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Thomas Sokolowski Obituary
Memories and Condolences
for Thomas Sokolowski
Anula & Lyle Robinson
August 18, 2023
Remembering you on this day,
Sandy Goel
September 22, 2008
Dear Sokolowski Family, we are also a Buffalo United family. We did not know your boys personally, but know people who did and only wonderful things have been said about them. Please know you are all in our prayers and that we are so sorry for your loss. May God grant you the peace, love and support you so need at this time. The Goel Family
David Oles
September 13, 2008
You can visit another website devoted to Mark and Tom Sokolowski. The url is vg-space.com/tribute
Lisa Sabia
September 12, 2008
1 Thess. 4:13-14 / Heb. 6:9, 10:23
This is not at all how
We thought it was supposed to be
We had so many plans for you
We had so many dreams
And now you've gone away
And left us with the memories of your smile
And nothing we can say
And nothing we can do
Can take away the pain
The pain of losing you, but ...
We can cry with hope
We can say goodbye with hope
'Cause we know our goodbye is not the end, oh no
And we can grieve with hope
'Cause we believe with hope
(There's a place by God's grace)
There's a place where we'll see your face again
We'll see your face again
And never have I known
Anything so hard to understand
And never have I questioned more
The wisdom of God's plan
But through the cloud of tears
I see the Father's smile and say well done
And I imagine you
Where you wanted most to be
Seeing all your dreams come true
'Cause now you're home
And now you're free, and ...
We have this hope as an anchor
'Cause we believe that everything
God promised us is true, so ...
We wait with hope
And we ache with hope
We hold on with hope
We let go with hope
I lost my 25 yr. old son in Dec.
My heart goes out to you.
We WILL see our boys again.
Your always in my thoughts and prayers.
Pam Nealon
September 11, 2008
I am another who didn't know your sons. But when I heard the news, I felt like I was punched in the stomach and started to cry. Yes, I too know your pain. My 28 year old daughter was killed in an auto accident in Marich of '07. I remember the numbness, shock and nauseous feeling. I was told by others back then who had gone through the same thing, that these feelings will subside. They really do, but you will become different people as you learn to adjust to your "new" lives. Your boys sounded like such wonderful, happy and caring boys. If you ever feel the need to be with those who helped me, there are several support groups out there for parents who lost children. I am more than willing to talk to you and/or give you information on these groups when, and if, you are ready. I pray for you to feel more and more peace in your lives every day and for God and your sons to watch over you.
The Reiman Family
September 8, 2008
Dear Sokolowski Family,
We just want to say how sorry we are for your great loss. We pray the Lord Jesus Christ will give you peace & strength through this very difficult time. Our prayers are with you. Turn to God for His help.... He is always there for you.
God Bless you.
The Reiman Family
September 5, 2008
I too lost two members of my family in a traffic accident last summer. Please know you are in my prayers. I hope the knowledge that you raised wonderful boys and that you have an entire community behind you helps you in this difficult time.
lidia letkiewicz
September 4, 2008
Drodzy Sokolowscy,
Trudno bylo mi uwierzyc, ze taka tragedia sie zdazyla. Tomka i Marka poznalam w Orchard Lake w 2006 r. Mimo, ze sie nie lubielismy za bardzo, to i tak mam dla Was i dla calej rodziny wielki zal. Przyjmicie ode mnie i mojej kolezanki, ktora tez ich znala, wielkie spolczucia. Bog zaplac Wam.
Eric Van Pyrz
September 4, 2008
Dear Mr. & Mrs. Sokolowski,
I knew Mark & Tom from the PNA Camp they attended back in 2005. They were always nice and friendly to me, even in the beginning when I really didn't know anybody there. I really appreciated that. Know that you are in my prayers, and in the prayers of many others. God Bless you all.
Eric Van Pyrz
Diane Askey
September 3, 2008
To Chris and Teresa,
My family has been where you are now. For us, we lost our 18 year old son, Dale, 3 years ago in a terrible accident. I have, since then, felt blessed to still have his younger brother, who has given me purpose for living again. Yours... is an unbearable loss. I cannot fathom what you are enduring now. I have, however, read the dozens and dozens of family members that you have. I hope that you can find solice and peace through the love of your large family. Please know that 'hope does happen.' It may not seem remotely possible for quite some time, but I pray that you will find your way. If ever you feel the need to reach out to someone who knows, please contact me.
