Joseph Robert Compell, beloved husband of Elaine C., nee Courtney, for 50 wonderful years; loving father of Michael J. (Suzan) Compell and Julie A. (Jeff Bucar) Lugiai; beloved son of 
Kathryn, nee 
 Domkowski and the late Joseph J. Compell; fond grandfather of 
Rachel (Jason Chapman) Lugiai, Clayton (Amanda) Compell and Candice Lugiai; great-grandfather of Zachari, Joey and Gianna; dear brother of Jerry Compell and Joyce (the late Bill) Wolter. Funeral Monday, 8:30 a.m. from Cumberland Chapels, 8300 W. Lawrence Ave., Norridge, IL, to St. Cyprian Church, 2601 Clinton, River Grove, IL. Mass 9:30 a.m. Interment St. Joseph Cemetery. Joseph has been the Village Clerk of River Grove for many years and is a member of the River Grove Lions Club, the River Grove Nationals and a Commissioner of the Historical House in River Grove, and was a member of the Rhodes School Board. Visitation Sunday from 12 noon until 8 p.m. Info 708-456-8300 or www.cumberlandchapels.com
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Jo Ann Duller
March 30, 2010
I always think about Joe with a smile on my face and a stinging in the back of my eyes.  
I believe Joe left the most noble of legacies; he became the little voice inside our heads.  He showed us how to live well, find humor in any situation, and love with a compassionate heart.
Mary
March 14, 2010
Joe was a wonderful example of a truly decent and kind man. Even the note that was included from him in our thank you notes after his passing showed his compassion for others. When I think of Joe he makes me want to be a better person. We were blessed to have him leave such an impact on all of us. I take comfort in knowing that my dad is with one of his fishing buddies. Love Mary St.Charles Il
Gayle Colletti
March 13, 2010
Dear Elaine & family: 
May Joe's love, kindness and compassion continue to be a source of strength and comfort for you.
March 13, 2010
Hard to believe a year has past.  Doug was just saying he missed hearing Joe ride by in the front of the house and about challenging Joe to scooter races in the alley.  He was a wonderful man/neighbor/friend who is truly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you now and always.
Doug & Nancy
Jack Maher
March 13, 2010
Elaine - You are in our thoughts, hearts and prayers.  Stay strong, busy and vital.  You carry on Joe's legacy with such great dignity and pride! 
Peg & Jack Maher
Fay & Bill Corbett
March 12, 2010
We think of you every day and especially when we look across the street. We are so grateful for all our good times together. We will try to always keep Elaine in our lieves and I know that will make you happy.
Frank Maxson
March 12, 2010
We often think of Joe and the smiles he often brought to us whenever we saw him. He's left a hole in out lives, but we'll always have fond memories.
Frank & Pat Maxson
March 12, 2010
another year gone--what have we lost? Father/son nights,canoe trips, river rafting,block partys,garage sales,Kentucky Derby parties,Cub/Sox games, Arlington park races,casino,and finally a Andrew Sister, Blues Brother, Fats, Fr. Guido, Big Tuna, Rabbi Joe, and lastly, we lost our SUPERMAN!! Will miss you Joe, but will wear you ball cap on the ball field.
emil kaderabek
Gary & Marge Downs
March 12, 2010
Elaine and Family
It is hard to believe it has been a whole year. Marge I think of Joe often and remember all the wonderful times we had together. It is a shame that God took him so soon, but God had other plans for him that we will never understand. We still have the momories and that is somrthing no one can take away.  
Love
Susan Weber-Castillo
March 12, 2010
Dear Compell family,
As I think of Mr. C on this anniversary I am filled with wonderful memories.Our trips to Villa Olivia, Hayward, bowling and just the many nights I was fortunate enough to be at your home being made to feel part of the family. His warmth and kindess is forever etched in my mind. I hope you find comfort knowing that Mr. C has touched many lives in such a positive way.
Karen & Fred Adams
March 12, 2010
Elaine and Family,
Joe was a very caring individual.  We'll always remember our annual family gatherings at the Bohemian restaurant and his news of family in Czechoslovakia.  He had a sincere interest in family and friends.  Our thoughts are with you.
