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Christopher Kirkpatrick Obituary


Dr. Christopher McKee Kirkpatrick, born July 25, 1970, in Evanston, IL, died tragically in Juneau County, Wisconsin, entering eternal life July 14, 2009. Chris was known as "Dr. K" by his patients at the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs Medical Center, Tomah, Wisconsin. Dr. K will be greatly missed by the many veterans who credited him with turning their lives around, or, in some cases, actually saving their lives. Chris was raised in Wilmette, IL and relocated to Evergreen, CO with his family in 1982, returning to the Chicago area in 1990. He attended the Culver Military Academy in Culver, IN, where he developed a love of horses, equitation and the game of polo. He was an Equitation Instructor to children and adults at the Arabian Knights Farms in Clarendon Hills, IL. Chris also coached boxing for adults and youths in the Rogers Park and Northtown neighborhoods of Chicago as a volunteer for the Chicago Park District. In addition, he taught boxing and advanced Muay Thai kickboxing at the Aiki Training Hall in Skokie. Chris himself competed in many boxing matches at the Park West and other venues in the Midwest. At Northwestern University, Evanston, IL, Chris received a B.S. in Clinical Psychology with a minor in Anthropology in 1999. He received several merit based scholarships and was a member of Psi Chi, the national honor society for psychology students. At the University of Chicago, Chicago School Readiness Project, Chris conducted assessments of emotional, behavioral and academic development of preschool children. Chris received an M.A. in Counseling Psychology, 2005 and a doctorate, Psy.D., in Clinical Psychology, 2008 at the Adler School of Professional Psychology, Chicago. In addition, Chris earned a Clinical Hypnosis Certificate and a Clinical Neuropsychology Certificate. He has treated individuals and groups at the following Chicago institutions: North Lawndale Adult Transition Center; Holy Family Ministries Hope Alive After-School Program with youngsters at the Cabrini Green housing project; Saint Leonard's House Ministry - group psychotherapy and anger management therapy; Dreikurs Psychological Services Center - psychotic disorders and autistic spectrum disorders. Chris was a Case Coordinator for Trilogy, Inc., where he developed and implemented planning and case management for mentally ill adults with psychotic spectrum, severe personality disorders and substance abuse. At the Rogers Park Youth Network/Howard Area Community Center, he taught and coordinated support, mentoring and prevention curriculum for at-risk children. For the Northwestern University Medical School Psycholegal Studies Program, Chicago, he was responsible for teaching and interviewing research subjects and their caretakers in the field and in institutions, jails, and prisons. For the Northwestern University Transformation and Community Inclusion Project, Center for Policy Research, Evanston, IL, he collected ethnographic field data for a study of displaced Chicago Housing Authority residents in the Austin neighborhood and projects, including Cabrini Green and Henry Horner Homes. For the Research Triangle Institute, The Cicero Youth Development Project, Cicero, IL, Chris supervised a team of field interviewers involved in study design and implementation of extensive neuropsychological and psychosocial assessment batteries to youths as part of a longitudinal study of causes and consequences of inhalant drug abuse. Chris was a Psychology Intern at the North Chicago VA Medical Center and transferred to the VA Medical Center in Tomah, WI as a resident Psychologist. He was an Affiliate of the American Psychological Association and an Affiliate Member of the Chicago Association for Psychoanalytic Psychology. Chris leaves behind his parents, Gloria Jean and George McKee Kirkpatrick of LaPorte County, Indiana; his sisters, Kathryn Josephine and Mary Frances; three brothers, Brian Keith, Colin Flinn and Sean Casey; a niece, Riley Lynn; two nephews, Conor McKee and Peter Ivan; his longtime girlfriend, Kelly Williams; in addition to his uncle Don; great aunt Virginia; many cousins; and dogs Olive and Kali. Chris will be deeply missed by everyone who knew him.

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Published by Chicago Tribune on Jul. 26, 2009.

