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Margaret L Reed
August 25, 2013
I was unaware that EK and Dorry passed away recently. As I read all these comments I am truly impressed. My late husband Leonard Tynan Reed was E.K.'s room mate at Wesleyan University class of 1944. They were members in the Sigma Chi Fraternity. He was 5'3" and often talked about EK and their times in undergraduate school.
My belated condolences are sent to his children.
Peggy Reed
Thomas Williams
May 22, 2013
I am a graduate of Buffalo State College receiving my degree in 1974. Due to my involvement in student government, I had an opportunity to meet and work with Dr. Fretwell. I have always regarded him as one of the finest people I have ever met. And I am extremely fortunate to have met him. During the turbulent times in the late 1960s and early 1970s, Dr. Fretwell taught all of us how we should act and treat those with whom we might agree. If you know Dr. Fretwell, you will also know that it is likely my note here will be returned to me with grammatical corrections. We need more people like Dr. Fretwell and his loss is a deep loss indeed.
Lisa Blackman
February 13, 2013
Dr. Fretwell was larger than life. He was a caring man. I am better for knowing and working with him.
Kevin Newnan
December 26, 2012
I had the good fortune to work with Dr. Fretwell when he was the interim President at the University of Massachusetts. I was on the Board of Trustees during his one year tenure, and the University was better for the relationship, brief as it was. He was one of those people who couldn't help but look up to - in every sense of the word! I am saddened to learn of his passing, but seeing his obituary made me remember him fondly.
carol Surles
November 21, 2012
I met E.K. some twenty years ago when we both served as consultants on a national committee. He subsequently took an interest in my career, and he became a wise and available mentor to me. He understood the challenges that I faced as the first African American president of two historically white universities. I took great comfort in knowing that he was among my trusted colleagues during my investiture at Eastern Illinois University, which happened to be his mother's alma mater. What a princely man he was in every sense. Carol Diann Smith Surles
Lawrence & Mary Lynne Calhoun
November 15, 2012
Dear Barbara, Peggy, Jim, and Katie -
Our lives and work at UNC Charlotte have been shaped and formed in remarkable ways by the inspirational leadership and friendship of E.K. and Dorrie. We are so grateful. We send our deepest sympathy and affirm that in the words of the Psalmist, you have a "goodly heritage."
L. Ellis
October 30, 2012
Sincere condolences to the family!
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Nancy Wiggins
October 30, 2012
Dear Family,
Please accept my condolences.As you are well aware, your Dad was a very special person who make everyone around him feel special. He made the Freshmen feel like they were immediately part of the UNCC family. He was a swell boss to Adjuncts as well as faculty and staff.
Nancy Bowen Wiggins
Jim Young
October 29, 2012
Dear Family,
E.K. and Dorrie were dear friends, beginning with our time together at Buffalo State. Certainly, they nourished me with their caring, loving ways, and E.K. gave me many opportunities to grow in my administrative capacity, eventually to become a president and chancellor, modeling my career after his.
He and Dorrie will always be treasured for all they mean to me. Know that I hold you all in my heart of hearts, as I hold them both, always.
I am sorry for your loss.
Sincerely,
Jim Young
Susan Cooper
October 27, 2012
Barbara, Peggy, Jim and Katie -
So sorry to hear that EK has died and also belatedly of Dorrie's death.
So many memories dating back to our July 4th celebrations when we all were little.
Mostly I remember getting together with your parents in Charlotte after my father moved there. They would meet up at the Symphony and the Opera. Always train stories and family stories between my father and Dorrie.
Your parents were very good friends to both my parents - and to me. He and I enjoyed talking about NYS and NYC politics then and now.
You may not be aware that EK helped my father during his moves in Charlotte and was the official shower curtain installer for obvious reasons. He offered at the time of my father's last move and was crushed he had a shower door at the new place :)
Know I am thinking of you all.
Bill Cooper
October 26, 2012
So sorry to learn of "Uncle E.K.'s" passing. My sympathies as well with the passing of your mother which I wasn't aware of. I have fond memories of the time our families spent together when we were all growing up. As a kid, I had absolutely no inkling what a distinguished educator your father was. I remember talking with your dad at my father's funeral back in Charlotte a few years ago (when I did by then realize his credentials) and I 'm still impressed by his thoughtful answers to my questions on college related things. Just a very humble, very bright and very nice person who didn't need to wear how smart he was on his sleeve. To top if off, your dad and mine were train guys. I'm much more a ship guy but will always feel a special connection to anyone who's into transportation stuff - period. Both your mom and dad were very special people. My thoughts are with all of you!
