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Gary R. DiTomassi, 56, of Highland Park, IL, passed away unexpectedly Thursday, July 18, 2013 in his home in Wauconda, IL. He was born May 02, 1957 in Rockford, IL. Son of Sylvia DiTomassi (nee Akers) and the late Richard DiTomassi. Gary DiTomassi, beloved father of Vincent and Regina; admired nephew of Ronald DiTomassi; loving and adored brother of Denise Gately (Steve), Diane Lynch (Pete), Kim DiTomassi-Weiner, Mark DiTomassi and Jeffrey DiTomassi; cherished uncle of Sean, Stephanie, Christopher, Kimi, Kady, Kelly, Danielle, Kylie, Zoe and Casey; great uncle of Thomas. Gary was a five-star Professional Chef and Culinary Institute of America graduate, class of 1981; co-owner of Bristol Court Banquet Hall in Mount Prospect, IL. Gary had a special interest in providing food to charitable organizations while owner of The Barrington House and Gary D's Catering. Furthermore, he generously opened his banquet hall annually on holidays providing meals for the homeless. Gary's love and means of relaxation and enjoyment was boating with his family and friends, hosting parties at home and traveling. In lieu of flowers, please consider the needs of his children. Contributions may be sent to Vincent and Regina DiTomassi at 1371 New Haven Dr., Cary, IL 60013. Visitation will be Thursday July 25, 2013 at Kisselburg-Wauconda Funeral Home, 235 North Main Street, Wauconda, IL, from 3:00 PM to time of funeral service 7:00 PM. Interment is private. Funeral information: 847-526-2115 or visit www.kisselburgwaucondafuneralhome.com

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Published by Chicago Tribune on Jul. 24, 2013.

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Denise

November 27, 2022

Miss you so much Gar

Denise DiTomassi-Gately

March 28, 2020

Missing you a lot lately! I find peace however knowing you are truly in a better place without hatred, envy, judgement or pain! Love you forever and more ♥♥♥♥♥

Robert DiTomassi

August 2, 2013

My condolences to you and your family. My grandfather, William (Bill) DiTomassi, was very close to Richard DiTomassi (They were cousins). Although our family has not seen Richard's family in some time, our prayers are with you.

Robert DiTomassi
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Twyla Hauser

July 31, 2013

My deepest sympathy to all.

Love Twyla

Mary Ann Bellak

July 30, 2013

Wonderful man, beautiful pictures, my heart is breaking for all my Ditomassi's, it's breaking for me too. Love, Mary Ann

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Ahhh so happy with his Mommy

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Gar and his little bro & niece Kimi

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Enjoying life

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Gary & his Mommy

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Gary & the BEST Uncle in the world

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IN HIS HEAVEN

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5 STAR CHEF

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FOR ALMOST 15 YRS I SAW GARY LIKE THIS...WORKING

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EVERY GIRLFRIEND I HAD WAS HOT FOR GARY

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THOSE DIMPLES GOT 'EM EVERY TIME

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BROS FOREVER

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IN HIS HEAVEN

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July 30, 2013

LAST TIME WE 6 WERE ALL TOGETHER

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July 30, 2013

REST IN PEACE MY PRECIOUS BROTHER

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BUDS FOREVER

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HE LOVED HIS MOMMY SO MUCH

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IN AZ WITH VINNY AND US

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IN AZ WITH VINNY, STEVE & DENISE

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IN HIS HEAVEN

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AZ ON THE LAKE.....

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AZ ON THE LAKE

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AZ IN OUR POOL

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AZ IN OUR POOL

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WITH FAMILY, HIS MOST FAVORITE TIMES

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WITH FAMILY

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Joe Calo

July 29, 2013

Will always remember him being a happy joyfull soul. Will be missed by many. My condolences to his children and family.

Daniels Family

July 29, 2013

So very sorry for your loss. May your precious memories of him always bring you comfort. Remember - God is for us a refuge and strength - Psalms 46

Brad Ruedig

July 26, 2013

I just heard of Gary's death late last night. My prayers go out to his family. I was a schoolmate with Gary for two years in Lincoln IL. Gary was fun to be with and always tried to help people. I'm not surprised to see he was successful and charitable. He will be missed by many.

Jordan Cain

July 25, 2013

I'm extremely saddened to hear of Gary's passing and my condolences go out to his children and extended family. As a classmate of his in our Freshmen year, I have many wonderful memories of Gary. His smile and humor was unique. He was one of a kind guy and I'll miss him.