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Ian Wickramasekera

August 21, 2009

Chris was one of the most beautiful people I have ever known. HIs intellectual curiousity and passion for learning about subtle aspects of mind were grounded in a basically great and loving way of living. He could seem like a very simple person much of the time... but he reached for depths of self understanding that few people may know about. I was privellaged to have him as a student. His presence remains with me and especially in moments when I recall his brilliant smile.
Dr. Ian Wickramasekera

August 21, 2009

Chris was one of the most beautiful people I have ever known. HIs intellectual curiousity and passion for learning about subtle aspects of mind were grounded in a basically great and loving way of living. He could seem like a very simple person much of the time... but he reached for depths of self understanding that few people may know about. I was privellaged to have him as a student. His presence remains with me and especially in moments when I recall his brilliant smile.
Dr. Ian Wickramasekera

Gary Howell

August 14, 2009

Chris and I completed our practicum together at the Adler PSC. He was a very intelligent and compassionate therapist. My thoughts and prayers are with the family and Kelly.

Regards

August 11, 2009

My heart goes out to you, Gloria and McKee. I have fond memories of darling little Chris, during the time I knew you best when he was just a little guy. To say that I am sad for you is an understatement. I must say, too, as so many others have, how proud you must be of the life he led. May God grant you serenity.
Nan Shorey, formerly of Evanston, Illinois

August 6, 2009

Gloria and McKee, I am so very deeply sorry for your loss. I did not know Chris but I certainly know you and I am numb with grief for you. Jeff and my thoughts and prayers are with you. Marilyn B.

David

August 4, 2009

As a patient, treated for ptsd by Dr.K i am shocked to hear of his passing, my heart goes out to his family... His insight, intellect, and compassion will be sorely missed by the vets he worked with

Lindsay Hice

August 4, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with Chris's family and friends. Although I did not know Chris, i am sure those who knew him personally will always remember the blessings he brought to their lives.

Dr. Gregory Sarlo

August 2, 2009

I am very shocked to hear of the loss of Chris. Chris took several of my classes and I chaired his dissertation. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends. We will miss him.

Dr. Sarlo

Becky S

August 1, 2009

We are very shocked and saddened to hear about the sudden passing of Chris. He was well-loved by many students here at AKF, especially his demonstrations with Reiny and jumping on bareback at the canter. Our deepest condolances to his family.
Becky, Raalph, and everyone at Arabian Knights Farms

July 30, 2009

Chris was a brilliant student in my Advanced Cognitive Behavior Therapy class. His thoughtful and insightful questions and comments added to the experience of everyone in the room. May G-d comfort his loved ones at this time of great loss. --Neil Bockian, one of Chris's professors at Adler.

andrea brandon

July 30, 2009

I'm so sorry to hear about the passing of Chris.

Pascale Piron

July 30, 2009

My sincere and deepest condolences. I did not know Chris personally but I attend Adler and I am in awe of his energy, determination, grace and the many ways in which he helped others. My thoughts go out to you all ... Respectfully,

Michael Caponi

July 29, 2009

I attended classes with Chris and found him always to be a warm, thoughtful, and caring man. I am sitting in shock at his passing. I am keeping him and his family in my thoughts and prayers. His passing leaves a void which cannot be easily filled.

July 29, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss. God now has a terrific therapist to help Him help others.

Arlene Krizanic

July 29, 2009

It was about a year ago that Chris was submitting his doctoral dissertation to the library at the Adler School. I worked with him seeing that all the final pieces were in place for publication. It was always a pleasure dealing with Chris in my capacity as one of the librarians at the Adler School. I wish to express my deepest sympathy at his passing. My prayers are with him and his family and friends.

Bob Wittebort

July 29, 2009

Gloria and McKee--for once I'm at a loss for words. But it seems to me that you both can be very proud of Chris's life, which was full of accomplishment and grace. Please know that I am here if there is anything at all I can do for you. Katy, Mary, Brian, Colin and Sean: I too lost a brother, too early. My thoughts and prayers go with you.

Dan Han

July 28, 2009

My deepest condolences to Kelly and the family. Chris was a friend, and I'm proud to have known him. This is just tragic. I remember Chris' warm smiles and his passion for serving those in need. He was a true academic and a practitioner of his belief. He was a superb psychologist and a superb martial artist. Again, my condolences to Kelly and the family. God bless.

