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Sally Clark Obituary
Sally McKenzie Clark
IRON STATION -- Miss Clark, (pictured to the left above), 19, of Iron Station died in a tragic automobile accident on April 4, 2004 along with her cousin and life long friend Anna Grace Jordan (pictured to the right above).
Sally Clark graduated from Charlotte Country Day School in 2003, and was currently a freshman at Peace College in Raleigh, N.C.
The much loved, outgoing and talented young woman loved her family, her friends and country music and equally so, she loved her Lord and her Church. She sang in the church choir at Grace Covenant Church. She was a radiant young lady, a dedicated friend, and treasured daughter. She will be greatly missed.
Sally McKenzie Clark is survived by her parents David and Jo Clark, Junior, her brothers Reynolds and Graham, and by her maternal grandparents, James and Helen Foreman, of Lake Norman. Also, she is survived by Uncles Walter and Allison Clark, Aunts Caroline Clark Morrison and Anne Jordan.
Miss Clark's family will receive friends at the home 270 Inverlochy Rd., Iron Station, NC from 7:00 to 9:00 on Monday evening. A funeral will be held at 1:00 pm Tuesday at Grace Covenant Church in Cornelius with Pastor Paul Turbedsky officiating. Interment will follow the service at Machpelah Presbyterian Church Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, Sally would want you send any memorials to the Church Camp Program at Grace Covenant Church, 17301 Statesville Rd., Cornelius, NC 28031.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Sally Clark
theresa muzzillo
May 3, 2004
i miss you sal. i love you girl.
Bonnie Duckworth
April 23, 2004
Dear Family and friends of Sally,
Sally was a shining star in each of our plays every year that she was in Lower School. What a smile she had both on and off the stage! It doesn't seem fair to lose such a wonderful young lady at such an early age. I feel that your faith will help you carry on Sally's work and her memory. She will never be forgotten by the teachers at Country Day. My daughter, Jenny Geist, sends her love and prayers to Reynolds. We will keep you in our thought always.
Bonnie Duckworth
Lauren Dortch
April 22, 2004
It broke my heart to hear about Sally's death. I got the privilege of working with her some and being around her through Grace Convenant. Words can't describe the love that lived inside this woman of Christ. She is already missed beyond words, but will be remembered in every kind act and song lifted up in God's name. Grace and peace to the Clark family.
Julia Merchant
April 12, 2004
I was so, so, sorry when I heard the news a week ago today of Sally's tragic death. I came to Country Day as a senior, and Sally was one of the first people I met since she was in my advisory. To this day I remember how sweet and welcoming she was to me and how much I appreciated the kindness of a stranger willing to talk to the new kid. We had AP Psychology together also and went out to lunch a couple times, so I got to see what a beautiful person she was in every way. She will be truly missed, and I know her angelic face is smiling down on us from a better place.
Teresa Bradley
April 12, 2004
Jo,
I was so saddened to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.
Mary Stroud Franks
April 12, 2004
Dear Jo & Anne,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your families during this terrible and sad time. My heart breaks that you are experiencing a parent's worst nightmare. From all that I've heard your daughters were beautiful inside and out and so loved by family and friends and all who came to know them. I, too, lost my precious daughter, Gwen, in a car accident 10 years ago on 3/11/94. She was only 21 and in Pharmacy School at UNC. Gwen was a 1990 graduate of East Lincoln High School. We lived in East Lincoln County for 20 years and I remember your family from Cowans Ford Country Club many years ago. Please convey my sincere sympathy to your parents as my parents would attest to how devastating the loss of a grandchild can be and your parents have lost two granddaughters at once.
Even though I live in Las Vegas, I'm working back in Charlotte and have an apartment in Huntersville near the scene of the accident. I heard the sirens and the helicopter but did not realize that such a terrible tragedy had occurred. It was not until I received a call from Gwen's friend, Allison, in Denver, that I realized it was your daughters involved in the accident.
I know that the love and support of your families and friends and your Faith in GOD will carry you through the dark and sorrowful days ahead. I am sorry that I was not able to attend the services due to a scheduled trip home to Vegas. If there is anything that I can do, please do not hesitate to contact me at the email address below.
