Search by Name

Search by Name

Robert Franklin James

1928 - 2017

Robert Franklin James obituary, 1928-2017, Charlotte, NC

BORN

1928

DIED

2017

FUNERAL HOME

CLOSED-Ellington Funeral Services Charlotte, nc

727 E Morehead Street

Charlotte, North Carolina

Robert James Obituary

Robert Franklin James passed away on Sunday, December 17, 2017 was born on August 2, 1928 in Charlotte, NC, together with his twin brother, Ralph Alexander James, to Flonnie Holmes James and William Alexander James. Robert grew up at 912 East Trade Street and attended Elizabeth Elementary School, Piedmont Junior High School and Harding High School and Charlotte College (now UNCC Charlotte). He and Ralph lived in the Central High School area but were recruited by Coach Pasco Gettle to come to Harding to play football. Robert was an accomplished athlete who played baseball and football at Harding where he pitched the city championship in 1947 and was selected for the Shrine Bowl team with his brother Ralph. He and Ralph lived in the Central High School area but were recruited by Coach Pasco Gettle to come to Harding to play football. Upon graduation from Harding, he was offered a scholarship to attend the University of Georgia, but decided instead to join the Navy during the Korean Conflict. He served four years aboard the USS Norton Sound stationed in the Pacific. Upon the death of his father, W.A James in the early 1960s he and Ralph assumed the ownership and management of the Diamond Restaurant located in the Plaza-Midwood area of Charlotte, and continued in that capacity for 25 years. Upon the sale of the Diamond, Robert became affiliated with Ivey's Department Store (now Dillard's at Southpark) where he worked until his retirement in 2006. Robert was a devout Christian all his adult life and taught Sunday School for many years. He was an ordained Baptist deacon and served in that capacity at Green Memorial Baptist Church. He was a charter member of Eastern Hills Baptist Church which was formed from the membership of Green Memorial. At the time of his death he was a member of Sharon Baptist Church. For a number of years, Robert served on the Board of Directors of Rebound (now Charlotte Rescue Mission). He also served on the Board of Trustees of Camden Military Academy, Camden, South Carolina and was honored to be initiated as a Brother of Tau Kappa Epsilon Fraternity Omicron Theta Chapter at Newberry College, Newberry, South Carolina. Robert was predeceased by his parents and his twin brother, Ralph. He is survived by his loving wife of 62 years, Mary Wilkes James, his daughter, Suzanne James Haslam and husband, John and their children: Meghan Tcherkezian and husband, Mark and Mary Madison Haslam of Charlotte, NC. He is also survived by his son, Robert Franklin James, Jr and wife, Verice of Charlotte and their children: Shaw James and wife, Ashton of Irmo, S. C. and Sarah Peyton James of Charleston , SC. Survivors also include his loving sister, Victoria Spangler and husband, Eddie of Roanoke, Virginia, and their children: Sherry Helms of Charlotte, NC and Clifford Spangler of Roanoke, Virginia. Special nieces who are the daughters of his deceased twin brother Ralph are: Debbie James Wood of Ashville, N.C., Janine James of New York City, NY and Elizabeth James of Atlanta, Georgia. A service to celebrate Robert's well lived life will be held on Friday, December 29, 2017 at 11:00 a.m. at Sharon Baptist Church, 6411 Sharon Road, Charlotte, NC with The Reverend Dr. Robbie Page, Pastor of Sharon Baptist Church and The Reverend Michael Cummings of First Baptist Church, Charlotte, NC officiating. Robert's family requests that, in lieu of flowers, memorials be made to Sharon Baptist Church, 6411 Sharon Road, Charlotte, N. C. 28210. Notes of encouragement and condolences may be made to the family by visiting ellingtonfuneralservices.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Charlotte Observer on Dec. 20, 2017.

Memories and Condolences
for Robert James

Sponsored by anonymous.

Not sure what to say?





December 23, 2017

Suzanne and family,

Cheryl and are so sad for your loss. Wishing you and your family love and support during this difficult time. May he Rest In Peace.

Dallas and Bobby Shealy

December 20, 2017

Bobby and Suzanne, we are so sorry to hear of the death of your beloved Dad! Reading the stories and memories surely show what a great man he was! I know he was so proud of both of you and your families. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. Love to you all, Dallas and Bobby Shealy

Tracy and Logan Williams

December 20, 2017

Logan and I will miss you dearly! We love the James family just as our own. We were blessed to have Robert and all of you in our lives!

December 20, 2017

Mary, I am sorry to hear of the passing of Robert. I still remember the week that I sat with him daily for a week. Such good conversations and laughter. You both were blessed to have each other.

Darnell Boyles (Stallings)

December 20, 2017

Bob, Our deepest sympathy in the loss of your father. May you find comfort and peace from our heavenly Father. Praying for you, brother.

Fred and Kathy Davenport

Suzanne Hatcher

December 20, 2017

Mr. James,

I am sorry to hear of the death of your father. You yourself, are a kind person and I am sure he shaped you that way. You have told such wonderful lively stories of your passed, this tells me he will be missed by so many. May God hold yours and your loved ones hands to help you deal with his passing.

Brian Crain

December 20, 2017

Mary, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss of your sweetheart. We at Family Dollar love and miss you. God bless you and your family during this difficult time. Sincerely, Brian Crain.

Jim Prentki

December 20, 2017

To the Entire James Family, My deepest condolences to the of Robert. When I first meet him in 1978, he welcomed me into his home and treated me as a dear friend every other time we crossed paths. All of you with be in my thoughts throughout this holiday season

December 20, 2017

Thank you for your service to country - and for making Charlotte a truly special place back in the day/ May God bless your family and friends with peace during this difficult time of loss.

December 19, 2017

Bob ,
We will have you all in our Prayers as will All the members of Omicron Theta.

Kindest Regards
Mark, Charise, Harrison and Grace Summerour

December 18, 2017

On behalf of the family of Ellington Funeral Services we offer our sincere condolences to the James Family.

Showing 1 - 11 of 11 results

Make a Donation
in Robert James's name

Memorial Events
for Robert James

Dec

29

Service

11:00 a.m.

Sharon Baptist Church

6411 Sharon Road, Charlotte, NC

Funeral services provided by:

CLOSED-Ellington Funeral Services Charlotte, nc

727 E Morehead Street, Charlotte, NC 28202

How to support Robert's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Robert James's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more