Paul Shimandle
March 11, 2010
Elaine, Julie & Family ---
we'll always remember Joe and Elaine's visit to our "fifteen-a-palooza" party - Joe holding court in our backyard, entertaining our friends with his charm and excellent wit, as he "hung out" and had a great time himself... and his enthusiastic and genuine support for my band, dot.calm never failed to give me a boost! His positive, upbeat spirit touched all our lives in the best possible way.
Dawn Moore
March 11, 2010
Mrs. Compell and Julie and family - Your husband/father/grandfather/great-grandfather was such a sweet and caring man who touched many lives and brought a smile to many faces! I know you miss him, but he lives on forever in all our hearts. Thinking of you.
Tamara Randolph
March 11, 2010
Dear Elaine, Julie & Family:
I hope that you find some comfort in your many special memories and in the thought of the happy years you shared. May the thoughts and prayers of all those who love you help sustain you at this difficult time.
My warmest sympathy,
Tamara Randolph & family
Ginger Sack
March 11, 2010
Mrs Compell & Julie,
We know that today will be a difficult one for you.  You are in our thoughts and prayers.  We will always remember Mr. Compell as a very friendly and kind person.
Suzanne Staiton
March 11, 2010
Julie,
My thoughts are with you and yours today.  May your fathers memory live forever in your hearts.
Dave Kusta
March 11, 2010
Elaine Julie Mike and Family,
I have thought alot about Joe in the last year. I miss his warm,  caring, thoughtful attitude. His perseverance through hard circumstances has been great example to me and many other people. Joe tried very hard to put others ahead of himself, the sign of a true leader. The world needs more people like Joe. He is missed.
March 11, 2010
It has been a year since you entered Heaven but you will always be with us.  You are constantly in our hearts, thoughts and prayers.  We miss you so very much. . . .
Love, Emil and Marilyn
March 11, 2010
Elaine,Julie & Family of Joe Compbell
Just wanted to let you know that even though it has been a year the people we love will never be forgotten. As Julie knows when you have the best parents in the whole world you never forget the love they gave to their children. Loosing my Mother right before Joe I truely understand the loss of your best friend. May you all take comfort that we will never forget your husband, father or grandpa, uncle, godfather or friend to many. I know Joe was a great man and someday we shall meet once again in heaven with all of our loved ones. 
Until then remember all the great memories that you shared and cherish those forever.
Love to all of you,
Joey & Donna Contaveos
Christina & Fred, Gabriella Garcia
and Nicole Contaveos
Kathie O'Connor Bruce
March 11, 2010
Elaine, Julie and Family,
I am thinking of you all today, it is hard to believe that a year has passed. I hope you are able to find a way to celebrate his life today, as difficult as it may seem, there is so much to celebrate. Joe cared so deeply for his family, his friends and the residents of River Grove. We were all so lucky to have known him.
I have no doubt that my dad, Joe and Mr. Q are hanging out together, keeping an eye on things and making sure we don't mess anything up!
Jerry / Dianne Synoga
March 11, 2010
Elaine, Julie,Family of Joe Compell
As time passes, memories seem to fade as well;
Memories of Joe will always be there; the Bear football games, Smelt fishing and other social events we shared will always be remembered;
Working with Joe at Ryerson expressed the respect we all had for our fellow workers which made working together a fun time;
My association with Joe will always be remembered for the fun loving and compassionate person he was and it shows in the family members he has today
May Joe’s eternal light shine on us
Debbie & Ben O'Neal
March 11, 2010
Elaine and Family,
May the comforting whispers of angels continue to remind you that Joe is safe in God's hands.  He proudly watches over you all with never-ending love and admiration. We pray you always find peace and comfort in the many wonderful years of memories.
Love, Debbie and Ben O'Neal
Bill Corbett
March 11, 2010
Dear Joe,
It is hard to believe one year has past since you left us. I will always remember how much you loved life and the people around you. You had a way of making everyone feel special. Even the times when you were not feeling your best you would not show it.
