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Mary Sanfilippo Obituary

SANFILIPPO - Mary P. (Burns) September 16, 2008. Cherished mother of Jennifer and Shane Sanfilippo; beloved daughter of William and Kathleen Burns; dearest companion of Peter Sydow; loving sister of John (Kathy), Joseph, James, Kevin (Pamela), William (Wendy) Burns, Anne (Robert) Desidero, and Kathleen (Louis) Bordas; also survived by several nieces and nephews. The family will be present at the HARRY A. WEDEKINDT FUNERAL HOME, 280 Grover Cleveland Hwy at N. Bailey, Thursday 6:00-8:00 PM and Friday 4:00-8:00 PM, where funeral services will be held Saturday at 8:45 AM followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at Blessed Sacrament Church, 263 Claremont Ave., Town of Tonawanda, at 9:30. Friends invited. Flowers gratefully declined. Memorial contributions may be made to Hospice Foundation or Roswell Alliance. Arrangements by John E. Roberts Funeral Home.

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Published by Buffalo News from Sep. 17 to Sep. 18, 2008.

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Christina H Wojtena

September 12, 2022

My beautiful friend. I just wanted you to know that I am watching over Jen, like you asked me to. She has two beautiful girls now, Mariella and Emalyn, and I know you would love them. Jen and I have remained close and she has struggled mightily from losing you. But she is a fighter...just as you were. And I think you would be really proud of her. And I am grateful that you always encouraged our relationship.

I wish you were still here for both of us. And I always miss you, too. But I see you in Jen's sense of humor and her laughter. And Emmy is probably gonna look just like you. So I am reminded of you often.

I hope Heaven is treating you well. Can't wait to hug you and hear one of your jokes when I finally get there. Say hi to my mom for me. And don't you two going skiing without me.

Rest well, beautiful girl. I love you.

Christi

Bonnie (Schlee) Ranallo

October 6, 2008

Annie and family,
Please know how sorry I was as I learned of the loss of your sister, Mary. Annie, I loved re-connecting with you @ our HS reunion. Please know that I will pray for you and continue to ask God to bring all of you comfort and peace.
"Hear my cry, O God; attend to my prayer. From the end of the earth I will cry to You. When my heart is overwhelmed, lead me to the rock that is higher than I." (Psalm 61:1-2)

tammy kelly

September 29, 2008

mary,
I will miss that crazness about you,god will take care of you mary.i will think of you every halloween.you silly girl.love Tammy

Lisa LeVea

September 24, 2008

To such wonderful parents to raise a daughter so sweet.....
To two beautiful children one would have the pleasure to meet...
To a man who loved her and stuck by her like glue...
I raise my glass and say a prayer....
Especially to my friend Mary I'm proud to say I knew.
Love,
Lisa

Vincent Sanfilippo

September 20, 2008

Uncle Bob Jenny and Shane I am so sorry. You guys are in my thoughts

Yvonne and PJ Miller

September 20, 2008

Jen and Shane,
So sorry for your loss, may the happy memories fill the emptiness you feel in your hearts today.
Respectfully

Lynn and Vince Sanfilippo

September 19, 2008

Jen and Shane
Our thoughts and our prayers are with you both at this most difficult time. Know that there will be no more suffering for your mom and she will always be by your sides.
She was extremely proud of you both.
Also know that if you need anything we will always and forever be here for you.
We are sorry that we are unable to be with you now but we will be thinking and praying for you both.
With much love and heartfelt sympathy..
Aunt Lynn and Uncle Vince

Brian Bingeman

September 19, 2008

I am sorry to hear for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Lisa and Steven Massaro

September 19, 2008

Dear Burns Family, we are so sorry to hear of Mary's passing. May all of your wonderful memories of love and laughter take you through these difficult days.. May her memory be eternal....

Jamie Cook

September 19, 2008

John and the Burns family,
Though its been alot of years that our paths have crossed, you have always been in our thoughts. It sadden's me to hear of the passing of your sister Mary. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time. God Speed!
The Cook family...

Douglas Jones

September 19, 2008

My condolence for your loss.

maria mckinney

September 18, 2008

Anne and Family. Im so sorry to hear about the loss of your sister. God Bless you and your family! Maria(Lanzalaco) Mckinney and Family .

lorraine Sloan Papierski

September 18, 2008

So very sorry for your loss, keeping you all in thought and prayer during this sad time.

