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Donald Demeter Obituary

Donald Paul Demeter, 53, of Evanston, passed away suddenly on April 20, 2001. He was born and raised in Kansas City, MO. Don served in the U.S. Army in Vietnam. A business opportunity brought Don to Evanston in 1992, where he founded High Tech Services, a computer software sales firm. He was also a breeder of Bengal Cats. Don was a very spiritual person, whose love of life included gourmet cooking, reading, traveling, music and socializing. He will be greatly missed by all who knew him. Beloved husband of Liz Demeter, nee Nishimura; loving son of the late Carmella Lorraine Sola; loving stepson of John J. and Ruth Sola and loving son-in-law of Masao and Marie Nishimura; dear brother of Kathleen Magill, Louis (Vivian) and Michael Sola; brother-in-law of Greg Nishimura, Doug (Patti) Nishimura and Lillian Nishimura; fond uncle of Sean and Sara Reynolds; loving owner of Zoie and Smurfette. Visitation Wednesday 4 p.m. until time of Service 7:30 p.m. at Donnellan Family Funeral Home, 10045 Skokie Blvd., at Old Orchard Rd., Skokie. Interment private. In lieu of flowers, memorials to Orphans of the Storm, 2200 Riverwoods Road, Riverwoods, Illinois 60015. Funeral info, 847-675-1990.

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Published by Chicago Tribune from Apr. 24 to Apr. 25, 2001.

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Joan Carol Fullmore

April 7, 2025

I think of you always Don and so grateful for all we shared. I pray you and Billy are near each other. You each graced earth with 53 years

Deedee Musa

May 22, 2001

Don advised me numerous times with regard to Bengals. Although I have never met him, I am deeply saddened by his passing. My condolences to his wife and family.

Clay Rogers

April 30, 2001

I've had the pleasure of working with Don for the past several years. He has been, without exception, the most pleasant person I've ever worked with. His upbeat and positive perspective will always be an inspiration to me. Both my fiancée and I have worked with Don, and have talked to him recently about our upcoming honeymoon in Hawaii. Don was very fond of Hawaii. When we go to Maui next month, we'll say a prayer for Don and cast a lei in the ocean. Marcie and I will miss Don. We share your loss and send our deepest condolence to his family and many friends.

Louis Sola

April 26, 2001

Don,



I will miss you very much. I love you and know you are watching.



Your Brother,



Louis

Meda Lavadour

April 25, 2001

I too, was a frequent visitor to a "cat chat" board, of which he also. I haven't met him either, but I will surely miss his intelligence and knowledge of the Bengal breed that he so lovingly raised. God Bless.

pearl cunningham

April 25, 2001

when Don's beloved Bengal cat Suki died of a transfusion of the wrong blood, Don made sure the entire veterinary medical community was made aware of this mistake. very few vets new about this and vet schools didn't teach it. now they do. he made it safe for all our cats.



i have a shy Bengal cat named Jitterbug. she and I both had the wonderful opportunity to meet Don and Liz. Jitterbug went right up to Don and rubbed against his leg and let him pet her. in almost 3 years i have had her (since she was a kitten) there has been only one other person she did that to the first time she met them--me.



Don is with Suki, now. what a reunion that must have been. good bye my good friend. i'm so glad we both got a chance to meet you. i will never forget you, and neither will JB.

Rachel Klein

April 25, 2001

My husband and I only met Don once, but were disarmed by his kindness, and the way that he put us immediately at ease in his presence. We went to his house to buy a kitten and ended up staying for hours talking about anything and everything. Every time we look at our kittens we will remember the gentle man who raised them so lovingly.

Portia Neff

April 24, 2001

Hi -- I never had the opportunity to meet Don or any of the family, however I feel like a member of my family has passed. You see, I am a member of the Bengals-L list online. I know he was a special person who will be greatly missed by all who knew and loved him. If he is as unique as Bengals, he was very special indeed.

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