I know that you are organizing, planning or making someone laugh in heaven today, just like you were always doing while you were here. 
I know you will be watching over Mike today as he has his surgery.
Frank Dillenburg
March 11, 2010
Uncle Joe, 
You have touched so many people in your life.   That spirit is still alive.   I always think about you at some point when I play my drums... I  remember watching your band and how I wanted to play one day.  
We miss you.   Love, Frank
Sara and Michael Courington
March 11, 2010
Thinking of you today... while you have been gone from here for a year, you still find ways to let us know you are with us. We are so thankful for that.
Marcie
March 11, 2010
Julie and Elaine - I didn't know your Dad and Husband, but I have certainly experienced the love you have for each other, your children and grandchildren and I'm sure he played a big role in sustaining that love. May you both hold on to that forever.
Julie Lugiai
March 10, 2010
Dad
It will be one year tomorrow since you've gone to heaven.  Wow...how i've missed you.  So much has changed, but I know you have been right there with us, so you saw Candice when she turned 21 and know how much she is growing into a beautiful young woman. Stephen is right along side her.  Rachel became, Mrs. Jason Chapman, and she continues to be a wonderful mom and is succeeding at her job.  Gia and Joey are growing quickly and are so much fun.  Jeff and I are still in GA and doing well.........Love you and miss you dad......I know you are always near.  Julie
Ruth Lovison Smith
March 4, 2010
Time passes and life gets easier but not nicer not having you here. You left a beautiful wife that is doing well. You would be proud of her and wonderful children who will carry on with your example of love and friendship to all. I wish we could have been closer and continued our friendship throughout the years. I feel blessed to have the friendship of Elaine through our emails at this time. We both experienced the loss of a husband and friend and are coping the best we can God Bless you. Pray for us. Love Ruth
Tracy Aller
March 4, 2010
Dear Joe and Family: What an honor it was to know you and what an example you set for friendship, service and perseverance. I think of you often and will always do so. You left an indelible mark in the lives of many, including mine.
Elaine Compell
March 3, 2010
Dear Joe:
It is nearly a year since you left us. Sometimes it seems like yesterday. I remember so clearly staying at the hospital with you the last month of your life. 
We talked a great deal during that month. You wrote your legacy, we said our goodbyes. We hoped we would have more time together, but God had other plans for you. 
You were so ill and in such pain. As much as I wanted you to stay with me I couldn't be that selfish when you were hurting so badly.
Life is not the same without you. I miss you so much. You will always be in my heart.
Elaine
Joyce Wolter
February 22, 2010
February 22, 2010
Dear Joe:
I think about you and miss you often.  Mom says your name everytime I see her which is almost everyday.  
It's almost a year since you left us and it just seems like yesterday.
We all miss you very much.  
Send your Mother a special blessing for her 95th birthday in March.
March 19, 2009
We are so sorry for your loss.  He was such a great guy, and always willing to lend a hand.  He will always be remembered!
~Anthony and Sandy Lugiai
The Staff of Cumberland Chapels
March 13, 2009
Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.
March 16, 2009
Dear Elaine and Family,
So sorry for your loss.  Joe was a good man and will be missed by many.  Praise God for your wonderful years together and cherish each sweet memory.  My prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Irene Martens
River Grove
Ed Malnar
March 16, 2009
Dear Elaine and Family,
I will always hold dear the times I spent with Joe in our small scripture study group at St. Cyprian. He set an excellent example for the rest of us. I also owe him a debt of thanks for personally recommending me as an appointee to the Zoning Board in River Grove. He was man of integrity that the rest of us younger fellows could look up to.
God bless all of you.
Jack and Barb Rose
March 16, 2009
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Syl and Joanne Chody
March 16, 2009
Dear Elaine And Family
Our Thoughts and prayers are with you
during this difficult time.  Joe will
be missed.
Paul and Fran Webb (formerly Beckert)
March 15, 2009
Elaine, even though I have been gone from the River Grove area for over 15 years, I will always remember the good times Joe and I had on election days and at The River Front Fest. You have a lifetime of wonderful memories that will always be with you and no one can ever take away from you! God bless you and your family is the time of sorrow.
