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Rita Baughan Obituary

BAUGHAN-Rita L. (nee Urbanczyk) January 2, 2007, beloved wife of Richard J. Baughan; devoted mother of Kimberly Baughan and Jeffrey (Karen) Baughan; loving grandmother of Jeffrey, Jenna and Courtney; dear sister of Joan (Frank) Parker and Leon Urbanczyk; also survived by nieces and nephews. Funeral services at the BUSZKA FUNERAL HOME INC., 2005 Clinton St. (corner South Ogden) Saturday at 9 AM and at St. Bernards Church at 9:30 AM. Memorials in Mrs. Baughan's name may be made to Roswell Park GYN Dept. Visitation Thursday 6-8 PM and Friday 4-8 PM

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Published by Buffalo News from Jan. 4 to Jan. 5, 2007.

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christine speranza

January 11, 2007

Rita was my godmother and I have so many happy memories of her during my childhood. I still have the birthday cards she sent me over the years, and I'll always remember going to her cottage and playing with Kim and Jeff. There was always so much laughter and fun whenever she was around and I treasure those days. We just recently re-connected and I will really miss her- my thoughts are with her family.

Janice & Rick Szulist

January 11, 2007

Uncle Dick, Kim, Jeff, & Aunt Joan,& Family,
From my heart to yours,
I just wanted to say that Altho I have not been in the family a long time I felt like I always belonged. The joy Rick & I felt when we didn't think Aunt Rita & Uncle Dick were going to be able to attend our wedding in june but once again Aunt Rita overcame the difficulty of her illness and they were there to share our special day with us. We were both overwhelmed with gratitude & happiness & will never forget how special it made our day. Aunt Rita helped me thru a really rough time when I was dealing with my illness & surgery, and made me feel that things were going to be ok, & always put others before herself.
I will always be greatful for her caring about me.
In the short time I knew her I learned she was a caring, giving,determined & wonderfully STRONG person . She was always very PROUD of all of you as I am sure you all know, I just wanted to take this time to say Thank You for sharing her with Me & with all of us. It was an Honor to have known her & will miss he greatly.
With Sincere Sympathy & Love,
Janice Szulist

Erin Heerdt

January 7, 2007

Dear Mr. Baughan and Family,
It was always a pleasure getting to know Rita. She was a special woman, a devoted wife and a proud mother and grandmother. I became so fond of her and looked forward to her visits. Mr. Baughan I also enjoyed getting to know you during that time. You took such good care of her. Her spirit will live long within all of you.

Fondly,
Erin Heerdt, RN

Dr. Paul DiLauro D.C.

January 5, 2007

Dear Richard,
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Rita was a special person and she always brightened my day when I cared for her. I will miss her immensely.
Deepest sympathy.

Charles and Margaret Young

January 5, 2007

TO THE BAUGHAN FAMILY

Charlie and I wish to extend our sympathy to all of you on your loss. Rita was a very caring and loving person. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Frances French

January 5, 2007

Dear Richard and family, I'm so sorry for your loss. Please know that all of you are in my thoughts and prayers. -Fran French

Brigette Young-Bauer

January 5, 2007

To the Baughan Family,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Kerry Rodabaugh

January 4, 2007

To the entire Baughan family:
I wanted to express my deepest sympathy and let you know what an extreme privilege it was for me to care for your wife and mother. She was truly a beautiful and amazing person and the love shared amongst all of you was so very evident. Please accept my deepest condolences. My prayers are with you all,
Dr. Rodabaugh
Roswell Park Cancer Institute

DHAP Staff

January 4, 2007

Dear Kim,
You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. We wish you peace of mind and healing hearts during this difficult time. God Bless you all.

Dottie Austin

January 4, 2007

Hi Jeff

The staff at CPI/RW Caldwell expends their sympathy to you and your family. Please know that we are with you in thought and prayer and look forward to seeing you upon your return.

Your friends at RW Caldwell

With Love, Jim & Annette Nowicki

James M. & Annette M. Nowicki

January 4, 2007

Dear Richard, Kimberly and Jeffrey & Karen Baughan ; also Joan & Frank Parker,and Leon Urbanczyk:

Our caring thoughts are with you at this difficult time.

We know it has been a long time since we last saw your family, but as a reminder, my parents were Edward & Adeline Nowicki

Sincerely,

January 4, 2007

Dear Jeff, Karen and family,
We were so sorry to read that your Mother passed on. We went through this a short while ago with JoAnne's Mother..and it is a difficult, life altering occurence. Please keep the faith that she is in a beautiful place waiting for all of you someday! Remember to rally around your Father..he will need it! With heartfelt sympathy and warm regard, friends Jo and Bill Vaughan

6 West nursing staff @ Roswell Park

January 4, 2007

Dear Mr. Baughan and Family,
Please accept our sincere sympathy in the passing of Mrs. Baughan. It was always a pleasure seeing her and caring for her. May she find eternal Peace in the Lord's loving arms.

Robin Fitzsimmons

January 4, 2007

Kim, Jeff, Mr. Baughan ,
We were saddened to hear of the passing of Rita. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
Dennis and Robin Fitzsimmons

Kristin Stark

January 4, 2007

Uncle Dick, Kim, Kathy, Jeff and Karen:

Aunt Rita was an amazing woman and a wonderful part of our family. We will always cherish the times spent at her New Years Eve parties and the parties at the cottage, especially those water balloon and egg tosses! Our deepest sympathies go out to you at this time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

All our love,
Mike, Kristin, Ryan and Madelyn Stark

Donald Wach

January 4, 2007

Jeff,
My family's prayers are with you. God Bless,
Don Wach

Michael Acosta, Andrea De Marco

January 4, 2007

Jeff, Karen, Jeffrey,Jenna and Courtney,Sorry to hear about your mom and grandma you are in our thoughts and prayers. Love and Miss you, See you soon, Love, Cousin Michael and Andrea

Susan Mourgas

January 4, 2007

Dear Kim and Family,

I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that you are being thought of and loved at this time and always. May God continue to bless and keep you and yours.

Barb, Jeremy and Jenna Hussey

January 4, 2007

Words cannot express how sorry we are for your loss. Rita was an amazing woman with such courage, strength and determination. I know this will leave an empty space in your hearts but I pray with time that space will be filled with lasting memories.

To Kim, Mr. Baughan, Jeff and the Family and Friends of Mrs. Baughan please find some comfort in the verse below:

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2007

Kathy & Howard Tendler

January 4, 2007

Our Deepest Sympathy to the entire family. Aunt Rita will live on in our memories for all the good she represented. She was loved by so many and will be missed dearly.

Jack Guastaferro

January 4, 2007

Richard, Jeff and Kim.........so sorry to hear of your loss.....I so enjoyed the times I spent with Mrs. Baughan......my prayers for you all........God Bless!

jamie wilfrom

January 4, 2007

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

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