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Mark Neukirch Obituary

Mark E. Neukirch, age 22, of Huntley, formerly of Crystal Lake, passed away on February 21, 2004. Beloved son of James and Doreen, nee O'Day Neukirch; loving brother of Lindsey; dear cousin of Patrick O'Day; fond grandson of Edward and Angela Neukirch, Janet O'Day and the late Raymond, and the late Donna Teichman; dear nephew of Deborah Dietze, Michael O'Day, David (Leslie) Teichman, John (Irene Briskey) Teichman, Frank (Suzanne) Incaprero, Laura Incaprero, Cynthia Schreier, and Joe and Sheree Ratti; fond cousin of Adam, Allison, Gillian, Ariana, Blake, Alyssa, Roger, Taylor, Emma, Jill, Michael and Alex. Resting at Querhammer & Flagg Funeral Home, 500 W. Terra Cotta Ave. (Route 176), Crystal Lake, from 3 to 9 p.m. on Thursday, February 26, 2004. Funeral service at 1 p.m. Friday, February 27, at the funeral home. Private Interment in Randhill Park Cemetery. Info 815-459-1760.

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Published by Chicago Tribune on Feb. 25, 2004.

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March 25, 2010

Mark, I miss you more than words can express..the pain is never ending!! I love You. Mom

Lynda Anderson

February 22, 2008

Jim, Doreen and Lindsey,

We can't believe it has been 4 years. Not a day goes by that we don't think of Mark. (of course we have Matix to remind us) They say with the passage of time comes healing....we can only hope. We will always think of the 3 of you as family and the future years bring you peace and happiness.
Love,
Bob and Lynda

Debbie, Kevin Jennifer, Andy Prodoehl

March 11, 2006

Jim, Doreen and Lindsey, We continue to have Mark and all of you in our thoughts. I know time is suppose to help heal but I also know that this type of pain is everlasting. We can only pray that you have peace and joy in your hearts when you are remembering him and sharing stories with others about him. Mark was such a special part of our family when he was young and those memories are treasured forever. Andy has been pulling out pictures recently for school and there's Mark with Andy at his side in so many of them. With all the thoughts of Mark we've had recently, I just want you to know that his life continues on in all our memories. He was a fantastic young man and our lives are enriched having the priveledge of having Mark in our lives. We love you all and are thinking of you often! Debbie, Kevin, Jennifer and Andy

Patrick oday

May 19, 2005

to the neukirchs,

to think of what you have lost,just to think he was my cuzin,to think he was was going to life forever,but no,it just has to happen to a good person and that good person to be my cuzin,its like wow,you would never predict for that to happen,you would think every body lives a long happy life but no,to see how good he was to me and how much fun i had with him,thank you mark,thank you uncle jim,aunt doreen,lindsey for taking such good care of me. I love you all very much and wish you the best

Bob and Lynda Anderson

March 21, 2005

Neukirch Family,



We know this year has been horrible for you all. Please know that we will alway be there for you. Mark was such a big part of our family and he is still sorely missed. He will always hold a special place in our hearts. Please call on us at anytime even if it is just to say "HI"

Nicole Anderson

March 21, 2005

Neukirch Family,

I know this past year has been hard for everyone but I think you guys are doing a great job and thank you for making me such a big part of it. I am and always will be there for you guys. I think of you and him every day and I know I will for the rest of my life as you know an experience like this changes the way you look and treat everything in your life. Hang in there and just know I love you guys with all my heart.

Abby Kwayzer

July 9, 2004

Dear Jim, Doreen, Lindsey, and Patrick,



Everyday for the last five months I have thought of Mark and all of you. I can't even express how sorry I am for what happened. Even though I had not seen Mark for sometime before his death he was and always will be an important part of my life. I remember us all being kids and all the fun we used to have. I pray every night to Mark and for you all. I still cry at times about it, I can only imagine how you all feel. I know though that Mark is in heaven and I am greatful to god that he gave me the chance to know such a talented and good hearted person. I hope that I will see you all soon.



Love,



Abby Kwayzer

Marilynn Prodanetti

April 20, 2004

Dear Doreen, Jim, Lindsey & Patrick,



Mark has left a lasting impression on the hearts of everyone who had the pleasure to know him. May God bring you strength and peace and may you find comfort through all of us who love you. May you again find happiness in all your cherished memories of Mark. He truly loved life and lived it to the fullest. Mark will be fondly remembered and forever missed.



