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for STANTON HAMLET
Rebecca Sherman
June 2, 2017
I was thinking about my late uncle recently and found myself on this site. Every May 16, his birthday, I think I should have a Wild Turkey Manhattan and toast him, but I must be a wimp because I tried one, and wow...! Stan would have laughed. What I remember is a dear, dear man, who when I told him my then newish husband and I were moving to Vermont, told me that wasn't possible because he and Cindy had closed the door after them when they moved 'back to the land' so many years before. He let us in the state, and proceeded to share his love of all things Vermont ever after. It's part of what made our time in Vermont so special. He also pledged to never talk to me again if we used vinyl siding instead of clapboard on the tiny cape we were building. I hated to offend his architect's sensibility, but I bet that he would continue talking to me, and he did. From remembering how he'd don a football helmet and spar with the goats to enjoying an evening of the best conversation, passing around a communal pint of Ben and Jerry's...every memory of Stan is fond...and, I and my family were ever so fond of him. As always...later!
Jude Grant
July 9, 2010
Sandy: Thank you for bringing Dakota to Harvey Road. Your dad was a canine miracle worker--just one trait for which all of the neighbors were eternally grateful. I miss them both.
Dick & Sandy Tumpes
July 4, 2010
Cindy: We're in my VW Squareback at the bottom of a rutted snowbacked icy Vermont hill, trying to get that flimsy car & our luggage up to Lee's family cabin where we all spent a winter weekend with our little kids. Stan & Bill are in the back seat yelling at me, banging on the car, "C'mon Tump! Go!Go! Faster!
I'm such a wimp I never would have made it without those two, especially Stan's great faith that I couldn't give up! I hope it's not too trivial a memory, because it's a great one for me, just as our times together in Colorado were, including driving him back to Boulder from A Basin with a broken leg.
I loved the guy. Just knowing him has been a wonderful part of my life, very dear to my heart.
We're so sorry for this loss.
Paula Archer
July 2, 2010
Cindy, Horace and I are so sad to hear of Stan's passing. Our hearts go out to you and your family. Take care, love you!
Suzanna Brown
July 2, 2010
Penny and the rest of the Hamlet family,
So sorry to hear of the passing of your Dad. Although it's inevitable, we never are ready for the loss of a parent. I hope you can find comfort in the many memories he left you with.
Guy Kennedy
July 1, 2010
Stan was a truly great guy. His calm, patient demeanor has been an inspiration for me as I have moved through life. He was a great listener, and truly thoughtful and measured in his response. I will always remember his guidance while introducing me to the regional planning commission. His motives were always for the greater good of everyone. We have lost a loyal friend to the whole community, and a true family man.
Best Wishes,
Ivy (Naef) Knipes
July 1, 2010
Of the many memories that I have of Stan and the Hamlet family, I have one that will forever be with me and make me laugh. I couldn't have been more then 5 or 6 years old, and my family was at the Hamlet house visiting. My little toddler brother Jaren and I went to the barn to explore, and got cornered by the goat in a stall. My brother ran, and I screamed in fear, until Stan came and pulled the elderly goat away from me. He will forever be my hero for that. Stan was a wonderfull man, and dear dear friend to my father for so many years. He will be greatly missed.
June 29, 2010
Dear Cindy
I don't remember if I ever met you at CU but I've heard your name mentioned each time I was either playing softball with Stan or if I'd run into him in the architectural department of the engineering building or if he'd drop in to visit my roommates Bill Strang and Dick Tumpus. What I do remember though is how enthusiastic Stan was about everything, especially baseball and the Redsox.
After 48 years I finally caught up with Bill and Dick in Tucson, Az via Facebook
and one of the first people I asked about was Stan, how he was and where he was.
That's when Bill wrote to him and I finally got a chance to write to Stan and invite him to stop in if he ever was in the Johnson City, New York area. I'm so happy I got that chance.
