Search by Name

Search by Name

BORN

1945

DIED

2015

Henry BARTHOLOMAY Obituary

Henry Adams Bartholomay passed away at the age of 70 on October 5, 2015 at Indian River Memorial Hospital Vero Beach, FL. Henry was born in Chicago, Illinois, the first child of Henry(Hank) and Julia L.(Judy)Bartholomay on March 20, 1945. He was raised in Winnetka, Illinois, attended North Shore Country Day class of 1963, and graduated from Rockford College class of 1967. He excelled in athletics, loved golf and baseball, and was a true "Die Hard" Cubs fan, and an avid Black Hawks fan. He was an accomplished musician, his talent gave joy to so many throughout his life. He was known as "Bart" to all who knew and loved him. Upon graduating from Rockford, Henry joined the U.S. Navy, applied and was accepted into Navy Flight School. He entered the Naval Reserve in 1967 and began active duty in the Naval Aviation Officer's program in Pensacola, Florida. After receiving his Wings in 1969 at Kingsville, Texas, Henry was assigned to the replacement F-4 Phantom Air Wing in San Diego, California and then to Fighter Squadron 161, Carrier Air Group 5 aboard USS Midway. After one tour of duty in Vietnam, he was assigned as Weapons Training Officer and completed advanced fighter weapons and air combat maneuvering training at TOPGUN in February, 1972 where he achieved the status of "Top Gun". During his second tour of duty onboard USS Midway in Vietnam, LT Bartholomay, his Radar Intercept Officer Oran Brown, his wingman LT Pat Arwood, and Pat's RIO, Lt Mike "Taco" Bell, confronted and shot down two North Vietnamese MiG-19 enemy aircraft on May 18, 1972 for which they were awarded the Silver Star. At the point he completed his Naval Reserve duty in December 1972, he had accumulated 267 carrier landings, 1200 flight hours, and was awarded the Silver Star and the Distinguished Flying Cross, 10 Strike Flight Air Medals. After leaving the Navy, he went on to work as a weapons system engineer at Point Mugu, CA, consulting on the Sidewinder Missile. At the end of that consulting contract, he returned to the Chicago area and worked in the insurance, investment, and technology industries. Henry brought his computer programming business, Treasure Coast FilemakerPro, to Vero Beach, Florida in 2001. He was active in his business until his death. He is survived by his second wife, Gail, his children, John Bartholomay of Bessemer, Michigan, Julie Bartholomay Noe of Round Lake, Illinois , his mother, Julia, of Vero Beach, FL, his brother Charles Bartholomay and his family of Palm City, FL, his sisters, Lucy Bartholomay of Boston, MA, Julie Geer of Geneva, Switzerland, and Mimi Bartholomay of Boston. MA. A family Memorial gathering was held at Henry's and Gail's Vero Beach home. Family services will be held in Lake Geneva, Wisconsin at a later time. In lieu of flowers donations can be made to Pilots N Paws. A guest book is available at www.strunkfuneralhome.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Chicago Tribune from Oct. 16 to Oct. 18, 2015.

Memories and Condolences
for Henry BARTHOLOMAY

Not sure what to say?





Ren Knopf

February 18, 2016

Total surprise and, frankly, shock at Bart's passing. Best buds at NSCDS, we lost contact in the intervening years, connecting again a couple of years ago. My deepest condolences to all

Sara Zarcone

December 15, 2015

Deepest condolences to all of the Bartholomay family on behalf of the Zarcone and Norman families. We are so sorry for the loss of Bart, your son, husband, brother, father. As the holiday season is upon us, wishing you peace. We are happy to make a donation to Pilots N Paws on his behalf.

Joe Capalbo - Condo

October 29, 2015

I didn't know Bart personally. But as a Rock River 1978-80 he was larger than life to me. My condolances.

Kim Thomas

October 29, 2015

My dear friends, I was so surprised and sad to hear of Bart's passing. Judy, I can't imagine what it is to lose a child. As you know, your family was a big part of my childhood and I remember Bart and all of you with such joy. Love to you all, Kim Thomas

John DeBaere

October 22, 2015

Far winds & followings seas you will be missed. We still have one of your first art works hanging in our den. FLY NAVY.

Ron Hoffman

October 22, 2015

I had some good times with Bart at RC. We played basketball together and performed in a little rock band. I also had my first date with my wife, Anne, in Vero Beach on a Spring trip with Bart to his parent's place. I wish you all fond memories and the peace of the Lord.

David Lynch

October 21, 2015

I knew Bart for a brief period at Rockford College, and I bought my first csr from him. - a battleship gray Corvair. I have never forgotten him or the car. RIP

David Benson

October 20, 2015

In the middle sixties, Bart and I were very good skateboarding friends at Rockford College. We were on the varsity basketball team together. We both ended up in Vietnam: Bart jockeying F-4's and me on much slower EC-47's that sometimes if we were lucky - had F-4 escorts.

I sometimes wonder if we were in the same skies.

Fly on, Bart.

David L. Benson

Mansfield S Templeton

October 18, 2015

For Judy, I do not know if you remember me Please extend my thoughts to his family.It is so sad when we lose some one
from the next generation I think of . Hank 2 many times. Duke

Georgia Applegate

October 18, 2015

I am so sorry for your loss. I remember Bart from Rockford College. I was in awe of of him there. I don't know if he would have remembered me. That doesn't matter. I was very impressed by him.

I have made a donation to Pilots and Paws in his memory.

I hope you are comforted by many happy memories of him. He must be with the angels now.

Georgia Bilas Applegate
Rockford College class of 1967

October 17, 2015

Sorry for your loss. May the God of comfort help you doing this difficult time. Psalms 83 : 18.

Showing 1 - 11 of 11 results

Make a Donation
in Henry BARTHOLOMAY's name

Memorial Events
for Henry BARTHOLOMAY

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support Henry's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Henry BARTHOLOMAY's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more