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Bruce Cabot Smith

1955 - 2024

Bruce Cabot Smith obituary, 1955-2024, Coeur D'Alene, ID

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1955

DIED

2024

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Bruce Smith Obituary

Bruce Cabot Smith, 69

Bruce Cabot Smith was born in Seattle, WA on May 6, 1955. He died at home in Coeur D' Alene, ID June 13, 2024. Bruce was a sailor in the American Merchant Marine. With his father's help he shipped out as Ordinary Seaman on the SS Hawaii from Portland the summer he turned 17. There was no going back to Beaverton High School after that. He had a "Permit" to ship in the Sailors Union of The Pacific. It took 15 years to get a "Book" in the union which gives first shot at the best shipping jobs. He called a mailbox in Seattle homeport as he shipped from Honolulu, San Francisco, Portland and Seattle.



Bruce was well known around the watering holes of west coast sailors. He preferred Budweiser for breakfast, was free spending and enjoyed fist fighting. He was 6'3" and settled many disagreements, paying for that with broken fingers and scars. American President Lines and Matson had the best ships and jobs; he worked them for 30 years.



Bruce was Bosun (lead sailor) on an APL ship when he met Lydia Conde in Manila in 1990. Lydia and Bruce married in 1992. Michelle was four when first meeting her adoptive father. They lived in the mountain resort city of Baguio at a family compound. Bruce would take ships shuttling from Manila to Japan, Taiwan, Korea, Hong Kong and Singapore, not returning to the US, instead staying in the Philippines. Bruce enjoyed family life with Lydia's extended family and the companionship of 200 lb. mastiff Dumbo, first of several big companions for 10 years.



Bruce injured his back on the APL ship, MV Singapore, in 2002, thus ending his shipping career. They relocated to Coeur d'Alene to be close to his parents and siblings, and a good hospital. They had a nice home built and Bruce retired to the backyard and fishing. As mobility got harder, steel-heading on the Snake River and long days boating evolved into caring for a big tropical fish aquarium. Bruce enjoyed the company of his parents, Bill and Lynn, spending many afternoons at their home or local taverns. Bruce totally avoided the frustration of computers and cell phones, he never wanted either. Reading books was always a favorite pastime when on ships or at home. He wanted a cigar, a book, a comfortable chair and dog to bark at. Lydia took care of that and everything else. He had what he needed most, the love of Lydia. His family and friends know how her devotion and care enriched his life and are thankful.

Bruce was preceded in death by his parents, Bill and Lynn Smith, of Cd'A. He is survived by his wife, Lydia Smith of Cd'A; his daughter, Michelle Conde Smith and husband, Leslie; nieces, Nicole and Scarlet; nephews, Zack and Sean in the Philippines; his brother, Bill Smith and wife, Lori of Walla Walla; nieces, Willow Smith of Moscow and Jean Smith of Laramie WY; sister, Karen Smith and husband, Rick of Port Townsend, WA; sister, Karla Ngawaka; and nephew, Nigel Ngawaka of Cd'A.



To Dr. Scarola for many years of care, the nurses and North Idaho Hospice who made it possible to pass at home as he wanted --- Thank You.



Yates Funeral Home is entrusted with final arrangements. Please visit Bruce's online memorial and sign his guestbook at www.yatesfuneralhomes.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Coeur d'Alene / Post Falls Press on Jul. 24, 2024.

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Cheryl (Slim) Schoener

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My heart breaks as I came upon this. I served his parents as their bartender and was honored to meet Bruce and his wife. My prays go out to you and the family. Cheryl Schoener

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