Linda Frankel

July 25, 2013

Yesterday I heard the most beautiful church bell song that I have never heard before. Then I realized it was for Gary and your family.

Linda

Deborah Rozner-Bond

July 25, 2013

He was a wonderful man, I didn't know him well, but he went above and beyond helping me with my goddaughter 's catered engagement party. Angele Amato loved him deeply. He will be sadly missed. My deepest condolences to all his family, may God wrap His hands around your broken hearts & comfort you in the weeks, months & years to come.
Lovingly
Deborah Rozner-Bond

Bill & Bernie Nord

July 24, 2013

We are sorry to hear of Gary's passing. I have such wonderful memories , please stay strong. God bless all of you. Bill & Bernie Nord

Edie Washer

July 24, 2013

My deepest sympathy to Sylvia and your children. I am so sorry to hear of Garys passing so younge, God bless.

Mindy Surell

July 24, 2013

“If tears could build a stairway and memories a lane I'd walk right up to Heaven, Gary, and bring you back again.”

From the first day KP introduced me to The DiTomassi Family, I knew I had found my second home. So many memories, including watching Sylvia and gang rolling her famous homemade tortellini's, and sitting down with you and your whole family to share a big homemade Italian meal….One of many moments in which you and your family sprinkled stardust on my life.

You were like a brother to me growing up and I always looked forward to your great hugs. What a shining star you were, whose brightness emanated to anyone who had the honor of being around you. Your wit, patience, kindness, passion, love, generosity, and friendly, approachable demeanor touched so many lives. You left an indelible impression on many people Gary, and a day will not go by that all your friends and family will miss you.

“Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.”

~Peace and Light~ Gary, as the Love I Have for You and your Family will Keep your Memory with Me Forever.


All my love and deepest sympathy to the family.

July 24, 2013

Kim Ditomassi and family,
So sorry to hear of your brothers passing, may God Bless you and all your family during this very difficult time. May he rest in peace. Fondly, Valerie Fontana

Debbie Wrecke

July 24, 2013

Dear Vinny and Regina, I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your father. My heartfelt sympathy to your whole family. Hugs.

martha koopman

July 24, 2013

My deepest sympathy to the whole FAMILY.GOD BLESS YOU ALL ALWAY'S. I WILL MISS & LOVE YOU ALWAYS. OUR LORD,JESUS. CHRIST,OOU FATHER, HAIL MARY,GLORY BE. AMEN. GARY. R.I.P. I WILL SEE YOU IN HEAVEN. XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX MARTHA ESCOBAR KOOPMAN

Diane Labahn

July 24, 2013

So saddened to hear of Gary's passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to his loved ones during this very difficult time. Peace be with you.

Lynn

July 24, 2013

May the Hearer of prayer give the family the comfort needed during this time of grief (Psalm 65:2). The Almighty is a refuge for us in times of distress. May you find relief in His promises of life again for our lost love ones like Gary, found in His word during this time of sadness.

Jeanne Lathrop

July 24, 2013

His life gave us memories too beautiful to forget. May you find peace and love in the memories you cherish.

Dave Mayber

July 24, 2013

Sincere condolences to the entire DiTomassi family. Gary was a high school classmate and was always one of the "good guys"...to hear that he was so generous to the homeless is no surprise. So sorry for your loss.

Nanci LeClair - Nedweski

July 24, 2013

I'm sorry to hear of Gary's passing, my thoughts are prayers are with you all.

susan Lineback

July 24, 2013

Kim and Family..
So very sorry to hear of Gary's passing. What a great guy he was growing up. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all
Susan Lineback

Great times will be missed by all. Love Di

Diane DiTomassi-Lynch

July 24, 2013

I love you Gar, I will miss you forever. Love Di

Diane DiTomassi-Lynch

July 24, 2013

I Love you Gary!

Mark DiTomassi

July 24, 2013

July 24, 2013

Denise, So sorry for your loss.. our
thoughts and prayers are with you and family
Lori Lewis Levin

Ilene Reynolds

July 24, 2013

There's an amazing new angel in Heaven. My heartfelt thoughts and prayers to all who knew and loved him...

Laurie Sprow

July 24, 2013

My deepest sympathy to the Ditomassi family and Gary's children. Wishing you strength and comfort. Thinking of you

July 24, 2013

To the DiTomassi Family,
There are never the right words to say. I am so sorry to hear of Garys passing. All of you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Love, Donna Tamarri Soldano

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