My husband, Doug, my daughter, Margie Stroud Hilton, and my church family here in Las Vegas join me in offering our sincere sympathy to you and your families. Hold on to each other and to GOD and know that your sweet daughters are in His hands. Though Easter may be bittersweet as it is so close to the time of your daughter's death, it will probably take on an even deeper and more special meaning for you as Christ gave His life for us so that we will see our daughters again and enjoy the promised blessings of life everlasting for those who love the Lord. Even with the strongest of Faith, the weeks, months and yes, years ahead will be especially hard as you grieve the loss of your dear daughters. May precious memories and a focus on the blessings of having Sally and Grace in your lives bring you comfort and in time, peace and joy.
My thoughts and prayers are with Kessler family and especially their dear daughter, Suzanne Paige whose life was spared. May she feel the love of God and may she be lifted up and comforted during the difficult days to come. I'm praying for her complete physical, emotional and spiritual recovery from this tragic event. I know that Sally and Grace would want her to have a good life and remember the good times that they had together.
Love & Prayers, Mary
Brian Kridler
April 8, 2004
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Clark, and Reynolds,
I wanted to let you know how beautiful I found the service for Sally and Grace to be and how much I admired her positive and loving impact on so many lives here at Country Day and elsewhere. I enjoyed her sweet smile and disposition, her sparkling voice, and above all her joy for life. Your faith must certainly bring you such great comfort in such trying circumstances. Personally, I was taken by the metaphor of the community gathering around to comfort the wounded as one would a hurt finger. It is so nice to know that so many beautiful people are there to comfort each of you and to offer their prayers and best wishes to Sally. We have fond memories of lower school birthday parties and performances that David and Sally participated in and pictures in our scrapbook as well. To Reynolds, keep the beard. It has been a singular trademark and demonstrates your individuality and creativity! Thank you all for allowing me to share in the wonderful memories that Sally brought to the world.
Brian Kridler
Rachel Swing Atencio
April 8, 2004
I am so sorry to hear about your tragic loss. I will miss Sally very much. I know that sally is with us, always in our hearts and thoughts. I love you Sally and you will be greatly missed. To the family, if there is anything i can do during this hard time please just ask. Love always.
Paul Stern
April 8, 2004
I was born on the same day that Sally was. I remember her as a bright happy person who I was proud to be related to. I always thought of her life as a sort of parallel to my own because we were were exactly the same age. I am deeply grieved my her death. I wish that I had more profound words of comfort and insight. All I can say is that I am sorry that she is gone and I look forward to seeing her again.
Anonymous
April 8, 2004
Even though I didn't know either of these lovely young ladies, my heart aches for you nonetheless. I know what it is like to lose a child and therefore I know that nothing anyone can say or do will subside that agony. You and your family are in my heart and prayers. May God be with you in all the days that follow.
Jackie Hunter
April 7, 2004
As a fourth grader at CCDS, the warmth and enthusiasm Sally projected was truly memorable. She lifted the spirits of each and everyone with whom she came in contact. How thankful we are for having known and taught her.
mark Hunter
April 7, 2004
i would like to give my condolenses, they were young,or she was young, and know she will be missed, their will be a vacuum of the girls. My Nephews life was taken so time ago,and will do think about him,
Brittany Brackett
April 7, 2004
Sweet Clark Family-
I want you all to know that you are in my thoughts and in my prayers. I graduated from Country Day in 2001; however, Sally was always one of my precious younger friends. There were many nights that we spent together at the Muzzilo household - what wonderful lake memories! Sally was an amazing light that truly did touch everyone. She was known at Country Day for her true love of life and ability to bring a smile on the darkest of days. I will never forget Sally and all of the charm and joy that she brought to those around her.
You are in my heart,
Brittany Brackett
katie moran
April 7, 2004
I didnt personally know Sally or Grace, but I go to CCDS and my mom is a good freind of yours. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Karen Perry
April 7, 2004
My prayers are the family, extended family, and every person blessed to know Sally.
John Schaeffer
April 7, 2004
Jo and David:
Laura and John Thomas speak for me also. To lose a child so young is grief beyond grief. Pray for each other as we do for both of you.
Michael Simpson
April 7, 2004
As a native Carolinian, and long-time resident of both greater Raleigh and greater Charlotte, I was saddened to read of Sally's tragic death. May God be with your family at this time of loss.
