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Sharan Alessandra
April 25, 2025
dearest Vinnie- How could 17 years have gone by without you-I don't know. Today is my saddest day and my happiest day-the day I met you and and the day I mourn you. Missing you always and forever-mom.
Danielle Alessandra
April 24, 2025
I miss you so much Vinnie♥ Happy Birthday
Tess Alessandra
April 24, 2025
Happy Birthday Vinnie❤ I think of you so often. I miss your humor, how sweet and loving you were, and just how much life you added to our family. It never ceases to amaze me that life can go on without the most vibrant people I know. I feel lucky to have known you, and you will always be in my heart. Give a kiss to my mom and I'll give a kiss to yours❤
Danielle Alessandra
April 25, 2024
Happy Birthday Vinnie. The family feels so incomplete...I wish you were here, I miss your laugh and your smile. You felt like my older brother, I always knew you were looking out for tess and I and that felt so comforted by that. I'm glad you're with my mom, and grandma and grandpa...but God I wish you were all here. I miss you today and everyday♥
Sharan Alessandra
April 25, 2024
Happy birthday Vinnie. I remember 43 years ago - giving birth to a beautiful baby boy. You added so much to our family and now we miss you every day. There are no words to really express my grief. So loved-so missed. Mom
Tess Alessandra
April 24, 2024
Happy birthday Vinnie❤. Although this is far from the only day I think of you. I often find myself thinking about all the beautiful memories we could have shared (and find comfort in all the beautiful memories we did share). You were always looking out for Dani and I, and I very much miss that. But mostly I miss the incredible person that you were (and continue to be in all of our hearts), and all that you added to our family. It will never and could never be the same without you.
Sharan Alessandra
April 25, 2023
my wonderful son Vinnie - another birthday another year without you. It's hard to believe the world has gone on without you. Our family is growing-but there is always an empty spot where you should be. I miss you so very much-you are always in my heart. Love, mom
Danielle Alessandra
April 24, 2023
Happy birthday Vinnie....fifteen years without you feels unreal. I was just a teenager when you left, and you were my big cousin. Now I'm older than you were and it makes me so sad that I didn't get the chance to grow old with you. I wish I could know the person you would have grown into...I wish you could know the person I've grown into...I wish you could meet the new family members that have come into our lives. I miss you so much, and I love you always...
Aunt Alison & Uncle Chris
April 25, 2022
Just reminiscing, looking through old photos of you. Cheers to you on your day Vinnie. Always loved.
Sharan Alessandra
April 25, 2022
Happy birthday Vinnie. Another one without you-another sad day. I miss you more than words can say. I wonder how your life would be now-would you be married-would you be a dad? We will never know-you will be forever 27 and forever loved and missed. Love you always Mom
Danielle Alessandra
April 25, 2022
Happy Birthday Vinnie! The years go by so fast...it's hard to believe so much time has past. You have so many people there with you now..it's comforting to think of you all together. My dad will no doubt be having a birthday beer with you today. I love you so much and I'll miss you always...
Tess Alessandra
April 25, 2022
Happy Birthday Vinnie! Loving and Missing you today as I do every day. It makes me so sad when I think of all the experiences we've been robbed of sharing as a family--but it also makes me hold on even tighter to all the beautiful memories we have. I cherish those and will hold them with me for the rest of my life. The only thought that really brings me comfort is that you're somewhere beautiful right now, laughing with my Mom and drinking a giant beer with my Dad.
Aunt Alison & Uncle Chris
April 25, 2021
You’re never more than a thought away; thats how we hold you close.
Sharan Alessandra
April 25, 2021
Another birthday-another year without you. I know you are missed by so many-family and friends. As your mom, my heart is still broken and it will always be broken. Today I will laugh and I will cry and I will always love you. You are never far from my thoughts-loved always Mom
Tess & Danielle Alessandra
April 24, 2021
Happy Birthday Vinnie! Looking through old pictures makes you realize how quickly time goes by. This picture reminds us of the beautiful childhood we all spend together. Those are memories that we will cherish forever. Thinking of you today and always--and wishing that we could all be together again
Aunt Alison & Uncle Chris
April 25, 2020
Gone from sight but never ever from our hearts. Today might be a good day for an Al Pacino movie since you both share this day. Happy Birthday, Vinnie! Forever loved ....
Danielle Alessandra
April 25, 2020
Vinnie today I am going to celebrate your birthday with our now very incomplete family. It makes me sad, but at the same time I look forward to taking this day to reflect on things..to remember the time we shared together and the beautiful person you were and are still. It's bittersweet to remember the past..it makes feeling the lack of you even stronger...but our past is worth remembering. We had a beautiful childhood together..and the memory of that is what I hold on to. I love you Vinnie now and always.