God Bless you always,
Diane Askey
Mr. Joseph A. Saj
September 1, 2008
To the Family of these young brothers. Please know that my prayers and thoughts are with you. May the Lord above give you comfort and peace during this most difficult time in your lives. Stay strong and close to the Lord.
Susan Carbone
August 31, 2008
Dear Mr. & Mrs. Sokolowski,
I do not know your family and did not know your boys, but my heart breaks for your loss. My daughter was a friend of your son, Mark, and seeing her sadness gives me only a glimpse of what you must be feeling.
May you find strength and courage through your faith and may God's peace surround you. May the memories of your precious boys keep you strong until you are reunited with them.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
With sincere sympathy,
August 31, 2008
I dont know your family at all, but I read of your story, its heartbreaking for me as a total stranger...me and my family will continue to hold your family in our prayers. God Bless.
Jan & Cody Dahleiden
August 31, 2008
My son played on the Buffalo United team with the boys a few years ago. We would pass the time on the side talking about the small things and watching our boys play.
Later on I would run into the boys at Sahlens. Not only where they great players, they where great boys. My son always liked playing with or against them. In their 17 short years they touched many. Cody and I express our deepest sympathy. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
kathy scheck
August 30, 2008
my thoughts and prayers are with both of you. both of my children new your sons. jessica went to school with them and my son eric played roller hockey with them. this is unreal and i pray for you both everyday
Joanna Peters
August 30, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss,I am a mom of 2 boys and I lost my dad 1 month ago I am hurt for my dad but I can not imagine the pain you must feel for the loss of a child.
At my dad's surmon Father Galliger had a very comforting thought if God gave of the choice to only have my dad for only 62 years would we say "yes" and of course we would say yes> MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND FIND COMFORT IN THE MEMORIES YOU HAVE .
say
Beth Hochreiter
August 29, 2008
I did not have the pleasure of knowing your beautiful boys but I send my deepest sympathy in this most difficult time. May our Savior "Jesus" hold you and keep you. Being a mother of a 14 year old girl, I can't imagine your pain.
God Bless you!
A Mom
August 29, 2008
Our 13 year old daughter was killed in an accident last winter. I can only immagine having our pain doubled. We pray you can find some happiness again soon. Please let me know if you would ever like to talk.
John & Phyllis
August 29, 2008
The Lord gives us love - someone to love He lends us. Our heartfelt sympathy and prayers.
Tony Comito
August 28, 2008
Dear Chris and family,
Tom and Mark will be sadly missed. They were the type of players that everyone wants on their team. They were very talanted hockey players as wel as smart, respectful, and unselfish. They were a joy to referee. May God bless your family.
Jeff McGavis
August 28, 2008
Tom and Mark were both a pleasure to know. I met them through Mineral Springs hockey. Though I never had the chance to play on the same team as them, I did have the pleasure to play against them. Always respectable, never bad mouthed anybody, a true class act they were. They always were great kids on and off the rink. My deepest condolence goes to Mr. and Mrs. Sokolowski and Tom and Mark will be in my prayers forever. God bless
From a mother that can understand your pain
August 28, 2008
Little did we know that morning that God was going to call your name. In life we loved you dearly, in death we do the same.~~It broke our hearts to lose you, you did not go alone; for part of us went with you, the day God called you home.~~You left us peaceful memories, your love is still our guide; and though we cannot see you, you are always at our side~~Our family chain is broken, and nothing seems the same; but as God calls us one by one, the Chain will link Again!
a mom
August 27, 2008
god bless your family.Im so sorry for your loss of two beautiful boys. May you have some comfort to know they are together as it always has been. God knew they couldnt be apart. May he comfort you both until you all can be together.
mike waltz
August 27, 2008
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Sal Tulumello
August 27, 2008
Mark played floor hockey on our team over the past couple of months on Sunday nights. I did not know him well; however, he was very fast and was a rising star. I would like to express my condolences and share with you some scripture that has helped my wife and I since our daughter was born still this past May and since my father passed away the following month. Romans 8:28-And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose. 1 Peter 5:10-After you have suffered for a little while, the God of all grace, who called you to His eternal glory in Christ, will Himself perfect, confirm, strengthen and establish you. 2 Corinthians 12:9-And He has said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is perfected in weakness " Most gladly, therefore, I will rather boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may dwell in me. 2 Corinthians 5:8-we are of good courage, I say, and prefer rather to be absent from the body and to be at home with the Lord.