Justin Belch
April 7, 2004
To the Clark Family-
I am deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Please know that you are in my family's (Belch/Pollock) thoughts and prayers. I hope you are able to find some peace very soon. God bless.
Martha Newson
April 7, 2004
I will always remember Sally as that bubbly little 5th grader who made each day better just because of her presence. She was always so quick to smile and laugh. I pray that she is smiling down on us right now...just like that ray of sunshine I see out my window. Yes, that reminds me of Sally. Love, Martha Newson
Anonymous Friend
April 7, 2004
I never met Sally and I know I missed out on a beautiful person. Her death has touched me in a way that is undescribable and I want all those who knew her and loved her to know that my prayers and tears are with you. No person can even attempt to understand why this tragedy happens to such wonderful lives and no person should try to. Please be encouraged that Sally is now in the most wonderful place one could ever imagine and now we know she is safe forever. Her memory will never be forgotten...
Lisa Jaworowski
April 7, 2004
Please accept our deepest sympathy for the loss of your beautiful daughter...with heaviest hearts...the Jaworowski family
Sally Davis
April 7, 2004
To the entire Clark family: My deepest condolences to all of you. I am a friend from the past, Sally Davis, who did not know Sally or Grace, but knew the rest of the Clark family. I used to ride and keep my horse at Ingleside, and have only the best of memories of those days and of the Clark family. My deepest sympathy to all of you--it's clear that Sally and Grace were loved a great deal by many, many people. I hope you find some peace in that love and in your faith.
Cynthia Williams
April 7, 2004
May God be with you in your time of sorrow. Your angel is in Heaven now.
Vada Lee
April 7, 2004
I wanted to express my deepest heartfelt sympathy to your family. I have never met your family, but my thoughts and prayers are with you. Sally's wonderful life memories will live on forever. Another who cares.............
Jennifer Lockhart
April 7, 2004
Dear Clark Family,
I've never met your family, but wanted to let you know that Sally, Grace and the rest of your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Erin Daly
April 7, 2004
I remember when Sally used to sleep over at our house when she and my sister, Brooke, were younger. My heart goes out to you during this painful time.
mike smith
April 7, 2004
i didnt have the pleasure of knowing the girls,but from all ive been reading they were loved very deeply from family and friends.my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jim Sherman
April 7, 2004
Sally was the kind of 6th grader who made others happy every day. My thoughts go out to Reynolds and the rest of the family too. Stay strong in your faith; it will help you through, and know that there are many people thinking of you with consolation.
Charlie Bodine
April 7, 2004
Dear Mr. Mrs. Clark, and family,
It is difficult to describe how sorry I am about the untimely death of your daughter Sally this weekend. I found it hard to believe, while reading the news story, that the Sally Clark they were talking about was the Sally Clark that we had come to know so well at Country Day. It has not yet sunk in that she’s no longer with us, and all of us here share in your grief.
I had the pleasure of teaching Sally on two different occasions while she was at Country Day. She was a student in my Algebra II class, and the effort and will to succeed that she put into that course was remarkable. I very much enjoyed her presence in my meteor-
ology course last year. She seemed to enjoy herself, and it was a very happy and affable class.
Sally was probably the sweetest and nicest student I ever taught, and I’m finishing a 36 year teaching career this June. There was a side to Sally that probably few people saw, though. There was a healthy sense of irony and a sometimes wry sense of humor that Sally kept just barely below the radar. I enjoyed that twinkle in her eyes and her nice perspective on life and its foibles. We are all sorry that it’s been taken away in a brief moment of tragedy, and we’ll all miss her.
Karen Trivett
April 7, 2004
My heart is broken for your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Laura Bird
April 7, 2004
I'm so sorry that I didn't find out in time enough to be there for the funeral. But it looks like the rest of the world was there. May you take great comfort in knowing all the lives that Sally touched. I will not forget her giving up her bed for me when I stayed at your house for Rachel's wedding. Her fighting fish and her big boxer baby will remain details of that trip. She was so excited about going away to Raleigh and living with Katie! Her short life was more blessed than many that are four times as long!
Much love and many prayers,
Shawn White
April 7, 2004
To the Family of Ms. Clark!
