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Richard METCALF Obituary

METCALF - Richard A., Jr. Of Lancaster, NY, November 30, 2012, loving son of Richard and Jane (Buchbinder); brother of Jeff (Rachel); uncle of Jude Metcalf; grandson of Dolores (late John) Buchbinder and the late Robert and late Elsie Metcalf; nephew of Paul Metcalf, Ellen (Paul) Kieta, Ann (Andy) Tarasik and Sue (Bernie) Jablonski; also survived by many cousins; dear friend of Jamie and Jake. Family will receive relatives and friends at the WENDEL AND LOECHER FUNERAL HOME, INC., 27 Aurora St., Lancaster, Monday from 4-8 PM with a Mass of Christian Burial being celebrated at St. Mary's RC Church, Lancaster, Tuesday morning at 9:30. Please assemble at Church. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Upstate NY Transplant Services, 110 Broadway, Buffalo, NY 14203.
Published by Buffalo News on Dec. 2, 2012.

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Julie Mc Carthy Weaver

March 26, 2025

Rich...your smile will always comfort my heart, when needed. After 12 years, the legal system finally acknowledged your wrongful death. God bless your Dad for never giving up. You will be forever remembered by us as a great guy, gone way too soon, in a most wrongful way. Your smile will always remind me that there are good people in this world, despite the ugliness. Will forever miss you.

lisa nicometi

December 10, 2012

SO Very sorry for your loss.

Diane Knowlton

December 9, 2012

As a friend of Jamie I had the privilege of meeting Rich at family gatherings. He was friendly, easy to talk to and had a great grin. My heart goes out to his family and to Jamie.

Brian and Nikko Bean

December 9, 2012

SOOOO sorry for your Loss...My Prayers to you and your Family

POPS

December 9, 2012

There is no greater bond than that of a parent and their child, thus no greater loss if the child leaves before the parent. You were my first son, my namesake, and in many ways my twin. I will carry you with me forever, but will not be whole again until we're united. I love you kiddo.

Brandon & Jessica Becker

December 8, 2012

We extend our deepest sympathy to the Metcalf family during this difficult time. We pray that you will find comfort in the wonderful memories you have of Rich.

December 7, 2012

Rich & Jane,
So sorry to hear about the loss of your son. Our deepest sympathy. you and your family are in our thoughts & prayers.
Sincerely,
Leon & Angel McBride

Jason & Stephanie Berghold

December 4, 2012

We wish you all peace in your time of need.

cheryl skinner

December 3, 2012

my thoughts & prayers are with you -

McCarthy & Weaver Family

December 3, 2012

You are all in our thoughts and prayers as you walk through this most difficult time in life. Rich's passing is much too early...we are still in shock and can't even imagine what you are all going through...his smile will always be a vision we will fondly recall.

nicki george

December 3, 2012

My thoughts and prayers go out to the metcalf family and friends. Rich was a great person . Taken way too soon. RIP buddy...

December 3, 2012

Whatever the reason may be, know that Rich is with our creator now. Free from any pain he may have been dealing with. Rest in peace Rich. See you when I get there.

Serena from the class of 97'

Cindy Nowak

December 3, 2012

My heart goes out to you and your family in this most difficult time. May God Bless you. My prayers go out to you and your family.

brian olejniczak

December 2, 2012

so soory for your loss rich, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

debbie mills

December 2, 2012

very sad to hear of little Rich's passing. my deepest sympathy

kim pettit (faso)

December 2, 2012

My heart is heavy today as I mourn the loss of a dear friend who was taking way too soon. I remember the day your mom and dad left for the hospital to have you. I remember babysitting you and those little blonde curls. I remember my trip when you lived in Massachusetts I was so excited to see you. You always had such a big smile on your face. You never had it easy from the time you were born you were a fighter. RIP kiddo you will be sorely missed. Keep on smiling.

Jeff Metcalf

December 2, 2012

We shared lots of years,
and had a whole lot of fun.
But God has called you
home to his son.

I just can't believe
it has ended this way-
there were so many things
I had wanted to say.

It's too late for that now,
it will just have to wait,
until the day that I see you
at the heavenly gate.

May your soul rest well,
my beloved brother,
but the day is not over,
because we shall share another.

Your tragic death
has left a big hole;
but I'll try not to fret;
your now a free soul.

So when times are great,
and happy as such,
I'll think of you, my brother,
I'll miss you so much.

So goodbye for now, my brother.
I have not one regret.
You were a part of my life
that I'll never forget.

Love You Bro

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