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Scott Elam Obituary

Scott Howard Elam MATTHEWS - Mr. Scott Howard Elam, 53, of Matthews, passed away on July 3, 2015, at Carolinas Medical Center, after a courageous two-month battle following complications from routine heart surgery. Scott was born on February 26, 1962, in Charlotte. He was a loving husband, father, son and friend to all and will be deeply missed by all who knew him. According to Scott, "he was the nicest man you would ever want to meet," and he was. He never met a stranger, had friends from all generations and loved everyone. Scott enjoyed spending time with his family and friends, working in his yard and watching, playing and coaching baseball. He is survived by his wife Anita Elam, daughter Brooke Elam, parents William and Bobbie Elam, brother Joseph Elam, mother-in-law Esther Schreifer (Daniel), brother-in-law Michael Miele (Lisa), and numerous other family members and friends. Anita and Brooke miss Scott greatly, but are comforted that he was reunited in Heaven with his beloved son Brandon Elam. He was also preceded in death by his paternal grandparents William and Rubal Elam, maternal grandparents Leonard and Addie Starnes and by his father-in-law Dale Miele. Visitation for family and friends will be held on Thursday, July 9, 2015, from 6PM until 8PM at Heritage Funeral Home, Weddington Chapel. Funeral services in celebration of his life will be held on Friday, July 10, 2015, at 2:00PM, at First Baptist Church of Indian Trail. Interment will follow the service at Forest Lawn East Cemetery. Memorials may be made to a charity of your choice. Arrangements are in the care of Heritage Funeral Home, Weddington Chapel. An online guestbook is available at www.heritagecares.com.

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Published by Charlotte Observer on Jul. 6, 2015.

Memories and Condolences
for Scott Elam

22 Entries

Eleanor Ward

July 10, 2015

May you just feel the arms of Jesus wrap around you. I did not know Scott a member of Joe's Sunday School Class and we have been praying for him and will be praying for you. Went to the funeral today and it was held for a man who love greatly and was loved very much.

Carolyn Nottingham

July 9, 2015

Joe, my prayers are with you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss. I know how deeply you loved your brother and how deeply you believe that you will see him again.

Terri Greg Christian and Kyle Holm

July 9, 2015

Scott you were more than just our neighbor, you were our friend. We are all going to miss talking to you. You were a good man and we know you are rejoicing in heaven with Brandon

Yvonne Johnson

July 9, 2015

Scott was my supervisor when I joined the SellEthics team in January 2002. He was a "hoot" to work for. I'ld call him and say "Go Titans" and he would just laugh and say hello Yvonne. From that moment on, I've loved Scott--what a wonderful person. I'm so thankful God sent him into my life. I love you Scott, and I'll see you on the other side.

Howard & Pat Hamrick

July 8, 2015

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

charlie gale

July 7, 2015

every time I would see scott he would comment on seeing me at work at H-T while riding on the bottom of the buggy while shopping when he was young. saw him all the time while working at H-T. he was an energetic worker and good friend. he will be missed.

Charlie Moffitt

July 7, 2015

Met Scott while working at Harris Teeter. Never will you meet a nicer person. A true gentleman. Everyone that knew him will miss him.

Knew Scott through working at Harris Teeter. True gentleman, and always had a good word

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Mike Tisdell

July 7, 2015

All I csan say is I am so sorry. You will be greatly missed. We know that Scott is with Brandon in heaven. I just do not know why bad things happen to such great people. Thanks for all the great years.

Don Russell

July 7, 2015

Scott and I met in the 5th grade, at Double Oaks Elementary in Charlotte, and reconnected at Garinger High School, specifically in Radio Broadcasting Class. We spent two years of our lives learning the technical intricacies of the business, the nuances of proper diction and elocution, as well every word to The Sugar Hill Gang's Rapper's Delight. Once we graduated from High School, our lives took us on our vectors, then I would see Scott only occasionally in Mint Hill, where we would chat and get caught up, but then our lives would intervene and we would part, promising each other that we would spend more time together, but there would be great periods of time between our conversations. I've learned now that I will not have that opportunity again in this life.

My heart is heavy, and my deepest, deepest condolences go to his family. Scott is an extraordinary man, and has been a pivotal part of my life, and he will always be a strong example of how to live an intentional life. God Speed, mon frere.

Carol Hagler Cushman

July 6, 2015

God Speed Scott!

Rick Colosimo

July 6, 2015

RIP my friend.. You were a great co-worker and a dear friend. I will cherish the memories we had. My continue prayers for Anita and Brooke as they mourn your loss. Say hi to Brandon for me..

Dianne Mills

July 6, 2015

Robert and I are saddened to hear of Scott's passing. He and Anita were such a fun loving couple. They have had a lot on their plate losing Brandon. May God bless Anita and Brooke during this time. We love you......Robert & Dianne Mills

Scott Hill

July 6, 2015

So long old friend. Till we meet again.

GLENN VINSON

July 6, 2015

I WAS SADDEN TO HEAR THE PASSING OF SUCH A WONDERFUL PERSON. SCOTT AND I WOKKED TOGETHER FOR MANY YEARS AT HARRIS-TEETER #255.WE BECAME GOOD FREINDS OVER THE YEARS .SOMEONE YOU COULD EASLY TALK AND LAUGH WITH.EVEN THOUGH WE ONLY SAW EACH OTHER A FEW TIMES AFTERWARDS WE ALWAYS HAD A GOOD STORY TO TELL ABOUT THOSE DAYS.HE WILL BE MISSED BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN.

steve & Karen Pounds

July 6, 2015

Steve and I have you and Brooke In our prayers! Scott was someone special!!!!

Crystal Morris

July 6, 2015

You truly were the nicest man I ever met. You were one of the most genuine and caring man I have ever known and will never forget how you took a chance on me and gave me the job to start my career. I will never forget you Scott.

Beth McVey

July 6, 2015

I am so sorry for your loss. I know it is a tremendous one. Scott was a super boss. I only had the pleasure of working for him for a couple of years but he will forever be one of the best bosses I have ever had. Lifting up prayers to your family.

Lori Pierce

July 6, 2015

So sorry for your loss! Scott was such a wonderful, sweet, and loving family man. May God bless each and every one of you.

Sandra Grubb

July 6, 2015

May you rest in peace Scott you fought a hard fight. I know you are having a blast with Brandon right now as we are grieving our loss. Until we see each other again...

Richard & Michelle Gilmore

July 6, 2015

I grew up across the street from Scott and his family. Even though Scott was older he found time to hang out with a little boy. As I got older, he never changed and always had a good word to say and helpful advice. He will truly be missed. Condolences to the family.

Stephanie Pollinger

July 6, 2015

I am so very saddened to hear of Scott's passing. We went to high school together. Several friends had shared his journey with me. He is with angels and Brandon now, free of pain. Words cannot express all the comfort for the sadness we feel here on this earth. So, here is "Strength for today, and HOPE for tomorrow" with this journey your journey to move forward. Love and Hugs with deepest sympathy.

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