Tess Alessandra
April 25, 2020
"What we have once enjoyed deeply we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes a part of us."--Helen Keller
Happy Birthday Vinnie! I wish I could be celebrating it with you right now. But I find myself smiling, knowing that you are in very good company. I miss you--and the world is missing one of the most caring, loving souls I've ever known. But I take the memories I have of your kindness, and use it everyday as inspiration for how I want to be in my life. I love you.
Sharan Alessandra
April 25, 2020
my sweet Vinnie Today as every day you are in my thoughts-we celebrate your 39th birthday without you and nothing makes sense. Sometimes my grief is overwhelming. So I remember you with love and treasure all the years we had. I know you are in good company now-and I hope you are all dancing in the sky today. I will always love you-mom
Tess Alessandra
April 25, 2019
Vinnie, you are and will forever be so missed. This year I will be turning a year older than you were when you left us--it's a strange milestone--and it makes me sad to think of all you should have had to offer this life. No one had a bigger or more tender heart. I couldn't have asked for a better cousin. The only thing that makes me smile these days is thinking of you and mom and grandma all together in a much better place than this. I love you with all my heart.
Danielle Alessandra
April 25, 2019
Vinnie, I often think of the childhood we spent together and how you always looked out for Tess and I. I could not have asked for a better cousin with the warmest and most loving heart. Take care of my mom--it is one of the only comforts I have knowing that she is with you and grandma. I love you very very much.
Aunt Alison
April 25, 2019
Often think of you, Vinnie. Especially today .... because it will always be YOUR day. Havent seen your San Diego look-alike in a few weeks. But, it sure is nice when I do. Brings a smile.
Sharan Alessandra
April 25, 2019
Dear Vinnie-Happy Birthday Eleven years and still so missed. My tears could fill a lake by now. But I treasure my memories and I know you are in good company now. Always loved - Mom
Lenny Falzone
April 25, 2019
Another year without my best friend , still think about you every day and miss you always . Love you my brother
Sharan Alessandra
April 25, 2018
Another year-another birthday of missing you There are no words to express my sadness-love you yesterday, today and forever Mom
Sharan Alessandra
April 25, 2017
Another year has gone by-it is so hard to be without you-you are so missed. I think of you all the time-love you-miss you Mom
Antonia Silveri
May 31, 2016
Lit a candle for you Vinnie and know you will always be thought of by Talia and me especially when Spring come.
Love you!
Toni and Talia
Sharan Alessandra
April 25, 2016
Vinnie Happy Birthday-you are so missed each and every day-can't believe it's been 8 years-some days it feels like forever and some days it feels like yesterday. love you forever Mom
Aunt Alison
September 1, 2015
Hey Vinnie! I see someone who reminds me of you here in San Diego every once in awhile. Part of me wants to find out who he his. But I won't. I like thinking somehow it's you :)
Olivia Merrill
April 26, 2015
Although I never had the pleasure of meeting Vinnie, I've only heard funny stories and amazing words about him from the Alessandra family. Reading through these entries makes it abundantly clear what an impact himself and his personality had on the world. Rest in peace Vinnie, my thoughts and prayers are with you and with the Alessandras during this difficult time of year.
Christina Alessandra
April 26, 2015
Happy birthday Vinnie (even though it was yesterday I'm just finding this page now.) Nothing's even close to the same since you've been gone.. We think about you everyday and you are more loved and missed than you'll ever know!!! The family isn't the same without you, a huge chunk of our hearts will always feel missing. I love you so much and will always remember the funny stories my big cuz told us that one 4th of July, and the way you covered for us that one Christmas Eve and got us all out of trouble! We love and miss you Vinnie more with every day that goes by xoxoxo
Lenny Falzone
April 26, 2015
You were always my best friend and my brother from another mother. Not a day goes by that I don't think about you and tell funny stories about our time together . Miss you tons and love you my friend
jake alessandra
April 26, 2015
vinnie...i think about you every day of my life....about how all the kids on the bus would look out the window and be jealous of my awesome brother...i look up to you...you're my role model...best brother a kid can ask for...your loved by so many and i've never come across someone as funny as you...anytime i was feeling bad the sight of you lit up my world...i love you so much vin man...i hope to be half the man you were...rest in peace brother
Sharan Alessandra
April 25, 2015
happy birthday again Vinnie. I miss you so very much-each and every day. You have a niece- named after you-it's a shame you are not here to enjoy her. I hope you know how much you are missed and loved. Mom
Sharan Alessandra
April 25, 2014
Dear Vinnie I felt you today at 1:31 this morning-I wish I could have given you a big hug. I sure do miss you in a way that is hard to explain. Always in my heart Mom
Sharan Alessandra
January 1, 2014
Dear Vinnie Another year has come and gone without you and I miss you more and more each day. You are so loved and so missed it's hard to put into words. You are forever in my heart. Mom
Sharan Alessandra
April 25, 2013
Dear Vinnie, Another birthday without you and I can't believe it. There is not one day that I don't think of you-but your birthday is so special to me. I hope you feel the hugs and kisses I am sending you today and every day. Love you always Mom
Sharan Alessandra
April 25, 2012
Happy Birthday Vinnie Each day that goes by I miss you more and more. love you forever Mom
January 1, 2012
Happy New Year Vinnie Another year without you and missing you more than ever Love Mom
April 25, 2011
Dear Vinnie, Thinking of you today just as I do every day but especially today. Thirty years ago I gave birth to a beautiful baby boy and today I miss you more than words can say. Love you forever and ever. Mom
January 1, 2011
Happy New Year Vinnie You are missed more than ever. Love Mom
April 28, 2010
Vinnie,
Did you hear me wish you a Happy Birthday on Sunday? I like to think so . . .