I lead a Men's Bible Study in Huntersville every Tuesday night. We all prayed for your family and your loss. We are mere strangers in your eyes, but let it be known that we love Christ and love you! I cannot imagine how you feel at this moment in time. I am a parent of 3 young children. We all prayed for you last night and in the nights to come! God Bless you!
Jessi Clarkson
April 7, 2004
May God give your family a supernatural hand to hold onto. May He carry you through this time and beyond and fill you up with love for those who don't know Him. Obviously, Sally did know Christ. I did not know her, but I am a friend of Mark and Cindy Kessler and they are wonderful living testimonies of God's faithfulness. I can't imagine how you must be grieving right now, and even though I never knew Sally, I am touched by her beautiful smile.
Ian Dennis
April 7, 2004
Dear Sally, I will never forget your smile and how it could brighten a day in a second. I know you will light up heaven the way you lit up the Earth, and I will always have only the best of memories of you.
Kurt Weigel
April 7, 2004
Dear Clark Family,
As you know I am a teacher at CCDS and first got to know Sally when she was in 6th grade. I have never seen a more cheerful and lovable young lady. She could light up a room with her smile and I never saw her angry with anyone. Know that all of you are in my thoughts and prayers daily, and I will miss her very much. God bless you all.
Todd Lambdin
April 7, 2004
I am a local EMS worker and I wanted to let you know how sorry I am for your loss. In the line of work I am in, I see a lot of tragic scenes. It is not a easy time for your family and friends, but rely on God and family to pull you through. Just know you have a special angel looking after you now. I have you all in my thoughts and prayers. Take Care and May God Bless You.
Sarah Elder
April 7, 2004
You and yours have my deepest sympathies during this most difficult time... hold tight to one another.
Marsha Clark
April 7, 2004
May God Bless your family. The Heavens have truly gained a special angel. Know that with every rain drop or summer breeze, Sally is there. He only picks the best for his garden.
joy council
April 7, 2004
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Clark,
Although I never had the pleasure of teaching Sally while she was in the middle school at Country Day, I will always remember her smiles, her beauty, and her apparent love of life. My deepest sympathy is extended to you and your family.
phyllis mcardle
April 7, 2004
I work in the CCDS middle school ofice as a receptionist. I can remember the many days Sally was so helpful to me in the office. Always eager, always a smile.
Michelle McCall
April 7, 2004
Dear Clark Family,
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers during this time of sadness at the loss of your daughter Sally.
God Bless.
Aaron Cooper
April 7, 2004
My first year as a teacher at CCDS I was lucky enough to have Sally in my Geography class. "Sally C" as I called her, worked so hard and kept such a positive attitude at all times, that she inspired not only her classmates to be better, but inspired me to be a better teacher and better person. To work with and to laugh with someone like Sally C is why I have stayed in teaching. She is missed.
Michael Frisch
April 7, 2004
My thoughts and prayers are with you. I have never met or even heard of Ms. Clark. I am from NY and moved here for business. It breaks my heart to hear of such a loss to your family and her friends. Life is so fragile, I wish more people would understand that.
God Bless you and your daughters sole.
Regards,
Andrea Kuchar
April 7, 2004
I did not know you or of you until today. Never-the-less, my sympathies are with your friends and loved ones. Please let their grief be comforted by the fact that you dwell with the Lord in the most glorious place imaginable.
Lindsay Combs
April 7, 2004
I didnt know your daughter at all, but I wish I did. From all the things I have heard she is someone that everyone wants to be like. I pray for your family, that you will find peace and comfort. May God bless you.
Catherine Babcock
April 7, 2004
Dear Clarks,
I was so sorry to hear about Sally. She was an angel on earth and is now an angel in heaven. God and peace be with you.
Larry Olmsted
April 7, 2004
To the Clark Family: Beth and I were so saddened to hear of Sally's accident, but heartened to read of her love and devotion to Jesus Christ. Your family will certainly be in our thoughts and in our daily prayers.
Elyse Meena
April 7, 2004
I sang almost next to Sally when we were in choir together at Country Day. She always had a good time and was very well liked, and she was kind to me. I graduated with her, and it was horrible for me to hear about her death. Sally was very high spirited and tried things even though she was up against stiff competition. She was a very kind person and always very giving of herself. I only wish that I could have been there to say good-bye. Sally, you are in my prayers always, and may God remember you in his Kingdom.