Marti Becker
October 26, 2012
When I first worked at UNC Charlotte in the Reese building, EK Fretwell was the Chancellor. He was larger than life but so very human. He stopped in my basement office every once in a while to check on how my plants were growing. He always knew your name. He will be greatly missed.
ariel cam
October 24, 2012
Thank you Dr. Fretwell for all that you have done for the University. May you rest in peace.
~Ariel
Susan Gillette
October 22, 2012
to Barbara and your family, Mike and I are so sorry to learn of the passing of your dad. We also were unaware that you lost your mom last year. I will always remember our quartet rehearsals at your home in Buffalo. I really enjoyed your parents and am thankful for the great work your dad did at UNCC. Libby did her undergrad there, and is now working on her MBA at the Belk School of Business. I also fondly remember a visit we made to your folks shortly after we moved to Charlotte. Brian was just 2 and your mom pulled out a wooden drum for him to play with!Please know that Michael and I are keeping you and your family in our thoughts and prayers, but also remembering both your parents with great respect and fondness. Our love to you, Susan and Michael Gillette
Mark Colone
October 22, 2012
I will miss him. He was good to so many people in so many ways. God bless his family. PS - He loved the "ugly" green and white tie with the Miner 49er on it and he wore proudly at all the games he attended and so loved.
Jenny Schultz
October 22, 2012
What an amazing life he lived. He gave so much to our educational community and enriched so many young peoples lives.
Lohithnaga Sama
October 22, 2012
May God bless your soul, Rest in Peace Dr.Fretwell.
Laura Hill Reece
October 22, 2012
Who will every forget Dr. Fretwell quickly striding around UNC Charlotte's campus-I know I won't. His energy, enthusiasm, and vision changed our campus forever, and for that many including myself are grateful. Godspeed E.K.!
Charley Blaine
October 22, 2012
E.K. was one of the good guys, good for Buffalo State and for education.
Anne Hopkins
October 22, 2012
I am so saddened to learn of the passing of E.K. I followed him into being President of UNF and he helped me enormously with the trasition. We all thank him enormously for his great service to UNF.
Linda Terry
October 22, 2012
May God's Grace be with his family at this sorrowful time!
Juanita Leto
October 22, 2012
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always. I pray that God will give you peace during this time and know that He is with you.
David Walch
October 21, 2012
I shall always remember the kindness that President Fretwell and his wife Dorrie extended to me and my family when I accepted a position at SUNY- Buffalo State so many years ago. He was a kind, humane gentlemen in every respect as well as an effective, forward looking and caring administrator. Having uprooted our family, having lived all of our lives in the west, he made every effort to make us feel at home. He was a role model and mentor who had a lasting influence.
Kelly Strong
October 21, 2012
Prayers and hopes for the family.
Rosa Guzman
October 21, 2012
Thank you Dr. Fretwell for everything that you have done for the University and its students, for all of your generosity and dedication. R.I.P. Dr. Fretwell my prayers are with his family.
October 21, 2012
President Fretwell was a calming influence at Buffalo State during trying times. He has not been forgotten after all these years. Thank you for all you did at Buffalo State. Shirley Scheffler, Class of 1969
Essoyodou Kpatcha
October 21, 2012
No word will be enough to express our gratitude toward all you have done for us and the University. May God Bless your family left behind and Rest In Peace. You will always be Missed and Loved.
October 21, 2012
We have five UNCC degrees in our immediate family and have benefited so
much from the legacy he helped create.
Thank you Dr. Fretwell. Richard Hayes
Benjamin Smyth
October 21, 2012
Thank you Dr. Fretwell for everything that you've done for us and for making our campus into one that I am proud to be a part of
Jill Opdyke Billings
October 20, 2012
Kindness of spirit, generosity of soul and VERY tall. Fond memories are the gift you gave me. (Granddaughter of Dean Colvard)
Scotti Davis
October 20, 2012
I'm sad to say goodbye to such an amazing man and an honorable Chancellor. I am glad I can say I was attending UNCC, though for a short amount of time, during his term as Chancellor. He has changed so much at this university and unknowingly contributed to my attendance of the school. R.I.P. and your legacy will never be forgotten!
Deborah Nwafor
October 20, 2012
Thank you for all your great contributions to this great institution. I was not fortunate to meet you in person, but your legacy was well laid.
