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Effie DeShields Obituary

Effie (Burton) DeShields, 81, died peacefully on May 25 at her home in Arnold. She is survived by her husband, Retired Colonel William A. DeShields; a daughter and her husband, Mrs. Denise and Will Hardy; a son and his wife, Drs. Dennis and Mary DeShields; nine grandchildren; one great-grandchild; two sisters, Helen Cook, and Bertha Jones; and one brother, John R. Burton. Funeral service will be held, with a viewing at 10 a.m. and service at 11 a.m., on Monday, June 2, at the Asbury Broadneck UMC, 657 Broadneck Rd., Annapolis. Interment will be at Arlington National Cemetery at a date to be determined. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be sent to Eastern Shore Cancer Research Network Inc., 7651 Woodland Dr., Easton, MD 21601.

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Published by The Capital on May 30, 2014.

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Diane Little

June 6, 2014

God's blessings of peace, wisdom, and love,

June 4, 2014

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family, may god rest her soul. The Dennis Family, Darryl, Tracey and Maya

Warren Hutson

June 2, 2014

My condolences to you and yours.

Rev. & Mrs. James M. Kilby

June 2, 2014

To Colonel DeShields and Family! Our condelences to you and the family in the Passing of such a beautiful women with a sincere smile and a heart of gold. She will truly be miss. We will keep the family in Prayer .

June 2, 2014

Will miss your smiling face and hugs and kisses RIP my dear cousin.
Jeanette Peterson Georgetown. De

Rebecca Blasingame-White

June 2, 2014

The Blasingame family sends our love and condolences in the passing of Aunt Effie. We will continue to keep Uncle Buddy in our prayers.

Vickie Wright

June 2, 2014

Mom mom was special. She treated me like one of own daughter Denise is a best friend. Papa stay strong I'm praying for you all God is your strength.it hurts that I'm not there in the physical but I'm there in spirit Love Aunte Vickie

Gail Allen

June 2, 2014

Denise and Family, my prayers and condolences are extended to you and please know your Mom will always have a special place in my heart. She gave me my first opportunity to live alone with two great roommates. Please find comfort in the arms of The Father and know you have friends that love you much now and always.

June 2, 2014

My prayers and condolences are with the DeShields family. Mrs. DeShields, I remember you well. You gave me the first opportunity to live on my own as a young lady and room with Denise and Nadine. That period of my life has many fond memories and you were certainly a major part.

In my heart,

Gail Baker Allen

Herman Jackson

June 2, 2014

I will always love you

Patrice colbert Johnson

June 1, 2014

She was a beautiful person inside and out. My prayers are with the family. May God hold you and carry you through. I love you.

Candace Brown

June 1, 2014

I did not know Mrs. Effie but I do know her sweet granddaughter Britte and she speaks of such admiration and awe of her grandmothers kind heart and gentle spirit! May God's grace ease your pain and hurt and guide you through this tough time. My thoughts and prayers go out to Britte and the entire family!

Marnique Smartt

June 1, 2014

Rest in Peace Aunt Effie the Smartts love you and will miss you!!!

Ginger Speight

June 1, 2014

Prayers extended to the family in your loss. May God send His comforter, the Holy Spirit, to dwell among you.

April Robbins

June 1, 2014

My deepest condolences in the passing of Aunt Effie. She was a beautiful person and will be sorely missed. My prayers are with the family.

Shirley and Noel Smith

May 31, 2014

Bill,

You know how sorry we are that you have lost the love of your life, Effie. And we think you know how much we will miss her as well. We will continue to remember all the good times we had together cruising and taking trips and having our breakfasts at McDonald's. We know that God will continue to be with her and you.

We love you.

Mary Miller

May 31, 2014

I Am so sorry to lose Aunt Effie. I will miss her at the events she used to attend. My prayers are with you.
Love Mary Miller
miss her at the events. My prayers are with you my family

Brooks Family

May 30, 2014

Buddy & Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May the Lord be a comfort to all of you. With much love! From your cousins.

Barb Van Denburgh

May 30, 2014

Meeting Effie in a quilting class brought us together . Having the friendship of Effie and Bill has been the most wonderful blessing in my life. Our three-some (6 if count hubbies) was a very special friendship. So many memories of our times together and all that McDonalds coffee we shared. My love and prayers to Bill and all the family. (Especially those cute little grands, who had the nerve to grow up and become wonderful adults).

Diane Graham

May 30, 2014

Col.DeShields,We were sadden to hear of Mrs.Effies passing,she was truly a very loving and caring person,she was truly a Blessing to all of our Families.We pray for God's healing and strength for you and your family. Diane Graham and Family

Katie Mitchell

May 30, 2014

Bill you are in our prayers. My heart goes out to you for the pain you are now feeling. Time does heal, I know because I have been where you are now. Effie was such a dear friend. I will miss our frequent telephone conversations. Our friendship of over 46 years will always be cherished.
May God Bless you & your family.
Always,
Katie Mitchell & family.

Antionette Hines & Family

May 30, 2014

Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts. You are in our prayers.

Peggy Pergerson

May 30, 2014

It was a joy to have known such a beautiful lady. I loved when her and I would talk at the commissary; her soft spoken voice will truly be missed.

Patti Lister

May 30, 2014

May the love of family and friends comfort you during this difficult time.

Mrs. Ralph, Emma Grace McCabe McCool

May 30, 2014

Mrs. DeShield's daughter-in-law Dr. Mary DeShields took such good care of my husband Ralph W. McCool of Leeds, Maryland. Our family is so sorry for Mrs. DeShield's families loss. You are in our prayers.

Anne Scott

May 29, 2014

Effie was a wonderful person and dear friend. I am going to miss my bowling partner very much. She was a joy to be around. My deepest sympathy to the family. You are in my prayers.

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