Kaitlin Holcombe
April 7, 2004
To the Clark family,
I am currently a freshman at Wake Forest where I've had the privilage of getting to know two of Sally's dearest friends, Anna Edgerton and Blakely Offutt. These girls, along with one of my best friends Kristy Fields, who attended CCDS with Sally have always told me so many stories about their wonderful friends from home. So much of their stories included Sally and hearing the news of her death brought so much sadness to me. I just wanted to let you know what an amazing impact she made on these friends of mine, so much that they would bring countless stories of her away from Charlotte to share with me. Your family has been in my constant prayers this week and I wish you all the greatest of God's strength.
Allison Terry
April 7, 2004
Dear Sally,
I will never forget your sweet smile and the way you would light up any room. You were such an amaizing friend from kindergarden on and how lucky and blessed I feel to have spent so many years with a true Angel. I will love you forever and always remember your smile, doodlebug, the many many Latin classes, and all the wonderful and precious moments I spent with you. Thank you for touching me in a way that could never be repaid-I know you and Grace are havin a blast-smile for us down here and make the sun shine. Watch over us and take in what you've been waiting for all your life-your in heaven sweetie. I love you with all my heart Sally and will never forget you.
xoxoxo
Shelby Slough
April 6, 2004
David & Jo - I have never met either one of these two beautiful angels, but I want you to know I drive everyday past where all the beautiful flowers are laid, and I talk to them. I tell them to take care of their families from up above and give you strength.They are in a much better place. A place that we can only imagine to be someday.They will watch over you. God Bless your family.
John T. Schaeffer
April 6, 2004
Our prayers from Illinois are with all of you in the family down south. I had the pleasure of seeing Sally last year at Maggie's wedding. She was such a spark of energy and full of fun-loving generosity. I just wish that Grace would've been able to attend then as well. I'll always remember our childhood summers at The Pride. Much Love,
John Thomas
Jeremy Foil
April 6, 2004
Mr. and Mrs. Clark, Reynolds, and Graham,
I can not find the words to say, Sally is one of the greatest friends I ever will have. She was something special, she had such great qualities that so few posses. Her life was lived to its fullest. "We live our lives to recieve We fulfill our lives by giving." Sally was the person who gave her all to ever endeavor. Her smile brightens the darkest sky and her spirit could move the tallest mountain. She was very special to me and to thousands of others. Her presence will be greatly missed but her legacy will live on through every life she touched.
With deepest sympathy and great love,
Jeremy W. Foil
Bonnie Clark
April 6, 2004
I am the cousin of Carson Clark, and I would just like your family to know that I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Your family will forever be in my thoughts and prayers. Bonnie Clark
Kristen Laramie
April 6, 2004
Dear Sally's Family and Friends,
While I only met Sally on a few occasions, I feel truly blessed. The memories I have of her are filled with smiles. She was a wonderful young lady and I know now she is in a better place but know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. I send all my love and sympathy.
donna upchurch moore
April 6, 2004
Dear Jo, David and family~ Dodie reached Julie Strauss and me with the terrible news about your sweet daughter. It breaks my heart to know what you and Anne's families are enduring. I pray for God's peace and comfort to envelope you all. We are all thinking about you. I have so many fond memories of our Delta Zeta days. I know these girls were as special as their adorable moms. All my love, Donna
Evan Fries
April 6, 2004
Dear Clark Family,
You may not know me but I was in Sally's class, and I was in her Latin class senior year. Sally was one of the prettiest girls in the grade. Sally was a person that would light up a room. She was also one of the friendliest people I have ever known. I wish I had had the chance to tell her how special she was. This has made me realize that life is too precious to waste. My thoughts are with your family. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Allison Eller
April 6, 2004
Dearest Clark Family, What a great loss you suffered 04/04/04. I want you to know Sally was like a big sister to me. She knew me better than everyone except my mom. She was there to help me get through the tough storms that suddenly hit my life 2 yrs ago. She was so genuine,loving and always selfless. She was so dear and will be greatly missed by everyone. No one could have ever hated your daughter and I hope that I have the qualities your daughter had. I'll never forget her smile or her talent for singing. I'm praying that true peace will comfort you at this time of loss. You all are so strong.
