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James McIlwain Obituary

James McIlwain
'Chic'
Mr. McIlwain, 61, of Charlotte, departed this life into eternal rest on June 27, 2005 at Carolinas Medical Center. He was the son of the late Mr. Ferry and Ruth B. McIlwain, and was born in Charlotte, Mecklenburg County, NC, on May 31, 1944.
Funeral service is 1:00 PM Friday at Greater Gethsemane AME Zion Church, 531 Campus Street, with Rev. Calvin L. Miller officiating. Interment will be in Oaklawn Cemetery. The family will receive friends one hour prior to the service, at the church.
James was a graduate of West Charlotte High School, Class of 1962. He continued his education and graduated from Johnson C. Smith University, Class of 1966, with a B.S. Degree in Biology. James was also a member of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity, Inc. He was a former employee of Greyhound Bus Lines for 20 years, and retired as a telephone information specialist.
He leaves to forever cherish his memories, his son, Mr. Rico McIlwain (Bridgett) of Charlotte; daughter, Ms. Mona McIlwain of Chicago, IL; grandchildren, Rayana, Brianna, and Rico, Jr.; brother, Ferry McIlwain, Jr.; sister, Mrs. Joe Ann Freeman (Freddie); nephews, Ferry McIlwain, III, and Johnny McIlwain; niece, Pamela McIlwain; aunts, Verona Vaughn and Bernice Ervin; and a host of cousins, other relatives and many friends.
Long and Son Mortuary Service is serving the McIlwain family.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Charlotte Observer on Jun. 30, 2005.

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Brian Burgess

July 1, 2005

On behalf of the my Mom Bernice, my brother Vincent and myself Brian Burgess our hearts are with you Rico, Mona and the entire family.

Sorry we cannot be with you now but hope to see you soon. Our prayers are with you and the entire McIlwain family and friends.



Much Love-Brian/Vincent/Bernice Burgess of Detroit,MI.

Calvin Douglas

June 30, 2005

Our Family Heart goes out too the McIlwain Family.

Mr James, was a great Friend to us.

He will always be missed.

Especially during Baseball season.

And I will truly miss him during Basketball season.

I will always have the greatest Memories, of Him Taking time out of his day to come and help Coach Our Basketball team.

Mr James was a great Man.

Thank you for the time that He, shared with My Family, Quinton & Jon

My Wife Cynthia, and Me, Calvin.

The Douglas Family.

Brenda Clark (Collins)

June 30, 2005

I am Praying for this family at this time of lost.

Bernice Burgess

June 30, 2005

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