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Kristen Gero
April 21, 2009
Pepe,
I would like to say that I will miss you so very much! as will everyone one in the family, I still cannot believe that you are gone. When I moved back here to Vermont I was so excited to be able to see you again, but that didnt happen...well I did see you but we were not able to talk back and forth and give hugs and kisses. But I know that you are looking down on me and everyone in the family I will make you proud because without you none of us would be here! Rest Well Pepe and know that I love you now and forever..Until we meet again...I LOVE YOU!!!!
Leann Clairmont
April 20, 2009
Hi Mary, Please know that my prayers and my love are with you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss, but remember one thing, memories and spirits never die, they are eternal. I did not get through this obituary and guest book with dry eyes, but i also had smiles of great memories. So many great memories of your dad and your mom. Just remember one thing Mary, You are a product of 2 great, amazing and strong people and they will live on in you and the rest of your family. AND Nick, that was an amazing eulogy that you wrote....WOW.
Love Leann
Chris and Mary Jane Boyd
April 19, 2009
Dear Dad,
I don't know if I ever was ever able to let you know how very much I love you, but I hold faith that you see the depth of mine and all your Childrens love as we move on from this day forward. Your passing does not seem as thou it is real. How can such a Great Man be gone? Mary Jane came home from picking up the mail Thursday morning not able to say a word after getting your birthday card. I have to admit it took me awhile to be able to read it, the tears helped me understand your difficulty with reading before your cateracts were corrected. We will keep and hold dear that card and your final thoughts to her forever. Nick wrote a beautiful uligy that perfectly explained the character and strength you exhumed on a daily basis without effort. You are an inspiration and the best father a child could wish for and I will do my best to make you proud of me each and every day. I can feel the warmth of you, Mom, and all the other family members whom have left before us shining down on us and I hope you know how very much Mary Jane and I love you. Till we meet again, all our love.
Chris & Mary Jane
Nicholas Boyd Whitten
April 18, 2009
A reflection of the life of Kenneth H. Boyd that was read today at the beautiful service held at St. Anthony's Church. Our hearts came together to honor and remember this wonderful man.
THE MEASURE OF STRENGTH: Kenneth H. Boyd
How do you measure a man’s strength?
Could it be measured by ones physicality, patience, tolerance or virtue?
Is it sized up by ones knowledge, experience, or wisdom of this world?
Perhaps it’s measured by the amount of property one possesses, or by the number of persons they command or hold dominion over, or is it possibly by the wars’s one fights, or the causes they stand for?
If not by any of these various aforementioned attributes, then perhaps strength can’t be measured at all.
One thing is for sure, true strength can only be measured in the eyes of our God, and I would like to think we are measured for our capacity to love…unconditionally, devoutly and most especially in the face of adversity…love that can persevere even in our darkest hours. The love of a man for his wife, the love of a father for his children, and the love of a grandparent for their family.
I’ll always remember Pepe as the epitome of this definition. It’s fairly astounding, the walk of life this pillar of a man has taken. My mother would tell me stories from her childhood about her upbringing, and the occasional incident that would naturally occur being the only girl out of six children (although admittedly she claimed to be the cause of a few of those incidents). Mom always said, all she would have to do is run to Daddy and he would always take her side. She also spoke of a very true love that resonated from her parents, the kind of connection that destiny seems to lay the path for. True soul mates. For forty two years Kenneth & Theresa shared each other, raised their children, and enjoyed the first of their grandchildren…that is until tragedy blew through their lives like a slow moving hurricane, and through that storm he stayed the course, he stayed by her side, …losing her in such a way would crumble most men.
So I ask again, how is strength measured?
After such a loss, some would falter, and others may even fall…yet some, seeing that their families needed them…would stand strong, in support…a pillar. Staying true to his beliefs and focused on his faith, Kenneth continued on his journey, embracing whatever course God had set for him. I’d have to imagine even he couldn’t have expected that he would find love again at such a juncture in life…and I’m sure while fighting uneasy feelings of fear and loss…Pepe followed his heart after connecting with Lynn again. It wasn’t long after they were married that Lynn became Nana to us kids, and it was clear to everyone that the two of them had found happiness, joy and a very special love in each other. For ten years that love never faltered, and when tragedy once again reared its ugly head, the shockwave tore through out entire family. Truly, Lynn’s bright light had reached all corners of our hearts.