Mark and Kim Valenti/Ree Byrne

September 18, 2008

Dear John, Kathy and Burns Family, we are so very sorry to hear of Mary's passing. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Bob & Sharon Teagarden

September 18, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are withyou. We knew Mary through Pete. What an exceptional person she was. May she rest in peace.

Josie Krug

September 18, 2008

My deepest sympathy I also worked with Mary at Dr. Niswanders and it was always a pleasure knowing I was going to work with such a pleasant,smiling and kind hearted person God Bless

Timothy Pike

September 18, 2008

I would like to offer my condolences on behalf of The Springville Country Club its members and staff on the passing of your loved one. May she be at peace

Bonnie Frank-Montemage

September 18, 2008

To the entire Burns Family and most of all her 2 chilldren.
my sumpathy goes out to all of you.I grew up with Mary and she was always so full of life.her smile good get you through any bad day.
She will be missed.

Scott and Cathy Knight

September 18, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Mary was a wonderful person and we enjoyed being her friend thoughout the years. We will miss her! May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Kim Roehner

September 18, 2008

My deepest sympathies to the entire Burns family. I share the grief of the loss of your loved one. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Kim (Butler)

Karen Warsecke

September 18, 2008

Enjoyed knowing Mary and having her as a guest at our home in northern Michigan. Our prayers are with her and the family.
Joe and Karen Warsecke

Kurt Dicks

September 18, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. .

Ann Riger

September 18, 2008

I grew up with Mary at Blessed Sacrament Elementary School and know what a beatiful person she is. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire family.
Ann (Mytnik)

Kelly Christie

September 17, 2008

Dear Anne & Family,
My deepest sympathy for the loss of your dear sister. My heart goes out to you and your family at this most difficult time. Your in my thoughts and prayers. I'm here for you if you need anything ! You and your sister have the same smile, keep smiling and know that she will always be a part of you and is with you always!!!Love ya.

Christina Shivens

September 17, 2008

Mary you will be deeply missed by all. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family.

Gail Wienk

September 17, 2008

I met Mary threw my sister-in-law Selinda Oddi and Lynn Payne who were both taken at a very early age. I know they will be all reunited in Heaven. The girls were all so happy together here and will be even happier to live in eternal peace together.

Sara Buscaglia & the Buscaglia family

September 17, 2008

God Bless, all of our love.

Joe, John and Allan Hollingsworth

September 17, 2008

The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. We share your grief.

Nancy Palmer

September 17, 2008

Kevin, Pam and the entire Burns family,
My thoughts and prayers have been with you and Mary for some time. May God give you the strength you need in the days and weeks to come. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you.
God Speed

laurie shaw

September 17, 2008

My sincerest sympathy to all of Mary's family & friends. I belive she fought a very brave battle, may she now rest in peace.

Jennie Silverman

September 17, 2008

Dearest Mary,

You are in God's calming arms, now. Your suffering, that saved many souls, is over.

I remember, at Kevin's 40th birthday party, he said that you were his hero. You were many persons hero.

Death does not seperate us. It is just a stronger way of loving. You are always with your loved ones.

We will be there, for your mass, on Saturday, praying, rejoicing and celebrating your life and all the lives you've touched, so eliquently....

Rest peacefully, beautiful

God Speed,

Love,

The Silverman Family

Dawn,Carl and Eric Wolfram

September 17, 2008

Kevin, Pam and the entire Burns family,
There is a line out of "Steel Magnolias" that sums up how I feel, I hope it helps you too..."I find comfort knowing that Mary is in heaven with our Lord where she will always be young and she will always be beautiful...And you will have a Guardian Angel watching over you!" If there is an Angel-in-Charge of Smiles, it will be Mary! Our deepest sympathies.

James Michalski

September 17, 2008

Our thoughts & prayers go with you Mary, Godspeed my friend.
Jim & Molly

Debbie and Marcus Vizine

September 17, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Burns/Sanfilippo family at this difficult time. Met Mary through out friendship with Kevin and Pam - she was a beautiful person, may she now rest in peace.