It is through our hope in our savior Jesus Christ that carries us through these difficult times. Don't walk, run to the lord and he will comfort you. Saturate yourselves with his word and uplifting christian music daily. Prayerfully,
Linda & Heather Lawson
August 27, 2008
My daughter and I share in your grief. Two years ago my son was killed in a tragic accident and while we cannot know what you are feeling, we pray that God will walk with you and keep your sons in his tender embrace always. My son's name was James Lawson and he knew your sons. May God bless amd be with you now and always.
August 27, 2008
My heart breaks for you. I did not know your sons but they were friends with our friends daughter and her boyfriend who are crushed. They saw your boys at the soccer practise that day. I hope you take comfort in knowing that they were loved and respected by so many. It is a testament to the wonderful parents you must have been.
JOANNE KNUPFER
August 27, 2008
I DONT KNOW YOUR FAMILY AND I HAVE NEVER LOST A CHILD .MY BROTHER DIED APRIL 1st .I SEE THE PAINE IN MY MOM AND DADs EYES EVERY DAY I DONT KNOW HOW THAY DO IT IM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS .GOD ONLY TAKES THE BEST
cayla schaefer
August 27, 2008
Im still in shock about what has happened, you two were the nicest kids i have met in a long time, you could make anyone laugh in a heartbeat, your "million dollar legs" were going to take you far.
you were brought into this world together, at least you were both taken out togehter
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August 27, 2008
Our thoughts are with you and the boys i have twins girls and could not imagine this happening what a special bond But keep praying as we will
August 27, 2008
Please know that there are many who will pray for you and your boys. I know how boys have a special bond with thier mother,they will always be right above you. Stay strong
Scott Betz
August 27, 2008
Teresa,
There are no words,
May God Bless you and give you peace,
Scott
Tammy
August 27, 2008
Dear Sokolowski family: God needed an angel-and He could not decide between your boys-each was too special-so he decided to take them both together just as He gave them to you. He picked 2 very special angels to join him in heaven. Your family is in my prayers and may you know the comfort of God at this difficult time.
Debra Sedinger
August 27, 2008
As a bereaved mother, I was deeply saddened to see that your beautiful sons have joined my children in heaven. I pray that God will show you His comfort and peace in the long, lonely days ahead. What a blessed day it will be when we are all reunited once again!
Sacred Heart of Jesus have Mercy on us.
Rose Santuci-Sofranko
August 27, 2008
My husbands mother's Maiden name was Sokolowski. Although we don't think we are related, I just wanted to express to you my deepest sorrow for your loss. My sister was at the WSeneca Library when the accident took place, and when she went out and heard what happened she began praying The Divine Mercy Chaplet for your boys. Also, I know it's not much comfort right now, but it would seem that The Blessed Mother was watching over your boys, and that She and our Lord were waiting for them to join Them in Heaven, as they passed on on Her Feast Day: The Queenship of Mary and were buried from a Church with her name (Our Lady of Cz) on THAT particular Feast Day. My thoughts and prayers will continue to be with you.
Corey Holley
August 27, 2008
Over the past few months i started to get to know tom and mark at hockey as well as competing against them the past 2 years. They are and will always be missed on the rink. Heaven is lucky to have such great kids.
Lisa
August 27, 2008
Please know that you are in the hearts and prayers of many people who do not know you but would do anything to ease your pain. Please keep the wonderful memories of your boys in your heart and someday soon I hope those same memories will bring a smile rather than a tear. God bless you all.
Tim, Mary, Brian Courtney
August 27, 2008
Chris & Teresa,
No words can ever ease the pain of your loss. Please know that our prayers are with you and we will keep you and the boys in our hearts. Hold dearly the 17 wonderful years that you were doubly blessed with two fine boys.
Tom & Mark, go with God and watch over your Mom and Dad until the time comes when you will all be reunited in heaven.
God Bless,
Tim, Mary, Brian Courtney & Family
(BUSC U17 Family)
A Mother From Texas, USA
August 27, 2008
We read of your loss in Texas and mourn with you.
