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1982
DIED
2019
COLIN UTLEY Obituary
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for COLIN UTLEY
Lauren
February 6, 2023
To say it's been a long 4 years without you is an understatement. Not a day goes by that you aren't remembered, missed or loved.
Your one liners, your laugh, your smile, your incredible heart...I could go on and on about all the things I miss about you.
Thank you for looking over me and keeping me safe and pushing me to be who I am today from above.
I will love you always...
Laura Esposito Augustine
February 3, 2023
You know there are people who come into your life and leave too soon leaving an impression on your heart that will never go away completely. That experience, that relationship and the effect it leaves us with can't be taken for granted. It's a gift I've taken with me for forging ahead through some difficulties, but the grace to keep going. Miss you dear friend, sending my best to your mom, dad, brother and his family. God speed.
Laura Augustine
February 3, 2022
I miss you Colin, and I'm missing everyone in your family. I never imagined a time I'd never see you again, but I've retired and I'm grateful for every day. I think of you always and pray your extraordinary aura never leaves us. Blessings to your family, Laura
Laura Esposito Augustine
February 3, 2021
You made such an impact on my career with your loyalty, encouragement, and individuality which you were never afraid to show to the world. It's a tremendous void with you gone, you coached me along as my skills became slower, weaker and remained one of my most valuable client and friend. You helped me with your general brilliance as you saw needed. If I couldn't understand my iPhone, computer, broken equipment at work, my clippers frying out, you just were so patient, helpful and kind. Dearest Pat and Dave, please take care of yourselves. I miss you all, I'm always thinking of your son, and so grateful for everything. Blessings and prayers for you all.
Mom & Dad
March 2, 2020
Colin David William Bain Utley was a happy individual who had an infectious smile that caused people to gravitate to him.
He was born on Thursday, October 21, 1982. He grew up in Schaumburg and attended Collins grade school, Frost Junior High School and Conant High School. After high school, he started his own business HQ Enterprises. Several years ago, he decided that he wanted to become a civil engineer and went back to pursue his Associates Degree at Harper College. He completed that this past semester and anticipated transferring to a 4 year university.
Colin had an affinity for mechanical objects and building. He had a great sense of spatial and visual awareness and could often see in his mind what others had to put down on paper. He was an expert craftsman and builder and had worked with many of his friends on building and remodeling projects. A self-taught computer whiz, he set up the electronics & computer systems for us (and others) and, more importantly, maintained them. He excelled at working on automobiles and especially enjoyed working on his BMW. And who could forget the numerous Legos that Colin had build and re-built, from the simplest Duplos to the Star Wars Star Destroyer and the Cinderalla castle.
Colin enjoyed many sports and particularly downhill skiing. He skied most of the major western resorts and even spent one winter at Vail/Beaver Creek/Breckenridge. Additionally, he enjoyed biking and participated in many sponsored 50 - 100 mile rides. For the past several summers (and planned for this coming summer), he organized a volleyball group that played at Twin Ponds in Palatine.
He loved his family and particularly his mom. He reveled in his nieces and nephews Cassidie, Cattibrie, Charlie and Coren. He enjoyed taking them to Noahs Ark at the Dells, the zoo, the aquarium or just hanging around and talking with them. Several years back, he and Shawn along with Cassidie and Cattibrie had a memorable road trip out west to many scenic destinations and Disneyland. And he had talked about going with Shawn and the boys to Disneyworld within the next year or two.
Colin had been engaged to Lauren Selker. He loved her and had hoped to raise a family and spend the rest of what was hoped to be a long life together.
Colin was a people person. He seemed to know almost everyone around Schaumburg a slight exaggeration but only slight. Almost everywhere we went, there was someone that he knew or knew him including one of his recent health care doctors. One of his favorite events was Bain Bash a party he started to coincide with Schaumburgs Septemberfest. It was so popular with his friends that it was a recurring success for the past 16 years.
He was always there to help be it as a designated driver, a ride to the airport, computer issues, help with mechanical issues on a car or many other things. He was never too busy just to sit and listen to someones problems and would do whatever he could. Colin was never be too busy to help a friend.
Colin, your mother and father have always loved you and will forever love you.
