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PAMELA LAIR Obituary

Pamela "Pam" Lair, nee Wheeler, 72 of Winnetka, beloved wife of Erle W. Lair; loving mother of Jay (Gina), Tim and Mike Lair; very proud grandmother of McKenzie Lair; dear sister of Cynthia (Ted) Morse and Ned Wheeler. Memorial Celebration of Pam's life Saturday 3 to 5 p.m. at Donnellan Family Funeral Home, 10045 Skokie Blvd. at Old Orchard Rd., Skokie. In lieu of flowers, memorial to Chicago Botanic Garden, 1000 Lake Cook Rd., Glencoe, IL 60022. Info: 847-675-1990 or www.donnellanfuneral.com

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Published by Chicago Tribune on Sep. 18, 2009.

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February 8, 2010

She was simply the greatest Mom ever,
and I miss her so much. Tim

September 23, 2009

Sorry to hear of Pam's death. She was a wonderful talented woman and I enjoyed working with her in Plant Information for years at the Chicago Botanica Gardens. Connie Howes

Sherry McFall

September 22, 2009

I was so stricken hearing the news from the Chicago Botanic Garden of the loss of Pam and extend my sympathy to her family, especially to Erle. I worked for years with Pam at the Garden and enjoyed her knowledge, fabulous sense of humor and terrific laugh. She spoke constantly about her family members and her struggles with situations became our struggles, as we were another "family" of hers. I visited her garden and loved it, and am comforted by her arrival at the garden of heaven. May God comfort and bless her soul.

Linda & Larry Meyer

September 18, 2009

Dear Erle, Jay, Tim & Mike

We are so saddened to hear of Pam's passing. Our hearts and prayers go out to all of you. Your family has always been a part of our family. We will always remember with love and laughter the wonderful times we had together as families along with the times Erle, Pam, Larry and I spent together as couples out for an evening.With our love to you all, Linda & Larry Meyer

Barbara and Jim Marran

September 18, 2009

We are deeply saddened at Pam's passing. She is memorable in so many ways - her joy for life, her good sense, her kindness, and her caring ways. Our thoughts and prayers are with the Lair family at this difficult time.

September 18, 2009

It is with heavy heart I write these words. Pam was a dear friend for many years and I will miss her. I send love and sympathy to Erle and her family. Diana Chesley

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