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Jeanette HELMS Obituary

HELMS - Jeanette A.
(nee Grisanti)
Age 65, of Clarence, entered into rest suddenly January 19, 2021, the innocent victim of an automobile accident. Beloved wife of 42 years to David J. Helms; devoted mother of James J. (Corinne) Helms; adored grandmother of Benjamin and Samuel Helms; loving daughter of the late Joseph and Yolanda Grisanti; dear sister of Marie Sullivan, Michael (Darby) Grisanti and the late Joseph Grisanti Jr. Jeanette worked for the Erie County Courts for over 28 years, retiring as Deputy Chief Clerk of the Surrogate Court. In 2007, she was honored with the Superior Work Performance Award by the NYS Court System. Jeanette loved her "Grandma Fridays" with Ben and Sam who fondly called her "Golf Ball Grandma" because of all the golf balls she gave them. She was an avid golfer and enjoyed Pickleball. She will be always remembered for her constant and beautiful smile and her zest for life. Friends and relatives may visit the LOMBARDO FUNERAL HOME (Northtowns Chapel), 885 Niagara Falls Blvd., near Sheridan/Eggert Dr. on Tuesday, from 3-7 PM. A Funeral Service will follow immediately at 7 PM. PURSUANT TO NYS COVID-19 RESTRICTIONS, OCCUPANCY GUIDELINES WILL BE FOLLOWED. PLEASE WEAR A FACE COVERING. Please share online condolences at www.lombardofuneralhome.com

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Published by Buffalo News on Jan. 24, 2021.

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ETHEL FAROLINO

January 18, 2025

It has been four years. Seems like yesterday. We all Miss you so much. You were such a beautiful lady. Hope your happy up in heaven with your mom dad brother. Love you mom

Polly

January 18, 2025

Still think of Jeanette often and praying you are all finding some peace

ETHEL FAROLINO

January 18, 2023

Two years it seems like yesterday. We ALL miss you so much.our lives will never be the same with out you. MISS and love you so much.Rip love mom

Ethel Farolino

January 18, 2022

WE ALL MISS YOU MORETHAN WORDS CAN EVER SAY.OUR LIVES WILL NEVER BE THE SAME.R.I.P.

Mary Jo Cirincione Becker

March 31, 2021

I am so very sorry to find out about Jeanette. I am originally from Jamestown NY and have lived in Charlotte NC for 45 years, so unfortunately lost contact with Jeanette. She was my cousin and was in my wedding. My memories of her are her beautiful smile and the best, non judgmental friend a girl could ask for. A true angel on earth. May God bless all of you. You are in my prayers.

Kenneth E Mesler Jr

March 28, 2021

David Jim and family. I pray for all off your Family. I am So Shocked An I still can not believe It What Tragic loss. Jeanette will never be forgotten she loved every one. I know I will miss her.

Chas Daving

March 5, 2021

Dear Dave,
We were so very sorry to hear today of your terrible misfortune. We spoke today on Waterlefe as we were checking out the building progress of our son’s new home. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Chas and Judy Daving

Louise Gilano

February 10, 2021

I was very shocked and sad when I heard of Jeanette´s death. Ethel lived at Belltower for many years and I fondly remember the whole family and jimmy as a young boy my prayers go out to the whole family.

Joan Fisher

February 1, 2021

So sorry to hear of Jeanette's passing. I will miss her and think of her every time I play pickleball. I think of how bubbly and kind she was. She will be missed.

Carolyn Mazzara

January 27, 2021

David and Jim My sincerest condolences on your tragic loss. I pray for you and your families. God be with you through this most difficult time. May your memories help you.

Glenn and Bonnie Lefko

January 26, 2021

To David, Jimmy, Marie, and Michael my heart ached to hear the news of the sudden of the loss of Jeanette. Words fail to express my sorrow: but one thing is certain she'll never be forgotten. May everyone find peace and be thankful for all the memories of the way Jeanette touched so many hearts.

Diane Lefko/Stephens

January 26, 2021

My deepest sympathy David, Jimmy, Marie, Michael, Aunt Ethel, family & friends of my cousin Jeanette. I have so many memories of us growing up. I still talk about how my cousins married each other! May God help you through this heartbreaking time. I believe Jeanette is now with the rest of our family that has passed & that we will all be together again. Praying for us all.
Love, Diane Lefko/Stephens

Daniel and Debra Helms

January 25, 2021

David, Jimmy, Corinne, Ben, Sam, Marie and Michael,

We are shaken by the passing of Jeanette and can only imagine the grief you feel.

The sadness will never be gone but we pray your memories of her love will comfort you all.

Love,
Dan and Debbie

Larry and Karen Gray

January 25, 2021

David, Jim and family,

Sorry to hear of your loss. Hope time heals all.

Love your cousins Larry and Karen Gray

Terry Agro

January 25, 2021

To the Helms/Grisanti family: I was so sorry to hear about my dear friend. She was a very special lady. We saw each other a few years ago at a McMahon reunion. We were friends I. Our freshman year at Mt St Joe´s and we both transferred to Bishop McMahon. We were Bishop Fallon cheerleaders and valued our friendship through the years. I remember going to the house on Richmond and the Potomac Superette. My heart goes out to the whole family - it´s sudden incidents like this that encourage
us to reflect and be thankful for every day we open our eyes. May God bless.

Polly

January 25, 2021

David, Jim and family
I was so very saddened to hear of this horrible loss. I worked with Jeannette for many years and we shared a lot of fun times together traveling and training. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. She will be sadly missed

Rosemary & Dan Marohn

January 25, 2021

Jim, Corinne, Ben & Sam,
So sorry to hear of your beautiful mother and grandmother´s tragic
passing. With tender loving prayer.

Iyanna Morris

January 24, 2021

I´m so sorry for your loss. I understand how tragic this may be for your family.
My thoughts are with you..

Joyce Creek

January 24, 2021

David, Jimmy & family, I am so deeply sorry for your loss, my words cannot express how I feel for you right now!

Ethel Farolino

January 24, 2021

love you so much,you were the best daughter in law and friend.our family will never be the same. you were the best, my heart is broken and will never mend, i know your in heaven withyour mom and dad and brother.rest in peace till we meet again. love mom

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