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Susan Smith
September 29, 2023
Thirteen years ago at Uncle Dave's memorial I saw a photo of him that I had never seen before and it is etched in my mind. He was a very young child affectionately holding a big fluffy cat, almost as big as he was, and he looked unboundedly happy. I like to think of him that way in heaven, unboundedly happy, loving and being loved. I miss him, and know that his children, David and Annie, miss him AND their mom. I love you David Dean and Annie. They would be, are, so proud of both of you!
March 14, 2011
Dave and I dated and eventually became pinned at Bradley. He was a wonderful, sensitive, generous, kind person and a great dancer. I have always remembered him fondly even though we haven't been in touch in 51 years. I'm so sorry his life was cut short but it sounds as though he had a wonderful life. I'm sure he is in heaven with our Lord.
Sue Lloyd Crooker
March 14, 2011
Dave and I dated and eventually became pinned at Bradley. He was a wonderful, sensitive, generous, kind person and a great dancer. I have always remembered him fondly even though we haven't been in touch in 51 years. I'm so sorry his life was cut short but it sounds as though he had a wonderful life. I'm sure he is in heaven with our Lord.
susan smith
November 6, 2010
My Uncle Dave
written by his niece Susan
We all know different facets of one another, I want to share an exquisite facet of my Uncle Dave. My first recollection of him was when I was 5, he was 23, and wearing a white coast guard uniform. Under his handsomeness I could see his tender heart, a broken and contrite spirit. I believe the kind our GOD wants us to have.
I always liked him, always saw his tender side.
As a teen I grew to know Uncle Dave during numerous drives back and forth from babysitting Christy and little David. We had some quality conversations.
One New Year’s Eve, I spent the night at Dave and Sandy’s. In the morning I came downstairs to find Uncle Dave sitting on the living room couch holding little Christy in his arms, talking to her in a tender and nurturing way.
He was special, his whole life humbles me. It always will, I really love my Uncle Dave.
I chose a scripture in his honor. It is from one of the oldest books in the Bible, Job, which by the way is not mainly about suffering. Its main point is about HUMILITY because, as sterling of a character Job had, he still knew that he had to fall before a might God and admit he was a sinner, and needed a Savior. Job 11:18 (I put Uncle Dave’s name in this verse to personalize it) My Uncle Dave is secure because there is hope. He looks about and takes his rest in safety, his Savior, The Lord Jesus Christ. Heaven Begs the answer to this question from all of us “Who do we put our hope in?”
October 22, 2010
Our family was sorry to learn of the passing of Dave. Through the years we shared our joys and sorrows. Anne was the same age as our daughter, Pam and David Jr. the same age as our son, Paul. Although we were only in touch now and then, we admired Dave and his great attitude toward life.
We are thinking of you, Anne and David.
Linda and Dave Scott
Patsy (Stephen) Andrews
October 9, 2010
Beloved childhood family friend. I'll miss David. Sorry he has passed away.
Sharon Paradowski
October 8, 2010
So sorry for your loss. Dave was my co-worker and lunch partner. I will miss
him. My prayers and thoughts will be with
you and your family
Judy Hanlon
October 8, 2010
Through shared high school and college days I have always admired Dave. Occasionally after college I would see him when he visited his sister while I was at my in-laws on Stratford Drive. This was years ago. How lucky to always see him at WHS reunions where we talked about family and art and BU experiences. I will miss his handsome face, his smile and his caring ways. My sincere sympathies to his loving family of whom he was very proud.
Lawrence Aronov
October 7, 2010
I spent many Wednesdays evenings with Dave at the Wellness House where we shared our Cancer stories.
How we were feeling, what treatment was being done to help us us along.
I found Dave to be a mild mannered man with concern for those he shared Wednesday evening together!
I will miss you Dave.
To Daves wife Mary Kay, may you enjoy peace knowing that Dave is in a much better place of peace right know. He has gone to join the Lord!
Reggie Ryan
October 6, 2010
Dave was one of the greatest Sigma Chi's of our generation. If you needed a new chapter room he simply went about his business and single determination built it by himself. It was a beauty. Brothers, we lost a GREAT one.
Sam Pendola
October 5, 2010
Dave was a man's man! A man of good heart to all he knew...I knew him well at
Bradley University..never known to quit! Always a friend that would help. Always gave 110% in any effort asked of him. Truly an honor to know him as a friend and teammate...Sincere
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Marcia Shreve
October 5, 2010
We never had the opportunity to know Dave in person, yet we feel we know him through Mary Kay's love for him. He was the best partner for her, and we loved him for that.
Judy & George Hiles
October 5, 2010
Our condolences to The Wightman Family. We were friends of Sandy at Missouri Valley College and then Dave and Sandy here in Chicago. Especially remember Anne and Dave, Jr. as young children.
Thinking of you at this difficult time,
Judy(Keyes)and George Hiles
Sharon (Huett) Richmond
October 5, 2010
I graduated from Woodruff with Dave. He was always smiling & friendly with everybody. His smile will always shine & I'm sure God can use it in Heaven. God bless his family at this time. Our prayers are with you.
Sharon Rhamey
October 5, 2010
As a gracious and gentle person, he was the loving husband of my very dear friend, Mary Kay. He will be truly missed.
john van velzer
October 4, 2010
Best description that I can give is that Dave was always STRAIGHT ARROW personafied. And loveable along with "it".
Al Scriba
October 4, 2010
Knew Dave way back at Bradley. He always had a smile for everyone. My condolences to his family.
October 4, 2010
If we could choose to have one BIG BROTHER in our lives we would pick Dave all over again! HE WAS A GIFT TO US, and we always felt his love, and protection. We are thankful we serve the same LORD and SAVIOUR; and have COMFORT and the PEACE, which passes all understanding, knowing WHOSE he is and where he is. IN CHRIST, Len and Marti Shuck
October 4, 2010
Dave was such a great partner for my mother -- and a good sport! He was always willing to go with her on volleyball road trips or to art fairs or to listen to music.
He was always at-the-ready for me and my sister -- there was no household malady he could not attend to immediately. One Saturday morning I was on the phone with my mother when I noticed that bubbles were spilling out of my dishwasher. I hung up the phone, turned off the dishwasher, threw some towels on the floor and was distracted by another phone call. Five minutes later my mother called back to tell me "Dave is on his way." After that I imagined him sitting at home on Saturdays with his tool bag by the garage door, waiting for Anne or Kerry or me to call with a household emergency.
He was a kind and generous man and I'll miss him.
--amy
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