Aunt Alison
Toni Silveri
April 26, 2010
I heard your voice in the wind today
and I turned to see your face
The warmth of the wind caressed me as I stood silently in place.
I saw your eyes in the window pane as I watched the falling rain
It seemed as each raindrop fell
It quietly said your name.
I do not think your song will end while flowers, grass, and trees
Abound with birds and butterflies
For you are one of these.
And I believe your voice will sound upon the whispering wind
So long as even one remains
Among those you called "friend".
The music stops and yet it echoes
on its sweet refrains...
For every tear that passes,
something beautiful remains
Marcie Battaglia
January 7, 2010
Dear Dave, Sharan, Amanda, & Jake,
Vinny, I saw the sparking lights of your spirit glowing brightly on your tree this morning as the snow glistened. It was beautiful.
Marcie Battaglia
Sharan Alessandra
April 25, 2009
Happy Birthday Vinnie. You would be 28 today. Your absence is so painful and sad. We miss you dearly. Love, your family
Amanda Alessandra
April 25, 2009
Happy Birthday Vinnie! I miss you so much ... I love you
marianne dalton
October 28, 2008
Dearest Sharan,David,Amanda and Jake,
my heart bleeds with the news of Vinnie's death. i am deeply sadden for all of you and Vinnie too. my thoughts and prayers will be with you with each passing day as you journey into new territory without your beautiful son and brother.
with love,marianne
Sharan Alessandra
October 23, 2008
Vinnie,
It has been 6 months since you left us. The sadness and heartache we feel will never go away. We love you and miss you more every day.
Your Family
Diane Askey
June 9, 2008
Dear Dave and family,
We just heard. We are so sorry! Please know that our prayers for peace are with you all at this time. This is a pain that we do understand, and wish that you never had to endure. We will be in touch soon. God Bless your son and brother, Vinny.
Peace and love,
Jim, Diane, and Drew Askey
Marilyn Morris
May 31, 2008
To the Alessandra family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Please accept our deepest sympathies. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
Marilyn, Bill, Sarah, Jacqueline and Kathleen Morris
Bruce MacKenzie
May 29, 2008
Dear Sharon, David, Amanda, Jake
What to say and what to do when someone you love is gone - but to remember him in our hearts for it's memories that keep them alive. I am sorry for your loss and especially seeing Vinny leave this life at such a young age. I do remember the last time I saw him at Dad's party and the good moments we shared. He was alway's a fun loving, good natured person. We will miss him dearly but remember him always.
Love, Bruce
Leah Morcelle
May 29, 2008
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. You are all in our prayers.
Cindy Suneson
May 28, 2008
Dear Sharan, David, Jake and Amanda:
You are still in my thoughts. I know there isn't anything I can say to make this any easier. I hope we can get together again soon. I've enjoyed the couple of times we've
managed to see each other.
Love, Cindy
Chris MacKenzie
May 27, 2008
Dear Sharan, David, Amanda and Jake,
Vinnie has a greater sphere of influence than any of us could possibly imagine. This Guest Book gives testament that he touched lives from coast to coast across many lands. Don’t think of him as gone away but that his journey has just begun. Life holds more facets and physically being on this earth is just one. Our love for him is not over so his life is not over. His spirit lives on in each of our hearts forever. Nothing loved is ever lost and he is loved so very much. The path to healing lies in the memories we have of Vinnie. The times we spent at Christmas, the times we spent at family get-togethers in the summer. The memories we have of Vinnie include a fun loving, likable guy who wanted to have a good time! Let’s continue to share our favorite stories with Vinnie because he is with us everyday. If we could hear his thoughts, undoubtably he’d agree!