Christi Condon

September 17, 2008

To the Burns family and to Jenny and Shane - I don't have words to say how much Mary has meant to me in the many years I've known her or how sorry I am for your grief and your loss. She is gone from all of us, and especially from all of you, far too soon. But I'll never forget the gifts she so freely gave of herself in her smile, her laughter, and her love. Nor will I ever forget her kind and beautiful heart or her bountiful spirit. She was a great friend, a loving mother, a beautiful daughter, sister and aunt, and a funny, sweet, amazing person. I feel incredibly lucky to have met her, to have known her, to have spent time with her, to have loved her, and to have so many memories of her. She will always be in my heart and never forgotten.

May God bless and keep all of you today and in the days ahead. May He comfort you in your time of sadness. And may He keep Mary close to Him until we see her again.

Amy Cole

September 17, 2008

Fond memories of Mary growing up. My deepest sympathy to the family!
Amy (Panten) Cole
Huntington Beach, CA

Kelly Buchanan

September 17, 2008

John,

I am so sorry for the loss of your sister Mary. God bless.

Barb Jaskowski

September 17, 2008

Mary will be missed,she always made me laugh. Nurses just get it!

Mike and Angel

September 17, 2008

We will greatly miss you Mary. We already have. Our prayers and thoughts have always been with you and will remain with you.

Darryl & Melissa Cushman

September 17, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time.

Rita Lynch

September 17, 2008

My condolences to the Burns family, which by the way is a great family. Mary was my friend, sister-n-law and someone as I was growing up looked up to. Mary and I had a lot of good times and laughs. She was and is a beutiful person and God just got a special angel.

Cathy Keller

September 17, 2008

Kevin and Pam,
I am sorry for your loss. Rich has talked alot about Mary and how great she was. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Wendy Potter ( Redlich )

September 17, 2008

I was so sorry to hear about Mary. She was such a beautiful person. I remember Mary always having a smile on her face. She was always so sweet. I haven't seen her in years, but I'm sure she was as nice and sweet as always. Please accept my condolences. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Chris & Peter

September 17, 2008

John, Kathy and family,
Expressing sympathy is always difficult, but all we can say is how sorry we are. Wishing you God's peace. You're in our thoughts and prayers.

Gina Leonhard

September 17, 2008

In memory of Mary. I have nothing but happy thoughts and memories of our youth and then some. She will be always missed by all.

Cathy & Keith Normandin

September 17, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time. I have so many good memories of Mary growing up on Edgewood. I will always remember her with her beautiful smile.

Joe and Kathy Bulger

September 17, 2008

Our hearts are with your family during this difficult time. May God bring peace to your hearts.

Mark Varble

September 17, 2008

Jennifer and Shane, I'm so sorry for your loss. Please feel the comfort of family and friends in your time of mourning. My thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family.

Dorie loschiavo

September 17, 2008

We are so sorry for your loss. Mary was an awesome person and will surely be missed by all.

The Loschiavo's

Diane, Mike, Vinny, Nick and Dominic Sagliani

September 17, 2008

Anne, Bob, Jenna, Robert and Thomas - - our hearts go out to you and your entire family at this difficult time, know that our thoughts and prayers are with you always and we are here if you need anything. With deepest sympathy,

Roberta Hollingsworth

September 17, 2008

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Pat and Bob Hollingsworth

September 17, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

kurt & kim

September 17, 2008

our thoughts are with you

Doug and Karen Palmer

September 17, 2008

Kevin, Pam and entire Burns family -

We are sorry for your loss. Mary was a lovely woman. We know what a close family you are and how painful it must be to lose her. We must all try and take comfort that she is out of her pain and in a much better place now. You will all be in our thoughts and prayers. Anything we can do for any of you, please let us know.

Nancy Wesolowski

September 17, 2008

I didn't know Mary very well, but got to enjoy her company a few times thru one of her best friends. She always had a smile on her face and thats how I will always remember her. My heart goes out to all of her family and friends. I do believe she is in a better place now and out of pain and we'll all see her again some day. Again, my deepest sympathy to all of you.

Judith Whitehead

September 17, 2008

I am so sorry to hear about Marys' passing away, its such a tragedy. I worked with Mary at Dr. Niswanders office several years ago and will always remember her kind manor and smiling face; please accept my sympathies

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