Colin, Shawn & Dad 2004
Mom & Dad
March 1, 2020
6th Grade Graduation - 1995
Mom & Dad
March 1, 2020
Colin & Friends
Mom & Dad
March 1, 2020
Heavenly Resort - 2004
Mom & Dad
March 1, 2020
Lake Tahoe Shore - 2004
Mom & Dad
March 1, 2020
Conant High School
Mom & Dad
March 1, 2020
Christmas 1998
Mom & Dad
February 28, 2020
Summer 1995
Mom & Dad
February 28, 2020
September 1992
Mom & Dad
February 28, 2020
Fall - 1991
Mom & Dad
February 28, 2020
Summer - 1991
Mom & Dad
February 28, 2020
Autumn 1986
Mom & Dad
February 28, 2020
Autumn 1984
Mom & Dad
February 28, 2020
Colin & Shawn <br />Christmas 1983
Mom and Dad
February 28, 2020
Summer - 1983
Mom & Dad
February 27, 2020
Colin, Nevin & Torin at Christmas
February 11, 2020
Laura Augustine
December 16, 2019
Always will remain in my heart, and always in my memories!
Linda Rankin
December 15, 2019
Pat, Dave and family,
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your beloved Colin. We have many fond memories of Colin as a loving and happy young boy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
With sympathy,
August 3, 2019
I'm so sorry. I was lunchroom mom for Colin
In 5th grade. He had the most beautiful smile. My son's were friends. He always made me smile.
Sincerely
Mrs. JoAnn Carroll
Wil Orahem
April 9, 2019
I had the pleasure of meeting Colin many years back in a professional capacity. Our shared love for hiking, biking and the great outdoors instantly created a connection that I can only describe as friendship.
My fondest memory of Colin is not one I experienced with him, but because of him. About one year ago, I had casually mentioned my upcoming trip to Colorado. Without hesitation, Colin sent me a list of trails to hike, restaurants to try and things to do. He insisted that I go to a trail called Devils Head just outside of Denver. It was one of the most magnificent places I have ever been; the views were absolutely breathtaking. Ill be visiting again this summer and intend on having a small memorial at the top of trail.
Rest In Peace, old friend. You will be sorely missed
Linda Sokolowski
February 28, 2019
A few years ago I was walking down the path to Septemberfest and Colin was coming back, stopped and made small talk with me. As he was leaving he gave me a hug. I still remember it because it made me feel so good. A gesture so small can leave a lasting impression on you. Colin was truly a good person and will be missed. RIP
Our only wedding picture together, he picked the dress.
Lauren Selker
February 25, 2019
Lauren Selker
February 25, 2019
Lauren Selker
February 25, 2019
First Christmas together in Galena.
Lauren Selker
February 25, 2019
Lauren Selker
February 25, 2019
Lauren Selker
February 25, 2019
Tony and Linda Sokolowski
February 24, 2019
Pat and Dave we are heartbroken and share the grief of losing a son. We would like to share the following message with the hope it brings you some comfort.
From heaven Colin was delivered to you. God said I'm trusting you both to nurture and love him. He's your little angel sent from me above. The body that was his vessel is what you'll
surely miss. His spirit I promise to never take away. Colin is back in heaven now. As you grieve and want to see him again, I promise Colin is waiting here for when you get to heaven.
Leslie Leleniewski
February 23, 2019
I was extremely sad to hear about the passing of Colin. He introduced my sister and brother-in-law to one another so I'll forever be grateful to him. Colin was always nice to me. I remember him joining our post prom group every year at Twin Lakes in Palatine and being the grillmaster for our festivities. He was always happy to help; I'm glad I knew him.
Kimberly Piper
February 23, 2019
I first met Colin at Country Thunder. He was level headed, friendly, and an all around good guy. He will be missed.
Cathy Paullin
February 23, 2019
I have so many great memories of Colin. I haven't seen him in a few years, but I will cherish the memories. He had a great sense of humor and his laugh was contagious. I will truly miss him. Rest In Peace, Colin. My deepest condolences go out to the Utley family.
Dragan Family
February 23, 2019
Sorry for your loss
Dragan Family
February 23, 2019
Our deepest condolences to you and your family. May our friendship and prayers ease you and family through this difficult time.
John Scalet
February 23, 2019
You will be missed and be in our prayers.
Marc Mota
February 22, 2019
Colin was a awesome friend. He was there for me when I had to deal with the death of my boys. With no hesitation he seen me came and hugged me and bought me a beer. He was a great man with open arms to help anyone that needed it. He will be missed.