R.I.P Dr. Fretwell.
October 19, 2012
Chancellor Fretwell was a phenomenal man. He was eager and passionate and I feel we as 49ers should take notice of his excellent behavior and strive to be civic and expand our knowledge all over to help the community. I appreciate his contributions to the school I now consider my alma mater. Thank you Chancellor E.K. Fretwell, your hard work lives on!
October 19, 2012
Thank you for all that you've done. R.I.P. Dr. Fretwell.
Jingjing Zhao
October 19, 2012
Even though I never get a chance to meet Dr. Fretwell, his contribution to the university has touched me. I always picture myself to make contributions to either diversity educations or international business in the near future, and I always seeking a role model of pursing my dream. Now, I found it. Dr. Fretwell. I wish I could got a chance to sit down have a cup of coffee and a conversation of diversity education or so. I appreciate all his influential changes.
Dr. Fretwell, rest in peace.
Bill Washburn
October 19, 2012
We all recognize the contributions he made to the school and his vision has certainly led to a university of which we can all be proud. Having been a student during his tenure, I have to say that none of that mattered to me, at the time, as much as the fact that he genuinely cared about the students. Why else would a man serve students in a cafeteria at midnight during exam week. He certainly set an example and a high bar for those who would follow.
Thom Clark
October 19, 2012
Dr. Fretwell will always be remembered fondly as a man that took time to speak and relate to the university employee whether they be administrator, staff support or student. We always looked forward to E.K. coming by our post office window in Mail Services to carry on a conversation with our window staff. They always felt as if he made them feel like they were more than just university staff. The university needs the kind of goodness that Dr. Fretwell shared with the campus community. God speed.
Debbie Wilson
October 19, 2012
I will always remember the vision of him stopping by our office asking for a back rub from Marian who is no taller than 5'2". She would stand on a chair while he hunched down so she could reach him! I happy memory.
Ed Pardue
October 19, 2012
I never knew the man, but as a graduate of UNCC, I have been in the building named for him on many occassions. God speed, sir, and thank you for your contributions to UNCC.
Carol Correll
October 19, 2012
It has been an honor and great privilege to know Dr. Fretwell. I am very grateful for the four years that I got to work with him. He loved talking about his children, grandchildren, times growing up, and all the places he has been. He always made me feel special, as he did everyone he came in contact with. I will miss him very much.
Dr. Bob Farnsworth
October 19, 2012
Dr. Fretwell was a wonderful leader as the Interim President of the University of North Florida. Those of us who worked during his tenure remember with fondness his kindness and sense of humor (as evidenced by, among other experiences, his deciding that during a hot summer everybody needed an ice cream cone--and passing them out himself!). My prayers are with his family. He will be missed in many places.
Elea Warf
October 19, 2012
Dr. Fretwell will be missed! I am so honored that he allowed me to visit him and his lovely wife for the past few years with my dogs. I enjoyed his many tales of his great life and hearing of all the intresting places he has been. He was always so kind and wanted to hear all about our adventures at each dog show when i would come back. Thank you Dr. Fretwell for befreinding me. My thoughts and prayers are with his wonderful family. He light up when he talked about you all.
Linda Albright Rousseau
October 19, 2012
My sincerest condolences. Dr. Fretwell was such a gentleman and scholar! He never knew how much he impacted my life.
Joel Thomas
October 19, 2012
I had the honor of having lunch with Mr. Fretwell in 1999 during my scholarship interview/ luncheon. I knew he must have had some prominent place within the university but it was only later I found out who he was and the fact we were having lunch in the building named after him! I remember him being very down-to-earth and unassuming despite the fact he was a towering presence both literally and figuratively. He talked with me and my father for over an hour, and solidified in my mind that UNC-Charlotte was the right choice for me. His contributions to the university and to its students will be remembered forever.
October 19, 2012
I did not have the pleasure and privilege of knowing Dr. Fretwell as Chancellor, but there's no doubt that his leadership helped to propel UNC Charlotte to its current levels. Thanks for your leadership and commitment to the University.
J. R. Hildreth, Class of '76
Linda Russell Wilson
October 19, 2012
Dr. Fretwell was the epitome of the Chancellor and friend everyone would want. I was so fortunate to know him well in my college years. He was well-loved and respected. He was always "there". He lived a good and motivating life.
K Pratt
October 19, 2012
Thank you Mr. Fretwell! R.I.P.
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