With my deepest sympathy to my dear friends,

Nicole Anderson

April 2, 2004

Dear Neukirch family,

There are not enough words to explain what Mark meant to my family and I. Being Marks girlfriend I had the chance to do all kinds of exciting things with him and your family. Mark was the best boyfriend a girl could have, he treated me like a princess and made me feel so loved. Mark was such a huge part of my life and will be missed greatly. He was such a great person and got along with my family so well. He and my brother had become friends this past summer and even did things together while I was away at school. My brother looked up to Mark as a big brother. He was always good about including my brother and I remember many times when Mark and I took him to a few parties and he had a blast with all of Marks friends. Mark helped bring my brother and I closer together and share the special bond that we now have. My parents also loved Mark, I remember a few times when I came into the room wondering if Mark was there to see me or my Dad. But I'm very glad that they had a chance to get as close as they did. The house feels so empty now that he isn't around, and he can never be replaced. Mark helped me grow as a person. I am such a better person for having known Mark, he brought so many of my good qualities out. He taught me not to be affraid to open up to people and to not be as shy as I tended to be. That was one thing about Mark he was not shy, he would go up to anyone and start up a conversation. He also taught me to live life to the fullest. At times when he had these wild adventures planned out I looked and him like he was crazy but followed along anyways, and now am so glad because I have the memories to charish forever. Mark always lived for the moment and now I see why, I'm just glad I was there with him to enjoy most of it these past few years. Mark meant so much to so many people. He had one of the most amazing personalities. He could light up a room with his smile and laugh. He was always willing to help people out and be there for them when they needed him. One of Marks best qualities was that he wasn't affraid of anything, if he wanted to do something there was no holding him back. Mark also had a big mouth and that was one of the many great aspects about him, he would just have times he would say crazy things and make so many people laugh. He would get some crazy line or word from a movie or something else he had seen and apply it to his daily vocabulary. At times it annoyed me because I didn't know what he was saying, but now miss it so much. He was never affraid to tell you what he was thinking. He could make any situation a fun one. Mark was a very special person and there will never be anyone like him. He is the best person I have ever had a chance to get to know and love, and will be missed more than I can explain. He was always be in my heart. My thoughts and prayers will always be with you guys. Love you!

Shaheen Durrani

March 29, 2004

The Neukirchs-

I don't know how to summarize my thoughts, but I want you all to know that you're in my prayers every day. Being Matt K's girlfriend of 4 years, I want to say that I know how you all must be feeling, but I'm sure this tragic accident has affected each of us differently. I talked to Matt K. just 15 minutes before the accident, and he sounded so excited for the three of them to be going out together since their schedules usually conflicted otherwise. Those three were always so goofy together. I can still remember Matt D. and Mark giggling in the background, as they made quick outfit changes before leaving to go out that night. Atleast we know that they are having a good time in Heaven together. Matt always talked about how great your family is, and you will continue to be in my prayers. If there is anything that I can ever do, please don’t hesitate to ask.

Jim & Doreen & Lindsey Neukirch

March 15, 2004

If I told you to forget the past

Would you wish it all away

If nothing sacred seems to last

Would you still ask to stay

The time seems fleeting

The heart un-mending

The spine keeps shaking

There's no certain ending

You'll hide away in a secret place

He'll be right there,you'll see his face

With arms outstretched he'll hold you near

The hurt and pain will all disappear

And all thats left is drying eyes

The silence comes, he's heard your cries

He takes the pain, the stress, the guilt and like the flower you begin to wilt

Because a new life begins in you

He stands beside to see you through

And everyday you'll find more peace

Eventually all the pain will cease



I wanted to share this beautiful poem writtten to us from E.Mackey

Cortland & Michelle Gow

March 4, 2004

Jim & Doreen,

We were so saddened to hear the news about Mark. You are always in our thoughts and prayers.

Cortland, Michelle, Larissa, and Joey

cindyandscott riccoloandjohnson

March 3, 2004

our condolences to your family at this time of loss. our thoughts and prayers are with you. god bless! cindy and scott

Don Duvall

March 1, 2004

Jim and Doreen,



I'm so sorry to hear the news of Mark, my deepest sympathy goes out to you during this most difficult time. Jim, you and Doreen will be in my thoughts and prayers, along with the rest of your family.

