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Eleanor Pettus Obituary

Eleanor Phillips Pettus
LAKE WYLIE -- Eleanor Pettus went home to be with the Lord on May 12, 2010 at her home in Lake Wylie, SC. It was a late Wednesday morning, the air warm and the birds singing like Angels outside her bedroom window. Her passing will be remembered because of her love for her family, her friends, her co-workers, and acquaintances she met on her journey through life.
She was the youngest of five children born to the late Levice Thomas Phillips and Mary Montezz Stegall. Born May 23rd, 1941 and raised in Charlotte, NC, she was a graduate of Harding High School. She relocated to Lake Wylie, SC in 1973 with her husband and two children. Eleanor was a long-term member of River Hills Community Church. The Bible talks about a large shining star whose presence shone on the night Jesus was born. For many, Eleanor was akin to this star whose guiding light burned so bright for so many. Eleanor was a co-founder and working partner with her husband through many ventures not the least of which was United American Video Corp., also known as UAV Corp, one of the leading companies in its field nationwide. She was Executive Vice President until her retirement in 2004, responsible for finance, accounting and human resources for over 500 associates.
Her passion for people and charities and doing the right thing were always shining through. She was active in supporting many worthwhile causes among them Pilgrim's Inn, York Place, York Tech Board of Trustees, Winthrop University Fund Raising Committee, River Hills Community Church Finance Council. Eleanor loved gardening, travel, spending time with her children and grandchildren. She and her husband loved cooking and entertaining her family, relatives and friends at her home. She loved Myrtle Beach, South Carolina where she spent part of every year at her summer home.
She is survived by her beloved husband of 50 years, Jerrold 'Jerry' Hugh Pettus. Eleanor is survived by her son Jerrold 'JR' Hugh Pettus II and his wife Heidi O'Day Pettus of Lake Wylie, South Carolina, and daughter Susanne Pettus Olson and her husband Kent Olson of Waxhaw, North Carolina. She is survived by her three grandchildren, Alexander Hugh Pettus of Lake Wylie, South Carolina, and Tessa Elizabeth Olson and Emma Catherine Olson of Waxhaw, North Carolina. Eleanor is also survived by her sister, Francis P. Barnes of Dallas, North Carolina; her sister, Virginia P. Westbrook and husband Louis Westbrook of Charlotte, North Carolina; her brother, Ralph 'Buddy' Phillips and his wife Nancy Phillips of Lake Wylie, South Carolina; brother-in-law, Jim Pettus and his wife Vicki Pettus of Charlotte, North Carolina; and her mother-in-law, Mary Elizabeth Pettus Dixon of Charlotte, North Carolina. Many nieces, nephews, and cousins survive Eleanor with special mention to Donna Adkins and Shirley Hoffer.
Eleanor is predeceased by her sister, Ann Phillips Aycock.
Eleanor will be dearly missed on this earth but Heaven will most certainly have a new star.
Visitation will be on Saturday, May 15, 2010 between 6:00pm and 8:00pm at the River Hills Community Church at 104 Hamilton Ferry Rd., Lake Wylie, SC 29710 at the corner of Highway 49 and Hamilton Ferry's Rd. Funeral services are at River Hills Community Church on Sunday, May 16 at 1:30pm with Pastor Bruce Jones officiating. Her interment will follow at Pleasant Grove United Methodist Cemetery located on Pleasant Grove Road in Charlotte in the Oakdale neighborhood, at 3:30pm.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be sent to the non-profit Hospice and Community Care, 993 P.O. Box, Rock Hill, SC 29731.
The family would like to thank all the special caregivers who have spent so many hours taking care of Eleanor.
Condolence messages may be sent online to www.mcleanfuneral.com.
McLean Funeral Directors of Belmont is serving the family of Mrs. Pettus.

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Published by Charlotte Observer from May 14 to May 15, 2010.

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Carol Funderburk

May 17, 2010

Jerry and Family,
What a beautiful wife, mother, grandmother, aunt, daughter and friend Eleanor was to many people. Her very presence reflected her beauty inside and out, she was a shining light and as her friend I will miss that.
May God Bless

Sandra Langton-Smith

May 16, 2010

Eleanor was a wonderful and beautiful lady with a heart of gold and she will forever be missed. I am honored to have known her and will cherish fond memories. My deepest sympathies for her family. You are in my thoughts and prayers. May God bless and comfort you.

Rick Siliakus

May 16, 2010

Jerry, just heard from my dad about Eleanor's passing...I am so sorry to hear that and wanted to extend my deepest condoleances...I remember her as a class act. You and your Family are in my thoughts and prayers.
All the best,
Rick Siliakus

May 16, 2010

Jerry our prays are with you and your family. May God Bless you.
Richard & Raye Carroll
Charlotte, N.C.

May 15, 2010

May God give you and your family comfort in these times.


Rodney Robinson

Amy Black

May 15, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Talli Zale

May 15, 2010

Jerry although it has been many years since we have seen Eleanor we will always remember her as the lovely young lady that we liked so very much a long time ago.We are sorry for your loss.
Talli Dixon Zale and Marion Dixon

Robert Warnars

May 15, 2010

Jerry,
We are so sorry to hear about Eleanor. We knew her as a fine and lovely woman. We will keep her in our thoughts as she was, a "once in a lifetime lady". May our prayers will be with you and the childeren. Rob & Thea

Jan Byers, Wade Hunter

May 14, 2010

Jerry,
We were saddened to learn of Eleanor's passing. She was a beautiful lady--loved by all those whose lives she touched. As much as you will miss her, it is comforting that she is sharing all that love with those who have gone before her. We pray that you, your children and family will seek the happiness that she would want for each one.
Jan and Wade

Tommy & Lisa Phillips

May 14, 2010

We are sorry to hear about Eleanor. She was truly a remarkable woman in so many ways. Keeping you all in our thoughts & prayers at this time.

Love
Tommy, Lisa & Lindsey Phillips

Gail Carroll

May 14, 2010

Jerry and Children,
So sorry to hear that Eleanor had gone to be with the Lord. She was such a precious little lady. She will be missed. You all are in my prayers. Keep the faith and look to GOD as your source of strength in the days ahead.
Sorry I will not be able to attend the funeral as I am out of town.
Love to all.
Gail Carroll

Kim Buchanan

May 14, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

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