Lancaster, New York
METCALF - Richard A., Jr. Of Lancaster, NY, November 30, 2012, loving son of Richard and Jane (Buchbinder); brother of Jeff (Rachel); uncle of Jude Metcalf; grandson of Dolores (late John) Buchbinder and the late Robert and late Elsie Metcalf; nephew of Paul Metcalf, Ellen (Paul) Kieta, Ann (Andy) Tarasik and Sue (Bernie) Jablonski; also survived by many cousins; dear friend of Jamie and Jake. Family will receive relatives and friends at the WENDEL AND LOECHER FUNERAL HOME, INC., 27 Aurora St., Lancaster, Monday from 4-8 PM with a Mass of Christian Burial being celebrated at St. Mary's RC Church, Lancaster, Tuesday morning at 9:30. Please assemble at Church. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Upstate NY Transplant Services, 110 Broadway, Buffalo, NY 14203.
Rich...your smile will always comfort my heart, when needed. After 12 years, the legal system finally acknowledged your wrongful death. God bless your Dad for never giving up. You will be forever remembered by us as a great guy, gone way too soon, in a most wrongful way. Your smile will always remind me that there are good people in this world, despite the ugliness. Will forever miss you.
Julie Mc Carthy Weaver
March 26, 2025 | Friend
SO Very sorry for your loss.
lisa nicometi
December 10, 2012 | Buffalo, NY
As a friend of Jamie I had the privilege of meeting Rich at family gatherings. He was friendly, easy to talk to and had a great grin. My heart goes out to his family and to Jamie.
Diane Knowlton
December 09, 2012
SOOOO sorry for your Loss...My Prayers to you and your Family
Brian and Nikko Bean
December 09, 2012 | Venice, CA
There is no greater bond than that of a parent and their child, thus no greater loss if the child leaves before the parent. You were my first son, my namesake, and in many ways my twin. I will carry you with me forever, but will not be whole again until we're united. I love you kiddo.
POPS
December 09, 2012 | Lancaster, NY
We extend our deepest sympathy to the Metcalf family during this difficult time. We pray that you will find comfort in the wonderful memories you have of Rich.
Brandon & Jessica Becker
December 08, 2012 | Lancaster, NY
Rich & Jane,
So sorry to hear about the loss of your son. Our deepest sympathy. you and your family are in our thoughts & prayers.
Sincerely,
Leon & Angel McBride
December 07, 2012
We wish you all peace in your time of need.
Jason & Stephanie Berghold
December 04, 2012 | Depew, NY
my thoughts & prayers are with you -
cheryl skinner
December 03, 2012 | Elma, NY