August 26, 2008
Nothing anyone can say can take all your pain away but your boys will live in your hearts forever and you in theirs. Just because we can't see, touch or feel them doesn't mean they don't live on. Whenever you love, they are loving too. They left on a voyage and we cry at their leaving but in the distance if you listen you will hear cries of happiness as they reach the other side where those that they love greet them and say Welcome.
Chrissy
August 26, 2008
I heard about your family's tragedy on the news. Even though I live 70 miles away, and don't know your family, it is incomprehensible how such a tragedy strikes someone. God Bless and Keep your children. You are in my thoughts and prayers. An Olean, NY mom
Lisa Sabia
August 26, 2008
Mother, please don’t mourn for us ;
We're still here, though you don’t see.
We're right by your side each night and day
And within your heart we long to stay
Our bodies are gone but we're always near
We're everything you feel, see or hear.
Our spirit's are free, but we'll never depart
As long as you keep us alive in your heart.
We'll never wander out of your sight.
We're the brightest star on a summer night.
We'll never be beyond your reach.
We're the warm, moist sand when you’re at the beach.
We're the colorful leaves when fall comes around
And the pure, white snow that blankets the ground.
We're the beautiful flowers of which you are so fond.
The clear, cool water in a quiet pond
We're the first bright blossom you’ll see in the spring;
The first warm raindrop that April will bring.
When you start thinking there’s no one to love you,
You can talk to us through the Lord above you.
We'll whisper our answer through the leaves on the trees,
And you’ll feel our presence in the soft summer breeze.
Wer'e the hot, salty tears that flow when you weep
And the beautiful dreams that come when you sleep.
We're the smile you see on a babys sweet face
Just look for us mom, we're everyplace!
Love, Thomas, Mark
Stephanie
August 26, 2008
Thomas and Mark were great guys, although i did not know them personally, they were amazing athletes with alot of talent, and a future ahead of them. My condolences go to the family. rip tom and mark.
Brittany
August 26, 2008
Dear Sokolowski Family,
We hope you take comfort in knowing that now you have a two very special guardian angels to watch over you.May the love of friends and family help you get through this tough time.
John & Robbie Kaczmarski
August 26, 2008
Mr & Mrs Sokolowski we would like to offer our deepest sorrows at this time ; We also lost our son back in Febuary ,he was 18 ,to a snowmoble accident, It is very hard but somehow the Lord helps use live day by day. So stay strong for each other and God bless.
jessica
August 26, 2008
Dear Chris and Teresa, I work next door to you, and for the past 15 years I've watched Mark and Tom grow into hard working, respectful young men. My prayer is that God showers you both with wonderful memories of two lives that were filled with love and laughter.
Leisa Wheeler
August 26, 2008
I did not know your boys but as the mother of 4 healthy children (including twins), I cannot imagine what you must be going through.May their memories be eternal and thoughts and prayers are with you.
Matthew
August 26, 2008
I played soccer with you boys for 2 years at East. You will never be forgotten everytime the team now steps on the field to play. No matter what you will always be with the team. May God be with Mark and Tom, and the rest of the Sokolowski family.
August 26, 2008
Our hearts go out to you every minute of the day. My dtr rode the bus with your sons and was lucky to have to have known them in her life. I can't think of the words to say just know you will be always in our prayers. Your neighbors on Sprucewood.
Maureen
August 26, 2008
You are not alone in your grief. My heart goes out to you and your family. Be strong in the Lord and He will give you peace.
August 26, 2008
Dear Mr and Mrs Sokolowski,
May God Bless You and keep you close. Hold tightly to each other, keep your love always.
The Lipinczyk Family
Cheryl Case
August 26, 2008
I did not know your family, but my deepest sympathy to the loss of your 2 great boys. My daughter lives across the street from you and I also have a son who lives nearby. Both of my children are on their own and I have 6 grandchildren. I can not even imagine the pain of losing a child. It has always been told to me that, we as parents, are not supposed to outlive our children. I guess God has a way of knowing who needs them the most. May you find it in God to help you and guide you through this difficult time in your life. Find comfort in knowing that so many people feel your sorrow.
May God be with you.
