your neighbors are here for you, and always will be. Our community has lost a gentleman, and will hold Greg's memory close at heart.
Jodie-Kay Nelson
April 21, 2008
Dear Jesse,
What a great example your Dad always was for you. I remember the many stories you shared in class. Recently I showed your PP and pointed out how it gives honor to your Dad and Mom who you love and admire. Jesse you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this time.
With much love and many prayers,
Mrs. Nelson ICS
Chrissy Mueller (Hoelscher)
April 21, 2008
Uncle Greg,
I just wanted to Thank You for the endless piggyback rides aroung N.Forest and the trips to The Pop Shoppe on the 4th of Julys, you were the best Uncle ever!! Being 3000 miles away does not help mask the pain of losing you so suddenly!!
I love and miss you all!!!
April 21, 2008
Daniel Archilla
April 21, 2008
A better man and lawyer I have never met. Always free with a smile and a kind word. Wise well beyond his years. The loss to the Buffalo legal community is immesureable. The loss of a man I am proud to call friend - heart breaking. To his family and friends, I send the most profound sympathy but know that he is in a better place if all too soon. Goodbye my friend.
John Lucero
April 21, 2008
Annette,
I knew Greg from my days in Dillon Hall, at Notre Dame. He was a wonderful person in every way. I was very saddened to hear of your loss. He will be in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless.
Betsy Cook
April 21, 2008
Annette, Jesse and Jude,
My heart aches for you. I am out of town, but think of you constantly throughout the day. I ask God to take all my strength and peace for the day and give to you. Annette, I 've been where you are at and I feel your pain and heart ache. I will
call you when I get back. Love and prayers,
Betsy Keller (Cook)-
Lisa Richter
April 21, 2008
I am truly sorry for your families loss and for the loss the community and legal field will feel. I only knew Greg for a short time while working at C&B, but he was the nicest attorney there. So upstanding and kind to everyone. He will be truly, truly missed, but take pride in knowing what an amazing man he was in every way. My deepest sympathy to you all during this difficult time.
Maureen Bia
April 21, 2008
Dear Annette,
I can still remember Greg sharing with me how he had found the one, you Annette, his true love. So I struggle with trying to understand why God would allow this to happen, it seems all wrong. May you know that I cry with you over your loss and that I pray for God's strength and comfort for you and your boys, as you go through your days.
Nora (Murphy)Mihalik
April 21, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you, Annette and your sons. I would also like to extend my deepest sympathies to Tricia and the entire Hoelscher family.
April 21, 2008
Our hearts go out to all the wonderful people who are the extended Hoelscher family. We've lost a good friend, and we'll all miss Greg. From the Townsell and Shannon families.
Dale Frankosky
April 21, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss...and although I didn't know Greg well, I felt the love and kindness he displayed to his family and friends. My prayers are with you, especially for my friends Sharon and Jamie.
May our dear Lord will grant you peace and comfort in your days to come. God Bless, Dale
Joe Dady
April 21, 2008
I just found our about Greg's passing.
It's a shock to me. Greg has supported the Dady Brother's music for many years when we performed in Buffalo. Many a fun night was spent with Greg and Annette and the Sweeneys together at the different Shannon Pubs through the years. Annette and their children are in the prayers of the Dady Brothers. And we will dedicate some of his favorite songs to him at our next show.
Nancy Brothman
April 21, 2008
I was shocked and saddened to hear of Greg's passing. We worked together years ago at C&B and he was always such a pillar of strength and wisdom. My heart goes out to you Annette and your family and I have no doubt that you and the boys will be well taken care of. Greg will be so missed in the legal community. He had the courage to stand on his own and move forward in his own practice standing on his principles. May God Bless.
Tammy
April 21, 2008
I don't even know where to begin.
I was welcomed into this family 12 years ago, I remember so vividly the hug and the smile you gave me. You made me feel so welcome.
Greg, you were the rock of the Hoelsher family. Everyone looked up to you. So strong and vibrant. It doesn't seem fair that you were taken away from us. We will always wonder why. There has to be some reason. I suppose GOD has a bigger plan for you. Selfishly we are all here wondering what that plan is. Why did he have to take someone as strong as you. Maybe in time we will know the reason, but in our hearts, it just doesn't seem fair.
We are all broken hearted, but we will always have fond memories of you. My favorite memory is you singing "An Irish Lullaby" at the Irish Center. Everytime I hear that song, I will think of you with both joy and sadness.
You have 2 beautiful boys that will carry on your strength. We will always see you in their eyes. I know you will watch over Annette and keep her stong. Give her the strength to get through.
You are so loved, and will never be forgotten.
With love and sadness
Over in Killarney,
Many years ago,
Me mither sang a song to me
In tones so sweet and low.
Just a simple little ditty,
In her good ould Irish way,
And I'd give the world if she could sing
That song to me this day.
Too-ra-loo-ra-loo-ral,
Too-ra-loo-ra-li,
Too-ra-loo-ra-loo-ral,
Hush, now don't you cry!
