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TAMARA HARTFORD MCFALL EDDY

TAMARA HARTFORD MCFALL EDDY obituary, Burlington, VT

TAMARA EDDY Obituary

TAMARA HARTFORD MCFALL EDDY BURLINGTON - With sunshine warming her back, waves outside gently washing up on Champlain's shore, and with her loving family by her side, Tamara Hartford McFall Eddy began a new journey on Monday Nov. 2, 2009. Born Oct. 21, 1963, Tamara's life was one filled with giving, listening, and helping others to heal and grow; she was a gentle beacon of light in so many lives. Tamara has lived in Vermont for twenty years, and began her mission of helping others in this community at Champlain Vocational Services, working with people with different abilities. She then continued this work both for Home Base, Inc. as a Case Manager, and as a private care-giver. Having a special connection and dedication to children and teens, Tamara also worked at The Northgate Youth Center. An artist and photographer, she was instrumental in the formation of the Burlington Frog Hollow Clay and Craft School, and believed art to be an integral part of community, spiritual growth, and healing. She then became the Program Director as the school evolved into The Burlington City Arts Clay and Craft Studio in 2004. Last year, Tamara was presented with the first "Laura's Spirit Award" from The Laura Kate Winterbottom Memorial Fund "In recognition of her energetic, dedicated, and passionate service to developing, coordinating, and managing Burlington City Arts' Clay and Craft Studio's youth programs and summer camps, and creating a fun and nurturing place for all the children." Tamara also lived and worked for the past two years with her husband at Rock Point School, as a Dorm Parent. Her deep and caring connections to both the youth and her peers in this community, as well as at City Arts, will be dearly missed by all. Because she has always thought of the world as one big family, Tamara is survived by all of us. Her personal family includes her loving husband Stanton Eddy, with whom she combined both their life's passions and careers. She is survived also by her mother Linda Hartford, her father Blaine Hartford and his wife Marie Gorman, her sisters Jennifer Allen, Sally Hartford, and Deborah Williamson; her brothers-in-law Conrad Kirby II and Robert Williamson; her aunts and uncles Sheilah Thomas and Joshua Hartford, Sandra and Buzz Hartford, Stewart and Hazel Hartford, and their families; her cousins Samantha and Luke Hartford; her mother and fatherin-law Jane and Marshall Eddy; Her sister-in-law Serena Eddy-Moulton and her husband Jim Moulton, her sister-in-law Katinka Eddy and her husband Eric Troffkin, her brother-in-law Merritt Eddy and his wife Jodi; her beloved nieces and nephews Christopher Allen, his wife Tricia Allen, Timothy Allen, Maxon, Kess, and Tucker Moulton, Seely Rose Troffkin, little Marshall Eddy, Alissa, Benjamin, and Nathaniel Williamson, his wife Sarah, her great-niece Lilly Allen, her greatnephew Baron Williamson; her good friend and first husband Daniel McFall and his wife Allison; and Tamara's beloved dog Kayla. The family would like to thank Tamara's medical, alternative medical, and VNA Hospice teams for their wonderful care and friendship. A celebration of Tamara's life will be held at 12 p.m. on Friday, Nov. 13, 2009, at the Memorial Auditorium in Burlington, with a reception to follow. To carry on Tamara's life's work, donations may be made in her name to the Rock Point School scholarship program and the Burlington City Arts Clay and Craft Studio.

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Published by The Burlington Free Press on Nov. 8, 2009.

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Jonathan Long

February 22, 2024

I am so sad to know that Tammy died. I knew her in the late 90's and she was one of the most earnestly nice and genuine people I have known. She was a couple of weeks younger than me so both born in October '63. She died the same year my daughter was born. I am grateful I knew her the short time I did. Peace to all who loved her.

Chad

October 14, 2022

We are coming up on what would be Tamara´s birthday on October 21, it´s been a few years but I wanted to leave alittle note of inspiration, no matter how long it´s been I´ll never forget Tamara´s kind heart and how she was always there for you no matter what, it could be my worst day and she could talk to me for a couple minutes and help me realize things are ok, she will always be missed, no matter how long it´s been I´ll always remember her kind words and the inspiration she always had, there´s so much I could write, we all miss you!!!

Tenzin Choedon and Family

November 15, 2009

A sincere condolence from everyone in my family. No word is enough to describe what a wonderful person she was. We still can not accept the fact that she's no more with us. With a smile on her face, she will always be a part of all her loved ones.

Lindsey Crowley

November 13, 2009

Tammy was an influential person in many of the lives of us “teens” from the Northgate teen center in the mid 90’s. I am grateful to have known you. My thoughts and prayers are with Stan and your entire family.

"May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived."

Sarah Giovannetti

November 13, 2009

Tamera will always remain as an inspiration of courage, strength and to laugh and smile everyday. Tamera has touched many hearts and will not be forgotten. We have truly lost an angel.

Tenzin Choedon

November 13, 2009

I remember meeting Tamara on few occasions but she is one of those people whom you come to like instantly. She has that certain aura which makes you feel loving and compassionate when you are with her. I remember taking my daughter to few of her open camps and I noticed there is something very different about her. She has that genuine smile and I found her very peaceful and calm and everytime I meet her, she's the same person. I still could not beleive she's no more with us but I am sure she will be remembered fondly by everyone as a very loving, calm and compassionate person. She'll be greatly missed especially by my family.

