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Thomas DEUBELL Obituary

DEUBELL - Thomas J. Of Buffalo, NY, February 7, 2012; beloved husband of Maryellen (Suleski) Deubell; loving father of Michele J. (Robert Blaszak), Thomas J. (Linda) and Timothy E. (Michelle) Deubell; dear brother of Joan (Thomas) Kolb, Patricia (James) Conwall, David (Debbie), Gary (Marilyn), James (Alice) and Peter (Nancy) Deubell; cherished grandfather of Amanda R., James Ryan Murphy and Timothy Michael Deubell; great-grandfather of Ashlee Rose Gostomski. The family will be present to receive friends Thursday and Friday from 2-4 and 6-8 PM at the O'CONNELL-MURPHY FUNERAL HOME, 2286 South Park Ave., where funeral will be held Saturday at 8:45 followed by a Mass of Christian Burial in St. Teresa's Church at 9:30. Flowers gratefully declined. Interment Holy Cross Cemetery. For complete obituary and online condolences, please go to www.oconnellfh.net

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Published by Buffalo News from Feb. 9 to Feb. 10, 2012.

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Dennis&Karyn DiPaolo

February 12, 2012

Tom will surely be missed by his friends at St. Teresa's church. Our thoughts and prayers are with the Deubell family. God bless

Bernie Migas

February 12, 2012

Rest In Peace Tom, thanks for letting me play keyboards and music in the bar years ago, and thanks for the talks on the side, them always worked ! My prayers and condolences go out to the Duebell Family !

Katie Mielcarek

February 11, 2012

May everyone find comfort in all the great memories you have all shared. My deepest sympathy. ~~Katie Mielcarek

cathy deubell

February 11, 2012

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

February 10, 2012

So Sorry for Your Loss. You are in our
thoughts and prayers...God Bless,
Jenny and Ed

Ed&Jenny Becker

February 10, 2012

So sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless, Love
Jenny and Ed

February 10, 2012

R,I.P.Tommy and God Bless. I remember a great F.F. at the OLD South Side Grill. Say hello to Dick when you get up there, Bobby T.

Jill Sullivan

February 10, 2012

Dear Tim & Deubell family,
I am very sorry for your loss. My thoughts & prayers are with you. May your hearts soon be filled with memories of times together as you celebrate a life well lived. With my deepest sympathy, Jill

Paul Giordano

February 10, 2012

Mrs. Deubell,

I am very sorry to hear of your loss. I hope that with the grace of God, and the love of your family you will get through this! You are a very strong person. I wish you well.
-Paul J. Giordano Jr.

Dave & Deb Deubell

February 10, 2012

Dear Maryellen, Michele,TJ & Tim
We are very sorry for your loss of a great brother. As the days go by God will comfort you that Tom is at peace & looking over you. Tom was a good man & we will remember him always. Love Dave & Deb

Deborah (Kowalczyk) Frank

February 10, 2012

Dear Mary Ellen and Family: I am so very sorry for your loss. May your pain at this time be replaced by the joy of happy memories in the days to come.
Thank you for my happy memories in which Tom will live on forever. With love,

Jim and Pat Conwall

February 9, 2012

~Dear Maryellen,Michele,TJ,and Tim
I't was indeed a Great plesure to have both known and especially be related to Tom for as long as we can Remember.
When most of us Settle for one Career and are Content with it,Tom wanted to Venture out in the World and try on many different hats,and Succeded with all those Endeavors.
He was a true Entrepenor in every sense of the the Word.
Love Jim and Pat

February 9, 2012

Dear MaryEllen,and Family, Our family wants to express its deepest sympathy to you all at the loss of your dearest Tom.May Loving memories and family love keep you all together at this time,and forever. Dave and Kathy Lipka

Jim & Alice Deubell

February 9, 2012

Maryellen, Michele, Tom and Tim:
The news of Tom's passing left on void in our hearts. His wonderful way of expressing himself, and his stories were one to be desired, always brought laughter to ones face. May you all feel comfort for the time you had to share with Tom and husband and father, grandfather and great-grandfather. His special look on his face as he spoke and many interesting adventures will always bring joy in our hearts as we remember Tom as a Brother, friend and a person to be proud of. Rest in Peace

February 9, 2012

Dear Tim,Shelly and family,
Sorry to hear of the loss of your father Tim. I will keep you in my prayers. My deepest condolences and much love to your family.

Kevins' Mother,
Barb

Bob Smith

February 9, 2012

Dear MaryEllen,Michele,And family,Im so sorry for your loss.Tom gave all of us many smiles at the Southside Grille that will never be forgotten.My thoughts and prayers are with your Family

February 9, 2012

Aunt MaryEllen, Michele, T.J., Tim and family.....so sorry for this tough loss. Uncle Tom was especially unique man....Love you all so much....Dawnie and Leon

Anne Lea Dimitriadis

February 9, 2012

Aunt Mary Ellen and Cousins Michele, T.J. and Tim- I'm very sorry for your loss. I pray that God will provide you comfort and peace. Uncle Tom will be greatly missed. I'm sorry I won't be able to make it up from Charleston, but please know that my heart is with you. Much love to you all.

Dan O'Neil

February 9, 2012

To All of the Duebell family, My sincerest condolences to all. Although Officer Duebell and I never personaly met, I feel as thouhg I knew him, as I remember him from his years on The Commander Tom show. He was the police officer I would have wanted to go to if I was lost. Again, my deepest Condolences.

Marcy & Bob Brzezinski

February 9, 2012

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Bob Rupert

February 9, 2012

Dear aunt Mary, Michele, T.J. and Tim. We send you our deepest condolences to the entire family, we will miss uncle Tom dearly. Love Bob and Chris

janet suleski

February 8, 2012

Dear Mary and children,
May God give you and the children strength during you time of such a sad loss and heartbreak. Tom will be greatly missed.Tom was loved very much. Im sure going to miss him. I wish I could be there with all of you. I will be there at your side in spirit.
Love Janet

February 8, 2012

My heart is down as I think of our precious brother-in-law..Mary, he brought me many laughs. He will forever live in my heart. I love you and the children and you all will be in my prayer's for God'd love and peace to fall upon you all during these time of sorrow.. love from your little sister's heart... Joan

Michele Deubell

February 8, 2012

My Daddy, I will miss you more than you know. I love you!

Julie Buckley

February 8, 2012

Mich, I am sorry to hear the loss of your dad, losing a parent is a very hard time in our life. Life changing....I love you Mich and always have

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