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Mary McIlrath Obituary

Mary Lou McIlrath, nee Downs, age 84, of Park Ridge, IL, died January 16, 2002 in her home. She was born in Burlington, IA on October 8, 1917, she earned her B.S. degree at Iowa State University and was a home economics teacher for a brief period. In the early sixties, along with her former husband, James McIlrath, she helped to found the Dry Storage Corporation in Chicago, which later grew to become DSC Logistics in Des Plaines, IL. A resident of Park Ridge for over fifty years, she was active in her community, particularly the Girl Scouts, Chi Omega Alumnae, the First United Methodist Church, Park Ridge Panhellenic Club and P.E.O. She established the Mary Lou Downs Foundation with a special focus on homeless suburban women and children and victims of family violence. She was the beloved mother of Ann (John H. II ) Drake of Chicago; cherished grandmother of Tracy Drake Koerner of Chicago and Joanna Drake Earl of San Francisco, CA; great-grandmother of Nicole Emily Koerner; also survived by her beloved sister Dorothy Hughes of Fresno, CA; she was preceded in death by her parents, Ernest Allan Downs and Ethel Cilley Downs of Wapello, IA. Interment will be private. A Memorial Service to celebrate Mary Lou's life held on Monday, February 11, 2002, 11 a.m. at the First United Methodist Church of Park Ridge, 418 W. Touhy, Park Ridge, IL (847-825-3144). Remembrances may be made to Wings Program, Inc., 887 Wilmette Rd., Suite E2, Palatine, IL 60074 (847-963-8910).

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Published by Chicago Tribune from Jan. 19 to Jan. 21, 2002.

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Len VanderBloomen

January 23, 2002

Our sincerest sympathies on your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Len & Colette VanderBloomen

Mission Viejo, CA

Kevin & Christine Lacey

January 23, 2002

Dear Ann, John and Jim.



Please accept our deepest sympathy on your loss.



All our love,



Kevin and Christine Lacey

Blair Child

January 23, 2002

My deepest sympathies

DSC LOGISTICS

January 23, 2002

WE SEND OUR CONDOLENCES TO ANN DRAKE AND HER FAMILY

FROM THE DSC LOGISTICS FAMILY IN MIRA LOMA, CALIFORNIA

Kevin, Christine and Phillip Lacey

January 23, 2002

Our sincerest sympathy to Ann Drake and family.



The Lacey family.

Dr. Melissa Robledo

January 22, 2002

Mary Lou was an absolute pleasure to know and care for. She will be missed.

Antonia Shusta

January 21, 2002

We send our condolences to Ann and the entire family.

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