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Helena Groark Obituary

Helena Groark, 67, of Lake Forest, a native of Cathedral Road, Cork, Eire, beloved wife of Jerome N.; loving mother of Jerome N. Jr., James P. (Reem), Brian D. (Ainslie), Shelagh E., Jennifer A. (Allan) Marques; grandmother of Matthew J., Sean B., Ryan A., Justin J., Anissah S., Brady T., and Jenna N.; dear sister to Maureen (Michael) Loftus and the late Donal McCarthy; sister-in-law to Timothy (Sandra) Groark, Michael Groark, Mary (the late Thomas) Ryter; fond aunt and great-aunt of many. She is preceded in death by her parents Thomas and Catherine McCarthy. A visitation will be held on Thursday, May 4 from 4 to 9 p.m. at Kelley & Spalding Funeral Home, 1787 Deerfield Rd., Highland Park, IL. Mass 10 a.m. Friday, May 5 at St. Patrick's Church, 991 S. Waukegan Rd., Lake Forest, IL 60045. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Evanston Northwestern Healthcare Foundation, Attn: Kellogg Cancer Center, 1033 University Place, Suite 450 Evanston, IL 60201. For information or directions please call Kelley & Spalding Funeral Home and Crematory at 847-831-4260 or www.kelleyspaldingfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Chicago Tribune from May 2 to May 3, 2006.

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Glenn Pieters

May 6, 2006

To the entire Groark family:



My deepest sympathies for your loss. I remember Helen (always "Mrs. Groark" to me!) so warmly -- she was such a bright light and so kind! I pray that the Lord will bring comfort to all of you in knowing that she is now at peace and in glory.



God bless you!

Dan McMahon

May 4, 2006

Jerry,

Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. You are in our prayers.



Peg and Dan McMahon

Frank, Valerie, Kevin, & Jennifer Kohnen

May 3, 2006

Dear Jerry and the entire Groark Family,



We are all deeply sorry for your loss, and we will all truly miss our beloved Helen. Although we are unable to be with you in person during this most difficult time, please know that we are with you all in our thoughts and prayers.



Love,

Arlene and Raymond Handler

May 3, 2006

Dear Jen:



Dr. Handler and I have such fond memories of your Mom sitting on the benches with us during Wood Oaks basketball games, convincing her to let you go to GBN with your friends. We are glad you did and we hope that memories will bring you comfort.



Sincerely,

Arlene and Ray Handler

Mary Cassidy Keith

May 3, 2006

Brian & Ainslie - I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my Dad in February and it is a hard road to be sure...I hope your family can find time between the sorrow and tears to celebrate your Mother's life as we were able to do for my Dad - with all the Irish songs, prayers, stories, pictures, and laughter...Wishing you peace and comfort and sending a prayer your way....

Jack and Chandra Allen

May 2, 2006

Jerry,we remember so well when you met Helen at Maureen McDonagh and Paul Kerin's wedding. We all loved her and were so happy for you.



We will remember her as the beautiful lass she was then and the wonderful wife and mother she became. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, your children and grandchildren.



Jack and Chandra

Roseann Hart Guyette

May 2, 2006

Jerry,

I have so many fond memories of Helen during the time you and I worked together. I am so sorry for your loss but hope that thoughts of happy times together will sustain you during this difficult period.

Jean & Jim Ramsey

May 2, 2006

Again, Jerry, our thoughts and prayers are with you and yours. We'll never forget her "shining face."

Joan Hey

May 2, 2006

Oh Wee Helen.....I'll miss you !

Kathy & Steve Maczko

May 2, 2006

We are very sorry for your loss.



Kathy and Steve Maczko

Helen & Ed Goffinet

May 2, 2006

Shelagh, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during the loss of your mother. May God be with you and give all of you strength and comfort.

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