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Ian Woo Cumings, 21, died in an auto accident on June 27, 2010. Ian was born and raised in Chicago, attending the Laboratory School of the University of Chicago, and then Pioneer High School in Ann Arbor, MI. At the time of his death he was a junior at the University of Chicago, a dean's list student majoring in Germanics, and a member of the Delta Kappa Epsilon fraternity. He was the third generation at the University, his grandfather and grandmother having met there and graduated in the 1930s. His father, Bruce Cumings, is a professor of History at the University. Ian loved sports and especially the Chicago White Sox. He played Little League baseball and in his senior year in high school was a member of the Michigan state championship tennis team. He loved to manage football, baseball and basketball teams in the fantasy leagues. He had many friends, who admired his quiet, kind, and very funny temperament. He leaves his father; his brother, Benjamin (17); and his mother, Meredith Woo, who is Dean of the College and Graduate School of Arts & Sciences at the University of Virginia. Ian will be buried in Chicago, and a memorial service will be held at the University in the fall. In lieu of flowers, the family would prefer contributions to the Ian Cumings Memorial Scholarship Fund at the University of Chicago, Harper Memorial Library, E587, 1116 E. 59th St., Chicago 60637.

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Published by Chicago Tribune on Jul. 1, 2010.

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Jacqueline Cumings

October 11, 2010

Ian,

I have always loved you as the first brother I ever had. I am feeling such a loss this year.. that I have no words. A sill note: Do you remember our saying "Zesty!" about the lemon sorbet in Palo Alto and then using that word to describe countless other things? One of my favorite times was Palo Alto- I'm so glad we had that time to hang out - you and me and Ben- in the year 2000. I'll be forever missing the future of our potential relationship and sharing out lives over time. I know you are there for me in spirit forever. I'll never forget your laughter.
And now I can't watch any sports game without thinking of you..changing my experience of life forever. Send your awesome energy and loving ways down here. Work from up there to help us live better down here. Love, Jackie

Brenda Casher

August 24, 2010

Gabe told me today about Ian's frightening accident and tragic death. We are heartbroken and in complete disbelief. Gabe remembers Ian fondly as his doubles partner during a great year of tennis in Ann Arbor. From all accounts the world has lost a soul seemingly capable of improving it, it will not make sense. How can this be true?
Gabe and I offer to you our deepest sympathy. We hope and pray that the love and care of your family and friends will carry you through these sad, sad times.
With sincere thanks in the knowing of your precious son,
Brenda Casher and Gabe Casher

Isaac Hammond-Paul

August 23, 2010

I am really missing Ian today. He was one of the strongest personalities in my life, and he was such a loving person.

Mark Tilton

August 6, 2010

Dear Bruce, Meredith and Ben,
I just heard the tragic news of Ian's death from Chal. I send you my most sincere condolences.

August 5, 2010

The news of your loss has filled us with great sadness. Our family mourns for yours. May you have the strength to carry on, remembering Ian for the fine lad he clearly was.

Charles and Keiko De Wolf

Erin Brown Weitzell

July 14, 2010

My heartfelt condolences to Ian's family, most of whom I have not met. And especially to my dear friend Jackie Cumings, Ian's big sister.

Meg Klosko

July 12, 2010

Dear Meredith,

I was deeply saddened to hear of the death of your son Ian. For all who mourn him, I wish the comfort of family and friends, and memory and time and finally, understanding that Ian is wrapped in the arms of eternity.

John Cushing

July 8, 2010

Bruce, Meredith, and Ben,
I just learned the terrible news today. Words fail me. I pray for you all to be strong in the face of this tragedy.

Stacey West

July 8, 2010

Our sincere condolences to Ian's parents. We are praying for you, both, and Ben. We are friends of the Coughlans. Our hearts are broken for you.

Mikael Wolfe

July 7, 2010

Dear Bruce, Meredith and Ben,

I was profoundly shocked and saddened to hear of this tragedy. I fondly remember playing with Ian in 1998 in Evanston when he was eight years old -- he was a very smart, gentle and playful kid. Nearly a decade later in 2007, visiting you in Ann Arbor, I still saw those qualities in him, but also a seriousness of purpose as a young adult ready to start college and make his mark in the world. My heart aches terribly knowing he was taken away from you, and all of us, at such a young age. I cannot imagine what you are going through, but please accept my deepest condolences and know that you are in my thoughts and prayers during this extremely difficult time.