Robin
August 26, 2008
Two beautiful souls clearly under the patronage and protection of our Lady...they died on the Feast of the Queenhip(Coronation) of Mary--right near Queen of Heaven church(where Mass was being celebrated at the time of the accident), and are being buried at Her church on the Feast of Our Lady of Czechostowa. May our Blessed Mother bring consolation to all those who mourn their passing. I was just arriving at the library,after attending Mass, when they were being attended to. I want you to know that I said the Divine Mercy Chaplet for them at that time. Please be assured of my continued prayers for them and for you, their family.
Tami
August 26, 2008
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve. My son played in the same Roller Hockey league as your two boys. They will never be forgotten.
Bart, Lynn, Justin, and Ciambella
August 26, 2008
We were also deeply sadened by the loss of two great boys. We mourn for Chris and Teresa and offer our condolences and prayers. We will always have fond memories of the competition and comraderie as we played against and with Mark and Tom through many years in West Seneca. Always with Chris sharing in the boys passion. God's plans are sometimes difficult for us on earth to understand.
We offer our Love, prayers, and God's Blessings to the Sukolowski's
The Ciambella's
Vicki Olejniczak
August 26, 2008
Mr & Mrs Sokolowski and family;
It is with heavy hearts that we must wake up each day without the smiling faces of someone we love. But each day the sun will find it's way to shine on you. My thoughts and prayers are with you. God bless.
RUTH & CARL STECHENFINGER
August 26, 2008
OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO YOUR FAMILY. OUR SON CARL PLAYED HOCKEY AGAINST YOUR BOYS @ AMERICAN ROLLER HOCKEY. PLEASE KNOW YOU ARE IN OUR THOUGHTS & PRAYERS.
Clutcha & Joe Librera
August 26, 2008
Sokolowski Family,
The sadness brings tears to my eyes to loose both of your sons. I didn't know them but from the readings you as parents should be proud to raise such fine sons. All things happen for a reason, even though we can't understand why. Our prayers are with you and your family.
Laura Brock
August 26, 2008
Mr & Mrs. Sokolowski,
Like many others who have written, you do not know me, but I somewhat understand what your are feeling at this time. I lost my son 10 months ago at the age of 24. I work with the Gasiorczyk brothers and they spoke very highly about your sons.
My thoughts and prayers are with you both.
Loriann Kostusiak
August 26, 2008
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Sokolowski,
Love and sympathy is pouring from our hearts to yours. Our family lives off of Main Street and we'd like you to know how much this accident has impacted everyone in our neighborhood.
Please find some comfort in knowing that your beautiful boys were tended lovingly by all who surrounded them, physically and spiritually, on Friday.
We continue to hold you in our thoughts and prayers. God bless you.
The Kostusiak Family
Kelly
August 26, 2008
Mr. and Mrs. Sokolowski -
Although I have never met you or your boys, I can't begin to express how deeply sorry I am for your loss. Please know your community grieves with you and will be praying for you.
Patricia Klemenich
August 25, 2008
Mr. & Mrs. Sokolowski and family,
I wanted to express my sympathy for you and you family on this hard time. I knew your sons threw a friend and they were two amazing boys. They will be missed terribly, but will never be forgotten. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God Bless you all.
A West Seneca Mom
August 25, 2008
Mr. & Mrs. Sokolowski and family,
Even though I have never met you or your sons, I wanted to extend my deepest sympathy to you and your family. No words can ease your pain, I only hope that over time, you will find the strength to move forward and to know that you will one day be with your beautiful sons. God Bless you all.
Irena Mychajliw
August 25, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
LYNN SUAREZ
August 25, 2008
MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOUR FAMILY. AS A MOM, I CANNOT EXPRESS HOW TRULY SORRY I AM FOR YOUR LOSS, MAY GOD BLESS THEM BOTH.
