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Margaret A. McPhee

1940 - 2018

Margaret A. McPhee obituary, 1940-2018, Highland Park, IL

BORN

1940

DIED

2018

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Kelley & Spalding Funeral Home & Crematory

1787 Deerfield Road

Highland Park, Illinois

Margaret McPhee Obituary

On Thursday November 29, Margaret A. McPhee, loving mother of Jamie McPhee and widow of Ryan McPhee, passed away at age 78 holding her daughters hand. Maggie was born on September 10, 1940 in Rhinelander, Wisconsin to Loretta and Orville DuBois. The youngest of four siblings, Jim, Mary Jean and David, she was spirited and funny, clever and curious. She graduated Mount Mary College with degrees in English and History and went on to work for the Social Security Administration both in Milwaukee and Chicago. At age 28 she met the love of her life Ryan McPhee when she brushed his jacket off at Butch McGuires in Chicago. Eight years later she gave birth to their daughter, Jamie. Best known for her signature oversized eyeglasses, sharp sense of humor, and stories that transitioned with, "at any rate..." she enjoyed picnic concerts at Ravinia, her Tai Chi class at the Botanic Gardens, and reading a novel nearly every week from the Highland Park Public Library. She was a devoted Mom, avid Green Bay Packers fan and an advocate to end corruption in the Lake County school system. She loved the drive from Malibu to San Francisco, walks in downtown New York City, the lakes of Northern Wisconsin and the flea markets of Paris. She was a true original and everyone who ever met her was delighted to call her a friend. Maggie is survived by her daughter Jamie, her son-in-law PJ Ransone, along with her sister-in-law's Margie and Marge, and all of her wonderful nieces and nephews, as well as their beautiful children. In May 2019 her first grandson will be born. A visitation will be held on Sunday, December 9, 2018 from 12:00 pm until time of memorial service 1:00 pm at Kelley & Spalding Funeral Home, 1787 Deerfield Rd. Highland Park, IL 60035. In lieu of flowers, please make donations to animal rescue organizations: Orphans of the Storm, Paws Animal Shelter or the ASPCA. For info or directions please contact Kelley & Spalding Funeral Home at 847-831-4260 or www.kelleyspald ingfuneralhome.com

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Published by Chicago Tribune from Dec. 2 to Dec. 6, 2018.

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Z L

December 7, 2018

My sincere condolences to your family for the loss of your love one. May the God of comfort be with you during this sad occasion and may his loving words at John 6:40 console your heart.

December 6, 2018

Sorry for your loss. May the God of all comfort be with you and your family at this difficult time.

Joanne Booth

December 4, 2018

What a wonderful write-up for "Maggie". She was a very special person with a lovely daughter and I was glad that I was able to befriend Maggie even though it was for a very short time. Jamie, you were a very special daughter and we all love you so much for giving your Mom such good care throughout her life. Peace be with all of you.

Maggie and Jamie, November, 2017 checking out the Christmas lights in Baltimore, MD

Joyce Ransone

December 3, 2018

Dear Jamie and Family,

I am so sorry for your loss. Those of us who knew her and loved her are going to miss her big time. For me, the family gatherings and celebrations are not going to be same without her. She will always hold a special place in my heart.

My favorite Maggie memory was at Dave and Anne's wedding in San Francisco in April, 2016. She was dancing with Dave Becker at the reception that evening and she was having the time of her life.

I'll never forget how radiant she looked the day PJ and Jamie got married. It was a beautiful and magical evening!

No doubt she and Ryan are now joyfully reunited and looking down on Jamie, PJ and Baby Blue - and of course all the animals!!

It was an honor and joy to know her and she enriched my life - and so many others - beyond measure.

God bless you all.

With much love,

Joyce

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1787 Deerfield Road, Highland Park, IL 60035

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1787 Deerfield Road, Highland Park, IL 60035

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