Anne Gamboa

July 7, 2010

Dear Bruce, my sincere condolences to you and your family. I can't even fathom what your family is going through. Prayers are with you and your family at this very sad time.

July 7, 2010

Dear Bruce and Meredith,

Please accept our most profound sorrow and condolences for your loss. You have been in our thoughts everyday since we heard the news. We will always remember Ian.

Kelly and Cornell

Cal Boyle

July 6, 2010

My sincere condolences at your loss.
Blessings to your family

Kathe Harrison

July 6, 2010

Dear Meredith.

I am so sorry for your loss. I remember Ian when he would stop by the Dean's Office for a surprise lunch with his mom. He was a warm, delightful young man. Please accept my condolences. You and your family are in my prayers.

Carolyn Wald

July 2, 2010

Ian,

I had always regretted falling out of touch after first year. You were a wonderful person and I'll miss your laugh. I am so heartbroken for your parents and your brother.

Shahzad Ahsan

July 2, 2010

Ian,

You were a truly loyal friend to those around you. I will miss your candid outlook and your ability to tell stories that enthralled us all.

Chew-Mee & Gordon Kirtland

July 2, 2010

Dear Meredith,

We were in Charlottesville last weekend and heard the terrible news. We met Ian briefly last August when we bumped into you both at the FOANations store and will always remember that lovely smile of his. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Bruce and Ben during this most difficult time.

Anna Hammond

July 1, 2010

My son Isaac loved Ian very much. I met him last year at graduation. This is such a loss for everyone. My deepest condolences to his family and the many many young people who loved him dearly. Anna Hammond

Hossam T

July 1, 2010

Ian,

You were a great friend and brother- somebody I always looked forward to spending time with. You will sorely be missed dear friend
-Hossam

July 1, 2010

Shane Coughlan, Ian's friend in the accident, found out today about the loss of his friend. He is sad and will miss Ian very much. I know is very sad for Ian's Family. Many Prayers are with the family

Eddie Huang

July 1, 2010

Ian,

It's been more than a few days now, and I'm still a bit speechless at what happened. I will miss all the conversations we've had the past few years about topics ranging from baseball to German syntax and feel tremendously sorry for your family. Your humility, genuine kindness towards everybody, and extremely calm and jovial demeanor will sorely be missed. Know always that you were loved by many and will forever be remembered.

You will always be in our hearts,

Hivan Herrejon

July 1, 2010

Dear Ian,
I miss you dearly! And our bond as brothers will never be lost.
I will always remember the best of times.

To the family, please accept my sincere condolences. Ian was an amazing, intelligent and overall great individual.
He will forever be in my prayers. Love, Hivan

Roman Sanders

July 1, 2010

Ian. My dearest friend. My dearest brother. I loved you with everything I had.

-Roman

July 1, 2010

Our deepest sympathies. Praying for your healing and strength as only someone else who has lost a child can. The Sanders (friends of the coughlans)

Su-kyoung Hwang

July 1, 2010

My deepest sympathy goes to Ian's family: Meredith Woo, Bruce and Ben Cumings. I have not had a chance to know Ian personally, but often spotted him on campus in Chicago. He was always in smiles and seemed happy in his quiet ways. May his soul rest in peace.

Bethany Price

July 1, 2010

Though I cannot fathom your pain and suffering my heart aches for you. You and your family will continue to be in my prayers.

The Boys in the Hood

Nancy

July 1, 2010

Laura Olson

July 1, 2010

Dear Bruce, Meredith and Ben, We met briefly in the hospital. Your family has been on my heart all week. Know you have been in our prayers and will continue to be in the days weeks and months ahead! We grieve with your family!

Nicolas Duque

July 1, 2010

Ian,

I loved you dearly my friend. May your soul rest in peace.

Bob Richards

July 1, 2010

Bruce,

Words cannot convey the deepest sympathy and sadness my wife Barbara and I feel.

Maria Reyero

July 1, 2010

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. My most heartfelt condolences for your loss.

Ann Arbor Public Schools Board of Education

July 1, 2010

Our deepest condolences are with you during this difficult time.

Judy Gibson

July 1, 2010

My heart goes out to Bruce, Meredith and Ben. I remember Ian as a darling young boy who combined the kindness and intelligence of both his parents. I especially remember a very fun 6th birthday party in Evanston with a clown that the Gibson boys attended...I am so sorry for your loss.

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