SATURDAY POLISH SCHOOL
LYLE, ALEX AND ANIA ROBINSON
August 25, 2008
TERESA AND KRZYSZTOF, PLEASE ACCEPT OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY AND HEARTFELT THOUGHTS IN THIS TIME OF GREAT SADNESS. OUR ACQUAINTANCE WITH YOUR FAMILY DATES BACK TO 1996-2003 AT THE MSGR. ADAMSKI POLISH SATURDAY SCHOOL. OUR SON ALEX WAS ONE YEAR AHEAD OF MAREK AND TOMEK. HIS RECOLLECTIONS OF THOSE SATURDAYS WITH THE TWINS BRING A TWINKLE TO THE EYES AND A SMILE TO THE LIPS. THESE KIND OF MEMORIES ALLOW YOU TO KNOW THAT YOUR LOSS IS SHARED BY THOSE WHO CARE AND UNDERSTAND. MAY GOD'S LOVE GIVE YOU STRENGTH DURING THIS TIME OF SORROW. YOU ARE IN OUR THOUGHTS AND IN OUR PRAYERS. SINCERELY, LYLE, ALEX & ANIA ROBINSON AND EDWARD AND MARIANNA BUDA
John & Amy Brown & Family
August 25, 2008
Mr. & Mrs. Sokolowski & Family,
As a parent of 2 teenagers and one pre-teen myself, my heart just broke when I heard of your loss. I can't even begin to imagine the pain you are feeling. My son Joe was a classmate of your son's at religious education and said your boys were really good guys. May God help you get through your losses and guide you through life until you see your babies again in heaven. Your family at OLC is praying for you and will be there for you in your time of mourning. God Bless.
Luke Sokolowski
August 25, 2008
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Sokolowski,
I met your sons at camp in Orchard Lake, MI a few years ago. Although I only knew them for a week, that week that I spent at camp with them was awesome. They were nice, fun loving, all around great people. I send my greatest apologies to you. Reading the story just made me sad that such great people lost their lives. Although we are not related and just have the same last name, i still feel deep sadness.
Serenity Prayer
Edward & Deborah Kornowski
August 25, 2008
We send our sincere condolences to family and friends of Tom and Mark. Sharing in your grief, we offer our prayers, our tears, and hugs. God has a plan for us all, let our faith in him help us endure what we don't understand.
August 25, 2008
To Tom & Mark's Mom & Dad,
I don't know you or your sons, but my heart aches for you & prayers are with you both. My sincerest condolences.
A West Seneca Mom
Scott and Shanti Coleman
August 25, 2008
Mr. and Mrs. Sokolowski and Family,
We will always remember Tom and Mark playing soccer with such love and dedication. Your twins will be missed by our boys and their Aurora Arsenal U-19 team mates. We all send our deepest sympathy, thoughts and prayers your way.
Kelley Kinnaird
August 25, 2008
May you find strength in each other and in your loving memories of your boys. God bless you.
ROSE SCHIEDA
August 25, 2008
TO CHRIS AND THERESA/ I AM SO SO SORRY ABOUT YOUR 2 PRECIOUS SONS/ I FEEL YOUR PAIN/ THERE ARE NO WORDS TO DESCRIBE THIS HORRIBLE ACCIDENT/ I AM STILL TRYING TO FIGURE ALL OF THIS OUT/ I LOST MY SON MIKE, 8 YEARS AGO, AND IT SEEMS LIKE A LIFE TIME/ I KNOW WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH/ THE TUNNEL OF DARKNESS/ I LIVE ON BRONX DRIVE/ IF YOU NEED TO TALK EMAIL ME/ CLOSE YOUR EYES AND YOU WILL SEE THEM/ FOLLOW YOUR HEART AND YOU WILL FEEL THEM/ LISTEN WITH YOUR EARS AND YOU WILL HEAR THEM/ SO SO VERY SORRY.
bob boczkowski
August 25, 2008
i learned of your tragic loss from my brother.May God give you strenght at this difficult time.
Marty Bucella
August 25, 2008
Chris and Teresa,
Words cannot express the sorrow in our hearts. You have our deepest sympathy.
We consider ourselves lucky in that we got to watch the twins play soccer for the last 5 years and Andy considers himself fortunate to have been their teammate. Andy's chosen to put Mark and Tom's initials on his cleats and has dedicated the season to them.
Hopefully you will find comfort in knowing so many people care about you and that Tom and Mark's memory will live on forever.
Marty & Marcy Bucella
Robert Bechard
August 25, 2008
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Christopher Cournan
August 25, 2008
Playing with Mark and Tom during my time with the Buffalo Niagara and Buffalo United Soccer Clubs was a terrific experience. We began playing together when we were thirteen years old with Rudy Pikuzinski as our head coach. Through both indoor and outdoor practices and games I could tell the boys were very passionate about the game. They loved to compete and worked hard to make themselves better everyday. I also played against the boys in the Western New York Travel Soccer League in more recent years and in those games I also noticed their never-quit attitude. They constantly played hard and as best that they could which, as player of the game, is one thing I have a great amount of respect for in other players. Not only did I notice Mark and Tom playing their hardest whenever I played with and/or against them but i also noticed that they had a tremendous amount of fun while playing. Every time they scored or made a nice play, they weren't afraid to show their bright smiles. When I heard the news of the terrible accident, I was extremely shocked and saddened. My thoughts and prayers are with the family of Tom and Mark Sokolowski.