Benjamin Rader

July 28, 2009

Chris was a colleague and a friend. Loved and respected for his integrity as a thinker and convicted compassion as a fellow human. I had the pleasure of knowing Chris both in the classroom setting and through our clinical experience together while students at the Adler school. This news is a particular shock and to me as Chris and graduated together in 2008 and relocated around the same time to begin our respective careers in Wisconsin. We had plans to reconnect while here. His loss is both surreal and tragic. All my love and warm regard to his family and survivors, in particular Kelly. .

Susan Hammoudeh

July 28, 2009

Chris and I were students together at Adler. He was incredibly humble, gracious,and he genuinely cared about those around him. Chris was an amazing person and will be truly missed.

Otto Torriero

July 28, 2009

Chris was one of the first people I met when I moved to Chicago in 2002, and made me feel very welcome here. He was funny, friendly, intelligent and a very gentle person. He had a very profound positive influence on those around him, including myself. I will remember him fondly and miss him dearly.

rollie

July 28, 2009

Chris was a wonderful person.I was a workout partner of his for several years. He was humble, laid back type of guy.A great guy to be around.Its so sad that he's gone.The world was a better place with him in it.My heart goes out to all his loved ones in this difficult time.He was loved by all whos life he touched.He will be truly missed.

Steven Migalski

July 28, 2009

Chris was one of my students at Adler, and was a bright and shining star. I am so saddened. My condolences to Chris' family. May God comfort you in this time of grief.

Dr. Steven Migalski

Elizabeth Davant

July 28, 2009

Chris left his footprints on my heart. He had a very meaningful impact on my life. The world has lost a great mind. I share in your grief.

Dan Crowe

July 28, 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

John Welch

July 28, 2009

I used to work out with Chris and considered him a friend. I lost touch with him a few years ago as I stopped Muay Thai. He was truly one of the kindest, smartest and influential individuals I have ever met. He was the kind of person whom made you feel special just for having known him. The kind of man that led his life in a way that challenged you and made you want to work harder on yourself. He and I would have many conversations after workouts and I can honestly say that he was a man who lived with passion for his work, his family, and enthusiasms. I feel deeply saddened by the news of his passing, and offer my deepest sympathies and regards to those who knew him best. The only thing I can say in condolence is that I know how hard to he worked to change peoples lives, and while I cannot speak for them, I can say that I am a better man for having known him. He will be missed. John W

Pam Cofre

July 27, 2009

Terrible loss for this world. He was a wonderful, admirable, and kind man. Heart of a lion.
Our deepest sympathy for his family and friends.

Lin & Mark Ellinghuysen

July 27, 2009

Dear Kirkpatrick family and friends, I worked indirectly with Dr. K at the Tomah,WI V.A. I admire Dr. K's sense of ethics, his professionalism, and his passion to help others. I, along with many other colleagues of Dr. K's, mourn his loss. I was fortunate to have spoken with Dr. K. on July 14,2009. Dr. K will not be forgotten! My sincere condolences. Lin/AFGE

Schneider Leconte

July 27, 2009

Sounds like Chris touched many a life. Our actions have a rippling effect on the entire world we live in. I am certain that Chris' life and his life's work has made our world a better place. While I regret that I never knew Chris, I have had the honor of knowing his father and brothers, men I know to be of great character. I've no doubt Chris was the same.

July 26, 2009

I'd like to offer my condolences to the Kirkpatrick family. Although I never knew Christopher, it is apparent that he was a wonderful, smart, talented, and extremely giving young man. It saddens me to know that someone of his caliber has left our existence at such a young age. May peace and love be with his family.
Best,
Abigayle Gore

Ethel K

July 26, 2009

Good men die too young. Although I did notknow him, I offer my heartfelt sympathy for his brother, Brian - who I work with. Brian, remember, your brother will always be in your heart.

Dan Cirignani

July 26, 2009

I did not know "Dr.K" but he sounds like someone you would like to know.
His life apparently ended all too quickly.As I scanned the obituaries on Sunday morning I could not help but stop and read all that this young man accomplished in his life,he was a true humanitarian.We seem to get used to tradgedies as this apparently was as we go through our hectic lives.
To his family,parents,brothers,sisters , nieces and nephews this is one young man you can be proud of that he was in your family ,my deepest condolences.

Dr. K., may you rest in peace and have the everlasting light shine upon you ,the Lord will surely watch over you and welcome you into his Kingdom.

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