Love, Chris, Alison and Ashley
Greg, Debbie, Jordan and Jessica Taylor
May 27, 2008
David, Sharon, Amanda & Jake:
It wasn't until recent years that our families finally began to become closer, with our on an off family reunions. We didn't really know Vinnie personally, but we knew all of you and how wonderful you all are. We of course, will be thinking of you often and look forward to when we can all be together again to laugh and love. I hope you find strength in God and your family and friends and the pain of losing Vinnie subsides, but the memories live on forever. All our best,
May 27, 2008
Carl,Julie Dubovy
May 25, 2008
Dear Dave,Sharon,Amanda,Jake and Vince
we heard last night of your great loss.Please accept our deepest sincere sympathy at this time of sorrow. May the God bless you and keep you blessed.
Carl,Julie Dubovy
M. Jackson
May 13, 2008
Vinman,
You always had a way of making everyone feel accepted no matter what. You were always happy to see anyone and made them feel welcome. Thank you for the memories and you will always be missed. I pray for your family.
Timothy Serwinowski
May 13, 2008
My deepest condolences to the Alessandra family. I only knew Vinny a short while when we worked together at Pizza Junction but it was all good times. Vinny could make anyone laugh and thats exactly what he did. Ill never forget his sense of humor. One in a million. I miss ya bro.
"It was all a dream"
Melissa and Paul Justinger
May 12, 2008
Dear David, Sharan, Amanda, and Jake,
Words cannot describe how sorry we are for your loss. Please accept our sincere apologies for not being there for you at such a sad time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Peter Grogan
May 11, 2008
Amanda and family,
I was deeply sadden when I heard the news. Growing up on Fairlawn, we all have such great memories and many of those include Vinny. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Joseph and Mary Ellen Clark
May 10, 2008
We found out late about our son Joe's good friend Vinny and have been shaken since. Clearly, from everyone's outpouring of love and grief, Vinny did not end up having just visited this world but had an enormous impact on all who knew and loved him. We wish God's grace and peace on his loving family.
Jessie Burgholzer
May 8, 2008
I'm am so sorry for your loss! Please accept my deepest sympathy and condolences! My thoughts and prayers are with you all!
Mary Ann Spinoso
May 8, 2008
Dear Dave,Sharon,Amanda,Jake and Vince,
We are all so deeply sorry for your loss. Its so hard to find the words to describe the deep pain we all have in our hearts for you. We love you all so very much and as always you are in our every prayer that God will touch your hearts and give you the peace you need at this time.
Love and God Bless, Mary Ann, Pat and family
Tewsley Wood
May 8, 2008
Sharon&Family, My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead. I am so sorry for your loss, my deepest sympathy. Your all in my thoughts and prayers. Love Tewsley
mitchell morcelle
May 7, 2008
My deepest sympathy,they must of been one angel short in heaven! Love you guys! mitchell morcelle and your friends at m. s.
The Radoccia/Feuerstein Family
May 7, 2008
Dave, Sharon, Amanda and Jake,
We send your family love and strength and support at this sad time. Take special care of one another. We are here if you need anything at all.
Amanda DiDio
May 7, 2008
Im am so sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and Prayers.
Samuel and Paula Schiappa
May 7, 2008
David, Sharan, Vince and family, please accept our prayers for all of you during this time of great loss.
Joseph Clark
May 6, 2008
Vinny I'll truly miss you, your laugh, and your spirit. We had many of good times together and you were a better man than most. Till we meet again Vinny. My prayers go out to the Alessandra family in your time of need.
"He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away."
Revelation 21:4
Louise Alessandra
May 6, 2008
Dearest Vinny, I can t stop thinking about you. Rest in peace Sweet Prince. God Bless you and your family. I will keep praying for all of you. Love Aunt Louise
Debbie,Joe,John,Liz, Nick LaRocca
May 5, 2008
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Patricia Fleming-Crossley
May 5, 2008
Dear David, I'm so sorry to hear about your son. I remember what a strong family you all where. My prayes and thoughts are with all of you. Peace be with you.
Susan (Pictor) Marando
May 5, 2008
Dear David and Family, I was shocked and saddened to learn of the death of your son, Vincent. I can't imagine the pain you are feeling and offer you my deepest condolences. Things seemed so simple when we were growing up on Wedgewood Dr. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Cathy Hess
May 4, 2008
Vinny always brought a smile and love into a room. Your family is in my prayers.