The Ostrowski Family
August 25, 2008
Athough I don't know you personally, I share the same degree of tragedy, as I am the mom of the 12 yr old killed in the sledding accident in West Seneca, 10 days before Christmas in 2003. Nothing I can say, can take away the heartaches, that you feel now, and those to come... The nightmare is never ending...You are in our prayers, and have peace knowing they are together....God Bless!! If you need a new friend, please email....
Nan Nidell
August 25, 2008
I grew up with Corinne, Brian, and Todd Sokolowski in Cheektowaga on Diane Drive. I don't know if your related but i heard the news about Tom and Mark and thought to myself: Why Lord? They were just starting out in life. I pray that you are comforted by God and that you know your whole family will always be in his care. I will say prayers for your sons. I am so very sorry for your loss.
JO ANN Scrivani
August 25, 2008
I DON'T KNOW YOU OR YOUR SONS, BUT IT SENT CHILLS DOWN MY SPINE TWO PRECIOUS LIVES GONE, BUT THEY ARE WITH THE LORD NOW IN GOOD HANDS, MY PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS TO YOU BOTH AND YOUR FAMILIES, MAY YOU TAKE COMFORT KNOWING OTHERS CARE AND WE WILL PRAY FOR ALL OF YOU. I AM A MOTHER OF 2 GROWN CHILDREN AND A GRANDMOTHER OF 3, I COULD NOT EVEN IMAGINE LOSING A CHILD AT ANY AGE. GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU BOTH STRONG.
JO ANN SCRIVANI OF BUFFALO
Carl DMIC
August 25, 2008
Chris and Teresa , My deepest sympathy on the loss of your sons.The loss of a parent or child is a very hard thing to bear.My families thoughts and prayers are with you both at this very difficult time.May your memories always bring you comfort.God bless you.
Denise Hockman
August 25, 2008
Like so many who I written; I also do not know your family or your boys. I just feel this whole in my heart whenever I hear about them. I am soo deeply sorry for your loss! They say that God works in mysterious ways and we do not know why he takes the good ones, but he must have known that your boys worked so well together here on earth he needed them together in heaven! I know that it leaves a pain that no one understands but hopefully the comfort of knowing they watch over you will one day console you! God Bless, you are in all of WNY heart and prayers!
Sister Mary Lorianne Tylczynski
August 25, 2008
Dear Mr. & Mrs. Sokolowski,
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your sons Mark & Tom.
We promise to keep you in our prayers.
Felician Sisters
Polonia 08
Paul LaMancusa Jr.
August 25, 2008
My prayers go out for the whole Sokolowski family at this time. Knowing Mark and Tom throughout the past years on and off of the soccer ptich has been my pleasure. Both Mark and Tom have contributed too soccer in WNY tremendously, and they will be remembered by our whole soccer family. I thank you Chris Mark and Tom for being so kind as to invite me to play on Polonia, where we bonded more than I ever would of thought. I will truly miss them.
Bursik Family
August 25, 2008
Our prayers and heartfelt sympathy go out to the family.
Sandi Beres
August 25, 2008
To the loving parents of Tom & Mark,
I do not know you personally but did have the pleasure of watching both Tom and Mark play roller hockey. They played on the same elite adult team for the past couple years as my son Corey and the Twins were truly amazing and so much fun to watch as they would fly down the rink and score. It put a smile on your face to see how close they seemed to each other. It was also fun to watch as Dad with his big proud smile would coach the boys and men on the team.
It is hard to express how deeply sorry I am for your loss. I was horrified when I saw the newscast that your 2 beautiful boys had lost their lives. My heart aches for you as parents to have to lose the most precoius things in your lives, your beautiful Twins. You will be in my prayers.