Love ALWAYS
April 6, 2004
I met Sally a few weeks ago when she came down to Miami to stay with Theresa. She was such a wonderful person and I know she is watching all of us from Heaven right now. My prayers will be with you all.
Meggins Reinhardt Tuchmann
April 6, 2004
My brother Steve Reinhardt was in Charlotte on business and read about your loss. Our families were old friends in Lincolnton and I have such fond memories of " Miss Mabel" and remember meeting David (Jr) and Carolina as a child and at my grandparents' funerals. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Meggins (Margaret) Reinhardt Tuchmann
Portland, OR
Mary Kate Walthall
April 6, 2004
I was in the class below Sally when she was at Country Day, and whenever I think of her I remember the sweet and compassionate smile that was always on her face. She was an absolutely beautiful person, and I don't think anyone who knew her can ever forget her kind spirit or her great compassion. Please know that your family is in the hearts and prayers of many.
Angela Wang
April 6, 2004
To the Clark's family
There is nothing anyone can say that can ease your pain. I knew Sally when I decided to become a peer counselor at Country Day, and Sally and some of the other PCs would come to some of our training meetings to talk to us. She is really a sweetheart, and loves to help the others.She was strong. I will miss her greatly.
Arpita Kayal
April 6, 2004
My heart goes out to the Clark family. Sally was so dear in my heart but heaven is truly lucky to have recieved such a beautiful angel. I will miss our runs to Chick-fil-a for ice cream and coming in late from lunch with our sweet teas. I will forever hear her gorgeous singing voice in my head. Sally we'll miss you but we know you are looking down at us with your smiling face!
April 6, 2004
We can't imagine the pain that you must be going through. We are so sorry about Sally and Grace. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Thom, Martha, Stacey, and Jeb Seagle
Forrest Zimmermann
April 6, 2004
My girlfriend was a friend of your daughters; Laura Parry. She is attending the funeral today, tuesday. I thought i would write and tell you that although I never knew your daughter, she sounded like a wonderful person. You have my sympathies; trust she is in a better place than this world.
-Forrest
Reed Tanner
April 6, 2004
Our thoughts and blessings are with the family. God Bless you all
Steve and Sheri O'Neal
April 6, 2004
You don't know my husband or me but we were at the site of the accident after it happened. We were there when the helicopter arrived and couldn't help notice the efficiency of all the caregivers. We have two children about the same age and we couldn't help but think of them. We cannot imagine how you must feel at this time. We just wanted you to know that our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time and maybe hope it would give you some comfort to know that everyone worked fast and furiously with the accident. Our condolences go with you at this tragic time .... it appears that your girls were very highly thought of by everyone who knew them. God bless you !!!
Tom and Betty Yarboro
April 6, 2004
No words can fully embrace a loss so tragic and overwhelming. Please know that friends, old and new, and families throughout the region are filled with prayerful sorrow for your family as they cherish their own in renewed light.
May God's Blessings be with you always as you remember and celebrate her vibrant spirit and life. May you find strength in each other, your faith, your memories and the immense circle of love and hope which envelopes you now and always.
.
Sherry
April 6, 2004
Just wanted you to know there's so many people praying for you. You are not alone. Having gone thru a crash like this I know the pain. Your daughter sounds wonderful. Let your faith stand stronger now than ever before, and know she did not die in vain. Remember Ecclesiastes..To everything there is a season.
Katie Forshag
April 6, 2004
To the Clark Family:
Sally was a truly amazing person. I became friends with her while in Chamber Choir for the first time back when i was a sophomore and she was a junior. She took care of me and our fellow first sopranos and was the most wonderful listener i have ever met. She never hesitated to offer her time and advice in any situation. She was Country Day's truest spirit. My thoughts, prayers, and entire heart go out to you.
-Katie Forshag
Kay Thomas
April 6, 2004
Less than 2 months ago, on February 13, 2004, I lost my 17 year old son Elliot in a car accident in Cabarrus County. When I heard of the loss of these two young women, I felt the need to write to you and reach out to you. I know quite intimately how you are feeling and what is to come in the days and weeks ahead. You are overcome right now, in shock and also overwhelmed with the need to take care of others and try to comfort their young friends. In the days ahead, if you feel the need to talk or just vent to someone who understands your feelings all too well, please feel free to contact me. I leave you my e-mail address so you can let me know how to contact you should you desire to do so.