Emily Plunkett
February 22, 2019
Colin was a warm and kind soul, always out to have a good time. He was cheery and joyous. A friend to all, he could strike a conversation with anyone and did it often. He was adventurous in his travels, meticulous in his work and generous with his time and company. I can remember many of Saturdays playing street hockey, many nights chatting on the front porch, many get togethers in his basement, Galena, the Dells, Lowden, Bain Bash, college parties, holidays when he'd drop by for a bite, and ordinary days when he'd just waltz in our front door unannounced to hang with us. I even dragged him to two high school dances. He was a sport. :) He loved all and anything Christmas, which suits his cheery and festive nature (he would appreciate the use of the word 'festive' right there). He showed up to my rehearsal dinner in swim trunks - so Colin. He ushered my wedding and served as pall bearer for my grandma. Colin was always there for us. He was a pal you could count on. He was amazing at whatever he put his mind to, but most of all he was a good friend. I will truly miss him. Dave, Pat, Shaun and family - sending all of you my thoughts, prayers and love. Wishing you comfort and peace. Thank you for gracing us with Colin. He was light and love. He was a treasure. With love, Emily, Dave, Charlie, Jack, Henry & Olive
He was always able to get everyone together. We will be able to tell your stories forever my friend.
Cameron Ungaro
February 22, 2019
Daniel Wasnick
February 21, 2019
Colin was a good man and friend, so easy to talk to and was always helpful. May you Rest In Peace
Nick Scipione
February 21, 2019
We want to extend our deepest condolences at this very difficult time. Our prayers are with the entire Utley family. Nick Scipione and family.
Jason Miller
February 21, 2019
It is always too soon for the good ones. Colin, you will forever live on in the hearts and memories of your friends and family.
Austin Walsh
February 21, 2019
We had just moved in next door to the Utley's in 2001. One of my early outside projects was to move a big bush. The plant was heavy and Colin, seeing the struggle, came right over to lend a hand. Never mind the dirty hands. He didn't seem to care. He just wanted to help.
And that's the way he always was. Quick with a smile, always with something to say and always ready to help.
He lived outside of himself. Colin's focus was always on the world around him with a sense of other's needs.
He passed too soon. We will miss his helping hand and his good cheer. I'd say rest in peace but I'm sure he's not resting having already found some kind of heavenly project.
Scott & Jennifer Crassweller
February 20, 2019
Colin's infectious smile and positive attitude will always be remembered, and will be missed...it was always a pleasure sparking a conversation with such a cheerful and helpful neighbor.
Jim and Judy Hoffman
February 15, 2019
Words are inadequate at a time like this. We are so sorry for your loss.Jim and Judy Hoffman
Ila Moe
February 13, 2019
Dear Utley Family, we are so very sorry for your loss. We pray you stay strong and send sincere sympathy.
Gary and Ila Moe
February 12, 2019
He has his father's smile. His Dad was my favorite teacher at Lakeview in 5th grade. So sad to have lost a child. I am sincerely sorry.
Richard Krieg Jr
February 11, 2019
My condolences go out to Colins family and friends. We knew each other from quite a while ago-but just because friends lose touch, does not mean that friendship that was forged breaks. I am truly sorry for your loss and wish you peace at this time.
Lee and Sandy Nigri
February 10, 2019
Dear Pat and Dave. We are so sorry to hear of the passing of your son. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
William Carroll
February 9, 2019
Colin was a great friend and human being. Everytime I saw him he always had a smile. He will be missed by many. My condolences on your loss..
Susan Marcotte
February 9, 2019
Dave and Pat, I am so sorry for the loss of your son, Colin. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Former St Matthew Parishioner, Sue Marcotte
Terrence Quane
February 9, 2019
Dave and Pat: Tense and I were saddened to hear about Colin. May the Lord's grace be with him, and you, throughout this time. May he Rest in Peace.
Terry and Tense Quane
Abby
February 9, 2019
Dear friends and family of Colin,
My condolences to the family. This is a troubling and difficult time, but there is someone that you can throw your anxieties on. May you find comfort from 1 Peter 5:6,7 God wants us to pray to him and let him know our distress because he cares for us. Best wishes.
Katie Suvada
February 9, 2019
It saddened me to hear the news. Colin was a great person who was always friendly and kind.
His smile made you smile.
Erica Kovac
February 9, 2019
Amanda Kanthack-Nyc
February 9, 2019
May you rest in peace sweet Colin. You are a soul that will truly be missed. Xoxo
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