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John McNeary Obituary
September 20, 1938 - March 28, 2025
Charlotte, North Carolina - John "Jack" Maxwell McNeary died Friday, March 28, 2025, at his home at Southminster, with his wife Lydia by his side after a long period of declining health. He was a graduate of Myers Park High School, Class of 1960, and Duke University.
He is survived by his loving wife, the former Lydia Alexander; his much-loved and loving daughter, Lydia Lennox McNeary Keyes (David); and grandson, Wilson Rutledge Keyes, of Roanoke, VA.
A Memorial Service will be held at 11:00 AM on Saturday, April 26, 2025, at Southminster, 8919 Park Road, Charlotte, NC 28210, with family visitation at the reception following the service.
The full obituary can be found online at www.kennethpoeservices.com
Arrangements are in the care of Kenneth W. Poe Funeral & Cremation Service, 1321 Berkeley Avenue, Charlotte, NC 28204. (704) 641-7606. Online condolences may be shared at www.kennethpoeservices.com.
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Dana Hershey
April 4, 2025
I remember Jack as a wonderfully curious man who had the energy and concentration to follow up on his interests with a scope and intensity that was, at times, astounding. Whether the interest was fly fishing, fly tying, bee keeping or raiding Koi fish, Jack pursued it with a passion and knack for innovation. He leaves a legacy of fly tyers whom he trained from from novice to expert. I will miss his companionship and humor on expeditions to trout streams.
Jonathan Miller
April 3, 2025
Jack was a generous mentor and advocate for those of us who like to trout fish. He was quick to volunteer and attend activities with our local TU group: Rocky River Trout Unlimited. And he was always out front when it came to organizing and leading the RRTU fly tying every winter season. When I was in a leadership position with RRTU I remember that Jack was always bringing ideas and future thinking to our meetings. I offer my condolences to Jack´s family and send my wishes for tight lines, good drifts and fine fly tying material for the next chapter of Jack´s life.
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