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Joan Crabtree Bates obituary, Elmhurst, IL

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Joan Bates Obituary

Joan Crabtree Bates, aged 95, beloved wife of the late Alben F. "Pete" Bates, Jr.; loving mother of Frederick (Janis), Josephine (the late David) Prasil, Angelique, Peter (Jamie) and the late Victoria Joan; proud Grandmere of Georgia, Ella, and Ian Bates; Daniel, Paul, Victoria, and Matthew Prasil; and Madeline, Benjamin, Caroline, and Margaret Bates; dear sister of Barbara Michaels; fond Aunt of many nieces and a nephew. Born May 9, 1928 in Oak Park, Il to Dr. Joseph P. and Rosalie M. (nee Sullivan) Crabtree. She passed away January 25, 2024 at her home in Elmhurst. Joan attended Immaculate Conception Grade School and later graduated from York High School in 1946. She then attended St. Luke's School of Nursing in Chicago, graduating with the Class of 1949. As her first appointment, Joan worked as a Surgical Nurse at St. Luke's Presbyterian Hospital. Later she assisted her father in his medical practice located on the upper floor of the former Elmhurst National Bank. The first floor NW corner of the bank that housed the old Rexall Drug Store/ Soda Fountain is where Joan and her husband Alben (Pete) were first introduced to one another by her father. They married 6 months later and enjoyed an enviable life-long union of love, kindness, mutual respect, and laughter. Family life was central and multiple generations enjoyed many memorable travels and road trips together, especially to Joan's beloved destinations in New Orleans French Quarter, Savannah, and Charleston. Her surviving children and grandchildren have so many fond memories enjoying Summers together at Lake Geneva, Wisconsin. They feel so blessed to have had such a loving Mother/Grandmere, guiding force, and positive role model in their lives. Joan will be remembered also for her beauty, grace, and iconic style, sense of humor, and love for her Bichons. Joan will be dearly missed by so many and we will remain comforted knowing she is now reunited with her many loved ones in Heaven. Our family is especially grateful for the loving compassion provided by the caregivers of "Team Joan". Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, Memorial contributions may be made to Mercy Home for Boys and Girls, 1140 W Jackson Blvd., Chicago, IL 60607. Arrangements handled by Gibbons Funeral Home, Elmhurst. 630-832-0018 or www.gibbonsfuneralhome.com

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Published by Chicago Tribune on Jan. 30, 2024.

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Deirdre Stanek Burton

April 19, 2024

We lived next door to the Bates´. I used to babysit for Beau and Josephine. They were a lovely family. Joan was so stunning, and so was her mother. Pete loved those kids. How time flies. My best to you children.

Jane Waldenmeyer

February 1, 2024

It was an "honor" to be part of "Team Joan".
Joan was a "one of a kind" woman who will be deeply missed.
My heartfelt sympathy goes out to her wonderful, caring family.

Becky Dickinson

January 31, 2024

Always a special Aunt and a very gracious lady, Joan will be missed by everyone who knew her. We send our thoughts and prayers to her loving family.
Becky and Bill Dickinson family

Janis and Greg Scharnott

January 31, 2024

As Josephine´s neighbors in Fontana for more than twenty years it was lovely to see the closeness of the family as they would come and go, often including Mrs. Bates. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time. We know you will hold those beautiful memories close in your heart. Janis and Greg Scharnott

Mercy Home for Boys & Girls

January 30, 2024

On behalf of Fr. Scott Donahue and Mercy Home for Boys & Girls, we would like to extend our heartfelt condolences and prayers to the family and friends of Joan Bates.

May the angels lead her into paradise; may the martyrs come to welcome her and take her to the holy city, the new and eternal Jerusalem.

Cousin Patty

January 30, 2024

We are so very sorry for your family loss. Aunt Joan was a one of a kind gal and will be terribly missed! Love to you all,
Patsy and Greg Pace family

The Gibbons Family

January 30, 2024

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