Bryan Corona

February 28, 2004

to the family of my "hero", my name is bryan and i worked with mark for roughly 9+months at woodfield lexus, your son was an inspiration to me and my decision about my life, mark was the sole person who fired me up about school, thanks to him he lead me to see that Universal Technical Institute is a great place for learing about mechanics, mark ment a lot to me, i never had the chance to thank him for changing my life and opening my eyes, but i would like to thank you and your family, from the bottom of my heart, to the Neukirch family my prayers and thoughts go to you, and thank you for your son's unwillingness to help out a fello friend.

Kelly Walter

February 27, 2004

My deepest sympathies go out to Mark's family. I went to school with Mark and Matt K., and I also was extremely good friends with Matt D. so I would hang out with all of them from time to time. All three of them were great people, and they will DEFINITELY be missed.



Peace and Love...

Kirk Goodyear

February 27, 2004

Jim,

My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. I am very sorry for your loss.

Janet Schneider

February 27, 2004

To the Neukirch Family:

My husband, Chris worked with Mark and I would like to offer my deepest sympathy to you at this time. I know that Chris looked to Neuman as a younger brother in many ways. Their friendship went beyond the workplace and his loss is felt in our home as well. I feel blessed to have had the opportunity not only for me to meet your son, but also our children. You know someone is special if they make an impression on 5 & 7 year old girls.

I pray that you find strength in the support of all around you, and comfort in the knowledge that Mark touched the lives of all who knew him.

Roy, Kathy & Tim Schnur

February 27, 2004

To the Neukirch family:

We want to extend our condolences to the family. We feel your pain and sadness.

Tamie (Hall) Knickrehm

February 27, 2004

Doreen, It's been years since we last saw each other. My heart goes out to you and your family. I know the pain of losing a child too. The Hall family and I will keep you in our prayers.

Brenda Miller

February 26, 2004

My thoughts and prayers are with the Neukirch family at this time.

Stephanie Gandsey

February 26, 2004

My heart goes out to Jim, Doreen and Lindsey. I remember going over to Joe and Sherri's and playing together with Mark and Lindsey and we would always have a good time. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Kristie Kolke

February 26, 2004

My heart goes out to the Neukrich family. I've known Mark since junior high. I haven't seen him in a long time, but I remember him as being a happy and very nice person. My sympathy is with you during this difficult time.

Douglas Jayes

February 26, 2004

To the Neukirch Family,

Words can not express the loss I feel for you at this time.My prayers and sincere condolences for the loss of your son.

Stuertze/Colon Family

February 25, 2004

Dear Doreen, Jim and Lindsey,

We will always treasure the memories we have of Mark as we considered him family. Our hearts go out to you with our deepest sympathy. God bless.

DONALD O'DAY

February 25, 2004

WITH ALL MY LOVE,



YOU'RE PATERNAL GRANDFATHER

DONALD PATRICK O'DAY

MIKE AND KAREN LEITNER

February 25, 2004

DEAR NEUKIRCH FAMILY,

WE WERE SO SAD TO HEAR OF YOUR LOSS.

WE KNOW LINDSEY AND OUR HEART GOES OUT FOR THE PAIN YOU AND YOUR FAMILY MUST BE GOING THROUGH. YOU HAVE LOTS OF MEMEORIES AND THAT WILL KEEP YOUR DEAR BROTHER IN YOUR HEART FOREVER. OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.

Vi Neukirch

February 25, 2004

You have my deepest sympathy on the loss of your son Mark. Love and prayers.

Erik Ebelhack

February 25, 2004

To the Neukirch family:

I was a friend of Mark's through Junior High and High School. It has been awhile since I have seen him or talked to him, but while we did see each other, he was always a very good person. He could always make me laugh. I would like to offer you my most heartfelt sympathy at this difficult time.

Joeine Caffero

February 25, 2004

Dear family of Mark;

My heart goes out to you in this terrible loss. I never met you or your son, but I know your pain and shock as my 21 yr old son also was a fatality in a car accident over a year ago. As terrible as this is, remember this pain is only for a season and you will all be united again in a relatively short time. I pray you all feel the loving presence of God as he takes you thru this ordeal. God Bless

Jim Schnur

February 25, 2004

I would like to give my condolences to Marks family, especially his father Jim, who i had the pleasure to work for in the past. I used to see Mark just about everyday at the end of the work day working on that darn Honda Prelude. He was a great kid, and i enjoyed many a conversations with him. My heart goes out to the Neukirch family, may Mark Rest in Peace....

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