Becky Garrett
August 25, 2008
To Mark and Tom's Parents When the shock and disbelief and numbness wears off.Know that your children made such a impact on every one. I did not know them or your family. I was so touched my the tribute site. I am the mother of 3 children and grandma to 6 and i can not begin to know or understand how you feel. Ive lost many of my family members but to lose a child. Let alone 2 has to be unbearable. Prayers and Love to you both. We often do not understand God's ways but he does have a plan and a reason. Hold them dear and know they loved you.
Eric Steinmetz
August 25, 2008
SOKOLOWSKI FAMILY
It was a privilege playing with Mark and Tom this year on Buffalo United, and against them during the school season. They were both great players that I enjoyed watching on the field as well as becoming good friends off the field. Mr. and Mrs. Sokolowski my deepest sympathy goes out to the boys and your family. They will be in my prayers
August 25, 2008
Dear Chris & Tersea,
My heart goes out to you both. I am so sorry to hear about Tom and Mark.
My son played roller hockey for many years against your son's and all I can say is that they were two amazing boys. Stay strong and help each other through this trouble time and keep the memories of your two sons close to your hearts.
Very sorry,
Peace be with you both.
Mark Kozlowski
August 25, 2008
Mr. & Mrs. Sokolowski,
I am deeply sorry to hear about the loss! I still can't believe this has happened. My son Anthony Kozlowski was a teammate but most importanly a friend of your sons.
He called me with the terriable news that day and honestly it just ripped the heart out of me. I feel so sorry for your family!! He told me he was a practicing with the boys that morning crying in dissbelief that something like this happened.
I am very, very sorry! My prayers and thoughts are with you each day!
Kim Smith
August 25, 2008
To the Sokolowski Family,
Though not knowing you personally, my children used to play hockey with your boys at Dartwood Park on many occasions. They were the most pleasant kids around and our heart goes out to you and your family. Being a parent of a 17 and 14 yr old boys I could only imagine the grief and sadness.
The Smith Family-Penwood Dr.
Frances Michienzi
August 25, 2008
Our deepet sympathy to your entire family. Even though words fail at times like these, please know that you are in our hearts.
Lisa Bradt
August 25, 2008
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Sokolowski,
I was so very sorry to hear about your beautiful sons. Please know that the thoughts and prayers of an entire community are with you during this horrible time. May God hold you in the palm of his hand and soothe your broken hearts.
Lee Ann Dickerson - Clinton Elm.
August 25, 2008
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. The boys were full of life and enjoyed so much together. I was their student teacher in sixth grade and I now teach at Clinton Street Elementary. I have never forgotten them! They always made me laugh.
Nothing can take away the shock and pain you are going through. I lost my sister in an accident as well. Please know that everyone is thinking of you and saying many prayers.
I will start this school year with a hole in my heart.
Hold onto each other and know we are here for you...
Guy, Mary, Eric and Jason Steinmetz
August 25, 2008
Chris and Teresa,
Our families enjoyed each other’s company over the last few years with Buffalo United Soccer. Those endless miles of travel, hotels, dinners together and hours we spent cheering our boys made us a family. We consider ourselves blessed to share those important moments in our children’s lives together.
Mark and Tom always impressed us as spirited players and great competitors. We know in our hearts and could see by their actions their love of the game, each other and you. Chris and Teresa, there are no words I can find to ease your pain, but please know our hearts and prayers will be with you always.
Kathleen
August 25, 2008
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Sololowski, I'am a total stranger to you but I wish to convey that you are both in my thoughts and prayers. May the Lord hold you in his loving arms and sustain you through this extremely difficult time. These handsome "Polish" :) boys are in heaven watching over you. Psalm 23: and i will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.
Slater Family
August 25, 2008
To the family of Tom and Mark,Our deepest sympathy goes out to you in the unexpected loss of your two sons.Please know that your family will be forever in our thoughts and prayers.We are so sorry for your loss.
Piotrowski Family
August 25, 2008
Dear Chris and Teresa
Our families have only been together for a few years, but it felt like so much more. Chris we will always remember the smile you always had on your face while watching your boys out there on the soccer field. We feel very fortunate that Todd was able to be a part of your sons lives. We will keep you close in our prayers. The joy and happiness you and your boys brought us will be in our hearts forever.
SANDY FREY
August 25, 2008
MAY THE LOVE IN YOUR HEART KEEP ALL OF YOUR BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES ALIVE UNTIL YOU ALL MEET AGAIN SOMEDAY
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