Please accept my deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Mike Bottino,CU-'61
Bill and Lee Strang
June 28, 2010
Stan and I were roommates in college, where we met our wives and shared many wonderful occasions together, from early dates, to raising our first children together in Lexington, MA. We were, are ardent Red Sox fans. Stan was a dear, dear friend, he will be sadly and greatly missed. Our prayers for love and comfort go out to Cindy and to Russell, Penny, Sandy and their families,
"Later!"
scott brown
June 28, 2010
i will be forever grateful that bill truex assigned me to work with stan when i joined alexander truex degroot in the spring of 1987. stan proved to be the most knowledgeable and patient mentor a beginning architect could have & there were many others similarly nurtured with professional skill and dedicated energy...always passed along with extraordinary humor!
scott brown
grand isle
June 27, 2010
Having served on the Underhill Selectboard with Stan, I can attest to the fact that the addition to the Town Hall and the new Town Garage would not have happened without his skill, hard work, and self-deprecating humor. His passing leaves a rent in the fabric of the beautiful town of Underhill. Margaret Hummel, now of Newton, MA
Jim Jones
June 27, 2010
Stan has been a friend of my father's for decades. Since my return home to Vermont in 2000, he has become a treasured part of my world as well. He will be remembered for his humor, generosity, curiosity, and ability to relate to people of all ages. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Cindy and family.
Jim Jones
Colchester, VT
Lea Van Winkle
June 27, 2010
Cindy,
My husband worked with Stan on the DRB, I am so sorry for your loss and please know that everyone, anyone in town is here to help you with anything you may need. May you find strength and comfort amongst your family and friends. Lea Van Winkle
June 26, 2010
I had the wonderful opportunity to get to know Stan as a volunteer guide at Fletcher Allen over the past five years. He was a passionate, dedicated man who always went the extra mile to help individuals get to their destination in the hospital. He always had a smile on his face and a warm greeting. I will miss his enthusiasm and bright spirit on Tuesday afternoons.
Llyn Ellison, Colchester, VT
Jo Anne & Tim Murad
June 26, 2010
It is hard to find words because Tim and I are both shocked and saddened. Whenever we encountered Stan he made the day a special one because he always had a smile on his face, was upbeat and warm-hearted. We will miss him.
Chuck McGill
June 26, 2010
I didn't know Stan all that long, but I enjoyed his company on the Cooperstown trips with Brian and other memebers of the SABR chapter. Stan was funny, full of life, and a really nice person. His knowledge of obscure baseball players from the 1930s-1950s never ceased to amaze me, and his favorite phrases ("have another ginger ale", ankle-biters, tapioca), will stay with me for a long time. He will definitely be missed.
My sincere condolences to the Hamlet family.
Lorin Duckman
June 26, 2010
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I am sorry for a second post. I omitted these photos.
June 26, 2010
Dear Cindy and Family,
We are sad beyond words at the loss of our beloved Stan. Frank has been his friend since the early 70's, when they worked together. He enjoyed his company thru the years whether it was at work, playing golf , at a hockey game ...didn't matter. Stan was a unique man and we loved him and were proud to be his friend.
I remember the 2 of you at our vow renewal in 1998....and I remember how cute Stan was with our brand new Ivy , 2 weeks old, when I took her into the office to show her off, Aug. of 1976. He was so sweet with her, and with me.
Your loss is HUGE. Stan was a man with brains and a heart bigger than he was tall. He will be missed by all of us and surely has already left a hole in Frank's heart.
I will bring you a meal when the dust settles a bit but in the meantime, we are here for you to run errands, shop...whatever you want. I will call you again after the funeral. Big hugs and condolences to you, the fantastic and loving wife and soulmate to a GREAT man and to his wonderful family.
With Love,
Judy & Frank (Naef)
Dennis Bouldin
June 26, 2010
Stan was a great golf companion and, more than that, a great friend. For all of us who knew him, there is now a void in our lives that will never be filled.
Louanne Nielsen
June 26, 2010
My sincere condolences to Cindy and Stan's family. Recently I spoke to Stan about railroads as I had been on a trip with a railroad buff. Stan's enthusiasm was delightful, almost child-like. He was passionate about many things which touched the lives of others. With fond remembrances,
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