Again, my heart goes out to you and I hope you are able to find some peace. I'll be praying for you and your family.
Kay Thomas
Sandy and Elizabeth Porter
April 6, 2004
Our prayers , love and thoughts are with the entire family.
Poem
April 6, 2004
WHEN YOU'VE SUFFERED THE LOSS OF A CHILD,
IT MAY BE COMFORTING TO KNOW,
THERE'S A SPECIAL PLACE IN HEAVEN,
WHERE ALL GODS CHILDREN GO.
IT IS A HAPPY, PEACEFUL PLACE,
WHERE NO CHILD EVER CRIES,
THEY ARE INNOCENTLY, CONTENT TO BE,
A BLESSED ANGEL IN YOUR EYES.
THE ONE AND ONLY NEED THEY HAVE,
IS FOR YOU TO UNDERSTAND,
THAT ONLY VERY SPECIAL CHILDREN,
ARE PLACED IN GODS LOVING HAND.
THE LORD SMILES DOWN UPON THEM,
WHILE IN HIS TENDER CARE,
AS THEY PATIENTLY AWAIT THE TIME TO COME,
FOR YOU TO JOIN THEM THERE.
AND THOUGH THE TIME ON EARTH SHORT LIVED,
PLEASE SET YOUR SORROW FREE,
FOR ONE DAY IN GODS HOLY LAND,
TOGETHER, YOU WILL SHARE ETERNITY.
Leigh Hinson
April 6, 2004
Your families are in my thoughts and prayers.
Steve Reavis
April 6, 2004
Jo and David, my thoughts and prayers are with ya'll and Anne and Dick and the rest of your families. I was so sorry to hear about Sally and Grace and hope that God helps you through this tragic loss.
Jon Thompson
April 6, 2004
I knew Sally from different events around Huntersville. I worked in a restaurant my Junior and Senior years of high school, and Sally regularly stopped in to talk and say hello many times. I also would run into her variously around town. We hadn't talked that much in the past year, but I was very devastated to hear the news. Sally was a person who truly walked in the footsteps of the Lord. I had only met Grace once before, but I know she was just as kind and gentle as Sally. My prayers go out to both families in this time of need. We all know Sally and Grace are walking with God today.
Joseph Vignolini
April 6, 2004
It was my pleasure to teach Sally last year in my math class. She is the kind of student that teachers dream of having. Hardworking, cheerful, dedicated and responsible. Sally always had a smile and a glow about her. When I heard about the accident and my heart sank. The world has lost a very special person. I offer my prayers are for her and her family.
Andy Hentschke
April 6, 2004
My deepest sympathy goes out to the Clark family at this time. Sally was a wonderful person and I liked to talk to her whenever she was home or whenever else I would see her. She constantly had a smile on her face and was always fun to be around. I know she will be greatly missed by everyone who knew her. Reynolds, you know that if you ever need anything man, I am here for ya.
Allison and Virginia Berger
April 6, 2004
Our thoughts and blessings are with you all. May God strengthen you.
Brent Devinney
April 6, 2004
Over the past years I have come to know and love Sally. She is by far one of the best friends a person could have. The influence she had on me was amazing, she brought me closer to Christ and gave me memories that I will have in my heart forever. Whenever I needed something or had something to talk about Sally would always be there for me. I am going to miss her so much, but I know she is with Jesus right now looking down on all of us. I will always turn to those awsome memories we had and think of her and smile. Sally will be in my heart forever, until the day I see her again in Heaven.
Jama Mulkey
April 6, 2004
David, Jo, Reynolds & Graham,
My memories of Sally and the joy she shared are priceless. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of need.
Catherine Walker
April 6, 2004
I am so sorry about your loss. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Maria Jenkins
April 5, 2004
David & Jo Clark
I was so sorry to hear about Sally and Grace. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. God Bless you all.
Matt Brewer
April 5, 2004
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Clark Family. It hurts so much to lose 2 great people. Sally was awesome. It's a shame Grace and Sally are gone.