Ralph Maury
May 4, 2008
Our daughter went to school with your son. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Mark Kagan
May 4, 2008
My heart goes out to the family and anyone who knew Vinman and shared time with him. He had a great heart and will be forever missed.
Patrick Smith
May 4, 2008
I am so sorry to hear of this terrible loss. My deepest sympathies to the Allesandra family.
lauren guillow
May 4, 2008
To the Alessandra Family:
Since grade one vinnie has been an amazing friend to many of us. His smile and warm heart will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers with be with you for years to come.
-Lauren Guillow
Kim and John
May 3, 2008
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Jessi and Craig Tutt
May 3, 2008
Words fall far short of expressing our sadness over Vinny's untimely and tragic death. It is difficult to imagine how hard this time must be for all of you. Please know that we will be praying for your strength and support as you navigate this unfamiliar landscape.
Judi Gersic
May 3, 2008
You all are in my thoughts and prayers. My memories of you from Windermere School Library shine bright.
Sue and Marissa Winzig
May 3, 2008
Although we worked with Vinny a short while at Duffs..........we will always remember his great personality and his wonderful smile! GOD bless him and his family.
Erin Johnson
May 3, 2008
To the Alessandra Family,
Vinny will truly be missed by all who knew him. I am so sorry to hear about this loss. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Sean Heffle
May 2, 2008
To the Alessandra family,
My deepest regrets and condolences to all of you. I didn't know Vinny for as long as some others but in the short time I did know him I was able to form a great friendship with Vinny. He was a great friend, who would do anything for anyone, would never judge someone, and one who could make you laugh with his humor and his smile. I will remember the great times we had together.
Sean Heffle
Carl & Phyllis Savarino
May 2, 2008
To all of the Alessandras
Our deepest sympathy of all of you.Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Kim Grasso
May 2, 2008
Dear David, Sharan, Amanda, Jake, Uncle Jim, Jamie, Tess & Danielle,
We are so sorry for your loss and wish we could be there at the service for Vinnie. Our thoughts are and have been with all of you.
With Our Love,
Cousin Kim and Tom Grasso and Family
Nikki K. and Erin C.
May 2, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time.
Joe Tomasino
May 2, 2008
Myself and our staff are saddened to hear of the passing of Vincent. We only knew him for a short time, but his work ethic and professionalism will be deeply missed.
Joe Tomasino
JT Wheatfield's
Thomas Schepperly
May 2, 2008
My sympathy to the Alessandra family, i will NEVER have another friend like the finman miss ya buddy.
Terrilee Perry
May 2, 2008
Please accept my condolences. Your family is in my prayers.
John Doleski
May 2, 2008
I am very sorry for this loss. Vinnie will be missed. My thoughts and prayers will be with his family.
Kathy Galla
May 2, 2008
Dear David, Sharon, Amanda, Jake and Jim:
Words cannot express how deeply sadden I was to hear of Vinny's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you now and always. I am sure that he is in heaven with his wonderful grandmother.
All my love,
Gabrielle Joyce
May 2, 2008
To the entire Alessandra family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you; I am so deeply sorry for your loss.
Gabrielle
Tim Podkul
May 2, 2008
Dear Alessandra Family,
Please accept my condolences for your loss, and please know that my prayers are with you all. My memories of growing up with Vinny will never cease, and his energy and laugh will resonate within all of us.
Gene and Toni Coleman
May 2, 2008
To David, Sharan, Amanda, Jake, Vince, Jaime and family,
Words cannot express the sorrow we are feeling in our hearts for you. Vinney will always hold a special place in our heart. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Newton and Webster
May 2, 2008
Dear David, Sharon, and family...
You are in all of our thoughts and prayers. We are so sorry for your loss. Take care. The Newton Family and the Webster family - your old softball pals..
n guillow
May 2, 2008
my heart and prayers are with your family. Vinnie was a wonderful young man and will be missed by all that knew him.
David Perry
May 2, 2008
Vinnie was a excellent display of character and aptitude at the highest levels. My prayers are with him and his family. God Bless...
Diane Alessandra
May 2, 2008
Dear David, Sharan, Amanda, Jake, Jim, Jaimie, Danielle and Tess,
Vinny had a special warm, accepting and relaxed way about him. He always enjoyed hanging with the family and we loved being with him. Uncle John always thought that Vinny was like a younger brother. He will be missed and always in our hearts.
I am forced to be miles away at this tragic time but my thoughts, prayers and love are with all of you.
Love,
Diane
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