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Patricia A. "Pam" Mendez

1953 - 2025

Patricia A. "Pam" Mendez obituary, 1953-2025, Orchard Park, NY

BORN

1953

DIED

2025

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Patricia Mendez Obituary

Mendez,

Patricia "Pam" A.

(nee MacVicar)

Jun 3, 1953 - Oct 10, 2025

Of Lackawanna, entered into rest on October 10, 2025 surrounded by family. Beloved wife of Tom Mendez; devoted mother of Chris Mendez (Alison Clancy) and Alex (Ali) Mendez; loving daughter of the late Thomas and Patricia MacVicar; dear sister of Diane (Maurice) Wise, Maureen (Al) Latini, Jean E. (David) Concialdi and the late Bonnie MacVicar; also survived by nieces and nephews, cousins, and beloved friends. Relatives and friends may visit the LOMBARDO FUNERAL HOME (Southtowns Chapel), 3060 Abbott Rd. near Lake Ave. on Friday (October 17) from 3-8 PM. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at Our Lady of Victory Basilica, 767 Ridge Rd., Lackawanna on Saturday morning at 10:30 o'clock. Please assemble at Church. Online condolences may be offered at www.lombardofuneralhome.com


Published by Buffalo News on Oct. 14, 2025.

Memorial Events
for Patricia Mendez

Oct

17

Visitation

3:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

LOMBARDO FUNERAL HOME (Southtowns Chapel)

3060 Abbott Road, Orchard Park, NY 14127

Oct

18

Service

10:30 a.m.

Our Lady of Victory Basilica

767 Ridge Road, Lackawanna, NY 14218

Funeral services provided by:

Lombardo Funeral Home - Orchard Park Chapel (Southtowns)

3060 Abbott Rd, Orchard Park, NY 14127

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4 Entries

Carole & Ed Swannie

October 15, 2025

Our sincere condolences to Pam´s family & all the friends who knew her through her life. Our friendship began in school & will be remembered in our hearts as a very kind person.
There is a love that transcends all other love. The perfect love of God. Till we meet again. RIP Pam

Sharon Voigt

October 15, 2025

Tom, Chris, and Alex, I am so very sorry for the loss of Pam. She was a wonderful lady. I will keep her and you in my prayers.
God Bless. Sharon Voigt

DM

October 14, 2025

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Bill Burke

October 14, 2025

To MacVicar & Mendez Families
I am very sorry for your loss. Please accept my condolences.
Bill Burke

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