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Benjamin Matthews Obituary
Marvin Matthews
'Buddy'
Mr. Matthews, 75, of Matthews, passed away Monday, March 8, 2010. He is survived by his wife, Patricia of thirty years, sons, Ronnie and his wife Andrea, Tony and his wife Debbie, and Michael White, daughters, Terry Barefoot and Karen Belding and her husband, Patrick as well as his grandchildren, Jade, Jennifer, Jake, Jeremy, Seth and Matthew and his buddy, Mugsy. He is also survived by one brother Ken Matthews, and his wife Wanda, and two sisters Frances Hinson and Anne Ray Robinson. He was preceded in death by his parents, William and Kathleen Matthews.
Mr. Matthews worked as a salesman at Yandle, Witherspoon Supply Inc. He loved his customers and dedicated over thirty years to his job. He enjoyed golf and woodworking and was a member of Blair Road United Methodist Church and Edwina's 'This and That' Sunday School Class.
The family will receive friends at Blair Road United Methodist Church, Thursday, March 11, 2010 from 1 to 2 p.m. with the service following at 2:15 p.m.
Memorials may be made to Blair Road United Methodist Church in lieu of flowers.
Lowe Funeral Home is serving the family.
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Patti Robinson
March 12, 2010
This is to Buddy's entire family and his friends,
I pray that you can find peace in knowing that Buddy is rejoicing in heaven and living life to the very fullest!
We cannot begin to fathom the will of our Lord, but we can understand that because of Him, we have hope in seeing our loved ones again.
When you are able to get beyond the hurt, allow all those memories that you have of Buddy to transcend and bring joy to your hearts.
You can see him in the eyes of his children, in the smiles of those whose lives he touched, in the beauty of the memories you have of him. May God bring you His comfort and peace through this very difficult time.
Ann, Richard, Rick, Terry, Kim, and Penni, I know being here in California, so far away from N.C, is difficult. Just remember, we have a big God and His love is deep- and wide!! Hold on to your faith. I love you all and I am so proud to be a part of your beautiful family!
All My Love & Prayers, Patti <
Matthew 5:4 "God blesses those who mourn, for they will be comforted."
Jennifer Wicker
March 11, 2010
Papa, thank you for being a wonderful grandfather. I will miss your smile and I will miss you. I love you.
March 11, 2010
Our prayers are with you all. May all the pleasant memories bring smiles to your hearts, forever.
Willie,Diana,Natalie and Curtis Herms
Mount Holly, NC
Anna Jackson
March 11, 2010
Ronnie & Andrea
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Penni Mackman
March 10, 2010
Buddy was a great husband, father, grandfather, uncle and brother. We didn't get to see Buddy much because we live in California. Always traveling with mom and dad {Richard and Ann Ray} Our hearts go out to the whole family and we know he is with God in that beautiful place. We Love You All! Richard, Ann Ray, Rick, Terry, Kim, Tim & Penni.
Donna Parker
March 10, 2010
Pat, Karen, Terry, Ronnie and boys.....I am so sorry to hear this sad news....Buddy was such a great husband, father and grandfather... I remember him well and I know he will be missed by all!!!!!! May God heal your pain during this sad time.......Take Care.....
Donna and Shelby Parker
Judy McMillian
March 10, 2010
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
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