Hayne Huguenin
April 5, 2004
David, Jo and family,
I was so sorry to hear about your loss. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Chris Toll
April 5, 2004
To all the Clark family:
Teaching Sally was one of the brightest spots in my career. Please know that I am holding you and Sally in my heart.
Chris Toll
Penny Spangler-Lambert
April 5, 2004
As a member of the Peace College family, I was crestfallen to hear about the recent death of your daughter Sally. My husband and I will have you and your family in our prayers. God Bless You.
Penny Spangler-Lambert
Class ‘79
Sharon, Ron, Marni, & Brett Strumwasser
April 5, 2004
May warm memories of such a precious girl comfort you at such a difficult time. We each have special memories of Sally at CCDS and will miss her greatly.
Len Clark
April 5, 2004
Our family, (Len, Renee, and Hailey) is standing with you now during this very difficult time. Our Iron Station cousins have introduced us to several of your wonderful young gifts to this world...your kids. God Bless You All.
casey zeisler-lovett
April 5, 2004
i did not know sally or grace but i know some of the family and i just wanted you all to know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. i know they both were very wonderful people and it is a great loss. yet rember that they will live on in your harts and memorys.
casey zeisler
Thomas Ingram
April 5, 2004
The death of Sally Clark has shocked and numbed everyone.I didn't know Sally all that well and she didn't know me and I regret it because she's so gorgeous and in every way. Sally is gone but she's not forgotten. In a way we should be thankful because she's up above looking out for all of us and we are lucky to have a such a special angel by our side. Just remember her beautiful smile and know how happy she is. She will be with everyone through any and everything holding their hands. We only had her for a brief moment but those brief moments have been the most joyful and glorious moments of everyone lives. God would never leave us astray, so we know she's in good hands, and until all we can do is smile until that moment we get to meet her again in that special place. Mr and Mrs. Clark everyone loves you both to death and your in our thoughts and prayers.
Bailey Freeman
April 5, 2004
sally is such a great person, i didn't have the gift to know grace but have heard she is a wonderful person. i went to school with suzanne last year and she made me feel so welcome at cheer camp the summer before i even went to southlake. my prayers go out to all the families.
Michael Griffin
April 5, 2004
Sally was a great girl. I was friends of Carson, and meet Sally through Carson. She was so sweet and will always be rebemered. My prayers go out to the family
Stuart Egerton
April 5, 2004
My daughter Carrie is one of Sally's freshman classmates at Peace College. My wife and I are deeply saddened to hear the news of this tragic accident. From Carrie's phone call, we can tell she and many others at Peace are in shock, and that everyone there who knew Sally loved her and will miss a dear friend.
Our prayers are with you.
Stuart Egerton
Wilmington, NC
Archie Ritchie
April 5, 2004
I am so sorry about your loss. Sally was in my class first semester and was a delightful student to teach.
Lauren Steele
April 5, 2004
My heart is with the Clark family at this hard time. Heaven has gained a beautiful angel. The times I remember with Sally and Renyolds so long ago will always stay with me. Whether panning for gold in their creek or going to a few softball games. They and Sally will always hold a very special place in my heart. God Bless.
Randy Riggins
April 5, 2004
Jo,
I am so sorry to hear of your tragic loss.
Taylor Carr
April 5, 2004
For the last several years I have sang with Sally on the Grace Covenant youth worship team. We have spent many hours in church, in practice, in pools and on the lake singing to our Heavenly Father together with bright eyes and big smiles. My spirit rest in the words of Jars of Clay:
"When death,
like a gypsy,
comes to steal what I love,
I will still
look to the heavens
I will still seek Your face.
I will sing of Your mercy
that leads me through valleys of sorrow
to rivers of joy. Alleluia"
AMEN
David McKnight
April 5, 2004
I am from Charlotte originally and have been living recently in Raleigh, where, during Sally McKenzie Clark's first semester as a freshman at Peace College, I was staying at a house right across the street from the college. I can tell you what a joyful environment it is in and around the college campus Sally chose to attend, and we know her classmates at Peace were so happy to welcome her as one of their own. We will have her family and friends in our prayers here in Raleigh as we give thanks that this city was touched, for so brief an interval, by her promising life.
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