Nancy Vuley

November 13, 2009

Tamara was one of my angels as I always told her and Stan because they were always there for my family in times of need and never wanting nothing back in return.Tamara was a beautiful person inside and out and a very strong person. She will be dearly missed and always loved, but now she is a real angel. God must have needed her more. Love you Tamara!

November 12, 2009

i miss you Tamra from ashley

sharon webster

November 11, 2009

Tamara was truly one of the most beautiful people I have ever known. Her open spirit, grace, and loving view of the world was nourishing and healing for everyone who came into contact with her – & I include my grateful self in that category. Her laughter and unflappable manner were so full of peace. Even though she was younger than I am, she was a role model for me in many ways. Her way of being in the world gave me hope; sometimes it seemed to me that she floated – but it was a floating that was full of depth. She gave me courage. Since we both worked with special needs people and in the arts, I could look to her in either world. I will miss her deeply.

Andy Snyder

November 10, 2009

Tamara and I had a conversation fairly recently regarding "treating other people the way you would wish to be treated by them." We shared with each other that this was a basic premise to each of us in our lives. I promised her in our last communication that whenever that adage comes up for me in my remaining time on this earth that I would think of her. I invite you to join me in making this a basic principle to live by...and to remember Tamara as one who lived by this creed. A shining example of positive energy, trust and friendship!

meghan b.

November 10, 2009

My interaction with Tam was limited, but I saw the effect that her friendship had on my boyfriend, who volunteers at the BCA clay studio, and it made clear the fact that she was a lovely person. From the handful of conversations I had with her, and from watching her interact with others and attending her wedding last summer, I experienced first-hand how genuine and caring she was. She exuded an instantly identifiable archetypal energy -- sweet, gentle, supportive, open, generous -- and I felt totally at ease around her, as I know many others did.
Despite the fact that my personal interaction with Tam was limited, since hearing of her passing I've found myself dissolving into tears whenever I've thought about her, Stan, and the people who knew her well. I can only imagine how all of these folks are feeling, but I do know that when such a vital, generous, loving person passes one feels such a powerful blend of pain and gratitude for having known them. I certainly feel gratitude for having known Tam even in the casual way that I did. I extend the warmest love and sympathy to her family and friends, who surely know that her own love spread far, wide, and deep, even to people she had no idea she was affecting.

Ryan Strobel

November 9, 2009

I am a potter who got his start at the BCA clay studio. Over the past few days i have been deeply moved by the realization of just how much Tam, her work and her mission have helped make my life what it is. Her selfless work as the heart of BCA clay provided me the opportunity and nurturing environment to learn a craft that has become my life's work, and i will forever be grateful to her for that, and for her glowing example of what it means to serve others. Thanks Tam.

Daniel Blankenship

November 9, 2009

I met Tammy 15 years ago this month, after having just moved to Vermont. Having no friends she opened her heart without hesitation and has been in mine ever since. Seeing her obituary yesterday surprised and deeply saddened me as I hadn't seen her in awhile, but when I did she was always completely present and full of love. The shock of her passing didn't set in until this morning on my ride to work as I heard the words of a Jason Mraz song that exemplified Tammy for me, "one big family" and "life is short". As if to drive the point home, I switched the radio channel and the song was playing again, no doubt Tammy's way of letting me know she isn't far. There are few people in this world as genuine, compassionate and loving as Tammy. Her life and death make me want to be a better person.

Suzanne Slesar

November 8, 2009

Tamara and I each had Community Garden Plots across from each other for a few summers long ago...we used to dig, plant, weed, and harvest our gardens together. We also both worked in different Human Service Agencies together, while at the same time...her outlook on life made my days lighter...and brighter. I didn't know she was not well...this morning was a sad one...but the sun was shining on all of us...I'm sure she was up there smiling down....

Josh Hartford

November 8, 2009

Tamara was the great teacher of my life. She showed me and all who cared to witness, in thought, word, and deed, that it is indeed possible to walk on this planet in a constant state of love, in this world but not of this world, free of ego, loving every living thing, from a flower to a stray cat to a panhandler to a romping child--whatever crossed her path. Days before her passing, she told me she would "sprinkle angel dust on you all," and I feel its magic touch constantly.
Her joyous and grieving uncle,

Kathy Fox

November 8, 2009

I was sad to see Tamara's obituary. I did not know her really but m son had taken clay classes with her years back. When we'd see her out and about, she always remembered his name and had that incredibly sunny smile that was so genuine and warm. She was such a sweet and genuine person who really seemed to enjoy and appreciate all kinds of people. I am sorry for your loss.

Merritt,Jodi&Marshall Eddy

November 8, 2009

This is a tremendous loss for our family. Tamara has always been an incredible beam of light and love for anyone lucky enough to be involved in her life. I find peace knowing that both Tamara and Stanton have touched and helped so many people around them. Thinking of Tamara and the legacy she has now left behind can only make me smile after my many tears begin to dry.

Lars Larsen

November 8, 2009

I am saddened by the news of the death of Tamara, as I only ever knew her as a gentle soul whose smile and kind words exuded pure enjoyment for life, the arts and culture and those around her. Though my friendship with her was forged upon our chance meetings in and around Burlington, Tamara always had time to greet me with a unique kindness and a sincere interest in how I was doing. I will miss seeing her and hope her loved ones find comfort in knowing what joy she brought to those she met and knew.

Mick Emilo

November 8, 2009

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

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