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Julie Starsiak Obituary

Julie Ann Starsiak (nee Kaptena) born into Eternal Life on August 19,2021 peacefully in her home. Beloved mother, grandmother, and cherished friend. Julie is preceded in death by her adored daughter Megan Starsiak. Julie is survived by her daughter Heather (Joseph) Kotlarz Jr. Cherished and loved by her four grandchildren Anne, Avanna, Joseph III, and Harry Kotlarz. Julie had a heart of gold; she was generous, hardworking, and fun loving; if you met her, you would never forget her. Julie's presence at the Illinois Manufacture's Association, her undaunted tenacity as a lobbyist, and her inclination to Chicago and Illinois politics will be long remembered. Julie will always be remembered for her everlasting love and grace, her vibrant spirit, love for animals, adventurous endeavors, supporting her four grandchildren often with never-ending advice, gourmet dinners and late nights with friends. Julie joins her daughter, Megan, and will be forever and always an angel among us. A Celebration of Life Memorial Mass will be celebrated on August 30th at 10am by Monsignor Kenneth Velo at Old St. Patrick's Church, Chicago, Illinois.

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Published by Chicago Tribune from Aug. 27 to Aug. 29, 2021.

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Patti Lane

August 21, 2025

I will never forget my dear friend TODD AS,WE CALLED EACH OTHER Heather please call me I live you Patti 779 875 9105 GID BLESS YOU

Deanna Duke

September 1, 2021

I´m so sorry for your loss...my thoughts and prayers to your family during this difficult time.

Thom Serafin

August 30, 2021

Julie loved living life-always alive with that big smile. And she loved her biz... always everywhere.
Rest In Peace Julie!

Kristy McEwan

August 30, 2021

May god bless your family Heather. Thinking about you today. Your mom was a wonderful person who has touched so many people's lives. I have some of the greatest childhood memories with your family. Your mom was one of the greatest cooks ever. She will be deeply missed. Love and hugs to you and your family

Tony & Nancy Kotlarz

August 29, 2021

Bless you Julie and your beautiful, gentle life.
May you soar in your afterlife.
You will be never forgotten and always missed. Godspeed
Beautiful Julie.

Judy McIntyre

August 28, 2021

God bless you Julie. You´ll certainly organize heaven. You will be missed, prayed for and thought of by so many whose lives you enriched.

Jean Murphy

August 28, 2021

Deepest sympathy to Julie´s family and loved ones for this great loss. I knew Julie from the State Capitol in Springfield and she was a lovely and kind person to me. Godspeed Julie.

Tom and Bev Taylor

August 28, 2021

Sorry to hear about Julie
She gave us a lot of fond memories. The back yard pool, sky box at Sox, interesting meals with dear old drew, wearing her wedding dress to our Memorial Day party to collect $100. from drew. I could go on, good luck to you in the coming days.

Carol DiFrisco

August 27, 2021

My deepest sympathy to Julie's Family. My husband Dominic introduced me to Julie at Gene & Georgetti. Each time our paths crossed I found Julie to be so vivacious, engaging, and ever-elegant. She loved life to be sure. I'm very sorry for your loss.
Carol DiFrisco

Corinne McLinden

August 27, 2021

Dear Heather and family,
I´m so sorry for your lost.
Know I´m thinking of you all.
All my love,
Corky

Fran Lizzo Salvi

August 27, 2021

Dear Julie,
I am so sorry to hear this. You have been so generous with your prayers. Please accept my deepest sympathy and prayers for you and your family.
Sincerely,
Fran Lizzo Salvi

Patti. Lane. (Todd)

August 27, 2021

It is so true that once you met Julie you would remember her forever. She and her family were forever friends. I have a million memories. And just as many laughs with Julie . to this day I still have not accepted the loss of Megan. So I know losing Julie will be NEVER. Be accepted. I will always be in shock over her and Megan's loss. I can only say God must have needed 2 loving people light hearted and kind . my heart is beyond Repair. I'm sure angel wings will look amazing as Julie and Megan watch over us all who loved them. I know God will keep them close to him in paradise. Hugs and kisses to them forever from me

Liz Nicholson

August 26, 2021

Gosh I´m so so sorry to hear of Julie´s passing! Heather and Joe ~ I´m sure you are heartsick over the loss. Julie was indeed one of a kind. A very outgoing, loving woman who brought fun -and great stories- to many. And- Julie was a beautiful fashion icon in Chicago politics!! Always impeccable. May God bless your family now and always.

Mary Rooney

August 26, 2021

Julie was one of the most delightful people I have had the pleasure of knowing.
She was also one of the strongest and kindest.
She was so attractive that some people didn't take her seriously.
They sure were wrong.
God's speed, Julie

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