Too-ra-loo-ra-loo-ral,
Too-ra-loo-ra-li,
Too-ra-loo-ra-loo-ral,
That's an Irish lullaby.
Oft, in dreams I wander
To that cot again,
I feel her arms a huggin' me
As when she held me then.
And I hear her voice a humin'
To me as in days or yore,
When she used to rock me fast asleep
Outside the cabin door.
Too-ra-loo-ra-loo-ral,
Too-ra-loo-ra-li,
Too-ra-loo-ra-loo-ral,
Hush, now don't you cry!
Too-ra-loo-ra-loo-ral,
Too-ra-loo-ra-li,
Too-ra-loo-ra-loo-ral,
That's an Irish lullaby.
Meg Saeli Getty
April 20, 2008
Absolutely heartbroken at the loss of my wonderful cousin, fellow childhood explorer, and classmate through the years. Greg was truly a shining light and a bringer of joy to all who knew him. I will always hold dear the times we had together exploring the fields behind the North Forest house, or the shores of Ellicott Creek near Glen Park, and of course our years together at St. Greg's and Neumann. I was always so proud to call Greg my cousin. A true prince of a man. The world is a better place because of him.
Annette, my heart goes out to you and the boys, and you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Christopher Schiller
April 20, 2008
You know Greg, the last time we saw you was over this past summer, up at the beach in Canada. We smiled, laughed, played and enjoyed each others company. I'm so fortunate to have those memories of you. I'll never forget the hugs and kisses you greeted me and my family every single time we saw you. Your words were kind, sincere, intelligent and funny. Whether it was a discussion of politics or on the receiving end of a toast of Guinness. Yes, Greg, we loved your sense of humor and childlike goofiness, but damn, we'll miss you. You were always motivated, enthusiastic and concerned and you were stronger than all of us. God speed my friend.
The Schiller family
Christopher, Karen, Davis, Aidan and Isabel
Sharon Szeglowski
April 20, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with your entire family. Sue is a dear friend of ours. May the strength of your family and the love of friends carry you through this difficult time.
The Szeglowski Family:
Sharon, Scott, Ian and Owen
Nancy Gerovac
April 20, 2008
Totally shocked and deeply saddened. The world has lost a wonderful man. Wish I could be there to give you all a big hug. Your in my prayers. With Love, Patty's sister Nancy
Greg and his immediate family at the Hoelscher Family reunion summer 2006
April 20, 2008
Greg with his cousins Peter and Brian at the Hoelscher Family Reunion summer 2006
April 20, 2008
Greg with cousin Trish and husband Steve Kepner at Hoelscher Family reunion, Summer 2006
April 20, 2008
Kelly and Cindy Marion
April 20, 2008
Greg was a peacemaker who brought the family together and made all feel welcome. He truly was a person who died too young, and he will be sorely missed. Our hearts are heavy with sorrow and our thoughts are with Annette and the boys.
Ned & Debbie O'Brien
April 20, 2008
Annette,Jesse & Jude,
Please accept our heart felt sympathy for your loss. I heard about it from Shannon as I was leaving to go see Brian In Arizona. I won't be able to be there but know well that we feel your loss.
Ned & Debbie
Jane Marion
April 20, 2008
You gave us the gift of hope for this earth, Greg, and just because you left early doesn't change that. You made everyone's lives better, and I know we'll all try to let your actions guide us.
But, oh how we'll miss you.
Love to you, Greg, and your beloved wife and sons, and to the whole Hoelscher family.
Aunt Jane
Katie Roblee
April 20, 2008
Our prayers are that God gives you strength and peace at this most difficult time, try to remember all of the wonderful moments you've shared with this most wonderful man. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
The Gary Roblee Family
Brian Madden
April 20, 2008
Greg, What can one say...I walk with a very heavy heart and at a loss for words. The memories of us as children during the summer vacation and picnics at your house on North Forest are wonderful, more recently the Hoelscher Family reunions. I am very proud to call you a Cousin, a relative, and a friend. You became and are a very fine man and example to others. You will be missed and are loved by all. May God hold you in the palm of his hands and bless you and your family always. I love you Greg and hope to join you with our families and friends in the presence of God.
Love Always,
Brian
Susan, Bert, Myles and Clare Sweeney
April 20, 2008
Dearest Greg,
We were so very blessed to have you as our brother, uncle, godsponsor and true and loving friend. Our hearts are broken.
God speed, little brother, until we meet again.
ROBERT HAUN
April 20, 2008
GREG,
I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT TO SAY, BUT REST ASSURED- ANNETTE, JESSE AND JUDE WILL ALWAYS BE WELL TAKEN CARE OF. YOU WERE A ROCK.
HONE
P.S. THANX FOR THE MILLION FAVORS.
Sandra Lockwood
April 20, 2008
My heartfelt sympathy and prayers are extended to your family. I am a friend and employee of Trish's. My prayers are for strength and courage for all. Fondly sent Sandra Lockwood
Peggy Marion
April 20, 2008
Bravo for a life well lived and thank you for the transcendent example you set for all whose lives you touched.
Love to the Hoelscher family.
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