Barrett Pedersen
March 15, 2009
Elaine, It was an honor to know Joe. I frequently received phone calls from River Grove residents who told me that Joe told them to call. Your husband was the greatest. He always had a kind word and treated me like a son. He will be missed but always treasured.
George & Ann Stockwell
March 15, 2009
Joe will be greatly missed as he was a wonderful and caring man. Cherish the memories.
Georgiann Cafcules
March 15, 2009
Joe has gone to heaven for his next assignment. Remember all the good memories and always have a smile on your face for having shared your life with this wonderful man. I am so glad I had the opportunity to know Joe and his great family.
Ollie Capra
March 15, 2009
Please accept my deepest sympathies on the passing of Joe. He was a wonderful person to work with in The Lions Club. His thoughtfulness, concern for others, and his friendly nature made it a pleasure to be with him. He will be missed by many.
Shirley Sykora
March 14, 2009
Elaine, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in your time of grief. May God's grace and wonderful memories sustain and heal you.
Les & Sue Asher
March 14, 2009
Michael, Sue, Clayton, Amanda, & Zachari: When we met Joe at Zachari's Birthdays, he was so happy and full of love for his great-grandson. Our thoughts are with the Compell Family.
March 14, 2009
Joe was a very special person and will br greatly missed but will live on in all our memories. Len and Carol Zebrowski
Bob & Diane Jensen
March 14, 2009
So sorry to hear of Joe's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you Elaine and the Compell family.
Marti & John Kopczyk
March 14, 2009
Elaine,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Please take care and God bless you all.
AnMarie Chaddick
March 14, 2009
Elaine,
I am very sorry to hear about your loss. From all the stories you have told me about him, I know he was a great person and loved his family and life very much. If there is anything you need, please let me know. My prayers are with you and your family.
Muncipal Clerks Asso N/NW Suburbs of Cook Cty
March 14, 2009
Our condolences and prayers to the Compell family. Joe was a special friend and mentor to many clerks' in our association. He will truly be missed.
Amy Kusta
March 13, 2009
Mrs. E. Compell,
You and your family are in my prayers.
Mary Rogala
March 13, 2009
Dearest Elaine, Mike, Julie, Mrs. Compell, Joyce and Jerry, My family and I would like to extend our deepest condolences to all of you. Joe was such a special friend for so many years. I will truly miss his smile, jokes and thoughtful calls. He was truly one of a kind. May God Bless you all and keep you during this difficult time.
Tessie & Leonard Banasiak
March 13, 2009
Dear Julie and Family:
   Please accept our deepest sympathy on the death of Joe. You are in our thoughts and prayers during your time of sorrow.
Bob and Denise Damit
March 13, 2009
Dear Elaine and the entire Compell Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Take comfort in all the wonderful memories you have. Joe was a wonderful man.
Love,
Bob and Denise Damit
Jeff Augustyn and family
March 13, 2009
Our condolences to the Compell family... He was an honest and caring man. I had seen him for the first time in over 15yrs and he remembered me as if I had seen him the day before. That is what made him so likeable, his ability to be friends with everyone . He will be missed by all that knew him.
EILEEN (ASHE)CALLAGHAN
March 13, 2009
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Larry Kruml
March 13, 2009
Elaine, Mike and Julie, my condolences to you and your entire family. Many good memories of Joe while growing up in River Grove. Our prayers are with you.
Mary Augustyn
March 13, 2009
Elaine and family,
So very sorry to hear about Joe's death. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.
edward lake
March 13, 2009
I am sorry to hear of Joe's death.I worked with him for 30 plus years at Ryerson Steel.Recently,at lunches where he would be handling problems as city clerk.
March 13, 2009
great sorrow & condolences from the River Grove Nationals A.C.
James Sass & Family
March 13, 2009
To Elaine and the Compell family,
I haven't known Joe very long but enjoyed working with him.  My condolances to you at this very difficult time.
Penny Sidor
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