I’ll ask again, Strength, how is it measured?
Losing two loves in one life is a tribulation no person should have to bare.
Some years after Lynn passed, even after enduring such loss, Kenneth Boyd dared to open his heart again as he began a long and enduring friendship with Rose, and yet again…our family was blessed by the presence of another wonderful and caring person. Our Pepe was strong, with a kind of strength that cannot be measured. While following his heart and allowing destiny to take its course, he lived well, and he dared to love. Proud, Independent, and accomplished in his life…here is a man that leaves a legacy of love in the faces of his children, grandchildren, and his great-grandchildren. Something I’ll never forget, and will smile about always…in all the times I remember being around Pepe, something that just sticks out in my mind…. was his wink. It didn’t matter if we were in the middle of our Christmas gathering at Uncle Al’s house, with the whole place roaring with chaotic sounds of conversation, kids, music or the occasional argument over card games, at some point my eyes would cross the room, and there would be Pepe, sitting calm and collected…his sight would line up with mine, and with a warm grin he’d give a wink. The simplest of acknowledgements…but one that brought with it a reassurance of caring and love. That’s a strength and power few men can wield.
My mother asked me the other day, “I wonder what dad will do when he sees both mom and Lynn?” I looked at her, thought about the question for a second, and answered “They will probably sit down, play some cards and have a long conversation” One thing I know for sure is there will be plenty of love, enough to last an eternity.
Our Pepe has taken his place amongst the angels…he looks down upon us with a grin on his face, and a proud love in his heart…I’ll continue to try and make you proud Pepe, and I’ll be sure to throw a wink towards the heavens from time to time ; ) I love you.
April 18, 2009
Sorry I could'nt be there DAD. I Love you VERY MUCH.
Mary Gero
April 18, 2009
Dear Dad,
Today we say good bye to you forever,the finalization of your life is very hard for me but I want you to know and any one who reads this what a great dad you were.I was your only daughter and as a little girl you always made me feel like I was your little princess,I remember mom asking me to go ask you for certain things we wanted to do because she knew you wouldnt say no to me.I want to thank you for spoiling me rotten as a little girl and loving me with all my faults as a grown woman you will always be my daddy and I will keep your memory alive Good Bye Daddy rest well.
Your Loving Daughter Mary
Mary Bricker
April 17, 2009
Mary,Wendy Family,sorry for the loss of your Dad,grandfather.My prayers and thoughts with all of you.
Love Mary B
Friendly's
April 17, 2009
We lost another of THE GREAT GENERATION,that was willing to sacrifice no matter what the cost, to make our country better. Larney and Ann McGrath
Wendy Whitten-Lavery
April 17, 2009
I wish I could be there with the family in honoring the life of Pepe. I know that he will not be forgotten, as many of his character traits shine through in all of us. We are each a bit of him. He will surely be missed. God Bless you all.
Love,
Wendy
Leslie & Jr Lewis
April 17, 2009
Chris and Mary, You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers!
jill chamberlain chandler
April 17, 2009
You are all in my thoughts and prayers at this very sad time.
Kevin & Roe O'Brien
April 17, 2009
Poppie we love & will miss you. May you rest in enteral peace.You will always be in our hearts.
sandra o'brien
April 17, 2009
my prayers are with you mary and all family during this time of your loss. ken and my mom had a good life and i am greatfull for her having him in her life, for the time they had together.
April 16, 2009
Hi Ken, I am so sorry about your father. I know that he and all the other family members are celebrating in heaven.
I would have liked gone but life just gets in the way. I am praying for you and your sister and brothers.
Your loving cousins Carole and Jean
Fr Yvon Royer
April 16, 2009
Hello Ken and family,
I am writing to let you know that you are in my prayers. I am sure that your father lived a full life but it is never easy to loss someone you love.
I am sorry that I will not be able to make it to the wake or funeral. I have a funeral and wedding on Saturday, but I will be praying for you.
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